FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting somebody your not attracted to

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you meet somebody your not attracted to but you had good conversations with? X

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

If they knew it was for no other reason than as friends I would. I wouldn’t string someone along thinking they would get a physical meet out of it

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

As friends yes of course.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes definitely. I like meeting people because I find them fascinating and I've made some brilliant friends on here. I think as long as you're all on the same page it's great to meet people from here and have open conversations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you meet somebody your not attracted to but you had good conversations with? X"

Yes, I have to meet the blokes at work everyday and I don’t fancy any of them.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Meet, yes. Have sex with, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For more conversation, yes... For sex, no

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've spoken to many people at forum socials I'm not attracted to.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Yes we would, A nice social and good conversation sounds lovely..

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Yes.

You don’t have to fuck everyone you meet on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People from here no. That's not why I'm here.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've had a few meets that were set out as platonic.

I hopefully have a few to come this year too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People from here no. That's not why I'm here. "

Scarlet

No pictures.

I wanna refund on my supporter badge now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there alway shoping drinks then out on the pull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always good to have a beer with a new person

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Yes as friends only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely a social is just a social?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe, if he totally understood nothing was gonna happen sexually...

I have some platonic online `friends`

Some peeps do look different in person & for some they look different in a very positive way...sometimes we just don't know if there is chemistry until that intial face to face meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for a social, no for a playmate. Attraction is an important part for anything more

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes but being 100% certain they knew it was just a social and would go no further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you meet somebody your not attracted to but you had good conversations with? X"

Yes

Fantastic waste of weeks of filthy messages to meet and instantly be bored

Good topic ...

A shame the fates didn’t roll .. but worth a try

In it to win it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely. Ill meet anyone for a social

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I'll happily meet anyone for a social, but I'll be clear on my intention so there is no confusion x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

No-one is guaranteed to get into my trolleys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As friends yeah, isn’t that part of normal life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People from here no. That's not why I'm here.

Scarlet

No pictures.

I wanna refund on my supporter badge now."

Not you as well. Admin must be wondering what's going on!

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

"Would you meet somebody your not attracted to but you had good conversations with? X"

I would and I did , few of them turned out to be my best meets at all times. But I tend to get attracted personalities as well so more I like their attitude, more I find them sexy and seductive

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Yes, and it has been done.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Depends on whether they accept it's purely a platonic social or if they keep pushing for "social and then maybe..."

If I think they'll push me to change my mind then no, I wouldn't put either of us into a situation so awkward.

Otherwise absolutely, I'm a social creature at heart so always happy to meet people I chat with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But I tend to get attracted personalities as well so more I like their attitude, more I find them sexy and seductive

Same ^^ If I found their personality attractive then I would be attracted to them.

If I didn't find their personality attractive then we probably wouldn't be having a conversation anyway.

And I have in the past been turned on by and had sex with people I didn't find physically attractive to start with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is too short to spend time with the wrong ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you meet somebody your not attracted to but you had good conversations with? X"

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Yes, because how someone looks on photos (generally filtered) doesn’t necessarily bear resemblance to what they look like in the flesh.

Plus .. chemistry is everything

Feisty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would for a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we have good conversations, then I’m attracted to her.

Meeting would be greatly pleasurable but by the time we meet, it’ll be obvious that we are friends without the need for it to be physical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a social yes

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

A social is just that for me, no expectations and no assumptions xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not from here. I’d be too worried they would still try it on.

Normal life then yes I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, of course..

A person is far more than a photo.

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Definitely, but as others have said I make it clear it's platonic so there's no awkwardness. I love talking to people who are open minded and have similar relationships to mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. Attraction takes many forms, and that of a mind and a personality often creates a bigger spark for me than I’d ever get seeing a few carefully selected photos. Besides, meeting people is fun and you just never know where a friendship might develop from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met and had sex with plenty iv not been attracted to

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Would you meet somebody your not attracted to but you had good conversations with? X"

Yes as friends.

Got some great friends from here and you can also get to know their friends whom you may fancy.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes maybe as long as the expectations were clearly set out.

A couple of people i have thought i fancied but there was zero chemistry at the meet. Rather awkward when it's not mutual.

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