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Do you sometimes look at things and ponder, but think it has more meaning?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sounds strange, but sometimes I find myself unwittingly contemplating situations and looking at further meaning. For example:

The other day I was driving down a street and there were parked cars occasionally parked on both sides of the road, meaning drivers have to give way to others to let people through, but for some reason everyone was being selfish and trying to force and squeeze their way through almost shaving the paint off the cars parked up. Busses and articulated lorries couldn’t get through and because of everyone being selfish to each other no one moved for about 20 minutes.

Now once the front of the queue vanished and people stopped being selfish and let other people advance a little the traffic actually vanished. As the road was only made busy by the obstruction of people being obnoxious.

So I was just thinking while stuck. It’s pretty true to life. If you are selfish and are not willing to give a little once in a while, be it time/money or love. Don’t expect to get anywhere very fast.

Kind of seemed a valid thought process at the time.

But do you sometimes ponder about things that are seemingly random, but they may have meaning to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe I was getting too philosophical about nothing?

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By *lessedXXXWoman
over a year ago

“I never meet”

Good observation … maybe it’s worth reflecting on what areas of your own life you are experiencing that, and consider what you can do to change it

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Maybe I was getting too philosophical about nothing? "

Not at all. Quick responses in here are not an indication of the quality of a post.

Reflection is very important. Very.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Ahem ...... if you are asking then this non virtue signalling , no sanitised sentimental observer will you that most times , selfishness is precisely what is needed to win or to survive.

People block roads less from selfishness and more to crass stupidity and the inability to think forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds strange, but sometimes I find myself unwittingly contemplating situations and looking at further meaning. For example:

The other day I was driving down a street and there were parked cars occasionally parked on both sides of the road, meaning drivers have to give way to others to let people through, but for some reason everyone was being selfish and trying to force and squeeze their way through almost shaving the paint off the cars parked up. Busses and articulated lorries couldn’t get through and because of everyone being selfish to each other no one moved for about 20 minutes.

Now once the front of the queue vanished and people stopped being selfish and let other people advance a little the traffic actually vanished. As the road was only made busy by the obstruction of people being obnoxious.

So I was just thinking while stuck. It’s pretty true to life. If you are selfish and are not willing to give a little once in a while, be it time/money or love. Don’t expect to get anywhere very fast.

Kind of seemed a valid thought process at the time.

But do you sometimes ponder about things that are seemingly random, but they may have meaning to you?

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No

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm always looking at things and thinking they have more meaning. My problem is I don't look for deeper meaning in the really important things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is meaning behind everything if you know where to look.

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