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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why do people feel the need to pm you to reply to a forum post, put it in the forum ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it will obvs lead to a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because it will obvs lead to a meet "

hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because it will obvs lead to a meet

hahaha"

I get them from threads I posted on weeks ago... I usually just delete and occasionally reply on the thread... Even tho, whoever it was has rarely posted on there too... Weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll get messages off of threads.

Usually it's from, I presume, a lurker and sometimes I'll reply and sometimes not depending on what they've message.

I will get messages from other forum users (and I send them to the same) if it's off-topic on the thread or to continue a started conversation without derailing the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll pm you my thoughts on the subject OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 03/07/21 16:58:06]

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I don't mind conversational messages from threads, but I can't be doing with creepy lurker guys that turn a post you've made into a sleazy sexual offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I don't see anything wrong with it, but then again, the only messages I've ever recieved or sent because of a forum post were a continuation of a discussion between myself and the other person in that thread. I've not had to endure the lurkers and the pesterers!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I don't mind conversational messages from threads, but I can't be doing with creepy lurker guys that turn a post you've made into a sleazy sexual offer "

This is my take on it too.

Has lead to some interesting conversations.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Maybe their nominated poster wasn't available and the "friends" have to ask on their own behalf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had it, where they’ve expressed some truly bizarre views and I’m like why did you think I would concur or have similar views to this, if you haven’t got the plums to air them on the thread keep it to yourself.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I may want to say something person, or not want to flood the thread with posts backwards and forwards with replies to that person.

Just my 2p worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this a few times.

Can't say I'm impressed

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Doesn’t bother me to be honest. I only really read messages from forum folk anyway. I’ve done it a few times myself. Don’t think it’s pissed anyone off. Hopefully not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had it out of the forum too and I’m all, why you messaging me on a site designed for messaging people.. it’s not on

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

They’re not verified or have been previously banned I’ve found.

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By *ornyinConwyMan
over a year ago

Conwy

Had 2 of these today. I just assume it's done by mistake.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've had a few messages about things I've posted but it's always funny when someone is losing an argument and whip out the old " I've had dozens of dm's supporting me from people who won't post on the forums" line.

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