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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Who gets pissed off by people asking others to smile? Resting bitch faces matter, why should people be expected to smile to make others happy.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Smile it might never happen

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Turn that frown upside down

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

I've had people ask me why I gave them a dirty look. I have that kind of face

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

If I wanted to smile I would *she says through gritted teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say it to my kids. Don’t think I’d say it to an adult, just seems rude

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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I just don't understand what people get from asking for a smile when unless the person actually feels like smiling it is fake. It's a complete mystery to me.

And if anyone ever says ahhh but you would look prettier with a smile, I'd make it clear that I think they would look prettier with a cucumber rammed up their arse!!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

It’s your right to look miserable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like people watching and have since I was young, so always used to get "smile, it might never happen" my response now is not as pleasant as it once was... And I like smiling

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Once again, I genuinely do not know what gives anybody the right to comment on somebody's facial expression...

Don't get me wrong, asking gently if somebody is ok because they look a bit pensive... fair enough but comments such as "smile...." seriously, why???

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Nope.

People making demands of your emotional state in order to appease them is insulting and demeaning.

They don’t know your situation or life, they only want you to smile to make them feel better, which isn’t your responsibility

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I say it to my kids. Don’t think I’d say it to an adult, just seems rude"

Aren’t you teaching them to do that though?

Op- I hate it too

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands


"It’s your right to look miserable "

And some people on here are exercising that right

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Nope.

People making demands of your emotional state in order to appease them is insulting and demeaning.

They don’t know your situation or life, they only want you to smile to make them feel better, which isn’t your responsibility "

Precisely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a resting bitch face it’s a challenge putting a smile on it

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Good thing about wearing a mask all day I can have my resting bitch face on constantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I say it to my kids. Don’t think I’d say it to an adult, just seems rude

Aren’t you teaching them to do that though?

Op- I hate it too "

Maybe, but when accompanied with a silly face it’s usually enough to break the ice and have them open up about what’s making them sad. They are only little so it works for now, I wouldn’t do it to them when they hit the their teens…would make things worse

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"I like a resting bitch face it’s a challenge putting a smile on it "

Have you ever been told to "F-off. I don't fancy you!"?

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By *he Regina PhalangeWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"I say it to my kids. Don’t think I’d say it to an adult, just seems rude"

Why would you be rude to your kids?

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I absolutely hate it but nowadays I just say “ sorry it’s my resting bitch face”

They usually get embarrassed and go away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s very British to look miserable at all times in public alone

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Nope.

People making demands of your emotional state in order to appease them is insulting and demeaning.

They don’t know your situation or life, they only want you to smile to make them feel better, which isn’t your responsibility "

This. Well said

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I say it to my kids. Don’t think I’d say it to an adult, just seems rude"

Urgh, my mum used to say it to me, among many other things that invalidated my emotions and led me to a place where I couldn't deal with emotion in a healthy way. I simply didn't know how to process them and ended up self harming in various ways, and to some extent still do.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Turn that frown upside down

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

I'm smiling on the inside you halfwit

That and when people say cheer up.

In my head I'm saying f**k you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smile it might never happen "

And 9 times out of 10 it already has

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I look angry ?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Smile it might never happen

And 9 times out of 10 it already has "

That's the one. Happened to me on the train down to London to my grandads funeral.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I always look a bit pissed off, it's just the way I am

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

I can be seen with a very frowny face but I'm still happy inside - cos I'm thinking of shit & stuff(no, not pooh, ya know what happens if I do this, will this work?)

Does smiling make you more wrinkled????

The good thing about face masks are knowbody knows what you are doing beneath....

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By *ablo minibar123 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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It reminds me of an episode of the Simpsons actually, where Marge was concerned that Lisa's sadness reflected badly on her role as a mother, but when she finally decided to just Lisa be how she wanted to feel, was when Lisa felt like actually smiling.

Clever programme the Simpsons

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