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By *antsanddorset OP   Man
over a year ago

southampton

I'm curious - do people who use the forum much not use the chat facility, and vice versa? if so why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't use chat as personally we find it difficult to follow and quite impersonal

Love the forums though cause us oldies can follow em better lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

chat moves too fast sometimes, so you find yaself scrolling back up

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By *antsanddorset OP   Man
over a year ago

southampton


"We don't use chat as personally we find it difficult to follow and quite impersonal

Love the forums though cause us oldies can follow em better lol xx "

yes thats my reason too - tried it several times but it just looks like chaos to me

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Use chat on other sites, but sadly the chat rooms on Fab are so bad I find them impossible to use. It's a shame when everything else on Fab is so good.

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"We don't use chat as personally we find it difficult to follow and quite impersonal

Love the forums though cause us oldies can follow em better lol xx

yes thats my reason too - tried it several times but it just looks like chaos to me "

same here ...too quick and not managed to find any decent conversation so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

use both altho in chat a lot less.

both great ways to get to know folks and get yourself known...

altho better to be known as a decent guy than be known as a moaner in both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use both but I personally prefer the more relaxed pace of the forum ... I end up with typers cramp in chatroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i use both, i think you get two types of people that use this site, people after friend with extras and people after a quick shag, i find that people who had contacted me thro the forum have been much more the first type, send nicer messages.....hello was reading your post, fancy a chat?..... type of thing, where as guys who message me because im in the chat room and they have seen me on cam have always send messages that go along the lines of.....can i come round now and fuck you on cam lol, and i also have found that men that get rude and abusive because i wont meet them for whatever reason are nearly always guys that have contacted me because they have seen me in the chat room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i use both, i think you get two types of people that use this site, people after friend with extras and people after a quick shag, i find that people who had contacted me thro the forum have been much more the first type, send nicer messages.....hello was reading your post, fancy a chat?..... type of thing, where as guys who message me because im in the chat room and they have seen me on cam have always send messages that go along the lines of.....can i come round now and fuck you on cam lol, and i also have found that men that get rude and abusive because i wont meet them for whatever reason are nearly always guys that have contacted me because they have seen me in the chat room "

Case closed

To summerise: forum! forum! forum! forum! forum! forum!

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By *antsanddorset OP   Man
over a year ago

southampton

works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't use chat as personally we find it difficult to follow and quite impersonal

Love the forums though cause us oldies can follow em better lol xx "

We'll 2nd that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On this site, it's deffo the forums, don't mind chat rooms, but the one on here is prehistoric and far to fast for a decent conversation.

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By *xstephbxxCouple
over a year ago

hyde

Not as addicted to the forum as some but do find it eaiser to ask and find and answer on here rather than chat. Saying that, find chat with cam a great way to meet people and then we move onto msn for more private stuff. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with all the above.

Have frequented the chat rooms occasionally and actually met a lovely guy on there, his smile on cam was too charming for me to ignore lol.

But in general, the topics, the banter, the people all seem much more my cup of tea on here........................

xx xx

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By *hristalCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Have tried to go into chat a few times - find it hard to follow and goes way too fast. Also seems to be hit and miss if you get in and its running correctly.

So dont bother anymore!

Much prefer the forums and have met a few nice people that way as well

Cx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some chat users use the forums to moan when they get booted

Awww bless em

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

can't keep up in the chat and find that sometimes your totally ignored in them too, so it's the forums for me, because the people are far more forgiving and seem much friendlier in them too ( with a few exception, but thats par for any forum anyway ) feeelllll the luuurrrrrv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be nice if the lounge had its own chatroom.

No camming etc but just chat.

I might use it then . lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice if the lounge had its own chatroom.

No camming etc but just chat.

I might use it then . lmao "

You could meet in the Calif. room, its pretty much always empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tried chat a couple of times... after being asked to show em my tits a couple of times and being nice and obliging.. seeing them flee made me all conscious.

Tend to stick to the forums... only pop in now and then mind..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all this camming etc puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find its ME camming that puts everyone else off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awwwwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I was naked on cam the whole room said that my old grey suit needed to be ironed, and they were surprised at how small the "zip" was

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't use chat as personally we find it difficult to follow and quite impersonal

Love the forums though cause us oldies can follow em better lol xx "

Oldie here too!

Chat etiquette has changed since I last ventured into adult chat rooms over 7y ago, and it is not as much fun as it was then.

So the forums for me

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Chat scares me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chat scares me

"

In that case, I'm your man, less chat more action.

oh, I get it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chat scares me

"

Im sorry, I wont put my cam on next time

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Chat scares me

Im sorry, I wont put my cam on next time "

Aaawww thanks for that.........it took ages for me to see straight again

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We use both, I trawl thru the forums dipping into the interesting, funny, informative or just down right silly threads adding my twopennorth. We also like chatting with friends, catching up on the news and gossip lol!

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

We have tried chat but its not for us as it is to fast to follow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums for me allllllll the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums every time....the chatrooms are just a big pile of poo!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Chat can be fun, but requires 100% concentration in the bigger rooms.

We could all go and invade one of the quiet ones on a sunday night or something...

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