FabSwingers.com forum: Unopened messages

By *ub cd OP TV/TS
over a year ago

leicester

Why do some guys not even open messages I send . They sit there for days , even though they have been online . Why don’t they just say there not interested or block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The postman still has them in the bottom of his bag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they don’t have to reply or open your message if they don’t want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can lead a horse to the water but you can't make it drink it op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they are genuinely straight

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By *ub cd OP TV/TS
over a year ago

leicester

I know they don’t , your missing the point . I just find it strange they don’t open the message or just delete it , even better block me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know they don’t , your missing the point . I just find it strange they don’t open the message or just delete it , even better block me "

I wouldn't read too much into it

Waste of energy I think op

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I have my inbox time. And my forums time. Sometimes they don't mix.

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

If I get a message that I can totally read without opening it I personally don't bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes my head is not in a space for inboxing, other than usual reasons, probably already mentioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have my inbox time. And my forums time. Sometimes they don't mix. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I get a message that I can totally read without opening it I personally don't bother

Snap!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

It’s not just men! When I see ‘bulk deleted’ status updates to me it just tells me that person is incredibly arrogant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens a lot and i guess we have to put up with it, hate to be so blunt but women are the worst for it because they are inundated with messages. But it is ignorance, it takes 3 secs to type not interested, but even that is a chore. Weve become more lazy as the years and things become easier to do by the press of a button. To think we used to get out of the chair walk to TV to change the channel or volume, ohhhh heaven forbid !!!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Why should i respond to lazy one sentence messages? I got just an x the other day. Craft me a good message and i will always respond but nice tits won't cut it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And your point is.....?

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Sometimes if I am going to reply but don't have time I will leave it unread until later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes my head is not in a space for inboxing, other than usual reasons, probably already mentioned. "

Same here. People may not want to engage at that time. Although, I always reply to my messages even if it's a polite sorry not interested message back to them. But I only do it when I'm ready to respond.

Different strokes for different folk as they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why should i respond to lazy one sentence messages? I got just an x the other day. Craft me a good message and i will always respond but nice tits won't cut it. "

Hahaha thats fair i hate lazy replies or messages. But otherwise it is ignorance.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"I know they don’t , your missing the point . I just find it strange they don’t open the message or just delete it , even better block me "

They will read then unread, keep them so it makes them look popular for having loads of unread messages!

More a reflection on them than you op

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

[Removed by poster at 02/07/21 07:42:07]

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I block guys if they messaged me 3 times with the same message. I don't have the time or energy to block everyone who messages me in the first instance. I just delete any I don't like their name, location, profile pic or how their message starts.

yup I'm fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And your point is.....?"

The OP was asking a question, not making a point.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I know they don’t , your missing the point . I just find it strange they don’t open the message or just delete it , even better block me "

If it bothers you, maybe delete from your sent box and then block them yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don’t open every letter that’s posted through your letterbox OP do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And your point is.....?

The OP was asking a question, not making a point."

The poster wasn't asking you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know they don’t , your missing the point . I just find it strange they don’t open the message or just delete it , even better block me "

I’m not missing the point. They don’t want to open the message so they don’t have too. You think it’s strange and they don’t.

I don’t waste my time opening every single message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know they don’t , your missing the point . I just find it strange they don’t open the message or just delete it , even better block me

I’m not missing the point. They don’t want to open the message so they don’t have too. You think it’s strange and they don’t.

I don’t waste my time opening every single message. "

^this 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ITS OBVIOUS......

Men like to see a message waiting when they log on....

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