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By *issAphrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

I prefer local as I like to build rapport and have something semi (snigger) regular, plus I don't drive. But Jesus wept there are slim pickings here in Norfolk.

If you fancied someone quite some distance away, would you travel for the sole purpose of meeting them, social or otherwise, or is it just not worth the effort?

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By *sagain2017Couple
over a year ago

3timeround

We would keep it a secret hahaha ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably not something I'd do

But I'm not averse to an occasional adventure when I have more time on my hands

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've done over 250 miles each way before. Distance is no object to me, especially if that person is worth it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,for us,not worth the effort.

We would meet up with others we have chatted to,on holiday,but we would be going on holiday anyway,not specifically to meet a person

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We live in a one horse town would never consider meeting a local would make to papers here.. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to meet locally

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By *ourNextAddictionMan
over a year ago

Somerset

For me, I’d travel if asked to & build a rapport - I travel with my job occasionally anyway. So travel isn’t a big issue.

But for convenience sake, preferably within 10Miles. But if a connection was built then I’d happily travel

Sex without connection is just a posh wank

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Up to an hour I would. I have travelled longer but that was for whole weekends.

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I think when someone ticks all your boxes and they’re on the same path as you and wanting the same things then yes…I would travel.

Sometimes people closer to you don’t fit what you’re looking for, going further out can be very much worthwhile.

It wouldn’t be for one offs and so on.

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By *issAphrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"I've done over 250 miles each way before. Distance is no object to me, especially if that person is worth it x"

I've had people say that distance is no object. Personally, I would feel a little pressure if someone has made all that effort to meet me. Like I'd better be the most sparkling and hilarious version of myself so they don't home thinking what a waste of their time and petrol money!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Yes.

I have done before and would do again.

Attraction isn’t relative to location and convenience really is a poor basis for connections.

It’s the person that I’m meeting that is the important factor, distance is just logistics

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

My range is about max 200 miles 3 hours ish from home, generally if anyone is above that they will come down to a middleish ground

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

It’s all very well for people with no other commitments though. I simply can’t do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My spare time is sparce so I like to make the most of it...I would travel 3hrs on the train even for a social...I like visiting places...but the social wouldn't be with a random person, it would be someone I've spoken to for a while x

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I've done over 250 miles each way before. Distance is no object to me, especially if that person is worth it x

I've had people say that distance is no object. Personally, I would feel a little pressure if someone has made all that effort to meet me. Like I'd better be the most sparkling and hilarious version of myself so they don't home thinking what a waste of their time and petrol money!"

All you can do is really just be yourself. Regardless of whether they think it’s a waste or not. It’s why I take a very long time in getting to know someone, on and off the site.

Meeting withers seals the way you feel or it doesn’t.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I've done over 250 miles each way before. Distance is no object to me, especially if that person is worth it x

I've had people say that distance is no object. Personally, I would feel a little pressure if someone has made all that effort to meet me. Like I'd better be the most sparkling and hilarious version of myself so they don't home thinking what a waste of their time and petrol money!"

I don’t really understand it when people say that distance travelled adds pressure. If you’re thinking that they might think that, then either that’s coming from them in which case they’re an ass or you’re adding that pressure yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've done over 250 miles each way before. Distance is no object to me, especially if that person is worth it x"

Wow do tell!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"It’s all very well for people with no other commitments though. I simply can’t do it. "

I have lots of commitments, I’ve done it before

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By *issAphrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Yes.

I have done before and would do again.

Attraction isn’t relative to location and convenience really is a poor basis for connections.

It’s the person that I’m meeting that is the important factor, distance is just logistics"

"Just logistics" is quite simplistic. Women im particular generally have more caring responsibilities then men, so what for some is just jumping into a car, for others it could involve arranging childcare, let's being fed, transportation to after school activities and all sorts of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a problem, I like driving.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"It’s all very well for people with no other commitments though. I simply can’t do it.

I have lots of commitments, I’ve done it before"

Im happy for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was seeing a woman in London and it was lovely but I hated driving up and down the motorway 2-3 times a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 miles is what Im willing to drive. Unless they are a unicorn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes train tickets are cheap and so are hotels

For instance Newcastle from here on train a hour Manchester 2 hours 30 London can be done in 7 hours

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I've done over 250 miles each way before. Distance is no object to me, especially if that person is worth it x

I've had people say that distance is no object. Personally, I would feel a little pressure if someone has made all that effort to meet me. Like I'd better be the most sparkling and hilarious version of myself so they don't home thinking what a waste of their time and petrol money!"

Touch wood...no-one has been disppaointrd so far. The one I'm meeting now is just over 100 miles each way so we usually we make a weekend of it x

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"It’s all very well for people with no other commitments though. I simply can’t do it.

I have lots of commitments, I’ve done it before"

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That reads quite bluntly.

It’s a matter of how high you prioritise meeting that person, if you can’t wrangle a day past your other commitments or things that you want to do away from fab, then I’d probably say it’s not worth meeting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I drove 200 mile round journey last week - he did 300 miles round journey, so we didn't quite meet in the middle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the early days of the internet I used to do travel all over the country meeting people. Sometimes if it went really well I’d end up moving to where they are, like when I upped sticks from Torquay to Sheffield. Shame it only lasted six months but was an adventure.

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

If we’re travelling and planned out a whole day trip or weekend away then yeah we’d meet for a social but we’d also prefer local for more regularly FWB types

Bx

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've traveled about 200 miles each way for meets before, but not a first meet.

Happy to do it if there's already a good connection there.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No unless i fancied a weekend away somewhere like in say Manchester.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Distance has never been a problem for me, it can take some organising because of commitments but I love a good adventure.

I’ve done a 450 mile round trip before and currently I’m back and forth to Sheffield

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Yes.

I have done before and would do again.

Attraction isn’t relative to location and convenience really is a poor basis for connections.

It’s the person that I’m meeting that is the important factor, distance is just logistics

"Just logistics" is quite simplistic. Women im particular generally have more caring responsibilities then men, so what for some is just jumping into a car, for others it could involve arranging childcare, let's being fed, transportation to after school activities and all sorts of things."

In the nicest possible way, that’s quite assumptive.

If I made plans in the past it could be weeks or months in advance for much the same reason. It’s all a matter of how much I wanted to meet.

In my experience though, the expectation is on the guy to do the hard yards of the travelling, commitments or not

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"It’s all very well for people with no other commitments though. I simply can’t do it.

I have lots of commitments, I’ve done it before

Oops! Pressed send too soon!

That reads quite bluntly.

It’s a matter of how high you prioritise meeting that person, if you can’t wrangle a day past your other commitments or things that you want to do away from fab, then I’d probably say it’s not worth meeting them "

No it’s not. I disagree. I simply can’t, no matter how much I like them. For a one off maybe but I don’t do one offs. Anything more regular isn’t possible. It’s not a sympathy thing and good on the people who can but for me it’s not a case of being able to just wrangle a day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One hour's drive to me is a good distance away, anymore than that and I really can't be arsed to be honest.

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By *ohnywrongunMan
over a year ago

Epping


"I prefer local as I like to build rapport and have something semi (snigger) regular, plus I don't drive. But Jesus wept there are slim pickings here in Norfolk.

If you fancied someone quite some distance away, would you travel for the sole purpose of meeting them, social or otherwise, or is it just not worth the effort?"
norfolk you say ,

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I've travelled a long way before but that was for a few days visit..

For one off meets probably no more than half hour journey

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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When I was meeting, it really was more about the person than the distance...but I'm lucky enough to be in a position where I can get away easily for weekends/overnights, and I love visiting new places.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes train tickets are cheap and so are hotels

For instance Newcastle from here on train a hour Manchester 2 hours 30 London can be done in 7 hours

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Suppose it depends what you class as cheap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One hour's drive to me is a good distance away, anymore than that and I really can't be arsed to be honest. "

So let's say that you live in London basically you will not go anywhere past the M25 lol

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By *ust_FlynnMan
over a year ago

St Neots

Absolutely, we turn a long distance meet into a fun weekend away.

Always on the look out for people in places we want to visit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you both like what's being said and that connection is there and obviously you both have that attraction I would travel for the right girl.

I think it could even add to that anticipation and excitement of meeting that person.

And you could even meet halfway?????

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"It’s all very well for people with no other commitments though. I simply can’t do it.

I have lots of commitments, I’ve done it before

Oops! Pressed send too soon!

That reads quite bluntly.

It’s a matter of how high you prioritise meeting that person, if you can’t wrangle a day past your other commitments or things that you want to do away from fab, then I’d probably say it’s not worth meeting them

No it’s not. I disagree. I simply can’t, no matter how much I like them. For a one off maybe but I don’t do one offs. Anything more regular isn’t possible. It’s not a sympathy thing and good on the people who can but for me it’s not a case of being able to just wrangle a day x"

We are coming from different perspectives as I wouldn’t want a regular thing. I was thinking exclusively about one off social meets

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I would happily travel over 200miles each way for a meet.

The anticipation on the drive up is great.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"It’s all very well for people with no other commitments though. I simply can’t do it.

I have lots of commitments, I’ve done it before

Oops! Pressed send too soon!

That reads quite bluntly.

It’s a matter of how high you prioritise meeting that person, if you can’t wrangle a day past your other commitments or things that you want to do away from fab, then I’d probably say it’s not worth meeting them

No it’s not. I disagree. I simply can’t, no matter how much I like them. For a one off maybe but I don’t do one offs. Anything more regular isn’t possible. It’s not a sympathy thing and good on the people who can but for me it’s not a case of being able to just wrangle a day x

We are coming from different perspectives as I wouldn’t want a regular thing. I was thinking exclusively about one off social meets"

Ah ok fair enough.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Rarely if ever.

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By *issAphrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Yes.

I have done before and would do again.

Attraction isn’t relative to location and convenience really is a poor basis for connections.

It’s the person that I’m meeting that is the important factor, distance is just logistics

"Just logistics" is quite simplistic. Women im particular generally have more caring responsibilities then men, so what for some is just jumping into a car, for others it could involve arranging childcare, let's being fed, transportation to after school activities and all sorts of things.

In the nicest possible way, that’s quite assumptive.

If I made plans in the past it could be weeks or months in advance for much the same reason. It’s all a matter of how much I wanted to meet.

In my experience though, the expectation is on the guy to do the hard yards of the travelling, commitments or not"

Rightly or wrongly, I think there generally are more expectations on men to put the work in, however, women ARE more likely to be full time single parents, have relatives to care for and have inflexible jobs. It's not simply a case of prioritising meeting people but simply not being able to piece together all the components that can make it possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would prefer we were neighbours.. I like regular fun so traveling hours n hours is not what I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One hour's drive to me is a good distance away, anymore than that and I really can't be arsed to be honest.

So let's say that you live in London basically you will not go anywhere past the M25 lol"

I hate motorways with a passion and find them scary so I will find and use alternative routes to avoid them as often as I can.

Im a confident driver as well I just hate motorways ha ha

I also live in Milton Keynes so an hour away from here in every direction possible, actually gets me to some good locations

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes have done so in the past and will do so again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes train tickets are cheap and so are hotels

For instance Newcastle from here on train a hour Manchester 2 hours 30 London can be done in 7 hours

Suppose it depends what you class as cheap

"

£22 to Newcastle return £70 to Manchester and London £140 but mind you that was back pre pandemic not checked because off it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One hour's drive to me is a good distance away, anymore than that and I really can't be arsed to be honest.

So let's say that you live in London basically you will not go anywhere past the M25 lol

I hate motorways with a passion and find them scary so I will find and use alternative routes to avoid them as often as I can.

Im a confident driver as well I just hate motorways ha ha

I also live in Milton Keynes so an hour away from here in every direction possible, actually gets me to some good locations

"

MK here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely travel for the right person, it’s part of the adventure, travelling there and watching miles tick down, exploring new places, eating out and cool bars. But it’s definitely a weekend date and not a meet!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs


"Yes.

I have done before and would do again.

Attraction isn’t relative to location and convenience really is a poor basis for connections.

It’s the person that I’m meeting that is the important factor, distance is just logistics

"Just logistics" is quite simplistic. Women im particular generally have more caring responsibilities then men, so what for some is just jumping into a car, for others it could involve arranging childcare, let's being fed, transportation to after school activities and all sorts of things."

This is why a long distance meet can be months away in the planning stage, child and petcare come first before playtime can be planned, I don’t want to be away worried about what's happening at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll travel any distance for an overnight or weekend stay. For a social I'd travel up to 2 hours of driving. I like the occasional adventure.

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By *ralwizardMan
over a year ago

Thornaby

Yea if everything checked out and good chemistry, all adds to the experience!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes train tickets are cheap and so are hotels

For instance Newcastle from here on train a hour Manchester 2 hours 30 London can be done in 7 hours

Suppose it depends what you class as cheap

£22 to Newcastle return £70 to Manchester and London £140 but mind you that was back pre pandemic not checked because off it "

Prices for hotels go up at the weekend - maybe double the price.

So it depends upon how much anyone is earning. In my mind it's definitely not cheap!

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Bodmin

I live in a holiday hot spot so am able to meet locally those down here on holiday without me driving for hours to meet them much more relaxing all round u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I drove 3 hours (one way) to see someone from fab for a few hours and then drove back.

If the pull to see the person is there then I'll do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer locals as you can go to Tesco together for your weekly shopping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One hour's drive to me is a good distance away, anymore than that and I really can't be arsed to be honest.

So let's say that you live in London basically you will not go anywhere past the M25 lol

I hate motorways with a passion and find them scary so I will find and use alternative routes to avoid them as often as I can.

Im a confident driver as well I just hate motorways ha ha

I also live in Milton Keynes so an hour away from here in every direction possible, actually gets me to some good locations

MK here too "

Yes I did notice ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes train tickets are cheap and so are hotels

For instance Newcastle from here on train a hour Manchester 2 hours 30 London can be done in 7 hours

Suppose it depends what you class as cheap

£22 to Newcastle return £70 to Manchester and London £140 but mind you that was back pre pandemic not checked because off it

Prices for hotels go up at the weekend - maybe double the price.

So it depends upon how much anyone is earning. In my mind it's definitely not cheap!"

That’s true really all just depends on the time off the year find end off the month is cheaper than the rest and stay away from holiday time

Some times I forget that I live it bubble world very discnected from normal world stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One hour's drive to me is a good distance away, anymore than that and I really can't be arsed to be honest.

So let's say that you live in London basically you will not go anywhere past the M25 lol

I hate motorways with a passion and find them scary so I will find and use alternative routes to avoid them as often as I can.

Im a confident driver as well I just hate motorways ha ha

I also live in Milton Keynes so an hour away from here in every direction possible, actually gets me to some good locations

MK here too

Yes I did notice ha ha "

Wanna go to Tesco together?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I definitely travel for the right person, it’s part of the adventure, travelling there and watching miles tick down, exploring new places, eating out and cool bars. But it’s definitely a weekend date and not a meet! Last journey was 330 miles each way and was easily the best journey I’ve taken "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't travel further than 10 miles, i only meet in a local club so if anyone wants to meet me then they have to travel to the club, plenty do so it works well for me

In the past i did travel a bit but it wasn't really worth it

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

As I tend to be looking for more than just a fuck and go, I would as I would have gotten to know them fairly well before making the journey. There would be a connection on some level more than just sexual attraction.

It would seem silly to limit potential great matches due to distance, especially when potentially there may be nobody I'd have a connection with locally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like going to new places in the UK and if I'm not in a hurry I don't mind driving either, so no limit as long as its a realistic one day journey.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I prefer local, having both Liverpool and Manchester on the doorstep. But, for the right person, where the connection is strong, I would consider travelling further afield.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer local as I like to build rapport and have something semi (snigger) regular, plus I don't drive. But Jesus wept there are slim pickings here in Norfolk.

If you fancied someone quite some distance away, would you travel for the sole purpose of meeting them, social or otherwise, or is it just not worth the effort?"

To be honest we do not have much options other than travel so we used to before the pandemic make a little break out of it and explore different places with the added orgasm bonus.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One hour's drive to me is a good distance away, anymore than that and I really can't be arsed to be honest.

So let's say that you live in London basically you will not go anywhere past the M25 lol

I hate motorways with a passion and find them scary so I will find and use alternative routes to avoid them as often as I can.

Im a confident driver as well I just hate motorways ha ha

I also live in Milton Keynes so an hour away from here in every direction possible, actually gets me to some good locations

MK here too

Yes I did notice ha ha

Wanna go to Tesco together? "

Steady now, don't want to over excite yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One hour's drive to me is a good distance away, anymore than that and I really can't be arsed to be honest.

So let's say that you live in London basically you will not go anywhere past the M25 lol

I hate motorways with a passion and find them scary so I will find and use alternative routes to avoid them as often as I can.

Im a confident driver as well I just hate motorways ha ha

I also live in Milton Keynes so an hour away from here in every direction possible, actually gets me to some good locations

MK here too

Yes I did notice ha ha

Wanna go to Tesco together?

Steady now, don't want to over excite yourself! "

Haha what about Lidl then?

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Pre-pandemic I was routinely making four- or five-hour round trips for meets. I think the furthest I went was an eight-hour round trip.

I'd prefer to see people local to me, of course, but I have to go where I'm wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer local as I like to build rapport and have something semi (snigger) regular, plus I don't drive. But Jesus wept there are slim pickings here in Norfolk.

If you fancied someone quite some distance away, would you travel for the sole purpose of meeting them, social or otherwise, or is it just not worth the effort?"

I did travel to meet a lady l met here, clocked up thousands of miles over the time, she was an unbelivable lady in heart , soul, mind and body., worth every inch of road travelled.l hesitated in going into a full on full time relationship, she moved on,totally devastated me but it was 100% my own fault..." he who hesitates is lost "...

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By *ambo1450Man
over a year ago

Newport

I’ve genuinely never seen so many ladies reply to a thread!

That’s brilliant girls!

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

I have travelled all over the country meeting people, i dont drive either.. Love getting the train and seeing different places.. Life is one big adventure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think at the end of the day day if there is an attraction there and depending on how many miles away they are I don't mind travelling a little bit of distance. Yes it would be difficult to see them on a regular basis but I honestly think that that you could have a penpal especially on a sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id travel to places im familiar with. And places with good transport links xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer local as I like to build rapport and have something semi (snigger) regular, plus I don't drive. But Jesus wept there are slim pickings here in Norfolk.

If you fancied someone quite some distance away, would you travel for the sole purpose of meeting them, social or otherwise, or is it just not worth the effort?"

For the right meet, absolutely. But has to be worth it and not just a “quickie” kinda thing x but more like a evening out of it x

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I caught a train (2hours) and then cycled 30 miles to meet a lady, she had driven over 2 hours....

Our first fab date was camping

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had the time, distance wouldn't be a factor.

Sadly, having made the rod for my own back, time is something I struggle to manufacture in a sizeable quantity to allow for travel.

Although, I have managed before, and sure I will manage again, just takes military precision planning and a little bit of luck.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I do but I really like travelling to new places and meeting interesting people that may become friends , so I’d plan some adventures around it and treat as an adventure. If it was just for sex I wouldn’t travel more than 30 mins or try and persuade them to come to me !

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

If that person was worth the travel then I would, distance isn't an issue.

I have before now I have done a 500 mile round trip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't drive so all my meets take about an hour to get to even if they're relatively local

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have, and would! But it’s always been for someone I’ve knew longer and built some form of friendship and trust with, so we know we are compatible even as personalities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One hour's drive to me is a good distance away, anymore than that and I really can't be arsed to be honest.

So let's say that you live in London basically you will not go anywhere past the M25 lol

I hate motorways with a passion and find them scary so I will find and use alternative routes to avoid them as often as I can.

Im a confident driver as well I just hate motorways ha ha

I also live in Milton Keynes so an hour away from here in every direction possible, actually gets me to some good locations

MK here too

Yes I did notice ha ha

Wanna go to Tesco together?

Steady now, don't want to over excite yourself!

Haha what about Lidl then? "

Make it the middle aisle of Aldi and I will think about it....

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Distance has and never would be an issue for me for someone I've talked to for some time and built a connection with to have a level of confidence that the connection will translate to in person.

If we meet half way then most of the country is within a 2-3 hour reach anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've done over 250 miles each way before. Distance is no object to me, especially if that person is worth it x"

This 100% furthest to dat is 6 hours drive… though actually the same person was in Malta for a short while and i also went out… so does that count?!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Not any more.

Everyone is looking for a one off fuck and I'm not wasting my time on that.

There's only one person on here I would travel out of London to visit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One hour's drive to me is a good distance away, anymore than that and I really can't be arsed to be honest.

So let's say that you live in London basically you will not go anywhere past the M25 lol

I hate motorways with a passion and find them scary so I will find and use alternative routes to avoid them as often as I can.

Im a confident driver as well I just hate motorways ha ha

I also live in Milton Keynes so an hour away from here in every direction possible, actually gets me to some good locations

MK here too

Yes I did notice ha ha

Wanna go to Tesco together?

Steady now, don't want to over excite yourself!

Haha what about Lidl then?

Make it the middle aisle of Aldi and I will think about it.... "

You cheap skate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not any more.

Everyone is looking for a one off fuck and I'm not wasting my time on that.

There's only one person on here I would travel out of London to visit.

"

Thank you. This means alot. I'm truly humbled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have in the past but won’t be when I start meeting again because will be too difficult with an infant at home

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I like to get away for a weekend, so if that encompassed a social meet, why not.

Local knowledge is always beneficial too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s all very well for people with no other commitments though. I simply can’t do it.

I have lots of commitments, I’ve done it before

Oops! Pressed send too soon!

That reads quite bluntly.

It’s a matter of how high you prioritise meeting that person, if you can’t wrangle a day past your other commitments or things that you want to do away from fab, then I’d probably say it’s not worth meeting them

No it’s not. I disagree. I simply can’t, no matter how much I like them. For a one off maybe but I don’t do one offs. Anything more regular isn’t possible. It’s not a sympathy thing and good on the people who can but for me it’s not a case of being able to just wrangle a day x"

I agree woth Nora.. I've been desperate to reconnect... But my work commitments meant i had to say no three times to potential evening play dates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did once travel to london but was a total waste of time

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I've never had a local relationship, fab meet, or anything. I've always travelled, so distance is no biggie.

We enjoy weekends away, so will use opportunities to their max.

Our challenge is fitting everything in around our busy lives.

C

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

No

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I try to keep a meet with in an hour

But I am going to see a previous fuck buddy who's in Wales 4.5hours away.

But then I already know what to expect with him.

I prefer regular so being too far away it wouldn't likely happen

I've found lots of great guys in Norfolk that I speak to and some I've met

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,


"I prefer locals as you can go to Tesco together for your weekly shopping "

Likewise but delete Tescos add Morrisons

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes we have and we are going to do so when covid rules and regulations allow us to meet freely and safely.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Yes, I have done and would again if needed

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Not any more, I don't have the energy.

And I feel uncomfortable with someone travelling too far just to come and see me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One hour's drive to me is a good distance away, anymore than that and I really can't be arsed to be honest.

So let's say that you live in London basically you will not go anywhere past the M25 lol

I hate motorways with a passion and find them scary so I will find and use alternative routes to avoid them as often as I can.

Im a confident driver as well I just hate motorways ha ha

I also live in Milton Keynes so an hour away from here in every direction possible, actually gets me to some good locations

MK here too

Yes I did notice ha ha

Wanna go to Tesco together?

Steady now, don't want to over excite yourself!

Haha what about Lidl then?

Make it the middle aisle of Aldi and I will think about it....

You cheap skate! "

Never know what you may find in Aldi....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t want anyone to travel to see me, the pressure I’d feel would ruin it for me to be honest. I’d feel like I’d have to overly perform to make it worth their while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not any more, I don't have the energy.

And I feel uncomfortable with someone travelling too far just to come and see me. "

Definitely adds that layer of… I need to bring out my top game.

I get it

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

Have reached an age where driving is no longer a pleasure so really a 1 hr drive would be my limit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One hour's drive to me is a good distance away, anymore than that and I really can't be arsed to be honest.

So let's say that you live in London basically you will not go anywhere past the M25 lol

I hate motorways with a passion and find them scary so I will find and use alternative routes to avoid them as often as I can.

Im a confident driver as well I just hate motorways ha ha

I also live in Milton Keynes so an hour away from here in every direction possible, actually gets me to some good locations

MK here too

Yes I did notice ha ha

Wanna go to Tesco together?

Steady now, don't want to over excite yourself!

Haha what about Lidl then?

Make it the middle aisle of Aldi and I will think about it....

You cheap skate!

Never know what you may find in Aldi...."

Somebody from fab on sale?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do like a road trip

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I’d travel far as a one off probably or very infrequently.Not regularly though

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I just can’t be arsed

Think I’m at an age now where I wouldn’t drive further than an hour for sex. And even an hour is pushing it

Plus, for me, sex gets better as you vibe with the person more. So why am I gonna travel for the worst sex? I’d prefer to meet some local, consistently and really get into eachother

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I think some people are definitely worth the effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just can’t be arsed

Think I’m at an age now where I wouldn’t drive further than an hour for sex. And even an hour is pushing it

Plus, for me, sex gets better as you vibe with the person more. So why am I gonna travel for the worst sex? I’d prefer to meet some local, consistently and really get into eachother "

Same, couldn’t be bothered

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I would not travel too far in case they stood me up. I also prefer a social first so travelling 200miles for a coffee would make it very expensive.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Think it very much depends on the situation. We regularly do weekends away, if we met somebody in a social setting who was visiting Newcastle or we happened to be visiting there town and we got on well then yes we would make the effort to meet again regardless of distance.

We do this with some of our friends who live down near London who we have met at least once a year for the last five years.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Yes.

I have done before and would do again.

Attraction isn’t relative to location and convenience really is a poor basis for connections.

It’s the person that I’m meeting that is the important factor, distance is just logistics"

Can’t really argue with that, worked for me

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Furthest I have been is 308 miles each way to Manchester. It was worth it.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

No. Can’t be arsed anymore. Not into one offs and don’t need the stress. I like a simple life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer local as I like to build rapport and have something semi (snigger) regular, plus I don't drive. But Jesus wept there are slim pickings here in Norfolk.

If you fancied someone quite some distance away, would you travel for the sole purpose of meeting them, social or otherwise, or is it just not worth the effort?"

Absolutely, 100%. I also have the misfortune to live in Norfolk where there are quite literally no people that interest me at all. It's a wasteland here in the east so I almost always travel.

I'm from London but live in Norfolk so I'm used to it. I have no problem travelling 100 miles or more to meet people who I've connected with. The vast majority of my verifications are from people outside my area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes depends who tho some id walk into the fires of hell to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One hour's drive to me is a good distance away, anymore than that and I really can't be arsed to be honest.

So let's say that you live in London basically you will not go anywhere past the M25 lol

I hate motorways with a passion and find them scary so I will find and use alternative routes to avoid them as often as I can.

Im a confident driver as well I just hate motorways ha ha

I also live in Milton Keynes so an hour away from here in every direction possible, actually gets me to some good locations

MK here too

Yes I did notice ha ha

Wanna go to Tesco together?

Steady now, don't want to over excite yourself!

Haha what about Lidl then?

Make it the middle aisle of Aldi and I will think about it....

You cheap skate!

Never know what you may find in Aldi....

Somebody from fab on sale? "

Let me know if you find any

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By *issAphrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"I think some people are definitely worth the effort "

Yes, hello

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Yes depends who tho some id walk into the fires of hell to "

The woods aren't that bad

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I would indeed travel just to meet someone. I have done and will continue to do so. Because if the connection I think will happen is there then it's more than worth it.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Yes it's worth the effort u never know wot it Leeds 2 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends.. how far for who...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have and I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always go local only so 10-15 miles max as I hate driving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance wouldn’t bother me but family commitments limit me to about an hour max. and no overnights

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Yes I would and have done

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By *lderguy4uMan
over a year ago

wirral

Have and still do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One hour's drive to me is a good distance away, anymore than that and I really can't be arsed to be honest.

So let's say that you live in London basically you will not go anywhere past the M25 lol

I hate motorways with a passion and find them scary so I will find and use alternative routes to avoid them as often as I can.

Im a confident driver as well I just hate motorways ha ha

I also live in Milton Keynes so an hour away from here in every direction possible, actually gets me to some good locations

"

I'm just out of reach then 1-hour and 6 minutes to drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where I live I have good transport links which is useful as I don't drive.

I would consider travelling to London (about 50miles for me) as it's a direct journey by train (or anywhere else on the train line) for a one-off social.

Further afield I would like to think I would but it would probably have to be more than just a one-off social and with someone I had messaged/talked with quite a bit to know that we had some sort of connection/rapport.

I do enjoy train travel and for me the journey would be part of the whole experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh hell yes! I'd travel for hours for the right person as long as I could afford it.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I prefer local as I like to build rapport and have something semi (snigger) regular, plus I don't drive. But Jesus wept there are slim pickings here in Norfolk.

If you fancied someone quite some distance away, would you travel for the sole purpose of meeting them, social or otherwise, or is it just not worth the effort?"

Yes. Longest so far was 7 hours each way.

While regular local fun is nice, I’d rather have a reliable playmate that I see once a month who lives half a country away than get frustrated over flakey locals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like planning a military operation for me to leave the house sometimes. I just don't have the hours normally to invest in being able to travel that far. There are too many people reliant on me. I will travel an hour tops if I'm meeting alone. If meeting with hubby we may get a cheeky weekend away then we can go further.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t have the time to myself to travel far. If I were footloose and fancy free then yes, and I have done in the past. But not anymore.

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By *olmateMan
over a year ago

west mids

If it is something like "fuck and go" then not a chance for travelling.

However, you build a connection, share mutual sexual attraction and chemistry, enjoy eachothers company, then travelling for 250 miles one side or meeting in the middle is always possible!

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, distance isn't important if you find that 'connection' x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everybody's idea of local travel is open to interpretation, I'm used to driving an hour each way for work everyday so for me, anything within an hour's drive is local but to some, that's probably too far....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roadtrip! Tunes, snacks and then sex! Great days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I've done Brighton, Scotland and the Isle of Man. Still makes me chuckle....and horny at the thought of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One hour's drive to me is a good distance away, anymore than that and I really can't be arsed to be honest.

So let's say that you live in London basically you will not go anywhere past the M25 lol

I hate motorways with a passion and find them scary so I will find and use alternative routes to avoid them as often as I can.

Im a confident driver as well I just hate motorways ha ha

I also live in Milton Keynes so an hour away from here in every direction possible, actually gets me to some good locations

I'm just out of reach then 1-hour and 6 minutes to drive "

Why have I got to drive the whole distance? Ha ha

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Yes I would and have done quite a few times, pack me a picnic, got my fave tunes on and off I went

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happily. I like discoveries new places and new kindred souls

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I once drove 3.5 hours, because I like an adventure, and then I was put off by his arse hair. I don't really want to repeat something like that.

But if I enjoyed the sex, I'd want to do it again and long distance would just not be practical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One hour's drive to me is a good distance away, anymore than that and I really can't be arsed to be honest.

So let's say that you live in London basically you will not go anywhere past the M25 lol

I hate motorways with a passion and find them scary so I will find and use alternative routes to avoid them as often as I can.

Im a confident driver as well I just hate motorways ha ha

I also live in Milton Keynes so an hour away from here in every direction possible, actually gets me to some good locations

I'm just out of reach then 1-hour and 6 minutes to drive

Why have I got to drive the whole distance? Ha ha "

Luckily I can drive and I can do that run 50 minutes

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By *issAphrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Alright, who's driving to Norfolk then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alright, who's driving to Norfolk then "

What kind of invitation is this?

I need to weigh up the pros and cons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd travel to the end of the world and back for the right women

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I prefer local as I like to build rapport and have something semi (snigger) regular, plus I don't drive. But Jesus wept there are slim pickings here in Norfolk.

If you fancied someone quite some distance away, would you travel for the sole purpose of meeting them, social or otherwise, or is it just not worth the effort?"

I used to live in Norwich and there was, at that time, a lot of people on Fab within easy reach.

My old friends say it has changed but not gone barren. I wish you luck.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I am happy to travel if the play is worth it. But then being retired I have time and a nice car to enjoy the journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd travel to the end of the world and back for the right women

"

That’s how I feel about waffles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would travel but we would meet in the middle so travel is equal to both parties.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

On my single profile, I wouldn't travel too far to meet.

As a couple, think we'd travel further if we found a couple where there was an attraction between us all, as its a nightmare getting that at times.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd use my campervan,so I could stay overnight.

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By *ofdiamondsMan
over a year ago

Coningsby

I'm in Norfolk too. I'd travel a decent way for the right person but not 200+ miles I don't think

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

Depends what some distance is, I used to go on a 2hr 30min trip to meet someone but would stay that way for the weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer local as I like to build rapport and have something semi (snigger) regular, plus I don't drive. But Jesus wept there are slim pickings here in Norfolk.

If you fancied someone quite some distance away, would you travel for the sole purpose of meeting them, social or otherwise, or is it just not worth the effort?"

I'd prefer to keep things reasonably local but if they were the right person then I'd travel providing I could get back to work the next day lol

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over a year ago


"I prefer local as I like to build rapport and have something semi (snigger) regular, plus I don't drive. But Jesus wept there are slim pickings here in Norfolk.

If you fancied someone quite some distance away, would you travel for the sole purpose of meeting them, social or otherwise, or is it just not worth the effort?"

I definitely would. I have. And I hope to again

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I used to travel all over london years ago, but now I dont really have the same time as before, now I prefer it locally as it would be fun to find someone regular

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over a year ago


"I wouldn’t want anyone to travel to see me, the pressure I’d feel would ruin it for me to be honest. I’d feel like I’d have to overly perform to make it worth their while "

This!

Plus I'm not into one offs and I'd want to meet socially first. Would feel like im asking too much even with meeting half way

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over a year ago


"Depends what some distance is, I used to go on a 2hr 30min trip to meet someone but would stay that way for the weekend. "

Iv done this before 20 year ago

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

As long as I can work it around home commitments then yes I would

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Yes, I would consider it.

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over a year ago


"I wouldn’t want anyone to travel to see me, the pressure I’d feel would ruin it for me to be honest. I’d feel like I’d have to overly perform to make it worth their while

This!

Plus I'm not into one offs and I'd want to meet socially first. Would feel like im asking too much even with meeting half way "

You'd be giving us a chance which I do know is a big deal for women, that's the effort there for that, then just be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it not for a long time and not sure I would now. Maybe for the right person

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over a year ago


"I used to travel all over london years ago, but now I dont really have the same time as before, now I prefer it locally as it would be fun to find someone regular "

I was the same wheni had the time to, Cumbria and Lancashire

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Cyprus and Canary Islands ... fantastic time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We live in a one horse town would never consider meeting a local would make to papers here.. lol"

Sounds alot like West Cumbria

I once farted and the locals could tell me what colour it was

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I'd probably go to the Norwich Social and try my luck

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

30 miles for me...

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Yes ... and have done ... and yes it was well worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always said 30 minutes would be my driving limit, however for my current fwb I'm travelling twice that to see him. Go figure. He sometimes drives down to me too, so I guess it averages at 30 minutes for each of us each time

Maths makes everything ok haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I allow my lady to travel 9” to meet me

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