FabSwingers.com forum: Help me to help my wife orgsam

By *llowedtowander OP Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

So, wife has never orgasmed before and I want to help her. We are in love and have sex regularly but it has not happened. Also, she doesn't know how to orgasm, so we are totally at your mercy.

Wife is 50 and I am 52

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"So, wife has never orgasmed before and I want to help her. We are in love and have sex regularly but it has not happened. Also, she doesn't know how to orgasm, so we are totally at your mercy.

Wife is 50 and I am 52"

Does she want you to help her? Sometimes the pressure of partner wanting to make someone orgasm can stand in the way.

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By *llowedtowander OP Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

No, she wants help, but does

Not know what she wants or has to do. She has asked me about toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toy wise a wand is the best thing ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop the pressure communicate with her body create excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doubt anyone can answer better than you two together, maybe even just encourage her to play with herself, they tend to do it better than us

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

Suggest your wife explores on her own as well as with you. It's her body and her orgasm.

https://www.glamourmagazine.co.uk/article/virtual-sex-masterclass-review

Good Luck OP.

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By *llowedtowander OP Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Tasks for the answers. Playing with herself is a no, not somewhere does. I am open to anything and really want to help. The wand, tell me about this

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By *ang BazzaMan
over a year ago

Cirencester

"So, wife has never orgasmed before and I want to help her. We are in love and have sex regularly but it has not happened. Also, she doesn't know how to orgasm, so we are totally at your mercy.

Wife is 50 and I am 52"

Orgasms comes from the mind and sometimes the absence of sex. I have given some ladies a orgasm, just touching their elbow, a trick of the mind. Foreplay can help, a build up of suggestions through out the day, about what is going to happen later. Allow the lady to pleasure herself and she will find the spot eventually.

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By *llowedtowander OP Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Hey, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry but if she can't do it for herself either she's physically incapable or there are mental issues stopping her. The forum won't be able to help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By 50 surly she has made her self orgasm....

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By *llowedtowander OP Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Are women physically incapable?

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By *llowedtowander OP Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are women physically incapable? "

I don't know. Seek proper help. You won't find that here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are women physically incapable? "
is there actually a wife or are you just wanting abit of wanking material must be easier ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, wife has never orgasmed before and I want to help her. We are in love and have sex regularly but it has not happened. Also, she doesn't know how to orgasm, so we are totally at your mercy.

Wife is 50 and I am 52"

Google sensate focus and start there. Start slowly and take all the time you can.

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By *llowedtowander OP Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Ok, appreciate the help

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By *llowedtowander OP Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Thanks, we will look

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Well before puberty I used to rub myself and make myself orgasm. I had never heard anything about sex or self stimulation but I just knew it felt good. I am really suprised she has never in over 50 years tried touching herself.

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By *olo_89Couple
over a year ago

Kettering

"Are women physically incapable? is there actually a wife or are you just wanting abit of wanking material must be easier ways. "

(w), thinking he wants wanking material as he is on here as single, no links or names for a couples account and wants discreet fun.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

She will only orgasm if she is completely caught up in the feelings of pleasure.

If she's stressed, or trying ti climax, I don't think that it will work.

It sounds like she's uncomfortable exploring her own body. To me, overcoming this is the first step, so she can bring herself to orgasm, but I'm no expert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well before puberty I used to rub myself and make myself orgasm. I had never heard anything about sex or self stimulation but I just knew it felt good. I am really suprised she has never in over 50 years tried touching herself. "

Exactly my point. If someone is incapable of doing it themselves then there is a real deep issue beyond novice advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are women physically incapable? is there actually a wife or are you just wanting abit of wanking material must be easier ways.

(w), thinking he wants wanking material as he is on here as single, no links or names for a couples account and wants discreet fun. "
seems abit like it probably got a 50 year old wife who knows nothing of fab who he has never made orgasm so just presumes she can't....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try OMG yes. It is aimed at helping women orgasm through understanding their bodies and finding out what works for them.

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

Has she ever orgasmed before?

Her doctor might be the place to start.

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By *llowedtowander OP Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

"She will only orgasm if she is completely caught up in the feelings of pleasure.

If she's stressed, or trying ti climax, I don't think that it will work.

It sounds like she's uncomfortable exploring her own body. To me, overcoming this is the first step, so she can bring herself to orgasm, but I'm no expert."

Thanks for the help, will try to relax her

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By *llowedtowander OP Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Thanks for that, we will take a look

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By *llowedtowander OP Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Really, a doctor?

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By *llowedtowander OP Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

I think presuming she can't is the issue

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By *llowedtowander OP Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Not correct, but not judging you for thinking this. We all have reasons for being on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax ... take it slow ..tease .. don't go straight to the main erogenous zones...try other sensitive areas that give her pleasure... play mood music ... something that comes to a climax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would recommend finding a somatic practitioner, like a Sexological body worker. This will work on a deeper level, allowing her to feel empowered, and to discover her body and sexuality at her own pace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has she ever orgasmed before?

Her doctor might be the place to start. "

He might get struck off for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, use reply + quote so we know who you’re replying to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By 50 surly she has made her self orgasm...."

Obviously not, and don’t called him Shirley

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By *llowedtowander OP Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

"Also, use reply + quote so we know who you’re replying to

Sorry

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By *llowedtowander OP Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

"By 50 surly she has made her self orgasm....

Obviously not, and don’t called him Shirley

Airplane lol

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By *llowedtowander OP Man
over a year ago

Ilkeston

"I would recommend finding a somatic practitioner, like a Sexological body worker. This will work on a deeper level, allowing her to feel empowered, and to discover her body and sexuality at her own pace."

Never heard of this, we will both take a look

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