FabSwingers.com forum: The trouble with labels

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Googling random stuff on the internet last night, came across someone who had comments about sexuality.

These were:

Bicuriosity isn't real

If you're Hete

exible, you're really bi sexual.

If you like trans women, pre or post, you're really bi, despite trans women being designated as female

That's like saying if you've ever masturbated, you're not straight.

If you've ever watched trans porn you're not straight.

I have a verification by lav from empire who is ts/tv who i have chatted to. And i bet people think i'm really bicurious or fab straight.

I'm done with labels, just giving me diabetes now. I just want to go to empire and just watch some porn.

Sexually i'm not fussed either way, not really sexually attracted to anyone after recovering from disabling condition. So i have nothing to reference at all, call me what you want if it makes you happy. Ok rant done, let the positive energies flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you get them wet they fall off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ll find all sorts of rubbish on the internet to back up whatever you decide your view is going to be today.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I really wouldn't get wrapped up by it all. My attraction (Mr) is based on anatomy rather than gender. I'm not sexually attracted to people with male anatomy. I'd say straight based on my desire for the opposite sex rather than preferences on gender. For example I can be attracted to a non-binary person who's anatomy is female. What stops me from being truly pan sexual is that my preference on anatomy overrides everything. Maybe that makes me not straight in some people's eye's but that's not how I see it. I don't lose any sleep over labels, you like who you like.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Oh cool....not that I can have a label put on me and all that but I identify as a 6ft born female goddess lesbian millionaire and nobody can dispute it as it's fact

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Labels can be helpful if they are used in a helpful (i.e. non-judgmental) way.

They can be totally the opposite and discriminate if they are used in this way.

Labels are not the problem, the person who uses them in whatever way, can be/ often is the problem. Does that make sense?

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Oh cool....not that I can have a label put on me and all that but I identify as a 6ft born female goddess lesbian millionaire and nobody can dispute it as it's fact

Can I borrow a few hundred thousand

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"If you get them wet they fall off. "

Unless they're tk maxx ones. Those bastards stick for life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are what you are and you are who you are op and what you enjoy is of no concern of mine!!!!!!

Tony

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Labels can be helpful if they are used in a helpful (i.e. non-judgmental) way.

They can be totally the opposite and discriminate if they are used in this way.

Labels are not the problem, the person who uses them in whatever way, can be/ often is the problem. Does that make sense? "

This.

Labels are perfectly fine. They help define who we are, our place in the world, what we want, what we offer and what we believe in. They serve their purpose but anyone with half a brain knows you're more than just one thing.

But there are always going to be groups who use those labels against you and it's not just a sexuality thing. History's full of examples of this, be it religion, political affiliation, ethnicity etc etc etc etc.

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