FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting without photo

By *awk90 OP Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

I got messaged by a profile wanting to meet, but when I asked for a photo they said no. Am I silly for wanting to see the person before I meet them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, don’t do it. Be safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pass them on to all the men who say they can’t get meets

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Don't do it.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No would not meet without at least first seeing a photo or even a quick whatsapp vid call x

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

"I got messaged by a profile wanting to meet, but when I asked for a photo they said no. Am I silly for wanting to see the person before I meet them?"

Not silly at all, without seeing a pic of them how can you tell if there is even any physical attraction and that's before you even start to get into the safety aspects of meeting someone.

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By *awk90 OP Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

Okay, thanks for confirming I'm not crazy

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

Wouldn’t even entertain meeting blindly

stay safe

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

People have met us without seeing our faces but I wouldn't advise meeting without seeing any photos at all

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Funnily enough one of my most successful meets has come from where i hadnt sent a photo. I hadn't refused to, it just didn't come up.

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By * Your PleasureMan
over a year ago

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Probably a fake, did they have any verifications?

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I can understand people wanting to keep their anonymity till the very last minute. But there needs to be a certain exchange of trust before a meet. A photo I think for most of us is a basic requirement before a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do blind dates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol why would you want to meet anyone who wouldn't send a pic? Definitely don't do it!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

It's always nice to see who you are chatting to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sensible.

If someone messages me without either having pictures abailable on their profile or attached in their message, I used to give them one more chance to send one.

Now I'm far stricter on this.

No picture in the first exchange of messages and that's the end of the conversation.

With mobile phones all having built in, high quality cameras there is no excuse for being unable to provide a picture.

This is not blind date

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Nope, their perogative not to send a pic, but would make me wonder what they were hiding

Miss

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

It's up to them of course but we wouldn't. Could be anyone. Your boss, your vicar...

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

No pic, no meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ever meet with any sort of confirmation of whom they are...a photo is never a guarantee either. Phone call or video call is best

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Never ever meet with any sort of confirmation of whom they are...a photo is never a guarantee either. Phone call or video call is best"

In this day and age, with all the tech you kids have these days, a video call shouldn't be a big ask.

Get off my lawn. Etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No photo, no meet as far as I'm concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d never meet anybody without a photo, imagine turning up and it’s your sister??….

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I don't send photos on here but will allow the potential meet to see me on my mobile - as a live image that is even better than a picture (who could be anybody)

No picture (on or offline) no meet. Categorically no meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no chance would I meet without seeing a face pic!

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