FabSwingers.com forum: What do you wear for a first time social meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do you like to wear when meeting a fabber for the first time for a social?

Do you go sexy? Casual? Smart?

I tend to wear a summer dress

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

My lucky blue undies.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Depends where/time etc the meet is taking place

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Smart casual mostly. Usually a dress, once I wore jeans and heels.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Casual, so far I've worn a maxi dress, summer dress, silky trousers and a cami top.... Yesterday I just wore jean shorts cos it was hot!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

A social for means just that, a social. At this point I probably like the person as otherwise I would not have agreed to meet them but I have no idea whatsoever if I fancy them.

So, I dress casually and definitely not in an overtly sexual, provocative way.

I can be flirty in casual clothes if I find I am attracted to the person - equally if I am not I do not need to "back off" which is difficult if I sent the signal in the first place.

Just my way of managing expectations.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends where/time etc the meet is taking place"

Well, it's your social, so when would you choose it to be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart casual.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Smart casual. "

Do you wear the white boxers?

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Smart casual for me, sexy for my wife.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Smart casual, totally depends on where we're going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smart casual.

Do you wear the white boxers?

Or something similar yes

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By *iablo soloWoman
over a year ago

over younder

During the day....now...weather wise, nice off the shoulder summer dress and wedges.....evening probably skinny Jean's or leather look skinnys with a nice chiffon (to reveal a little but not too much!!!) top and heels!!

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Cock ring and a smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Levi's jeans and shirt

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"During the day....now...weather wise, nice off the shoulder summer dress and wedges.....evening probably skinny Jean's or leather look skinnys with a nice chiffon (to reveal a little but not too much!!!) top and heels!!

Sounds beautiful!

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

Smart casual and a smile

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

A cuppa social will be in a costa so nice shorts and a non revealing shirt with sandles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pretty much live in dresses so most likely you'll find me wearing one if we arranged to meet. I'd probably pick one that was low cut and wrapped around the waist to really show off my figure if I wanted to make a lasting impression.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

It completely depends on the time, location and activity...I dress to suit those, as I would in any social situation.

Most situations would be smart casual, so a dress or smart jeans and top. I did once have a hiking social, so wore leggings, t-shirt and walking boots...I'd have looked a bit silly turning up in a dress and heels

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By *iablo soloWoman
over a year ago

over younder

Sounds beautiful!"

I always love the build up so try to look my best! I guess really what's comfortable is key!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A kilt with a string vest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A kilt with a string vest

Haha that would certainly be memorable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My magician's costume, because womrn love mystery.

*flaps cape*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually expect sex on a first meet, my usual outfit is a see through top, bra, leggings, and heels xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart casual and sexy.....oh and CL shoes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy/casual/smart all in one somehow

Normally a summery dress with boots/wedges/heels

Or a skirt with a plunge bodysuit or something

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on location, weather but if I really wanted to impress then it'd be something similar to my current profile pic

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'd do some research on what they like - even if its a social meet.

E.g. I wouldn't turn up in a suit if she's a 'denim girl'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A kilt with a string vest

I’m guessing you’re kidding about the string vest but would you ever go to a social in a kilt really? That would be immense

I like to wear dresses - I have day dresses that are casual but also a little provocative, I could dress them up or down with the shoes I chose and if I wear a jacket or not xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd do some research on what they like - even if its a social meet.

E.g. I wouldn't turn up in a suit if she's a 'denim girl'."

Interesting. How do you determine if someone is a 'denim girl'?

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

A smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A season appropriate dress.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'd do some research on what they like - even if its a social meet.

E.g. I wouldn't turn up in a suit if she's a 'denim girl'.

Interesting. How do you determine if someone is a 'denim girl'? "

I just picked it as an example. We normally learn a few things (likes/dislikes) before we meet someone.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I'm usually rocking my safari suit!

Mike

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Anyone who meets me has known me for a while so it’ll usually be jeans and a vest. I don’t like to big up socials when it’s simply putting a face to a conversation.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Smart casual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok for roll play my work gear (clean or dirty depending on the role) and

Smart and casual for meets but not many layers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Summer dress, casual x

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Smart casual, jeans a shirt and smart trainers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A kilt with a string vest

I’m guessing you’re kidding about the string vest but would you ever go to a social in a kilt really? That would be immense

I like to wear dresses - I have day dresses that are casual but also a little provocative, I could dress them up or down with the shoes I chose and if I wear a jacket or not xx"

Of course! I have my own tartan

just saying. It's purple.....but it still counts!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a set outfit. Whatever the mood takes me on the day. Same as I would otherwise wear when going out anywhere. I don't dress specifically for meeting someone from fab.

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

Banana hammock and a Panama hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have a set outfit. Whatever the mood takes me on the day. Same as I would otherwise wear when going out anywhere. I don't dress specifically for meeting someone from fab."

You are wearing some hot shoes in your photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually just wear a casual dress

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"What do you like to wear when meeting a fabber for the first time for a social?

Do you go sexy? Casual? Smart?

I tend to wear a summer dress

Depends on time and location.

More often than not it would be casual, or smart casual.

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

"What do you like to wear when meeting a fabber for the first time for a social?

Do you go sexy? Casual? Smart?

I tend to wear a summer dress

No shoes or........."anything"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Summer dress and sandals during the day.

Night time usually skirt/top and heels or a different style of dress and heels.

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By *entlemanDMan
over a year ago

Fareham

Jeans, casual shirt, and a smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shirt and jeans

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Depends on location and time.

I’d always make an effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on the person you are meeting - and maybe, how devious you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it depends on the season(time of year), and what kind of date it is(restaurant, activity, or a stroll on the beach). What's important is that we both have a good time.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Smart casual and smelling gorgeous x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t really have specific clothes. Whatever I’d normally wear for daytime or a night out really. I tend to always look presentable when I leave the house. Unless it’s to the gym, probably not my most flattering look

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Cock ring and a smile "

Im thinking you get thrown out of a lot of pubs and cafes then

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield

It's great to read that lots of you ladies would wear dresses, sorry I like a girly girl, as to me and no doubt get slagged off for this but Polo top, jeans & trainers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work clothes or jeans and t shirt shorts on occasion

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