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"Short answer You are too young. By about 4 years " Why 4 years? ![]() | |||
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"hello my names ethan, been a member of this site for a wile. All the women i seem to speak to, are not interested cause of my age. Is this just me? or are a lot of older women not into young guys? I would really like to find a women i could have regular meets with or even a one night thing to mayb satisfy someones fantasy and my own. Im really grown up for my age im not no kid. And i know what im doing in the bedroom, always willing to learn more ![]() First off Nathan, can I congratulate you for posting a question which is not only well thought out, but well written and - making a nice change for Fabs lately - intelligent. Like BlondeCaz, I have been doing this a long time and - surprising as it may seem - was in your position once. Totally agree that, at your age, this should be only ONE way you meet the kind of women you are looking for. But.. to be s success on here, you need to be pretty confident in the 'real world'. In short you need to get out there and start approaching 'slightly' older women than yourself and see where it takes you. A little tip.... try your local supermarket and play the 'pathetic male who doesn't know where to find anything' routine! Works a treat!! Lol! Seriously, I know you want to meet older women, but the problem you will have is that more mature women will not often want to have sex with someone who is young enough to be their son... fact of life mate. Sorry. So, your definition of 'older women' has to be realistic for YOUR age. You're 21. I would suggest that a women no older than about 30-35 is your first 'target' (I can feel the arrows of the FabCollective coming for me already!!). As you are honest enough to admit you are looking for an experienced woman (or women) to 'teach you', then any woman in that age range should be able to pass on the benefits of their experience... I hope you do find what you are looking for, but to make the point again - this should not be your ONLY way of finding those ladies. Good luck with it mate Pork ![]() | |||
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"hello my names ethan, been a member of this site for a wile. All the women i seem to speak to, are not interested cause of my age. Is this just me? or are a lot of older women not into young guys? I would really like to find a women i could have regular meets with or even a one night thing to mayb satisfy someones fantasy and my own. Im really grown up for my age im not no kid. And i know what im doing in the bedroom, always willing to learn more ![]() you could always do what some [ not us of course ] do and lie about your age,we are 102 really. ![]() | |||
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"All singlemen find it tough on here. Those that don't realise that tend to look for some explaination in this case age... Personally I suspect a profile like yours isn't helping to sell you " ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"altho 21 is to young for me i dont think its to young to swing, everyone likes different and there are women on here who like young guys x" ![]() ![]() | |||
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"All singlemen find it tough on here. Those that don't realise that tend to look for some explaination in this case age... Personally I suspect a profile like yours isn't helping to sell you " Indeed. I would suggest re_iewing your profile instead of blaming your age or your looks. | |||
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"All singlemen find it tough on here. Those that don't realise that tend to look for some explaination in this case age... Personally I suspect a profile like yours isn't helping to sell you Indeed. I would suggest re_iewing your profile instead of blaming your age or your looks." Agree ![]() | |||
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"I do think its too young to swing. We started swinging about 2 years ago and prior to that I was a monogamous working woman juggling a career and home. Not everyone here has a huge sex drive and been partaking in nsa sex since their teens. I was very prudish as a young woman, indeed before swinging I had only 3 sexual experiences. I feel when you're young you should be exploring with people of your own age, chasing beautiful young girls in clubs, hanging about with your mates, getting excited over your first car, job, holidays with mates etc etc. Not on a site messaging older women and couples for nsa sex. Swinging is a great experience but I'm glad I wasn't involved in this since a teen. I wouldn't have been able to handle the emotional aspect. Wasn't mature enough to separate feelings of just lust from emotional meaningful sex and I certainly would not have been able to share my partner. I only feel I am mature enough now and I'm 44. ![]() Pretty much sums it up for me too. | |||
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"Haha, thanks for all your comments they have been a great help. was starting to think hmmm mayb im just ugly always thought older women was into young guys. Maybe too much TV. anyways keep the comments coming im loving the advise and help. Not use to people been so attentive on here ![]() ![]() No not ugly just far too young for some of us, so yes far too much tv and not enough real life. Yes there are women/couples on here that don't mind your age group but there are also those that don't. Get yourself noticed through the forums and not just starting threads either, go to socials, parties and clubs too ![]() | |||
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"Your not young, we started about a year ago and love it all. " Yes, but you are swinging as a couple. The OP is a 21yr old single male. Different ball game entirely - and no, that wasn't a pun..... ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I do think its too young to swing. We started swinging about 2 years ago and prior to that I was a monogamous working woman juggling a career and home. Not everyone here has a huge sex drive and been partaking in nsa sex since their teens. I was very prudish as a young woman, indeed before swinging I had only 3 sexual experiences. I feel when you're young you should be exploring with people of your own age, chasing beautiful young girls in clubs, hanging about with your mates, getting excited over your first car, job, holidays with mates etc etc. Not on a site messaging older women and couples for nsa sex. Swinging is a great experience but I'm glad I wasn't involved in this since a teen. I wouldn't have been able to handle the emotional aspect. Wasn't mature enough to separate feelings of just lust from emotional meaningful sex and I certainly would not have been able to share my partner. I only feel I am mature enough now and I'm 44. ![]() The two posts quoted above have said what I said, but in a much nicer way! Swinging on a site like this should ONLY be ONE way for you to find the sexual experiences you are seeking - specially at your age. I know how you feel - at 23 I was still very naive about sex and relationships - and then I met a woman of 52 who completely changed my life ![]() ![]() | |||
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"....try joining in on some other posts (for example, mine are usually completely bonkers and get allsorts of responses from the regulars) " Caz - how can you possibly say your posts are bonkers????? Insightful, intriguing, complex, thought-provoking, witty, heart-warming and brimming over with warmth is what your posts are! (And now who's a great big fat fibber......????? LMFAO!!!!!!!) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"All singlemen find it tough on here. Those that don't realise that tend to look for some explaination in this case age... Personally I suspect a profile like yours isn't helping to sell you Indeed. I would suggest re_iewing your profile instead of blaming your age or your looks. Agree ![]() My take on your profile and what prompted my initial comment is that reading it i'd think you were a shit shag. I don't believe all these young females are a shit shag, i'd assume that it was down to you. Plus pitching for older women, criticizing younger ones and then saying you'd meet younger anyway is a little desperate. Your personality comes across far better on this thread than on your profile. | |||
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"hello my names ethan, been a member of this site for a wile. All the women i seem to speak to, are not interested cause of my age. Is this just me? or are a lot of older women not into young guys? I would really like to find a women i could have regular meets with or even a one night thing to mayb satisfy someones fantasy and my own. Im really grown up for my age im not no kid. And i know what im doing in the bedroom, always willing to learn more ![]() ![]() 102!!! Damn, I've finally found the woman of a couple who might consider me to be a toyboy!!! ![]() | |||
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"I like young-men 20s at times and thay like me ,lol xx ![]() Oi! Ethan!!!!! Get yer Young Persons Railcard out matey - you'll be needing it for a trip to Norwich....... you lucky little sod!!!! LMFAO!!!!! ![]() | |||
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"I like young-men 20s at times and thay like me ,lol xx ![]() ![]() and ya water wings in case you fall off their boat in all the excitement... ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I like young-men 20s at times and thay like me ,lol xx ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() And your hard hat, in case she brings the horse too...... ![]() ![]() | |||
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"....try joining in on some other posts (for example, mine are usually completely bonkers and get allsorts of responses from the regulars) Caz - how can you possibly say your posts are bonkers????? Insightful, intriguing, complex, thought-provoking, witty, heart-warming and brimming over with warmth is what your posts are! (And now who's a great big fat fibber......????? LMFAO!!!!!!!) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Do be careful now that your pants are on fire ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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" A little tip.... try your local supermarket and play the 'pathetic male who doesn't know where to find anything' routine! Works a treat!! And if you want a really older woman help the old ladies trying to reach the top shelf or the ones who can't see what's on the top shelf or even the bottom ones lol ![]() Forgot to say don't worry about a thing ! | |||
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