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Do "fit" men get all the meets?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have found most profiles say "fit" men only.. Does this mean us cuddly men have no chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no. i meet both. i cant always get a fit man anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no m8 guys with personalities get all the meets......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found most profiles say "fit" men only.. Does this mean us cuddly men have no chance?"

Nope

We occupy a niche in the market

We have to work harder as we have to rely on more than our looks and build to see us through.

Recognise that whilst you aren't attractive to all, you will be attractive to some.

It is those people who you should embrace.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no m8 guys with personalities get all the meets......"

I have personality coming out my ears

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have found most profiles say "fit" men only.. Does this mean us cuddly men have no chance?

Nope

We occupy a niche in the market

We have to work harder as we have to rely on more than our looks and build to see us through.

Recognise that whilst you aren't attractive to all, you will be attractive to some.

It is those people who you should embrace.

"

That's deep but I like it

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By *hinaManMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

I think persistence and luck plays a big part, more so than looks or even personality.

Of all the females/couples that I have messaged, I rarely even get a reply. All of my meets have come from being contacted by the other party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no m8 guys with personalities get all the meets......

I have personality coming out my ears

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and you have met someone at least twice, not bad going.

Bussy has it right. Some time ago there was a similar thread where several women expresed the opinion that they were intimidated by "fit blokes"...... Horses for courses....

Incidentaly Im finding myself far closer in personality to Sheldon.....so dont take my coment about personality as an oblique insult......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no m8 guys with personalities get all the meets......

I have personality coming out my ears

"

and a belly tucked in your knickers

sadly a lot of women don't want to shag a personality !

you have to remember a few things :

- men on here outnumber women considerably

- women have the greater choice of people to meet

- why should they settle for burgers if there is steak on the menu ?

- many women are looking for a fantasy male, you don't see many fat fantasies

- a lot of the coupled women have average built or bigger built husbands are partners

- whilst happy with those partners, in sex they may choose someone totally different

sorry if that sounds harsh, but yes, as a bigger guy you will struggle to get meets

it is not impossible by any means, but anyone telling you different is telling fibs

as i said in the earlier post, concentrate on those that do show an interest not those that don't

however, do not not accept second best yourself and do not compromise what you find attractive

we all have choices and preference irregardless of our shape and build

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no m8 guys with personalities get all the meets......

I have personality coming out my ears

and a belly tucked in your knickers

sadly a lot of women don't want to shag a personality !

you have to remember a few things :

- men on here outnumber women considerably

- women have the greater choice of people to meet

- why should they settle for burgers if there is steak on the menu ?

- many women are looking for a fantasy male, you don't see many fat fantasies

- a lot of the coupled women have average built or bigger built husbands are partners

- whilst happy with those partners, in sex they may choose someone totally different

sorry if that sounds harsh, but yes, as a bigger guy you will struggle to get meets

it is not impossible by any means, but anyone telling you different is telling fibs

as i said in the earlier post, concentrate on those that do show an interest not those that don't

however, do not not accept second best yourself and do not compromise what you find attractive

we all have choices and preference irregardless of our shape and build

good luck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Love a cuddly man!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not dead fit, got a decent sized gut and do really well

i think its all down to how your profile looks and shows you off as well as how you interact with everyone and your attitudes to it all

you dont have to be super fit to have a good looking attractive profile, you just need to take a look at yourself and work out what women find attractive about you and highlight that in a good way, so when they see your profile some of them have the thought mmm sexy and an attraction is created that gets the conversation flowing thats when ur personality and attitude etc seals the deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or kills any of your chances! if ur personality/attitudes not what they are looking for!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

have met all different kinds of fellas ova the years but generally if a fella can make me laugh and has a gud sense of humour were half way there

regarding physical appearance and physique tend to steer clear of men who are very big as im only very little myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of the larger men i have met have met all different types of women.

the thing that makes me decide to meet them is, how friendly they are and someone who is fairly inteligent.

someone who has read my profile and knows what sort of things i like.

without having to ask me.

if i like their verification, and what they say on other peoples verifications.

if they sound nice on the phone.

if they look clean and tidy in their pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the larger framed man to the athletic & toned types

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm skinny..despite looking buff sometimes(amazing what pic angles can do lol)..I wouldnt say I'm 'fit'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the larger framed man to the athletic & toned types "
I HAVE to get down to Bristol again....

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I love cuddly men and I also like slim ones but not too skinny. I personally (I know it is only me...lol) would not choose to meet a married guy - simply because I would not want complications but hey good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the larger framed man to the athletic & toned types I HAVE to get down to Bristol again...."

whats in Bristol? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever consider myself average at best but i've done okay. I think I struggle to get meets at times because I look younger than I am so a lot of people probably just assume I am rather than probing further.

But my confidence stays pretty good because the meets I do get are usually pleasantly suprised and in most cases i've been invited back. Due to the whole struggling to get new meets in the first place I make sure to treat people well that I meet regularly. Friendship goes a long way.

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

I am not athletic and toned just like having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer the larger framed man to the athletic & toned types I HAVE to get down to Bristol again....

whats in Bristol? lol "

Erm....The Arnolfini?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the diversity of preferences on here is one of the sites best features.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

"why should they settle for burgers if there is steak on the menu ?"

"many women are looking for a fantasy male, you don't see many fat fantasies"

Now that made me giggle lol

But your 100% right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I Love a cuddly man!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being fit doesnt mean anything baby i love men on our file says what i love and dislike about a guy nothing about wanting fit men long as the guy when we meet dont have beer bellys thats a big turn off for me baby you dont have to look fit to get a meet from what i can see by your face pic very nice but cock shoots in ya pics YAWN sorry i love cuddly guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The nicer an more pleasant you are will always or should always get you further in life, unless of course the beholder is shallow enough to purely go on looks with no personality, personally I would have to say a great personality always wins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not keen on cuddly men, fat and fat dont mix, i need a slim guys to fit into all my nooks and crannies

seriously clash of the bellies aint a good look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give up! never give up! I'm a fit chap, and I have a great personality. I'm still waiting, and been on here from many months!! sent dozens of messages to which most are deleted.

I'ts hard! but keep going chap! your meet will come and when it does you'll love it! Andrew from Devon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The nicer an more pleasant you are will always or should always get you further in life, unless of course the beholder is shallow enough to purely go on looks with no personality, personally I would have to say a great personality always wins "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My Pork is not the fittest guy, round and cuddly, but his personality is as big as his girth lol. He has everyone laughing as soon as we meet anyone.

We can only swing every other weekend and since we have joined in late May we have only had one weekend with no meet. So there are women out there had love to grab the man handles and maybe even take control...... Just be patient and you will have them queuing .... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found most profiles say "fit" men only.. Does this mean us cuddly men have no chance?"

I don't have a single "fit" bloke on my friends list and long may it remain that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The nicer an more pleasant you are will always or should always get you further in life, unless of course the beholder is shallow enough to purely go on looks with no personality, personally I would have to say a great personality always wins "

personally i dont think turning someone down that you dont find attractive is shallow, no matter how nice a person they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The nicer an more pleasant you are will always or should always get you further in life, unless of course the beholder is shallow enough to purely go on looks with no personality, personally I would have to say a great personality always wins

personally i dont think turning someone down that you dont find attractive is shallow, no matter how nice a person they are "

As I say it's each to their own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't give up! never give up! I'm a fit chap, and I have a great personality. I'm still waiting, and been on here from many months!! sent dozens of messages to which most are deleted.

I'ts hard! but keep going chap! your meet will come and when it does you'll love it! Andrew from Devon"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people say im fit,but im sat on sofa at home alone stroking my dog.

there is someone for everyone out there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have found most profiles say "fit" men only.. Does this mean us cuddly men have no chance?

I don't have a single "fit" bloke on my friends list and long may it remain that way "

Nice..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fit doesnt mean slim, personally I prefer large men, but I dont like large men that get out of breath and have no stamina and cant keep up with me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same here hun

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Don't know about 'fit' because it doesn't always mean trim and athletic...which is my preference.

Personality and humour are vital, but only when carried off by someone who I find attractive to start with.

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By *igTeeMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Well I can't be fit then I ant had none yet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OOOOOOOOOOO baby you are fit nothing wrong with you sorry had to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Personality and humour are vital, but only when carried off by someone who I find attractive to start with.

"

same here, if someone sent me a pic and i didnt fancy them i would see no point getting to know them because i know i wouldnt meet them

However if a guy mailed me i did fancy and after talking he turned out not to be for me personality wise i would also turn him down

There has to be a good mix of looks and personality but for me looks come first then i talk to see if i like them

i find it hard to believe many people on here would get a pic off someone they didnt find attractive and then carry on to chatting to get to know them, if you did that why ask for pics

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By *igTeeMan
over a year ago

Bradford


" OOOOOOOOOOO baby you are fit nothing wrong with you sorry had to say "

Lol thanx very much n nice pics

You look like your having fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I can't be fit then I ant had none yet lol"

oh stop fishing for compliments you

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By *igTeeMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Well I can't be fit then I ant had none yet lol

oh stop fishing for compliments you "

Lmfao mad head xxx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"no m8 guys with personalities get all the meets......"

Thank you for saying what I was going to ....

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


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Personality and humour are vital, but only when carried off by someone who I find attractive to start with.

same here, if someone sent me a pic and i didnt fancy them i would see no point getting to know them because i know i wouldnt meet them

However if a guy mailed me i did fancy and after talking he turned out not to be for me personality wise i would also turn him down

There has to be a good mix of looks and personality but for me looks come first then i talk to see if i like them

i find it hard to believe many people on here would get a pic off someone they didnt find attractive and then carry on to chatting to get to know them, if you did that why ask for pics "

Couldn't agree more.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oooo yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no m8 guys with personalities get all the meets......"

Yep that is correct. Has anybody got a shitty stuck they can lend me as mine is almost beyond repair and I can't take anymore new meets!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found most profiles say "fit" men only.. Does this mean us cuddly men have no chance?

I don't have a single "fit" bloke on my friends list and long may it remain that way "

Fit men are so last year lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found most profiles say "fit" men only.. Does this mean us cuddly men have no chance?

I don't have a single "fit" bloke on my friends list and long may it remain that way

Fit men are so last year lol"

Soooo true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no m8 guys with personalities get all the meets......

Thank you for saying what I was going to ....

"
although its fab to have both it does not mean that ull get lots of meets, it does me no favours.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found most profiles say "fit" men only.. Does this mean us cuddly men have no chance?

Nope

We occupy a niche in the market

We have to work harder as we have to rely on more than our looks and build to see us through.

Recognise that whilst you aren't attractive to all, you will be attractive to some.

It is those people who you should embrace.

That's deep but I like it "

why on earth would you think that was deep and like it......its so very transparent and an insult xx

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By *igTeeMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I have found most profiles say "fit" men only.. Does this mean us cuddly men have no chance?

Nope

We occupy a niche in the market

We have to work harder as we have to rely on more than our looks and build to see us through.

Recognise that whilst you aren't attractive to all, you will be attractive to some.

It is those people who you should embrace.

That's deep but I like it

why on earth would you think that was deep and like it......its so very transparent and an insult xx"

Lol Jasmine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no m8 guys with personalities get all the meets......

Thank you for saying what I was going to ....

although its fab to have both it does not mean that ull get lots of meets, it does me no favours....."

Speak for yourself, do you want some of mine? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found most profiles say "fit" men only.. Does this mean us cuddly men have no chance?

Nope

We occupy a niche in the market

We have to work harder as we have to rely on more than our looks and build to see us through.

Recognise that whilst you aren't attractive to all, you will be attractive to some.

It is those people who you should embrace.

That's deep but I like it

why on earth would you think that was deep and like it......its so very transparent and an insult xx"

Haha, see tha's still averse to arse licking

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I'd fuck ya

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have found most profiles say "fit" men only.. Does this mean us cuddly men have no chance?

Nope

We occupy a niche in the market

We have to work harder as we have to rely on more than our looks and build to see us through.

Recognise that whilst you aren't attractive to all, you will be attractive to some.

It is those people who you should embrace.

That's deep but I like it

why on earth would you think that was deep and like it......its so very transparent and an insult xx"

No insult ment it just feels deep and i like what he is saying !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as I don't mind either but draw the line at those with a beer belly that walks into a room before them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My Pork is not the fittest guy, round and cuddly, but his personality is as big as his girth lol. He has everyone laughing as soon as we meet anyone.

We can only swing every other weekend and since we have joined in late May we have only had one weekend with no meet. So there are women out there had love to grab the man handles and maybe even take control...... Just be patient and you will have them queuing .... "

Hmmm.... nice to know even your other arf doesn't think you're 'fit'....!!! Wait till she's here next week and wanting me to buy her a bottle of Pinot Grigio......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fugly, I can't pull "fit"

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By *igTeeMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I'm fugly, I can't pull "fit" "

No your not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fugly, I can't pull "fit" "

As we can't see any pics I'm sorry to say we can't comment x

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By *igTeeMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I'd fuck ya "

Who? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fugly, I can't pull "fit"

As we can't see any pics I'm sorry to say we can't comment x"
Take my word for it.............I am fugly

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"I prefer the larger framed man to the athletic & toned types."

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By *njamesMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"I'm fugly, I can't pull "fit" "

i don't believe that for a minute, you are pretty fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fugly, I can't pull "fit"

As we can't see any pics I'm sorry to say we can't comment xTake my word for it.............I am fugly "

You hae a fine looking rear end and personality counts too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are quite a few 'fit' guys on fab.

there are quite a few 'fit' women on fab.

25%(made up percentage)of them will ever actually get off there arses and meet people..despite misleading folk that they will.

Its always great looking for that 'ideal'-based on what most people see has attractive...unfortunately however, some who have that 'ideal' look...are way less interesting as people when u meet them.

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By *igTeeMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I'd have to agree you got a lovely arse Miss Julie )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, yes we do!! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd have to agree you got a lovely arse Miss Julie )"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My Pork is not the fittest guy, round and cuddly, but his personality is as big as his girth lol. He has everyone laughing as soon as we meet anyone.

We can only swing every other weekend and since we have joined in late May we have only had one weekend with no meet. So there are women out there had love to grab the man handles and maybe even take control...... Just be patient and you will have them queuing ....

Hmmm.... nice to know even your other arf doesn't think you're 'fit'....!!! Wait till she's here next week and wanting me to buy her a bottle of Pinot Grigio......

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There's been some great comments so big thank you to all and keep them comming..

The reson i posted this is I got told I was too fat to swing and I would crush her .. Well I had a gastric band fitted and lost 5stone so the only thing that was crush was me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a cuddly guy

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By *onboy777Man
over a year ago

Newark


"There's been some great comments so big thank you to all and keep them comming..

The reson i posted this is I got told I was too fat to swing and I would crush her .. Well I had a gastric band fitted and lost 5stone so the only thing that was crush was me."

I'm not cuddly but quite thin and have the same problem on here but I'm a newbie and women are always cautious of newbies but men must outweigh women on here at least 100 to 1 and women are picky creatures and if we all liked everybody sites like this wouldn't really work as we'd be knee deep in it as so to speek anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like a cuddly guy "

I like your profile as I like cuddly as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sooooooo fit I've had to hide my profile in order to stop all these women rushing to meet me!!!

Either that or I'm off to Wales for two weeks to work on my tan in this lovely weather......DOH!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's been some great comments so big thank you to all and keep them comming..

The reson i posted this is I got told I was too fat to swing and I would crush her .. Well I had a gastric band fitted and lost 5stone so the only thing that was crush was me."

Pity you can't name and shame this skeletal beauty...... bitch..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no muscle bound sex God or even a tight gym toned physique, however I'm a bit of a silver tongued git with a very fast witty mind and that seems to work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope to the thread title.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stick with it I've been on for over a year gaining confidence and guess what had my first meet yeahhhhhhhhhhhhh! And I'm no oil painting

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

Falkirk

Nah I wouldnt say the "fit" guys do. Personally I find the "fit" guys to be a bit up themselves so i just walk past them lol.

From this site ive developed a list of types that I thought I liked but have now found I dont through their attitudes lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's been some great comments so big thank you to all and keep them comming..

The reson i posted this is I got told I was too fat to swing and I would crush her .. Well I had a gastric band fitted and lost 5stone so the only thing that was crush was me.

Pity you can't name and shame this skeletal beauty...... bitch..!

"

I wish I could but am not like that after being fat most of my life I have heard worst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found most profiles say "fit" men only.. Does this mean us cuddly men have no chance?"

I'm a body double for Ron Jeremy

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah I wouldnt say the "fit" guys do. Personally I find the "fit" guys to be a bit up themselves so i just walk past them lol.

From this site ive developed a list of types that I thought I liked but have now found I dont through their attitudes lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a cuddly guy

I like your profile as I like cuddly as well "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have found most profiles say "fit" men only.. Does this mean us cuddly men have no chance?

I'm a body double for

Wolf

"

Ron Jeremy the Legend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not always the fit guys who are up themselves though.

have met a few ordinary looking men who are as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no m8 guys with personalities get all the meets......"
For me yes (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love cuddly average above average large etc how ever men wanna describe themselves when they not a stick insect. I myself am far from a stick and have absolutely no interest in men or women that are. I love somethin to hold onto and not fear I gonna snap my play partner if I hold a bit to tight lol

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By *uckknowsMan
over a year ago

here

There's sum fit body's quoting is the fat head optional?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found most profiles say "fit" men only.. Does this mean us cuddly men have no chance?

I'm a body double for

Wolf

Ron Jeremy the Legend "

...exactly and there's your answer m8... it shouldn't make an ounce of difference on build. Its the rest of the package that matters....

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's been some great comments so big thank you to all and keep them comming..

The reson i posted this is I got told I was too fat to swing and I would crush her .. Well I had a gastric band fitted and lost 5stone so the only thing that was crush was me."

what a absolute bitch. Your worth more then that babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has already been said, different tastes for different people so I'm sure you'll be fine! Good luck and have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have found most profiles say "fit" men only.. Does this mean us cuddly men have no chance?

I'm a body double for

Wolf

Ron Jeremy the Legend

...exactly and there's your answer m8... it shouldn't make an ounce of difference on build. Its the rest of the package that matters....

Lol shit let down with the package

oh Ron if only I had your dick.. Well not your dick but a copy on me lol

Wolf"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As has already been said, different tastes for different people so I'm sure you'll be fine! Good luck and have fun "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol like fcuk.

this place is best suited to ur average lookers but there will be something for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found most profiles say "fit" men only.. Does this mean us cuddly men have no chance?

I'm a body double for

Wolf

Ron Jeremy the Legend

...exactly and there's your answer m8... it shouldn't make an ounce of difference on build. Its the rest of the package that matters....

Lol shit let down with the package

oh Ron if only I had your dick.. Well not your dick but a copy on me lol

Wolf"

Just remember... anything is possible - you just have to have the fight in you and the hunger for it.

And you've got interest...

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally i like guys to be quite fit, but thats my preference. No one on here has the right to put anyone else down. Whether that is for their size, sexual orientation or preferences. For me its about an instant attraction, i dont really care about the 'inner' person, i'm more a fuck and go sorta girl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's been some great comments so big thank you to all and keep them comming..

The reson i posted this is I got told I was too fat to swing and I would crush her .. Well I had a gastric band fitted and lost 5stone so the only thing that was crush was me.

what a absolute bitch. Your worth more then that babe "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your comments they were awesome

X

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By *urious.coupleCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"no m8 guys with personalities get all the meets......

I have personality coming out my ears

"

Maybe thats the problem? I would feel a bit nauseous meeting a guy with stuff coming out his ears.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no m8 guys with personalities get all the meets......

I have personality coming out my ears

Maybe thats the problem? I would feel a bit nauseous meeting a guy with stuff coming out his ears. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found most profiles say "fit" men only.. Does this mean us cuddly men have no chance?"

i meet people who i like and make me smile

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By *urious.coupleCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

If a guy describes himself as fit I expect him to mean he is physically in good shape.

If, as on a profile I saw the other day, he is using the term to mean he's attractive, I switch off . . . .just makes me think he's arrogant if he'll describe himself like that.

It was;

'I am a well fit horny young bloke and looking for fit women, so no old or fat people'

Fair enough you don't want fats or olds, but who decided you were fit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found most profiles say "fit" men only.. Does this mean us cuddly men have no chance?"

I don't believe that 'most' profiles ask for fit men. Possibly just the ones you looked at...

I think there's someone for everyone out there. Some prefer fit, some prefer skinny, some prefer bigger.

I like the person. For me it's a mixture of looks, personality and the 'x factor'. That something else that you can't explain.

Don't blame one aspect for you not getting meets. It could be distance, time, anything really. You seem nice, good luck. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

'I am a well fit horny young bloke and looking for fit women, so no old or fat people'

Fair enough you don't want fats or olds, but who decided you were fit?"

Sounds like a arrogant nob

Just love themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found most profiles say "fit" men only.. Does this mean us cuddly men have no chance?

Nope

We occupy a niche in the market

We have to work harder as we have to rely on more than our looks and build to see us through.

Recognise that whilst you aren't attractive to all, you will be attractive to some.

It is those people who you should embrace.

That's deep but I like it

why on earth would you think that was deep and like it......its so very transparent and an insult xx"

Sorry to open this thread again a day after the last posting, but I think it must be said that neither of my earlier comments to the OP were meant to be insulting.

Thankfully, it looks like HE (at least) took it in the manner it was intended.

I speak as a big guy myself, who is of good nature and with a personality to back it up.

There is a difference between straight talking and being insulting and whilst no insults were intended I feel that I answered the question honestly and candidly.

I never said it was impossible for 'non fit' guys to get meets, but in many (albeit not all) instances they will find it more difficult than a fit guy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have found most profiles say "fit" men only.. Does this mean us cuddly men have no chance?

Nope

We occupy a niche in the market

We have to work harder as we have to rely on more than our looks and build to see us through.

Recognise that whilst you aren't attractive to all, you will be attractive to some.

It is those people who you should embrace.

That's deep but I like it

why on earth would you think that was deep and like it......its so very transparent and an insult xx

Sorry to open this thread again a day after the last posting, but I think it must be said that neither of my earlier comments to the OP were meant to be insulting.

Thankfully, it looks like HE (at least) took it in the manner it was intended.

I speak as a big guy myself, who is of good nature and with a personality to back it up.

There is a difference between straight talking and being insulting and whilst no insults were intended I feel that I answered the question honestly and candidly.

I never said it was impossible for 'non fit' guys to get meets, but in many (albeit not all) instances they will find it more difficult than a fit guy."

That's ok dude I enjoyed this thread and all the comments and its good that people have more to say on this subject

Awesome

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