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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find it hard to cum, anyone else has got that problem? Any tips

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

My tongue x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I cannot do it with fingers even after hours of practice. It takes toys for me if alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thats the only way I manage to cum

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

I used to, my solution was to change the man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I cannot do it with fingers even after hours of practice. It takes toys for me if alone. "
. I know the feeling, it's either toys or tongue

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Lovehoney magic wand does the trick everytime for J

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I find it hard to cum, anyone else has got that problem? Any tips "
relax... you would be amazed at how many women dont relax... or have a psychological block.. this is then further not helped by guys saying I'll help you... and then it not happening.

Also a lot of women do but they are expecting something different... for me If I have a really good orgasm I go really really silent.. almost forgetting go breathe for a moment.

The worst thing in the world is to worry about it x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I cannot do it with fingers even after hours of practice. It takes toys for me if alone. "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

Sorry, can’t help you, I’ve not long had my third one this morning:

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to, my solution was to change the man

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. Haha yes, that has been suggested to me . Maybe one that knows how I tick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot do it with fingers even after hours of practice. It takes toys for me if alone. . I know the feeling, it's either toys or tongue "
dont think relax let go and feel yourself build your excitement orgasms begin in the mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it hard to cum, anyone else has got that problem? Any tips "

R.E.L.A.X

But usually it takes the whole, not just the tip

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find it hard to cum, anyone else has got that problem? Any tips relax... you would be amazed at how many women dont relax... or have a psychological block.. this is then further not helped by guys saying I'll help you... and then it not happening.

Thats my problem. Everything else is in my head, maybe I have to chill.out before and then try it

Also a lot of women do but they are expecting something different... for me If I have a really good orgasm I go really really silent.. almost forgetting go breathe for a moment.

The worst thing in the world is to worry about it x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I cannot do it with fingers even after hours of practice. It takes toys for me if alone. . I know the feeling, it's either toys or tongue dont think relax let go and feel yourself build your excitement orgasms begin in the mind "
.Thats what I struggle with. Relax, I find that hard.

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By *oooner1Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Deb is exactly the same, she finds it very hard to relax and let go

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Connecting just simply with your sexual energy/sensations and build up over time. Super relaxed. Starting on your own or asking your partner and just simply holding yourself. Warmth of your hand will create sensations.. Just notice them and breathe with them. Little by little, day by day it will build into movement and increased sensation.

No pressure.

No judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Womaniser accompanied with a suction cup dildo you can bounce on

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle too especially from penetration alone, Some guys managed to make me orgasm that way but yeah not that regularly.

Having said that doesn’t mean I can’t enjoy it for what it is and the sensation of it are still amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tough to hear this op…the right person, the right fantasy, time, patience and definitely has to be a connection…hope you find ways to relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it hard to cum, anyone else has got that problem? Any tips "

You can have my tip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I find it difficult too. Are you on any medications? Some (particularly antidepressants) can cause issues in this area as a side-effect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My tongue x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a wand

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Not via penstrarion but I can every other way. However, once you've found a decent toy, you're not going to bother with fingers as it feels so budget in comparison. I can have a faster and stronger orgam with a wand than I'll ever manage with fingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently it's difficult for something like 85% of females to orgasm through penetration with a penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why then have every woman if ever been with came through penetration with my penis ?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Apparently it's difficult for something like 85% of females to orgasm through penetration with a penis "

Something makes me think all the females who’ve met you probably have though

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Are you using hormonal contraception op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I have it all

Too good to be true and that confused folk

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Why then have every woman if ever been with came through penetration with my penis ?"

Haha. Sooooo predictable darling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grind harder and incorporate a wand into play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why then have every woman if ever been with came through penetration with my penis ?

Haha. Sooooo predictable darling

You'd attend a meet with me with that outlook nora

Then you'd experience an experience that's second to none

Numero uno

The man

The myth

The legend

Male sex on legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grind harder and incorporate a wand into play

Grinding together with a massive bell ended cock ( me ) would have anyone of the women on this planet cumming

And that's an absolute fact

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Why then have every woman if ever been with came through penetration with my penis ?

Haha. Sooooo predictable darling

You'd attend a meet with me with that outlook nora

Then you'd experience an experience that's second to none

Numero uno

The man

The myth

The legend

Male sex on legs

It’s almost tempting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why then have every woman if ever been with came through penetration with my penis ?

Haha. Sooooo predictable darling

You'd attend a meet with me with that outlook nora

Then you'd experience an experience that's second to none

Numero uno

The man

The myth

The legend

Male sex on legs

It’s almost tempting

Nice photos

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Why then have every woman if ever been with came through penetration with my penis ?"

Because you're a sex God of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grind harder and incorporate a wand into play

Grinding together with a massive bell ended cock ( me ) would have anyone of the women on this planet cumming

And that's an absolute fact

When you said "massive bell end" your cock wasn't what entered my mind....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you take pleasure from other sensations on your body. If you stroked your own thighs or boobs for instance. Close your eyes and just stroke the palm of your hand, notice the touch it takes to get a nice tingly feeling. It can be a very very light touch. Then just slowly use that same touch on yourself, starting on thighs and then just exploring yourself, all your creases and folds. Tugging gently on any hair if you have it. Not even diving straight in and trying for orgasm. Just notice the stroke and touch that causes a tingle and build on that. Nicer done on your own I think to begin with to relax and explore. Unless you have avery controlled partner who would be happy just to sit there and watch in wonder and not touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why then have every woman if ever been with came through penetration with my penis ?

Because you're a sex God of course

God's ain't real, they where extra terrestrial visitors and back then that's how mankind described things that discharging on earth as it is in heaven

I'm no god, I'm just a special breed of man, sex mad and exceptionally self taught in everything sex has has to offer a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grind harder and incorporate a wand into play

Grinding together with a massive bell ended cock ( me ) would have anyone of the women on this planet cumming

And that's an absolute fact

When you said "massive bell end" your cock wasn't what entered my mind....

You'd want to hurt me

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

The Mrs has a hard time climaxing. She used to only be capable when wearing jeans and rubbing the seam on her clit. No dildos, rabbits, g spot vibes, cock, tongue or finger action would work. She would get sensitive and ticklish before climaxing. Until we found wands, and now if she wants one she busts out the wand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grind harder and incorporate a wand into play

Grinding together with a massive bell ended cock ( me ) would have anyone of the women on this planet cumming

And that's an absolute fact

When you said "massive bell end" your cock wasn't what entered my mind....

You'd want to hurt me

Maybe a bum smack

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Grind harder and incorporate a wand into play

Grinding together with a massive bell ended cock ( me ) would have anyone of the women on this planet cumming

And that's an absolute fact

When you said "massive bell end" your cock wasn't what entered my mind....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grind harder and incorporate a wand into play

Grinding together with a massive bell ended cock ( me ) would have anyone of the women on this planet cumming

And that's an absolute fact

When you said "massive bell end" your cock wasn't what entered my mind....

You'd want to hurt me

Maybe a bum smack

Mmm yes please

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By *amy8179Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I can only cum via clit stimulation, I like vaginal play - it feels good but does not allow me to cum.

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By *ack-FMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Try exploring tantric massage... there are good teachers around ....it’s more about a whole body climax as opposed to a galloping race to orgasm...

happy exploring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being a bit more enthusiastic and put a bit more effort into it and you’ll cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why then have every woman if ever been with came through penetration with my penis ?"

And of course none of them faked it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why then have every woman if ever been with came through penetration with my penis ?

And of course none of them faked it "

And neither would you

You look very pretty

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I tend to cum easier from penetration than clitoral stimulation.

I can only advise you try to relax on your own and do different things.

Don't start with the intention of making yourself cum.

Explore your body without touching your genitals first.

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By *ownwithafeatherMan
over a year ago

Watford

"I find it hard to cum, anyone else has got that problem? Any tips "

Chocolate?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I never could until I learnt to relax, and only on my own.

Never happens with penetration, purely clitoral and rarely without a toy.

Just keep practicing on your own x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Grind harder and incorporate a wand into play

Grinding together with a massive bell ended cock ( me ) would have anyone of the women on this planet cumming

And that's an absolute fact

When you said "massive bell end" your cock wasn't what entered my mind....

* spit my tea out *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to cum easier from penetration than clitoral stimulation.

I can only advise you try to relax on your own and do different things.

Don't start with the intention of making yourself cum.

Explore your body without touching your genitals first.

This!

A couple of ex girlfriends had trouble and it had become a really big issue for them, because they were always thinking about it. The more relaxed you are and the more aware you are of the actual feel of whatevers happening, the more likely it is to just happen. Far easier said than done, I know. Try not to get locked into 1 routine of stimulation as it'll just make variety harder later.

Good luck

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Grind harder and incorporate a wand into play

Grinding together with a massive bell ended cock ( me ) would have anyone of the women on this planet cumming

And that's an absolute fact

When you said "massive bell end" your cock wasn't what entered my mind....

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Over the years so many women have this problem if their no medical reason preventing from cumming .then

I've taught them to relax and discover more about their bodies through touch but its about the mind first. With the right mental

connection you can be taught to cum on command and be multi

orgasmic.even without touching you or you touching your self .knowledge is the key .

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I used to have this problem. It was a combination of not relaxing, hanging on to some old beliefs about what good girls do or not, and not doing the things that worked for me in that different scenario.

Take time to think about how you are physically (points of stimulation, muscle tension, position); psychologically (what's running through your head); your environment etc. when you CAN achieve orgasm, Then play Spot the Difference for what needs to change in a different setting. Once you've figured it out, there'll be no stopping you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot do it with fingers even after hours of practice. It takes toys for me if alone. . I know the feeling, it's either toys or tongue dont think relax let go and feel yourself build your excitement orgasms begin in the mind .Thats what I struggle with. Relax, I find that hard. "
if you cant relax i suspect your putting too much pressure on yourself to cum over being in the moment

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Great input beyond priority. Mind first body follows .

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