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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you ladies like a chubby bloke?

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

I think Peter Kay is quite popular

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"Do you ladies like a chubby bloke?"

Depends of the personality of the chubby man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you ladies like a chubby bloke?

Depends of the personality of the chubby man "

^^^ what she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could be surprised by chubby guys and what they can do. Check out Sensei Seth on YouTube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how you define chubby, the kid in the goonies or my 600lb life

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"Do you ladies like a chubby bloke?"

We all have the bodies we have. And there is a market for all of us. The key is to stop obsessing over if people like our build or cock size or hair colour etc. Just concentrate on being our best selves.

FYI the simple answer to your question is some women indeed do.

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By *drenaline1996Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Would be good to find a couple into chubby guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would be good to find a couple into chubby guys"

On this site I wouldn’t hold your breath in fact you’ll be lucky to get a reply to message let alone a shag

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By *drenaline1996Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Never give up hope haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you ladies like a chubby bloke?

Depends of the personality of the chubby man "

Would you choose a chubby guy with a great personality over an athletic ripped guy with an 8” cock but struggled to make conversation?

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By *drenaline1996Man
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Do you ladies like a chubby bloke?

Depends of the personality of the chubby man

Would you choose a chubby guy with a great personality over an athletic ripped guy with an 8” cock but struggled to make conversation?"

Depends on what you’re looking for I suppose lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think attitude, outlook, expectation and acceptance all come into play here

A positive attitude and owning your build is important. If you carry yourself well and have confidence in yourself, it helps

With outlook, if you come here already defeated, it, very quickly, becomes a self fulfilling prophecy

Negative energy is very unattractive as is 'victim' playing in this environment

Fab is an escape for many and people, generally, come here to connect; with 'real life' taking something of a back seat

They want a laugh, a flirt, an exchange that leaves them smiling and maybe excited

They don't want to be left emotionally drained after a few messages

Within that escape, certainly for many women, there is that element of fantasy. Fantasy normally conjures up images of 'ideal men' both in looks and attitude

A fat bloke down on himself and his perceived 'luck' isn't most peoples idea of fantasy

As such, bigger guys do need to measure and monitor their expectations

Most guys that arrive here full of the joys of spring soon have their expectations shattered, it is even harder for big guys

We are a niche market and we need to both understand and accept this

Yes, there are people that will meet you, but they will be in the minority... and let's not forget that, before we even consider the 'chubby guy' thing, women & couples are already in a minority (if those are who you seek)

Present yourself well, engage with people positively, show your fun side, don't be a mood hoover, get to know people, be social (both online and off), have confidence in yourself

Nobody, absolutely nobody, owes you their time here, let alone a fuck

It is up to you to make them believe you are worthy of their time

In short, yes, bigger guys can succeed here, but success is hard to come by and is, of course, very often a state of mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And what makes it harder is people don’t give it a go with guys and find out their personality they take one look and frown upon you and say oh no not for me have found that often around my area it’s if your body and face fit then it’s ok, but had a lovely lady give me the chance and I thank her for that but never verified me but you know what who the hell cares what they think on here, I enjoy my chats to those on here that do chat so thank you to them. Enjoy your day folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And what makes it harder is people don’t give it a go with guys and find out their personality they take one look and frown upon you and say oh no not for me have found that often around my area it’s if your body and face fit then it’s ok, but had a lovely lady give me the chance and I thank her for that but never verified me but you know what who the hell cares what they think on here, I enjoy my chats to those on here that do chat so thank you to them. Enjoy your day folks"

People, in general, don't fuck personality

Here, we are afforded the opportunity to dismiss or engage at will, based on a selection of 2D images and a few words on a page

People make snap choices with scant regard for others and, perhaps, rightly so

If there are 30 guys you are attracted to and another 30 guys who you aren't, but still might be nice guys, who are you going to chat to?

Where is your time best spent?

People here balance work & family life and, in between, grab time to come here for some snatched moments of space and fun

Why 'waste' that on guys you just don't get the fanny flutters for?

Chubby guys are just one group that feel excluded here; add in the older, add in the shorter, add in the asian guys, add in the married...

That's a whole lot of disappointment right there unless expectation & acceptance are managed

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"And what makes it harder is people don’t give it a go with guys and find out their personality they take one look and frown upon you and say oh no not for me have found that often around my area it’s if your body and face fit then it’s ok, but had a lovely lady give me the chance and I thank her for that but never verified me but you know what who the hell cares what they think on here, I enjoy my chats to those on here that do chat so thank you to them. Enjoy your day folks

People, in general, don't fuck personality

Here, we are afforded the opportunity to dismiss or engage at will, based on a selection of 2D images and a few words on a page

People make snap choices with scant regard for others and, perhaps, rightly so

If there are 30 guys you are attracted to and another 30 guys who you aren't, but still might be nice guys, who are you going to chat to?

Where is your time best spent?

People here balance work & family life and, in between, grab time to come here for some snatched moments of space and fun

Why 'waste' that on guys you just don't get the fanny flutters for?

Chubby guys are just one group that feel excluded here; add in the older, add in the shorter, add in the asian guys, add in the married...

That's a whole lot of disappointment right there unless expectation & acceptance are managed"

Disagree. That's why we are very much club swingers rather than online arrangements. You get the measure of people a lot better in person rather than online. In a club its more like real life speed dating. Our taste tends to be for chunkier people but how we get along with people and their personal qualities goes a long way. Yes being a nice guy is important to us but being a nice guy is not the sole component of the chemistry we seek in a guy for me to feel with happy with and Mrs Misfit to enjoy. And likewise we wouldn't want to be with people who didn't genuinely feel the same about us.

(Mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And what makes it harder is people don’t give it a go with guys and find out their personality they take one look and frown upon you and say oh no not for me have found that often around my area it’s if your body and face fit then it’s ok, but had a lovely lady give me the chance and I thank her for that but never verified me but you know what who the hell cares what they think on here, I enjoy my chats to those on here that do chat so thank you to them. Enjoy your day folks

People, in general, don't fuck personality

Here, we are afforded the opportunity to dismiss or engage at will, based on a selection of 2D images and a few words on a page

People make snap choices with scant regard for others and, perhaps, rightly so

If there are 30 guys you are attracted to and another 30 guys who you aren't, but still might be nice guys, who are you going to chat to?

Where is your time best spent?

People here balance work & family life and, in between, grab time to come here for some snatched moments of space and fun

Why 'waste' that on guys you just don't get the fanny flutters for?

Chubby guys are just one group that feel excluded here; add in the older, add in the shorter, add in the asian guys, add in the married...

That's a whole lot of disappointment right there unless expectation & acceptance are managed

Disagree. That's why we are very much club swingers rather than online arrangements. You get the measure of people a lot better in person rather than online. In a club its more like real life speed dating. Our taste tends to be for chunkier people but how we get along with people and their personal qualities goes a long way. Yes being a nice guy is important to us but being a nice guy is not the sole component of the chemistry we seek in a guy for me to feel with happy with and Mrs Misfit to enjoy. And likewise we wouldn't want to be with people who didn't genuinely feel the same about us.

(Mr)"

What are you disagreeing with cos, for the most part, it sounds like you're agreeing that 'in person' meets are better for getting to know guys than here, online

That's not meant to sound confrontational btw, either agreeing or disagreeing is good...

what I'm saying isn't gospel by any means

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I am a chubby bloke and some ladies like me, hope that helps!

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"And what makes it harder is people don’t give it a go with guys and find out their personality they take one look and frown upon you and say oh no not for me have found that often around my area it’s if your body and face fit then it’s ok, but had a lovely lady give me the chance and I thank her for that but never verified me but you know what who the hell cares what they think on here, I enjoy my chats to those on here that do chat so thank you to them. Enjoy your day folks

People, in general, don't fuck personality

Here, we are afforded the opportunity to dismiss or engage at will, based on a selection of 2D images and a few words on a page

People make snap choices with scant regard for others and, perhaps, rightly so

If there are 30 guys you are attracted to and another 30 guys who you aren't, but still might be nice guys, who are you going to chat to?

Where is your time best spent?

People here balance work & family life and, in between, grab time to come here for some snatched moments of space and fun

Why 'waste' that on guys you just don't get the fanny flutters for?

Chubby guys are just one group that feel excluded here; add in the older, add in the shorter, add in the asian guys, add in the married...

That's a whole lot of disappointment right there unless expectation & acceptance are managed

Disagree. That's why we are very much club swingers rather than online arrangements. You get the measure of people a lot better in person rather than online. In a club its more like real life speed dating. Our taste tends to be for chunkier people but how we get along with people and their personal qualities goes a long way. Yes being a nice guy is important to us but being a nice guy is not the sole component of the chemistry we seek in a guy for me to feel with happy with and Mrs Misfit to enjoy. And likewise we wouldn't want to be with people who didn't genuinely feel the same about us.

(Mr)

What are you disagreeing with cos, for the most part, it sounds like you're agreeing that 'in person' meets are better for getting to know guys than here, online

That's not meant to sound confrontational btw, either agreeing or disagreeing is good...

what I'm saying isn't gospel by any means

"

Not Disagreeing with you on the point about getting to know people in real life is better. A lot of what you say is logical. But disagreeing on the idea of making 2D judgements. And I think you may underestimate the value many people on here put on personal qualities. I suppose ironically because our preference for face to face meeting and not to do that we generally don't engage on here. And why we are big fans of clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And what makes it harder is people don’t give it a go with guys and find out their personality they take one look and frown upon you and say oh no not for me have found that often around my area it’s if your body and face fit then it’s ok, but had a lovely lady give me the chance and I thank her for that but never verified me but you know what who the hell cares what they think on here, I enjoy my chats to those on here that do chat so thank you to them. Enjoy your day folks

People, in general, don't fuck personality

Here, we are afforded the opportunity to dismiss or engage at will, based on a selection of 2D images and a few words on a page

People make snap choices with scant regard for others and, perhaps, rightly so

If there are 30 guys you are attracted to and another 30 guys who you aren't, but still might be nice guys, who are you going to chat to?

Where is your time best spent?

People here balance work & family life and, in between, grab time to come here for some snatched moments of space and fun

Why 'waste' that on guys you just don't get the fanny flutters for?

Chubby guys are just one group that feel excluded here; add in the older, add in the shorter, add in the asian guys, add in the married...

That's a whole lot of disappointment right there unless expectation & acceptance are managed

Disagree. That's why we are very much club swingers rather than online arrangements. You get the measure of people a lot better in person rather than online. In a club its more like real life speed dating. Our taste tends to be for chunkier people but how we get along with people and their personal qualities goes a long way. Yes being a nice guy is important to us but being a nice guy is not the sole component of the chemistry we seek in a guy for me to feel with happy with and Mrs Misfit to enjoy. And likewise we wouldn't want to be with people who didn't genuinely feel the same about us.

(Mr)

What are you disagreeing with cos, for the most part, it sounds like you're agreeing that 'in person' meets are better for getting to know guys than here, online

That's not meant to sound confrontational btw, either agreeing or disagreeing is good...

what I'm saying isn't gospel by any means

Not Disagreeing with you on the point about getting to know people in real life is better. A lot of what you say is logical. But disagreeing on the idea of making 2D judgements. And I think you may underestimate the value many people on here put on personal qualities. I suppose ironically because our preference for face to face meeting and not to do that we generally don't engage on here. And why we are big fans of clubs."

2D judgements happen so much here though, other factors like message content either do (or don't) help an individuals chance of being taken notice of

It's positive to see you adopting a different approach from those that 'swing' mostly from the comfort of their sofa

So, maybe, to add to my initial post here, I should encourage chunky guys to get off their phones and into the clubs

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