FabSwingers.com forum: Single men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Us single men have a tough time on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Us single men have a tough time on here "

We certainly do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe should put more effort into their profiles then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine it’s about to get tougher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only yourself to blame, only you can change it.

It really isn't that hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

((hugs all round))

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its being tarred with the same brush as the idiots thing.

Don't worry about it, what will happen will happen eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why

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By *inkyh1974Woman
over a year ago

burgess hill

I can imagine! A lot of egos need stroking on here and most have no intention of meeting!!!

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

Mate, you have one paragraph in your bio. You get out as much as you put in.

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By *ornyinConwyMan
over a year ago

Conwy

"((hugs all round))"

Ohh, I just missed out on a hug!

I'm doing ok on here though, but a hug is always nice

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can imagine! A lot of egos need stroking on here and most have no intention of meeting!!!

Its the minority destroying the majority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"((hugs all round))

Ohh, I just missed out on a hug!

I'm doing ok on here though, but a hug is always nice"

Glad to be of assistance

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Nah!

Those that have it tough are those that have unrealistic expectations and want maximum results from minimal effort.

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By *ornyinConwyMan
over a year ago

Conwy

"I can imagine! A lot of egos need stroking on here and most have no intention of meeting!!!

Its the minority destroying the majority "

No one's destroying me, I'm galvanized!

Keep plodding on, & concentrate on those that want to meet. Those that don't, well it's no skin off my nose!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah!

Those that have it tough are those that have unrealistic expectations and want maximum results from minimal effort.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Indeed but it’s just about persistence. In a nice way of course

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Us single men have a tough time on here "

Its tough for anyone to find people they connect with and want to spend time with, not just single men.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Ermm some of us women do as well

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Us single men have a tough time on here "

False.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"((hugs all round))

Ohh, I just missed out on a hug!

I'm doing ok on here though, but a hug is always nice

Glad to be of assistance

Can I have a hug if there is any going spare?

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By *ornyinConwyMan
over a year ago

Conwy

"((hugs all round))

Ohh, I just missed out on a hug!

I'm doing ok on here though, but a hug is always nice

Glad to be of assistance

Get in! At this rate I'll be getting a bj or tit wank in no time lol

This is easy!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

We sure do, I just had to block another local guy looking for straight guys to suck

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

Sometimes us single guys have to be a bit realistic and accept that we are not to everyone taste whether it’s looks , age , physical.We have to work on our profile , pictures , look to attend socials and clubs , give and receive verifications.Once you have done all that then maybe you are in with a chance of getting noticed and getting a meet.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yet some men do very well so it can be done.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

In almost 5 years of this profile I've never once thought I have it "tough" on here - it's only tough if you choose to see it as such and don't use the tools available to maximise your experience of the site.

Have the wrong attitude, expectations and approach to the site and you'll find it tough - get them right and couple them with a decent profile and pics and it'll be quite the opposite experience, even though nothing will be guaranteed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effort in profiles!!!

Too many people jump on this old one. To some extent it makes sense but what's written is quite often not the reality?

When I first signed up I spent a while trying different profiles, as well as the usual shit of asking what people thought, any advice, blah, blah, blah. Most of it total waste of time I found, one says this works, another says that works!

So now my profile is what it is, it's to the point, simple description, shows a like of variety, versatile, exp & what not to expect.

It's fine, spend ages setting it all up & having that profile to appeal to all, but at the end of the day do you really need all that? Half the time it's bollocks & basically over inflated egos with exaggerated statistics.

Personally I'd rather learn about someone from a chat. Meet for a drink/meal, see if there's an attraction, a connection, how we behave together, gel & then take it from there. I do what works for me.

It should be simple, not a lifelong mission, a point of sale or some written epic! There's more to life then these sites & sex so don't take it so serious. If you're lucky great, if not so what! Life's like that, get off it, move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its being tarred with the same brush as the idiots thing.

Don't worry about it, what will happen will happen eventually "

I disagree

That's blaming others for your own lack of effort.

Fab is only as tough as you make it for yourself and what expectations you have when you come here.

I'm sorry but these excuses all come across as a sense of entitlement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"((hugs all round))

Ohh, I just missed out on a hug!

I'm doing ok on here though, but a hug is always nice

Glad to be of assistance

Can I have a hug if there is any going spare?

Oh indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah!

Those that have it tough are those that have unrealistic expectations and want maximum results from minimal effort.

This all day long

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By *di086Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

"Us single men have a tough time on here "

Yup here you have to have entire portfolio writen down with professional photo session

so far anway there's more man's / couples over single ladies so they can enable their egos and pick whoever they do see fit for them... Yet we are all humans and sexual beings.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Us single men have a tough time on here

Yup here you have to have entire portfolio writen down with professional photo session

so far anway there's more man's / couples over single ladies so they can enable their egos and pick whoever they do see fit for them... Yet we are all humans and sexual beings. "

Being human and sexual doesn't entitle you to a meet though!!

As for professional portfolio's and the like, I shall take it the wink means you're not serious - because if you are then that is rubbish - all of my pics have been taken with my phone and I have no complaints about my experience of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Us single men have a tough time on here "

Boo hoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woe is me

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

These kind of posts put me off people to be honest. Not sure about the other women. And the help me with my profile ones, and whilst we’re at it the women never reply and I can’t get a meet ones

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"These kind of posts put me off people to be honest. Not sure about the other women. And the help me with my profile ones, and whilst we’re at it the women never reply and I can’t get a meet ones

Not particularly aimed at you op. Just whingey men in general. It’s not attractive to me.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

It’s all roses for women. We love nothing more than uninvited cock, one line text speak, some graphic message meant to shock, or even better, just a bit of abuse. All peachy here.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"It’s all roses for women. We love nothing more than uninvited cock, one line text speak, some graphic message meant to shock, or even better, just a bit of abuse. All peachy here. "

Not whingeing are ya Saff?!

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over a year ago

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"It’s all roses for women. We love nothing more than uninvited cock, one line text speak, some graphic message meant to shock, or even better, just a bit of abuse. All peachy here.

Not whingeing are ya Saff?!"

Living the fricking dream Nora.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"It’s all roses for women. We love nothing more than uninvited cock, one line text speak, some graphic message meant to shock, or even better, just a bit of abuse. All peachy here.

Not whingeing are ya Saff?!

Living the fricking dream Nora.

. Hell yes. Likewise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s all roses for women. We love nothing more than uninvited cock, one line text speak, some graphic message meant to shock, or even better, just a bit of abuse. All peachy here.

Not whingeing are ya Saff?!

Living the fricking dream Nora.

Get them filters up, incoming!

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"It’s all roses for women. We love nothing more than uninvited cock, one line text speak, some graphic message meant to shock, or even better, just a bit of abuse. All peachy here.

Not whingeing are ya Saff?!

Living the fricking dream Nora.

Get them filters up, incoming! "

Pahhh… lasted a week without them. Back at 99

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"((hugs all round))

Ohh, I just missed out on a hug!

I'm doing ok on here though, but a hug is always nice

Glad to be of assistance

Can I have a hug if there is any going spare?

Oh indeed

So kind

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"It’s all roses for women. We love nothing more than uninvited cock, one line text speak, some graphic message meant to shock, or even better, just a bit of abuse. All peachy here. "

Us men get cock pics too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s all roses for women. We love nothing more than uninvited cock, one line text speak, some graphic message meant to shock, or even better, just a bit of abuse. All peachy here. "

Lol I get all that too, I may be into men but like the women on here I like a normal first message after my profile has been read first

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"It’s all roses for women. We love nothing more than uninvited cock, one line text speak, some graphic message meant to shock, or even better, just a bit of abuse. All peachy here.

Lol I get all that too, I may be into men but like the women on here I like a normal first message after my profile has been read first

Ditto that - in 5 years here the overwhelming majority of messages I've received from men have been of the "meet now for a BJ" variety - would much prefer a "let's chat and get to known each other and see if there's mutual interest" regardless of the gender of the sender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My probable problem is. I don't massage anyone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Us single men have a tough time on here

Yup here you have to have entire portfolio writen down with professional photo session

so far anway there's more man's / couples over single ladies so they can enable their egos and pick whoever they do see fit for them... Yet we are all humans and sexual beings. "

'enable their egos'

That's a bit harsh.

Most profiles are set up to gain some sort of attention!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My probable problem is. I don't massage anyone lol"

Ahhhh very good point!!!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

You get out, what you put in.

Requires effort!

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By *iami and kinkyCouple
over a year ago

kinksville

None of the single guys we know and I didn’t seem to struggle as a single. You get out what you put in. Like most things in life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guess we're all getting a telling off lol

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Its being tarred with the same brush as the idiots thing.

Don't worry about it, what will happen will happen eventually

I disagree

That's blaming others for your own lack of effort.

Fab is only as tough as you make it for yourself and what expectations you have when you come here.

I'm sorry but these excuses all come across as a sense of entitlement"

You are clearly a quick learner, it takes some years before they understand that.

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