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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you stand out more to get a meet on here? I have a very good profile and I message with relevant context. Am I just too ugly for the site? I have seen that a lot of people say no Asian guys (meaning brown I guess). Could that be it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You got to take this in a no offence way you work out how many guys are on this website compared to women unfortunately women on here have have the power

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You got to take this in a no offence way you work out how many guys are on this website compared to women unfortunately women on here have have the power "

Noone has the power when your heads in the correct place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chinese, Japanese & Koreans are Asians too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chinese, Japanese & Koreans are Asians too "

Asia is a big place

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You got to take this in a no offence way you work out how many guys are on this website compared to women unfortunately women on here have have the power "

Ohh yeah I know about the percentages. It just seems some guys do better than others is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You got to take this in a no offence way you work out how many guys are on this website compared to women unfortunately women on here have have the power

Ohh yeah I know about the percentages. It just seems some guys do better than others is all "

I'd not read into that

People pretend well op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're always going to find that one person who is always going to get the ladies sometimes it's the gift of the gab sometimes it's just the Way It Is is just don't let it bother you as much I've been on and off here for the last couple of years my first time on here was fantastic but it's just the Way It Is you just got to go with the groove

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"You got to take this in a no offence way you work out how many guys are on this website compared to women unfortunately women on here have have the power

Ohh yeah I know about the percentages. It just seems some guys do better than others is all "

The guys that do well either rely on their penis and 6 pack, or their personality on the forums.

Which one do you think you excel over the other 200,000 men on here?

Work on the forums, take your time and be patient.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're always going to find that one person who is always going to get the ladies sometimes it's the gift of the gab sometimes it's just the Way It Is is just don't let it bother you as much I've been on and off here for the last couple of years my first time on here was fantastic but it's just the Way It Is you just got to go with the groove "

Ohh yeah I get that. I've been on here a few times too and even have been to a social but I've not really had many meets. Just a couple at a hotel and a couple to watch the wife blow me. But that was in the space of around 2 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best thing to do is try and get your confidence up and go on look at the clubs around your area or hopefully when it comes back when they do have their FabSwingers meet ups they were cool back in the day and yes some ladies do go for guys with big penises or six packs I don't have either but I do get some that are interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The best thing to do is try and get your confidence up and go on look at the clubs around your area or hopefully when it comes back when they do have their FabSwingers meet ups they were cool back in the day and yes some ladies do go for guys with big penises or six packs I don't have either but I do get some that are interested "

Not sure then. Maybe it's cause I'm brown? Not calling anyone racist. Just saying that it says either no brown people or no Asians so maybe it's just white and black guys they want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys, I feel like I've stumbled upon a thread from Inbetweeners

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guys, I feel like I've stumbled upon a thread from Inbetweeners "

How so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys, I feel like I've stumbled upon a thread from Inbetweeners

How so? "

Vietnamese and Indonesians are Asians too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guys, I feel like I've stumbled upon a thread from Inbetweeners

How so?

Vietnamese and Indonesians are Asians too "

Ok... But in England an Asian person is considered Pakistani or Indian i.e. brown. Unless you're the politically correct kind of person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys, I feel like I've stumbled upon a thread from Inbetweeners

How so?

Vietnamese and Indonesians are Asians too

Ok... But in England an Asian person is considered Pakistani or Indian i.e. brown. Unless you're the politically correct kind of person "

When I get older I'm going to move to Scotland and produce quality beef

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By *heikh YerboutiMan
over a year ago

Schlongolia


"Guys, I feel like I've stumbled upon a thread from Inbetweeners

How so?

Vietnamese and Indonesians are Asians too

Ok... But in England an Asian person is considered Pakistani or Indian i.e. brown. Unless you're the politically correct kind of person "

Orientals…..yay or nay? We need clarification in order to address the question appropriately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys, I feel like I've stumbled upon a thread from Inbetweeners

How so?

Vietnamese and Indonesians are Asians too

Ok... But in England an Asian person is considered Pakistani or Indian i.e. brown. Unless you're the politically correct kind of person "

I’m from the same place as you. I agree, some people do see an Asian as those words. But not everyone. I.e. do you see me as a white Brit? We are all equal and different to everyone else. It’s important who the person is, not what labels others burned yourself or others with

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By *ilent PullMan
over a year ago

west mids

As someone suggested "take it no offense way" is a best policy.

Any way, I'm from Indian ethnicity, born and educated here, work in NHS. I ve been on this site for almost a year now, so you can say I joined just before the covid!

I managed to meet with 5 people including two couples. Played extensively as I myself am a heavy cummer, a repeater and at least an hour or so stamina...

So there is nothing wrong to be indian or not indian.

And yes! I have a class too, and I have been said "no" to an extent that I cannot even remember?

But hey, it is ok to be rejected, there must many that you d reject too...

Just take it easy, and try and keep trying.

Xxx

Sol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guys, I feel like I've stumbled upon a thread from Inbetweeners

How so?

Vietnamese and Indonesians are Asians too

Ok... But in England an Asian person is considered Pakistani or Indian i.e. brown. Unless you're the politically correct kind of person

I’m from the same place as you. I agree, some people do see an Asian as those words. But not everyone. I.e. do you see me as a white Brit? We are all equal and different to everyone else. It’s important who the person is, not what labels others burned yourself or others with "

Ohh yeah I'm fully with this. Like I'm 3/4 English and 1/4 Indian, brought up by an English family and I have always considered myself white British. People really do need to stop prejudging people than seeing them as an individual I stead of striking an entire population out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As someone suggested "take it no offense way" is a best policy.

Any way, I'm from Indian ethnicity, born and educated here, work in NHS. I ve been on this site for almost a year now, so you can say I joined just before the covid!

I managed to meet with 5 people including two couples. Played extensively as I myself am a heavy cummer, a repeater and at least an hour or so stamina...

So there is nothing wrong to be indian or not indian.

And yes! I have a class too, and I have been said "no" to an extent that I cannot even remember?

But hey, it is ok to be rejected, there must many that you d reject too...

Just take it easy, and try and keep trying.

Xxx

Sol"

With what you said, you are British by the fundamental term, born here etc, your heritage and parents background is your influence. Why feel it’s important to label yourself. You seem a good guy, that’s what I see, be the best you, not what others may judge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys, I feel like I've stumbled upon a thread from Inbetweeners

How so?

Vietnamese and Indonesians are Asians too

Ok... But in England an Asian person is considered Pakistani or Indian i.e. brown. Unless you're the politically correct kind of person

I’m from the same place as you. I agree, some people do see an Asian as those words. But not everyone. I.e. do you see me as a white Brit? We are all equal and different to everyone else. It’s important who the person is, not what labels others burned yourself or others with

Ohh yeah I'm fully with this. Like I'm 3/4 English and 1/4 Indian, brought up by an English family and I have always considered myself white British. People really do need to stop prejudging people than seeing them as an individual I stead of striking an entire population out "

You, my man, nailed it. Respect

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As someone suggested "take it no offense way" is a best policy.

Any way, I'm from Indian ethnicity, born and educated here, work in NHS. I ve been on this site for almost a year now, so you can say I joined just before the covid!

I managed to meet with 5 people including two couples. Played extensively as I myself am a heavy cummer, a repeater and at least an hour or so stamina...

So there is nothing wrong to be indian or not indian.

And yes! I have a class too, and I have been said "no" to an extent that I cannot even remember?

But hey, it is ok to be rejected, there must many that you d reject too...

Just take it easy, and try and keep trying.

Xxx

Sol"

Ohh no. I don't take it to heart. Rejection is a part of life either it be a job or a girl. It's all the same. Was just wondering if I was doing something wrong is all as I only happen to get guys message me (it says I'm straight and I don't do guy on guy on my profile too ) I've messaged plenty of couples and females but nothing really in return.

Seems like you've got the site working for you as a single guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust me it’s hard to give sex away, who would of thought it

Lots of time wasters

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By *ilent PullMan
over a year ago

west mids

For a single guy! Yes it is difficult. I'm glad that you dont take a "no" to your heart.

And tell you what!

Nothing is wrong with your profile! You might draw more interest if you could accommodate! (Just a suggestion).

As someone suggested, it is hard to get sex esp when there is awful lot of single guys to pick and choose from!

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you stand out more to get a meet on here? I have a very good profile and I message with relevant context. Am I just too ugly for the site? I have seen that a lot of people say no Asian guys (meaning brown I guess). Could that be it?"

sorry but i wouldnt say you have a very good profile tbh, you didnt ask for help on this, so cant really coment further, as for the asian thing, everyone has thier preferance as to who they meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as to your reason you cant meet, well you are abit old to be at uni, so it would screamm married etc to us, not saying what you say is not true, it does shout out at us, and if we are ever in an dought then we just move on, dont forget single men are massivly the largest group on here, so plenty of choice, so anything that doesnt seeme to ring true, well then we just move on to another, plenty of choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as to your reason you cant meet, well you are abit old to be at uni, so it would screamm married etc to us, not saying what you say is not true, it does shout out at us, and if we are ever in an dought then we just move on, dont forget single men are massivly the largest group on here, so plenty of choice, so anything that doesnt seeme to ring true, well then we just move on to another, plenty of choice"

What what what!?

Bit old for uni!

I started my first degree at 27, and I was single. not everyone follows the prescribed linear route to university.

26 isn't even old, it's more in line with actual brain development!

I have a set of 26 year old sons one is still at home the other has just bought a house and moves out this weekend.

They aren't married. This is now the norm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as to your reason you cant meet, well you are abit old to be at uni, so it would screamm married etc to us, not saying what you say is not true, it does shout out at us, and if we are ever in an dought then we just move on, dont forget single men are massivly the largest group on here, so plenty of choice, so anything that doesnt seeme to ring true, well then we just move on to another, plenty of choice

What what what!?

Bit old for uni!

I started my first degree at 27, and I was single. not everyone follows the prescribed linear route to university.

26 isn't even old, it's more in line with actual brain development!

I have a set of 26 year old sons one is still at home the other has just bought a house and moves out this weekend.

They aren't married. This is now the norm."

while i agree with what you say, if we see a profile that gives us any dought, then we move on, like i said plenty of choice on here for single men so why would we take the risk of him not being totaly honest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as to your reason you cant meet, well you are abit old to be at uni, so it would screamm married etc to us, not saying what you say is not true, it does shout out at us, and if we are ever in an dought then we just move on, dont forget single men are massivly the largest group on here, so plenty of choice, so anything that doesnt seeme to ring true, well then we just move on to another, plenty of choice

What what what!?

Bit old for uni!

I started my first degree at 27, and I was single. not everyone follows the prescribed linear route to university.

26 isn't even old, it's more in line with actual brain development!

I have a set of 26 year old sons one is still at home the other has just bought a house and moves out this weekend.

They aren't married. This is now the norm.

while i agree with what you say, if we see a profile that gives us any dought, then we move on, like i said plenty of choice on here for single men so why would we take the risk of him not being totaly honest? "

For sure. Totally agree. I'm just challenging the uni comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as to your reason you cant meet, well you are abit old to be at uni, so it would screamm married etc to us, not saying what you say is not true, it does shout out at us, and if we are ever in an dought then we just move on, dont forget single men are massivly the largest group on here, so plenty of choice, so anything that doesnt seeme to ring true, well then we just move on to another, plenty of choice

What what what!?

Bit old for uni!

I started my first degree at 27, and I was single. not everyone follows the prescribed linear route to university.

26 isn't even old, it's more in line with actual brain development!

I have a set of 26 year old sons one is still at home the other has just bought a house and moves out this weekend.

They aren't married. This is now the norm.

while i agree with what you say, if we see a profile that gives us any dought, then we move on, like i said plenty of choice on here for single men so why would we take the risk of him not being totaly honest?

For sure. Totally agree. I'm just challenging the uni comment "

You ol devil's advocate you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as to your reason you cant meet, well you are abit old to be at uni, so it would screamm married etc to us, not saying what you say is not true, it does shout out at us, and if we are ever in an dought then we just move on, dont forget single men are massivly the largest group on here, so plenty of choice, so anything that doesnt seeme to ring true, well then we just move on to another, plenty of choice

What what what!?

Bit old for uni!

I started my first degree at 27, and I was single. not everyone follows the prescribed linear route to university.

26 isn't even old, it's more in line with actual brain development!

I have a set of 26 year old sons one is still at home the other has just bought a house and moves out this weekend.

They aren't married. This is now the norm.

while i agree with what you say, if we see a profile that gives us any dought, then we move on, like i said plenty of choice on here for single men so why would we take the risk of him not being totaly honest?

For sure. Totally agree. I'm just challenging the uni comment "

ok and understand that, and while it may be true, it is unusual, i didnt get my first degree until late twenties also, but i also had a job and my own house, also understand how hard it is for todays young to afford a place on thier own, but as i said, if we arent sure then we will move on,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as to your reason you cant meet, well you are abit old to be at uni, so it would screamm married etc to us, not saying what you say is not true, it does shout out at us, and if we are ever in an dought then we just move on, dont forget single men are massivly the largest group on here, so plenty of choice, so anything that doesnt seeme to ring true, well then we just move on to another, plenty of choice

What what what!?

Bit old for uni!

I started my first degree at 27, and I was single. not everyone follows the prescribed linear route to university.

26 isn't even old, it's more in line with actual brain development!

I have a set of 26 year old sons one is still at home the other has just bought a house and moves out this weekend.

They aren't married. This is now the norm.

while i agree with what you say, if we see a profile that gives us any dought, then we move on, like i said plenty of choice on here for single men so why would we take the risk of him not being totaly honest?

For sure. Totally agree. I'm just challenging the uni comment

You ol devil's advocate you!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as to your reason you cant meet, well you are abit old to be at uni, so it would screamm married etc to us, not saying what you say is not true, it does shout out at us, and if we are ever in an dought then we just move on, dont forget single men are massivly the largest group on here, so plenty of choice, so anything that doesnt seeme to ring true, well then we just move on to another, plenty of choice

What what what!?

Bit old for uni!

I started my first degree at 27, and I was single. not everyone follows the prescribed linear route to university.

26 isn't even old, it's more in line with actual brain development!

I have a set of 26 year old sons one is still at home the other has just bought a house and moves out this weekend.

They aren't married. This is now the norm.

while i agree with what you say, if we see a profile that gives us any dought, then we move on, like i said plenty of choice on here for single men so why would we take the risk of him not being totaly honest?

For sure. Totally agree. I'm just challenging the uni comment

You ol devil's advocate you! "

What did you get a degree in? And how many do you have? You said first degree like you have more then on smartie pants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as to your reason you cant meet, well you are abit old to be at uni, so it would screamm married etc to us, not saying what you say is not true, it does shout out at us, and if we are ever in an dought then we just move on, dont forget single men are massivly the largest group on here, so plenty of choice, so anything that doesnt seeme to ring true, well then we just move on to another, plenty of choice

What what what!?

Bit old for uni!

I started my first degree at 27, and I was single. not everyone follows the prescribed linear route to university.

26 isn't even old, it's more in line with actual brain development!

I have a set of 26 year old sons one is still at home the other has just bought a house and moves out this weekend.

They aren't married. This is now the norm.

while i agree with what you say, if we see a profile that gives us any dought, then we move on, like i said plenty of choice on here for single men so why would we take the risk of him not being totaly honest?

For sure. Totally agree. I'm just challenging the uni comment

You ol devil's advocate you!

What did you get a degree in? And how many do you have? You said first degree like you have more then on smartie pants. "

yes more than one and a doctorate, obviouslt not in english as you can tell by my spelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as to your reason you cant meet, well you are abit old to be at uni, so it would screamm married etc to us, not saying what you say is not true, it does shout out at us, and if we are ever in an dought then we just move on, dont forget single men are massivly the largest group on here, so plenty of choice, so anything that doesnt seeme to ring true, well then we just move on to another, plenty of choice

What what what!?

Bit old for uni!

I started my first degree at 27, and I was single. not everyone follows the prescribed linear route to university.

26 isn't even old, it's more in line with actual brain development!

I have a set of 26 year old sons one is still at home the other has just bought a house and moves out this weekend.

They aren't married. This is now the norm."

Started my 2nd degree at 40!! Have a 28 year old unmarried son too ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as to your reason you cant meet, well you are abit old to be at uni, so it would screamm married etc to us, not saying what you say is not true, it does shout out at us, and if we are ever in an dought then we just move on, dont forget single men are massivly the largest group on here, so plenty of choice, so anything that doesnt seeme to ring true, well then we just move on to another, plenty of choice

What what what!?

Bit old for uni!

I started my first degree at 27, and I was single. not everyone follows the prescribed linear route to university.

26 isn't even old, it's more in line with actual brain development!

I have a set of 26 year old sons one is still at home the other has just bought a house and moves out this weekend.

They aren't married. This is now the norm.

Started my 2nd degree at 40!! Have a 28 year old unmarried son too ... "

I was about that age on my second, I often think about another one too

But I'm Autodidactic so I'm always on the learn haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok got the uni point now, my point was that if we read a profile and find something we dont like, for what ever reason we will just move on, as is our right to, we owe nowbody on here anything. the same way if someone doesnt like something about us and moves on, well thts fine with us, and like i said, men on here are plentiful so we tend to go for people who match our wants, is that selfish, probably, but thats our choice, we arent here to shag everybody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As someone suggested "take it no offense way" is a best policy.

Any way, I'm from Indian ethnicity, born and educated here, work in NHS. I ve been on this site for almost a year now, so you can say I joined just before the covid!

I managed to meet with 5 people including two couples. Played extensively as I myself am a heavy cummer, a repeater and at least an hour or so stamina...

So there is nothing wrong to be indian or not indian.

And yes! I have a class too, and I have been said "no" to an extent that I cannot even remember?

But hey, it is ok to be rejected, there must many that you d reject too...

Just take it easy, and try and keep trying.

Xxx

Sol

Ohh no. I don't take it to heart. Rejection is a part of life either it be a job or a girl. It's all the same. Was just wondering if I was doing something wrong is all as I only happen to get guys message me (it says I'm straight and I don't do guy on guy on my profile too ) I've messaged plenty of couples and females but nothing really in return.

Seems like you've got the site working for you as a single guy. "

You do know that you can stop single men from messaging you with the appropriate filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as to your reason you cant meet, well you are abit old to be at uni, so it would screamm married etc to us, not saying what you say is not true, it does shout out at us, and if we are ever in an dought then we just move on, dont forget single men are massivly the largest group on here, so plenty of choice, so anything that doesnt seeme to ring true, well then we just move on to another, plenty of choice

What what what!?

Bit old for uni!

I started my first degree at 27, and I was single. not everyone follows the prescribed linear route to university.

26 isn't even old, it's more in line with actual brain development!

I have a set of 26 year old sons one is still at home the other has just bought a house and moves out this weekend.

They aren't married. This is now the norm.

Started my 2nd degree at 40!! Have a 28 year old unmarried son too ...

I was about that age on my second, I often think about another one too

But I'm Autodidactic so I'm always on the learn haha!"

Me too! And am also considering another one ... I just love learning

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

You've been on for four months during a global pandemic. Men here struggle anyway.

Your assessment of how good your profile is is not necessarily shared by a woman reading it. It is also possible women don't like the messages you send.

Being ugly is not the only explanation of why you are not having the success you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as to your reason you cant meet, well you are abit old to be at uni, so it would screamm married etc to us, not saying what you say is not true, it does shout out at us, and if we are ever in an dought then we just move on, dont forget single men are massivly the largest group on here, so plenty of choice, so anything that doesnt seeme to ring true, well then we just move on to another, plenty of choice

What what what!?

Bit old for uni!

I started my first degree at 27, and I was single. not everyone follows the prescribed linear route to university.

26 isn't even old, it's more in line with actual brain development!

I have a set of 26 year old sons one is still at home the other has just bought a house and moves out this weekend.

They aren't married. This is now the norm.

Started my 2nd degree at 40!! Have a 28 year old unmarried son too ...

I was about that age on my second, I often think about another one too

But I'm Autodidactic so I'm always on the learn haha!

Me too! And am also considering another one ... I just love learning "

I have to be interested in something otherwise I'm switched off lol

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I hadn't even noticed the any "brown"

I peeped to see the "very good profile"

I'm still looking for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums are a dead route.... you only get nutters

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Forums are a dead route.... you only get nutters "

True story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums are a dead route.... you only get nutters

True story"

But i love them all x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Forums are a dead route.... you only get nutters

True story

But i love them all x"

That's because you're a hussy

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Forums are a dead route.... you only get nutters

True story"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums are a dead route.... you only get nutters "

Yea full of crazy quirky creative people. Some of them are even funny and entertained,worse still are the ones that show emotional intelligence and have insight in themselves and society. Yech! Stay away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forums are a dead route.... you only get nutters

Yea full of crazy quirky creative people. Some of them are even funny and entertained,worse still are the ones that show emotional intelligence and have insight in themselves and society. Yech! Stay away! "

*entertaining

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I know it’s cliche , but you really need to be yourself and not be concerned about being liked, popular etc . Problem is many actually need to work on themselves first, probably for a decade or two, there’s a minority of women go for insecure men and there’s hundreds here all lined up to choose from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it’s cliche , but you really need to be yourself and not be concerned about being liked, popular etc . Problem is many actually need to work on themselves first, probably for a decade or two, there’s a minority of women go for insecure men and there’s hundreds here all lined up to choose from"

Good observation lad

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Could be ... We all have preferences.

You're also still quite young.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"as to your reason you cant meet, well you are abit old to be at uni, so it would screamm married etc to us, not saying what you say is not true, it does shout out at us, and if we are ever in an dought then we just move on, dont forget single men are massivly the largest group on here, so plenty of choice, so anything that doesnt seeme to ring true, well then we just move on to another, plenty of choice"

Yeah I know I'm a bit old for uni, I've had issues that have caused me to fall behind. But it is true. I'm not attached either. Do people really think that if someone can't accommodate they're cheating or something?

What would you say is wrong with my profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ok got the uni point now, my point was that if we read a profile and find something we dont like, for what ever reason we will just move on, as is our right to, we owe nowbody on here anything. the same way if someone doesnt like something about us and moves on, well thts fine with us, and like i said, men on here are plentiful so we tend to go for people who match our wants, is that selfish, probably, but thats our choice, we arent here to shag everybody "

I wouldn't call that selfish. That is 100% fine. I am the same as it says on my profile. Everyone has a preference but the reasoning for not trusting that a 26yo isn't at uni and doesn't live at home is a bit silly if you ask me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've been on for four months during a global pandemic. Men here struggle anyway.

Your assessment of how good your profile is is not necessarily shared by a woman reading it. It is also possible women don't like the messages you send.

Being ugly is not the only explanation of why you are not having the success you want. "

What would you say is wrong with it?

I don't send the one liner messages or anything like that. Like I actually try. Yes they may not be in to me and that is fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know it’s cliche , but you really need to be yourself and not be concerned about being liked, popular etc . Problem is many actually need to work on themselves first, probably for a decade or two, there’s a minority of women go for insecure men and there’s hundreds here all lined up to choose from"

You're calling me insecure? Is that how my profile reads?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could be ... We all have preferences.

You're also still quite young."

26 is a popular age on here from what I can see. Plus there are many other women 20-30 so I wouldn't really say that I'm too young to be on here.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"as to your reason you cant meet, well you are abit old to be at uni, so it would screamm married etc to us, not saying what you say is not true, it does shout out at us, and if we are ever in an dought then we just move on, dont forget single men are massivly the largest group on here, so plenty of choice, so anything that doesnt seeme to ring true, well then we just move on to another, plenty of choice

Yeah I know I'm a bit old for uni, I've had issues that have caused me to fall behind. But it is true. I'm not attached either. Do people really think that if someone can't accommodate they're cheating or something?

What would you say is wrong with my profile?"

I start a Masters degree in September, so if you're a bit old for uni, I'm ancient

Your text is rather cliché and the last paragraph is

Your photos are bland.

However, it's not a bad profile.

It is hard to connect on here, and I would also recommend clubs and socials. Hang around the forum too, so people get to know you.

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By *ugRollersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We’ve recently opened messages to blokes and so far it’s been a poor show. There have been a couple who stand out ... mainly those who don’t look like they’ve just copied and pasted the same message over and also have a bit of bantz about them x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"as to your reason you cant meet, well you are abit old to be at uni, so it would screamm married etc to us, not saying what you say is not true, it does shout out at us, and if we are ever in an dought then we just move on, dont forget single men are massivly the largest group on here, so plenty of choice, so anything that doesnt seeme to ring true, well then we just move on to another, plenty of choice

Yeah I know I'm a bit old for uni, I've had issues that have caused me to fall behind. But it is true. I'm not attached either. Do people really think that if someone can't accommodate they're cheating or something?

What would you say is wrong with my profile?

I start a Masters degree in September, so if you're a bit old for uni, I'm ancient

Your text is rather cliché and the last paragraph is

Your photos are bland.

However, it's not a bad profile.

It is hard to connect on here, and I would also recommend clubs and socials. Hang around the forum too, so people get to know you."

Cliche? What makes it that? I thought that the text put me across good. Detailed and there to show what I'm in to and a bit about me.

Yeah. I've never been the best at taking pictures so that is probably why you'd think that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We’ve recently opened messages to blokes and so far it’s been a poor show. There have been a couple who stand out ... mainly those who don’t look like they’ve just copied and pasted the same message over and also have a bit of bantz about them x"

I've heard that guys on here have next to no clue on how to actually talk to a lass. What would you say makes someone stand out?

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