FabSwingers.com forum: safe word?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you had to use a safe word, what would it be ?

This could get interestly funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you had to use a safe word, what would it be ?

This could get interestly funny

Bananas

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

"If you had to use a safe word, what would it be ?

This could get interestly funny

Bananas "

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chocolate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carrot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My safe word has always been giraffe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pineapple juice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum is calling

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Harder!"

Wait, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Red xx"

We use the traffic light system as well

Mr HH

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

I like turtles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"carry-on"

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Cranberries

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By *ust_FlynnMan
over a year ago

st neots

So much fruit hahaha

Ours has always been pineapple

The traffic light system is a great tool too, means you can wind it back a touch with orange (more fruit lol) before needing a complete stop with red.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

I would tell you ours but we'd immediately stop everything we're doing until we have a conversation, and I've got too much to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kit-kat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogoch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogoch"

I’d love to hear you use that mid flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When your safeword is flower,

but they think you keep saying flour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Schadenfreude with perfect pronunciation or don’t count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have thought everone on here's safe word would be cake

nature's half time refreshment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yellow and red. There is no green.

The traffic light system should be everyone's go-to. Tried and tested.

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By *r_MrsLincsCouple
over a year ago

GRIMSBY

Pineapples ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Keep going"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Traffic light system.

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Another vote for the traffic light system here,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spaff. Im joking, i dont have one xxx

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By *ustfortheforumsWoman
over a year ago

My safe word was pancakes I thought I was weird

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Enough allready! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogoch

I’d love to hear you use that mid flow"
ha ha oh lets find out

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Red xx

We use the traffic light system as well

Mr HH"

Same. I couldn't say anything silly if I was in distress and it's good to have levels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yellow and red. There is no green.

The traffic light system should be everyone's go-to. Tried and tested."

as a communication system, absolutely. But it doesn't have to be the words specifically does it? I had a regular who'm I met for D/s play and the traffic light words were as random as you like, but we knew which was which!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have two

Chocolate (because I have lactose intolerance) - please go a little easier

Peanuts (because I have a nut allergy) - stop, stop, stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogoch

I’d love to hear you use that mid flow ha ha oh lets find out

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By *ssexPolyGentMan
over a year ago

southend

I have always used the traficlight system for safe words but always watch for body language aswel as sometime that can be a tell just before someone safe words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have always used the traficlight system for safe words but always watch for body language aswel as sometime that can be a tell just before someone safe words"

This definitely. I never needed to safe word for this reason.

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By *ssexPolyGentMan
over a year ago

southend

"I have always used the traficlight system for safe words but always watch for body language aswel as sometime that can be a tell just before someone safe words

This definitely. I never needed to safe word for this reason. "

Especially useful with people that become non verble when they space aswell

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Don’t stop

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Don’t stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have always used the traficlight system for safe words but always watch for body language aswel as sometime that can be a tell just before someone safe words

This definitely. I never needed to safe word for this reason.

Especially useful with people that become non verble when they space aswell"

Agreed. I lose the ability to speak. I've not had a partner go non verbal on me yet but also not had one safeword.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The work one is ruby

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By *ssexPolyGentMan
over a year ago

southend

"I have always used the traficlight system for safe words but always watch for body language aswel as sometime that can be a tell just before someone safe words

This definitely. I never needed to safe word for this reason.

Especially useful with people that become non verble when they space aswell

Agreed. I lose the ability to speak. I've not had a partner go non verbal on me yet but also not had one safeword. "
an ex play partner of mine used to become non verbal and almost non responsive the only tell was a change in muscle reaction when being whipped, first time she stopped responding I stopped and she sulked because she didn't want to stop and it dragged her out of sub space so I learnt to watch for the chance in how her muscles reacted instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the traffic light system if I'm playing in such a way tthat it's needed

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

"Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogoch"

Is your ball gag to tight hun?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you had to use a safe word, what would it be ?

This could get interestly funny

Bananas "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you had to use a safe word, what would it be ?

This could get interestly funny

Bananas

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Chocolate "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Carrot "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Red xx"

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

Red and traffic lights for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So much fruit hahaha

Ours has always been pineapple

The traffic light system is a great tool too, means you can wind it back a touch with orange (more fruit lol) before needing a complete stop with red. "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Kit-kat

Love kit kats

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Red and traffic lights for me. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all your comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't needed one as he knows by the way I move or react.

Otherwise we use the traffic light system.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogoch"

do you use that much?

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By *il miss bootsWoman
over a year ago

Kent

If they are able to speak,its usually the traffic light system.

If they can't speak, then I usually have a ball that lights up if dropped or shook.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Cabbages!! Let us face it. It has to be a word NO ONE would yell in a moment of ecstacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanokoniosis.

It’s why I don’t do BDSM, I’d be injured or dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Costa.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use the traffic lights system, but I’ve only had to use yellow once (you try taking 65 of the best

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He knows and reads me so well, and he listens, so rare I’ll even get close to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Continue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ouch!!

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