FabSwingers.com forum: No shows??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey guys and gals,

Been on this sight before and have heard a lot about males chatting arranging to attend meets and socials and then don't show. I cant understand this, I have to hustle my boxers off to get a meet in the first place. Happy fabbing guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude and unacceptable but apparently not uncommon.

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

Yeah I've had no shows or last minute cancellation with no explanation

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I would like the OP to explain how he hustles his boxers off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would like the OP to explain how he hustles his boxers off

Do The Hustle !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it's about 50/50 change of a guy will turn up, and out of the 50% that doesn't turn up only 10% will say that they can't make it, in my experience over the last 10 years x

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

In the past I have had to cancel or postpone, but I have always given as much notice as physically possible.

Not letting someone know is just ignorant and rude

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Have i just been lucky???

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Hey guys and gals,

Happens alot to me in the past... just given up trying now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never had a no show, by the time I meet someone we have chatted so long that it’s never been an issue

That said I only meet for coffee initially so it’s a chilled out relaxed social, nothing for either of us to get nervous or uptight about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I scare most men off lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had more couples no show or cancel last minute that guys to be fair but its annoying when it happens.

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By *ustfortheforumsWoman
over a year ago

"I think I scare most men off lol xx"

How your boobs are amazing

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I never understood this. It is so hard to even get a conversation going let alone a meet.

And then you make it all pastor and then you don’t show up. What dickhead‘s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I scare most men off lol xx"

I'm sure that's not the case. I like your pics.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

Uxbridge

I’ll get back to you on this soon. Thinking there just running late I’ll give her another three hours and that’s i.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to us more than once... Our very fist meet went unlos as we were sat in the pub waiting.. Its a pain but par for the course I'm afraid

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

Uxbridge

Right I’ve given up. She’s not coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been lucky to not have someone not show. But I've been ghosted very, very often after chatting with guys. They just want to flirt and talk dirty but not actually meet. That drives me insane!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some just like the thrill of the chase and never have an intention to meet.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

It happened to me on Tuesday, if he wanted to watch the football why not say! Still not had an explanation

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

No shows (single men) are often married. It took us a while to work out that 'single men' aren't necessarily single, but our turn-up average shot up to 100% once we did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just doesn’t make sense all this not showing up stuff.

Most of us try damn hard to arrange meeting often to no avail.....so to those out there who stand folk up, bollocks I say un to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rude and unacceptable but apparently not uncommon. "

And not a problem unique to single men either

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

It has always been like that on Fab. I started on Fab first 8 years ago in a couple. We were innundated by guys wanting to meet but when it came to meeting only about 1 in 4 wanted to meet and 1 in 10 turned up. Never had a couple not meet.

I figured out the reasons as follows - what do others think?

1. they were sexual trolls just looking to piss off swingers ha ha ha!

2. they were just looking for a fantasy as a masturbatory aid with no intention to meet

3. They had a fantasy vision of who and what they would do sexually and reality never lived up to it so they bailed out

4. they wanted a meet and simply got cold feet

5. they were not free and could not get away.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Arrange to meet in a club, if they don't show you can have a night out and may get lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been lucky to not have someone not show. But I've been ghosted very, very often after chatting with guys. They just want to flirt and talk dirty but not actually meet. That drives me insane!

Xx"

You're Kidding? I would love to meet you.

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By *entleman Blue EyesMan
over a year ago

Saffron Walden

I've had a couple of female no shows.. Lots of chat and phone even the occasional video call. I booked the hotels then nothing..

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

Uxbridge

"It happened to me on Tuesday, if he wanted to watch the football why not say! Still not had an explanation

Wtf….! Us rugby lovers are the way forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hence why I'm here for the forums not meets , had plenty of no shows and time wasters.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

"It happened to me on Tuesday, if he wanted to watch the football why not say! Still not had an explanation

Wtf….! Us rugby lovers are the way forward

I prefer rugby to football xx

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By *hechairman18Man
over a year ago

Salford Quays , Manchester

Do your homework.

I Organise and host GangBangs here in Manchester.

I check the Couple or Fems profile to see if they are genuine and reliable.

Never had a no show.

Same with the guys, check their profile.

I have regular, and reliable guys, very few no shows, without good reason.

Any no shows who don't contact me within 3/4 days, get blocked.

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