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Are you feeling yourself?

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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Well, are you? Not literally, I mean more psychologically. Are you feeling like yourself and are you comfortable there? Or are you not feeling yourself? What do you do in that situation?

Me, I'm emerging from the monthly week of definitely not feeling myself (thanks, hormones!) into hell yes I am most definitely feeling myself

Mrs TMN x

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’m feeling myself today, I’ve been up and down recently, but it’s been expected. Keep things planned so I can look forward to stuff and remain positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on your definition of feeling yourself as my norm seems to be feeling out of sorts and not with it, which I know is not a normal norm so trying to change it

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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"I’m feeling myself today, I’ve been up and down recently, but it’s been expected. Keep things planned so I can look forward to stuff and remain positive "

Yes, I like having some things in the diary too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one else is feeling me either

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Well, are you? Not literally, I mean more psychologically. Are you feeling like yourself and are you comfortable there? Or are you not feeling yourself? What do you do in that situation?

Me, I'm emerging from the monthly week of definitely not feeling myself (thanks, hormones!) into hell yes I am most definitely feeling myself

Mrs TMN x"

Me too!! And more than usual

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Ups and downs, but my rolling average is moving up. I'm happier with myself as time goes by.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Oh OP! I'm still going through that joyous occasion currently. Even though I'm bloated and a bit emotional, I'm definitely beginning to feel myself again. After a mini pamper session today I'm hoping I will be even more.

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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"depends on your definition of feeling yourself as my norm seems to be feeling out of sorts and not with it, which I know is not a normal norm so trying to change it"

Ah, that sounds tough. What changes are you making?

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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Well, are you? Not literally, I mean more psychologically. Are you feeling like yourself and are you comfortable there? Or are you not feeling yourself? What do you do in that situation?

Me, I'm emerging from the monthly week of definitely not feeling myself (thanks, hormones!) into hell yes I am most definitely feeling myself

Mrs TMN x

Me too!! And more than usual "

Excellent! Me too. Getting back into regular exercise works wonders for me

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

A bit of yes and a bit of no.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Nope. Not at all.

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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Ups and downs, but my rolling average is moving up. I'm happier with myself as time goes by."

This is lovely to read, Swing. I hear you on the ups and downs. I like the idea of a rolling average here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I’m emotionally and physically completely exhausted.

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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Oh OP! I'm still going through that joyous occasion currently. Even though I'm bloated and a bit emotional, I'm definitely beginning to feel myself again. After a mini pamper session today I'm hoping I will be even more. "

Ah yes, the joys. I know by now I just need to ride it out. Pamper sounds ideal x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

I am 98% back to normal, just waiting on some precautionary test results

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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Nope. Not at all. "

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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"A bit of yes and a bit of no.

"

Covidcoaster?

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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"No, I’m emotionally and physically completely exhausted."

Oh, I'm sorry to read this Hope you can find some respite.

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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"I am 98% back to normal, just waiting on some precautionary test results "

Fingers crossed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am thankfully, the start of this year was a different story.I was absolutely deflated and not myself but back to myself now x

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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"I am thankfully, the start of this year was a different story.I was absolutely deflated and not myself but back to myself now x"

I hear you! Glad you're feeling yourself again x

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

I’ve not been feeling like me the last few weeks, starting to forget what my norm is but a trip to one of my favourite places is feeling

Bx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, are you? Not literally, I mean more psychologically. Are you feeling like yourself and are you comfortable there? Or are you not feeling yourself? What do you do in that situation?

Me, I'm emerging from the monthly week of definitely not feeling myself (thanks, hormones!) into hell yes I am most definitely feeling myself

Mrs TMN x"

Know that ahem feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My body is knackered I think, ready for the scrap heap but my brain retains the little spark of what it is to be me.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes much better than yesterday.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Not really but I’m getting there

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I take each day as it comes as there are multiple ups and downs. Life hasn't been "normal" for some time so people shouldn't be surprised if they feel a little out of sorts or anxious about previously regular things

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Not feeling myself at all.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Nope, not really. I'm just keeping on keeping on at the moment and hoping I'll find myself again somewhere along the way.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"depends on your definition of feeling yourself as my norm seems to be feeling out of sorts and not with it, which I know is not a normal norm so trying to change it

Ah, that sounds tough. What changes are you making? "

Seeking help to improve and be more positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like I've been spinning a lot of plates recently that I've forgotten what feeling myself is. How I've been feeling is based on what I have to next but have a quiet weekend planned so maybe I'll be able to feel more like myself again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than i was but less than il ever be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for what seems to be 'normal' for me and having mood swings. On a down swing at the moment after an up swing.

Hopefully chatting to the doctor next week will get the ball rolling towards a better understanding with what might be going on in my head.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"More than i was but less than il ever be "

This makes me happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often don’t feel myself but it’s still myself having that feeling…try to accept all of you

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I’ve been really down for the last couple of weeks, all to do with people in my life and the pressures they put on me.

I have to say today is a good day, and I’m feeling chipper again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesterday, no. Today, yes.

For those not firing on all cylinders; big hugs, high fives and hope it doesn't linger.

For those who are basking in their own sunshine; share the love, pass it forward

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I had a fat ugly evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not, I’ve got to decide what im going do, but till then I’ll continue to use humour to deflect the way I’m feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It fluctuates, more down days than up ones

Not sure what I need to do to get 'me' back

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Last night and today definitely not

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

No not really. If someone would like to 'feel' me, I'm just here.

*jokes

I'm getting there.

Jo.Xx

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"No not really. If someone would like to 'feel' me, I'm just here.

*jokes

I'm getting there.

Jo.Xx "

So I *shouldn't* feel you up?

Also, feeling a bit more myself in recent weeks, slowly

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last night and today definitely not "

Same here, I'm putting down to tiredness for me

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"No not really. If someone would like to 'feel' me, I'm just here.

*jokes

I'm getting there.

Jo.Xx

So I *shouldn't* feel you up?

Also, feeling a bit more myself in recent weeks, slowly

LvM"

Damn it!!

Glad you're starting to 'feel' yourself recently!

Jo.Xx

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

To feel myself I need to know what "myself" is, and currently I'm not sure - but until I do know, onwards and upwards, I shall just keep taking each day at a time and see what the future holds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To feel myself I need to know what "myself" is, and currently I'm not sure - but until I do know, onwards and upwards, I shall just keep taking each day at a time and see what the future holds "

Best way to play it, small steps hey x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kind of have to. Not been able to have anyone else do it for me for a while

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Last night and today definitely not

Same here, I'm putting down to tiredness for me "

Wish that's what mine was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last night and today definitely not

Same here, I'm putting down to tiredness for me

Wish that's what mine was "

Same here not been feeling myself for a while now

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Nope. Don’t think I will until I can walk properly again and shift this lard. I’m even more discombobulated than usual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent been feeling myself fit a while, I cant settle and very all over the place. Would appreciate if someone could come make all my decisions and let me sleep

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Soooo... cuddle pile? So we can all feel ourselves. And each other?

LvM

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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Sorry too many people to respond to now, I have read everyone's poets though and thank you all for sharing

Ach it's a funny one. I know the downs are part of being me as much as the ups. I've got better at going with it and trusting I will come through, as I have before, and will do again. Doesn't make it much fun at times though.

I think there's a lot of expectation about "getting back to normal" when in reality it's rarely as straightforward as that. My life has completely changed over the past year and three months. So I won't be getting back to anything, I'll be moving forwards. That's both exciting and scary at the same time!

Sending love and solidarity out to all you beautiful people xx

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Soooo... cuddle pile? So we can all feel ourselves. And each other?

LvM"

Bagsie being at the bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am thankfully, the start of this year was a different story.I was absolutely deflated and not myself but back to myself now x

I hear you! Glad you're feeling yourself again x"

Thank you and I hope everyone else that’s not feeling themselves, does soon x

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Sorry too many people to respond to now, I have read everyone's poets though and thank you all for sharing

Ach it's a funny one. I know the downs are part of being me as much as the ups. I've got better at going with it and trusting I will come through, as I have before, and will do again. Doesn't make it much fun at times though.

I think there's a lot of expectation about "getting back to normal" when in reality it's rarely as straightforward as that. My life has completely changed over the past year and three months. So I won't be getting back to anything, I'll be moving forwards. That's both exciting and scary at the same time!

Sending love and solidarity out to all you beautiful people xx"

I hear you!

(hugs)

Jo.Xx

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"I am thankfully, the start of this year was a different story.I was absolutely deflated and not myself but back to myself now x

I hear you! Glad you're feeling yourself again x

Thank you and I hope everyone else that’s not feeling themselves, does soon x"

Glad you are x

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Hi OP I haven't done for a while but that's due to a family matter. I know things will get better when I get to fly over to see my mum soon.

I'm doing my best to stay uplifted giving hugs to anyone whose also not feeling themselves xx

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Honestly no, I've been not myself for a while now, I'm better than I was and can see I'm getting more like me. So staying positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a horrible bout of insomnia but last night was tiny bit better. I'll survive. As usual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, are you? Not literally, I mean more psychologically. Are you feeling like yourself and are you comfortable there? Or are you not feeling yourself? What do you do in that situation?

Me, I'm emerging from the monthly week of definitely not feeling myself (thanks, hormones!) into hell yes I am most definitely feeling myself

Mrs TMN x"

I like how you slotted word "emerging" in there. Like a buttefly from a chrysalis.

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By *ayden_82Man
over a year ago

corby

Not really, been off for the past few weeks, lack of sleep isn’t helping either but hanging in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to, no one else wants to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to, no one else wants to!"

Soldier. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I’m a bit of a mess in all honesty, but I’m brilliant at seemingly functioning normally and veneering over it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye I'm fine.

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