FabSwingers.com forum: Block list reprieve

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve got a real issue with injustice and punishment not fitting the crime so would anyone be willing to pin point the main areas or actions I’ve done that warranted being blocked. Or even if in general we get on and but sometimes I make you roll your eyes.

Things like non compatibility and stuff like that is irrelevant. It would really help with my counselling cos I tell her everything about all areas of my life. I spend a good chunk of time on here so would be good feedback if I knew why other people perceived me so badly. If I’m oblivious to whatever I’m doing I’m never gonna be able to improve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like you. I think you’re doing a brilliant job of becoming more self aware.

You’re brave as fuck, because you put yourself out there and show us your strengths and weaknesses. Plus, you make me laugh.

I know that’s not what you asked, but that is my opinion of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve got a real issue with injustice and punishment not fitting the crime so would anyone be willing to pin point the main areas or actions I’ve done that warranted being blocked. Or even if in general we get on and but sometimes I make you roll your eyes.

I’ve been blocked by people I’ve never spoke to, I wouldn’t lose any sleep over it if I was you, unless you are in fact a massive bellend then it’s probably that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m on your friends list, but I think I’m clinging on by the skin of my teeth, how long before you bump me off, cause I know you like to keep it under 20, do I need to up my game ?

Yours sincerely

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By *nglishCharmMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Your age preference states 99 to 99, thought I'd let you know

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By *nglishCharmMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Ment for op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your age preference states 99 to 99, thought I'd let you know

She has a real thing for 99 year olds

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By *nglishCharmMan
over a year ago

Midlands

, op is stunning

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like you. I think you’re doing a brilliant job of becoming more self aware.

You’re brave as fuck, because you put yourself out there and show us your strengths and weaknesses. Plus, you make me laugh.

I know that’s not what you asked, but that is my opinion of you."

Self aware yes that’s what she said she’s noticing, plus having boundaries and dealing with things in an adult way instead of a childlike response. Example being comms with my ex have always been shit and normally when he says something to wind me up I bite and argue back but lately I’ve just either not been drawn into it and ignored him or just answered the main thing he’s addressing minus the squabble.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I am aware this is not the answer to the question nor a suck up thread but...

I’ve been reading you on here for years and I am generally in awe of your attitude and general openness. You do stick up for others and show a beautiful soul from what I can see when I dip in and out of here.

Whatever responses you get here that actually relate to the query, please don’t take them too hard. I think you’re a lot more sensitive than you let on and I don’t like to see anyone upset.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I find you pretty refreshing on here.

I dont always want to read your threads as they are often real life stuff and this site is more escapism for me, but that's nothing against you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think you’re doing anything wrong….someone else having a problem doesn’t mean you have to change.

You’re forthright, open and honest from what I’ve seen and some people can’t handle that. That, however, is definitely their issue and not yours.

If anyone is willing to block you over just being you, then they’re not for you anyway and they’ve just saved you potentially wasting your time on them.

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

At the end of the day you are who you are why try to change that everyone has there floors whatever they are surely that makes them different to everyone else just keep being you sure some won't like you others will thats just life

and peace

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

We've clashed on a couple of threads in the past OP. And to be honest if I was my younger self I probably would have blocked you. If you've upset me (too strong a word but can't think of a better one currently) I know you don't actually mean to so I just give my own head a wobble.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I hope you genuinely want honest feedback. Here goes ….

1. Your profile is really clear. You don’t want to meet anybody from the site. For a lot of people that’s the whole point of being here so I guess they just scrub you off their feed.

2. Your job is “ankle smasher” I guess a lot of people think you might get a bit bunny boiler from time to time. You’ve also been very honest that you’ve previously struggled with some issues and you regularly speak with a counsellor. For a lot of people, I guess they’d prefer an easier life and do without any potential drama.

3. You’re really attractive and I suppose that might intimidate some people.

4. Your profile is full of advice that you don’t appear to follow yourself.

“ If your message is deleted just take that as them not being interested and leave it at that.

Rejection isn’t nice but you must remember that this place is not a reflection of real life.

In real life people have a better feel of your personality and all the other things that make you great so don’t be too disheartened.

When writing your profile text use a spell checker and the correct grammar and punctuation.”

If all the above is a good plan, you seem to be in breach of it now and again.

5. As I said, very attractive, but you do seem to humble brag now and again. Put the two together and it seems to be more brag than humble.

Sorry if that’s a bit blunt, but you did ask.

I tried to send this to you privately but I’m outside your age range (Perhaps I look 99 though?).

Gbat

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

You asked so I shall give you my honest opinion.

I perceive you as thinking that you are better than most. I also think that you have some body image issues that come across as negativity towards fat and “ugly” people.

I don’t want to have sex with you so I am not interested in blowing smoke up your arse.

However, I haven’t blocked you and sometimes your comments can be entertaining.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I haven't blocked you but you are sometimes a bit tone deaf to a room.

You are a strong personality and hard to ignore.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Admittedly at first I was a bit erm ok and unsure about you, but as the months have gone on I've seen a change in you how you have taken on board aspects you've needed to work on and embraced the fact that you needed to seek help and become more self aware of why you're like you are with regards to relationships and the opposite sex.

Bravo is what I say and keep doing what you're doing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Starting to regret posting something sarcastic now…. Awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only seen your posts on the forum's.

But I like your straight talking and quite often funny responses.

You seem very nice.

Set boundaries and never stop working on self improvement and awareness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The previous version of your profile stated any men who slept with you that you'd cut his foreskin off.

And that your profile name is in fact a mentally ill women from the film misery is enough for me to stay well clear of you.

I don't even think you are joking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know you, I’ve only seen a few of your posts and peoples reactions.

Maybe you just like attention whether it’s negative or positive, maybe you have BPD…maybe it’s all an act. I don’t know and don’t care. You’ve never offended me so live and let live. **big wave**

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

You think everybody blocks because they think badly of someone?

You've been here long enough to know that's simply not true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The previous version of your profile stated any men who slept with you that you'd cut his foreskin off.

And that your profile name is in fact a mentally ill women from the film misery is enough for me to stay well clear of you.

I don't even think you are joking."

Wanted to make a dressing gown made from Willy skin, looking for donations is what I said. That’s because Willy skin is so soft and I would love to wear it.

I also said I’d kill people in their sleep but not even that put people off from messaging me.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I think we are in the forum for a reason, be that to meet new people, to have a chat, to discuss with fervour some of the hot topics of the day, to attract some attention to name but a few. And some of us are here for a combination of reasons.

The same applies to our actions on the site, in the forums and in terms of blocking. It can be done out of disliking somebody's posts in the forums, disliking their profile, finding them hard work or too intense, knowing them from somewhere else etc... another host of reasons.

It is difficult to second guess why somebody blocks me - so I am not sure it would help your quest for self-awareness necessarily to guess what the reasons might be? Your personality will likely interpret the reasons in a way that you are used to thinking and that, in my mind, is unhelpful at best?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Similar thing happend to me. Your a cool person. Dont let anyone tell you how to be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Also I never ever use the word ugly and I always say people shouldn’t use the word to describe someone’s appearance either.

The fat thing yeah I get that. But that’s because people say different emotions to what they really feel. You can see someone overweight being all yeah I’m happy as I am and the next breath they’re all I feel shit I’m not happy with how I look blah blah blah. I just say well do something about it then, c’mon I’ll help you and I would help anyone.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Threats of violence for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The previous version of your profile stated any men who slept with you that you'd cut his foreskin off.

And that your profile name is in fact a mentally ill women from the film misery is enough for me to stay well clear of you.

I don't even think you are joking.

Wanted to make a dressing gown made from Willy skin, looking for donations is what I said. That’s because Willy skin is so soft and I would love to wear it.

I also said I’d kill people in their sleep but not even that put people off from messaging me. "

Out of interest…. How far did you get with your foreskin dressing gown?…

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

I've seen your posts for years, its not personal and I would say something similar to loads of people,

When speaking your mind try being a little more tactful when typing/speaking,

Not wearing heart on your sleeve all the time over thinking everything someone says/does not everything is a attack on you/Your personality etc

We have never clashed on here and even if we had I wouldn't block its a bit pointless as its only words for me.

Good luck with your counselling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Threats of violence for me "

If people can’t see that as a joke then I can’t do anything to change my humour. I do have quite dark humour.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Threats of violence for me

If people can’t see that as a joke then I can’t do anything to change my humour. I do have quite dark humour. "

I’ve got quite a dark sense of humour but saying you’d kick someone’s head in is just a threat of violence to me, no humour about it

Any threats of violence to me are an indicator to avoid that person at all costs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Threats of violence for me

If people can’t see that as a joke then I can’t do anything to change my humour. I do have quite dark humour. "

Me too, love dark humour and you know what ,you can't change other people's thoughts ,opinions etc. The same way they do not control yours .

We can control what we say and how we react to others though.

Not everyone gets everyone's sense of humour either.

I've mellowed as I've got older

Mrs x hugs x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Threats of violence for me

If people can’t see that as a joke then I can’t do anything to change my humour. I do have quite dark humour.

I’ve got quite a dark sense of humour but saying you’d kick someone’s head in is just a threat of violence to me, no humour about it

Any threats of violence to me are an indicator to avoid that person at all costs "

Don’t ever come to South Wales then cos it’s a turn of phrase here. Not like anyone is actually kick someone’s skull in.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

What you may view as warrented may not be by somebody else, and vice versa.

I dislike things you do and I like some things you do. Nothing to me would make me want to block you.

We have clashed once or twice. You have also be extremely nice to me too when it was needed.

I've had people block me, and I'm fine with it. I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea, or coffee or shot or whatever but that's fine. The block doesn't really mean anything.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’ve never considered blocking you OP.

I have sometimes wondered if you have a dry sense of humour and are joking or whether you actually mean some of the things you say.

I do like reading your posts though.

I think if we were both at a group social I’d want to see how you are in real life.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I only block throughly unpleasant behaviour on here and that sort of behaviour is dealt with swiftly for me to even notice most times.

You are ok by me Op helps to have crossed paths on forums before that were a bit more of a free for all. Those were the days.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I just think you’re marmite Annie. Some will get you some won’t. Ive known you for ages and you do make me laugh and sometimes roll my eyes too! I like you though and we get on.

As for the blocks. People block for all kinds of reasons. A few forum people have me blocked, I’ve no idea why but it is what it is. I’m certainly not bothered enough to find out. That really needs to be the least of your worries x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m on your friends list, but I think I’m clinging on by the skin of my teeth, how long before you bump me off, cause I know you like to keep it under 20, do I need to up my game ?

Yours sincerely "

I’ll never take you off!

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

I’ve read some of your posts and thought “that’s a little bit too honest!” And coming from me, you know that’s bad when I’ve got aspergers and I don’t know boundaries.

I think that you’re very open, and you seem very self confident. But some people could see that as arrogance.

Hope you find this constructive, it’s in no way meant to offend.

Reposted due to the grammar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't seem like a bad person to me. I see you as a direct no-nonsense kind of woman. Black and white spade a spade no mincing words nothing wrong with that at all.

You come across as very strong independent woman and knows exactly what she wants without the BS.

But that is my opinion from my observing go out you talk in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I have to add some people find that intimidating.

Me personally not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven’t spoke before Annie but I have seen a few of your threads and posts not in like some weird stalker way either. But I believe you’re very open and honest in your comments which I think is good and you are very self confident.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m still stuck on this foreskin dressing gown, how would you connect them? Cotton/thread? Or glue them to an already constructed dressing gown so it’s more a layer of foreskins? I’m thinking more buffalo bill style skin lamps and sewn together, that’s probably your best bet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had mixed thoughts on you over the years and some of your posts have really got to me and caused upset for a variety of reasons. However, I dont know you, most people here don't, so we will never have a true image of you.

You seem to have some issues around men and rejection and I can wholeheartedly understand you on that level.

I am sure if I knew you out of fab I would be defending you all over the place whether you needed it or not.

I hope you find your happy and see your own good. You only need to work on what you want to change.

Sending love x

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"I’m still stuck on this foreskin dressing gown, how would you connect them? Cotton/thread? Or glue them to an already constructed dressing gown so it’s more a layer of foreskins? I’m thinking more buffalo bill style skin lamps and sewn together, that’s probably your best bet"

I reckon you'd want them as the lining for a jacket. As she says, they're very soft, so wasted on the outside, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine some people took issue/offence with your threat to stamp (or was it slice?) a guys head off his shoulders a few weeks ago.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I reckon you'd want them as the lining for a jacket. As she says, they're very soft, so wasted on the outside, surely?"

Do you think it could go on a normal wash or a wool wash?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon you'd want them as the lining for a jacket. As she says, they're very soft, so wasted on the outside, surely?"

Yeah I guess you’re right, maybe the internal lining or the buffalo bill style Idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 50/50 on you Annie, some of your posts make tea come out of my nose with laughter, yet some come across as really tone deaf and insensitive. But I know you like debate, and maybe you're trying to trigger a heated one in those situations? I don't know, but I wouldn't block you. Unless you asked me for a donation to your dressing gown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just think you’re marmite Annie. Some will get you some won’t. Ive known you for ages and you do make me laugh and sometimes roll my eyes too! I like you though and we get on.

It’s because you won’t buy me dinner and then sleep with me

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

I reckon you'd want them as the lining for a jacket. As she says, they're very soft, so wasted on the outside, surely?

Do you think it could go on a normal wash or a wool wash?"

Dry clean only, it's leather after all.

Kinda.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon you'd want them as the lining for a jacket. As she says, they're very soft, so wasted on the outside, surely?

Do you think it could go on a normal wash or a wool wash?"

I imagine like a 30? Don’t think shrinking in the wash is an issue unless it’s a cold wash..

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

I reckon you'd want them as the lining for a jacket. As she says, they're very soft, so wasted on the outside, surely?

Yeah I guess you’re right, maybe the internal lining or the buffalo bill style Idea "

You know how smoking jackets sometimes have unusual linings?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really much interaction with you and I always base my thoughts on how people treat me so not really got a bad thing to say about you or anything but I do atmiear your pics

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I just think you’re marmite Annie. Some will get you some won’t. Ive known you for ages and you do make me laugh and sometimes roll my eyes too! I like you though and we get on.

It’s because you won’t buy me dinner and then sleep with me

Hang on I didn’t realise I was buying this dinner you invited me to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just think you’re marmite Annie. Some will get you some won’t. Ive known you for ages and you do make me laugh and sometimes roll my eyes too! I like you though and we get on.

It’s because you won’t buy me dinner and then sleep with me

Hang on I didn’t realise I was buying this dinner you invited me to!

#amsterdamnit!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I imagine some people took issue/offence with your threat to stamp (or was it slice?) a guys head off his shoulders a few weeks ago. "

When I say I’ll take his head off his shoulders?

Jesus Christ. It’s my language it’s taken out of context, I’ve done kickboxing since I was 8 years old and stuff like kicking peoples head in and saying you’ll take their head off their shoulders it’s just bullshit amongst us but it’s stuff that’s stuck, it’s phrases that just come out and most the time I type as I would speak.

If people honestly think I would decapitate someone then that’s just silly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon you'd want them as the lining for a jacket. As she says, they're very soft, so wasted on the outside, surely?"

I don’t think we’ll ever get to the bottom of this

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Jeepers creepers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeepers creepers...

It’s a mind boggler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You used to be my friend...you binned me

I sent you a bumhole pic and you returned with a pussy pic....that was nice

Youre hot and I'd like to pump ya sometime...never gonna happen.

Your posts are usually very funny....I tend to laugh.

I think you're pretty cool!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine some people took issue/offence with your threat to stamp (or was it slice?) a guys head off his shoulders a few weeks ago.

When I say I’ll take his head off his shoulders?

If people honestly think I would decapitate someone then that’s just silly. "

You asked for opinions, Annie - so I gave an honest one. Plenty of people here have skin as thick as a rhinos and would take your comment in the manner in which you meant it, myself included. But that’s the point - it’s clear that a few people don’t “get” you, how your mind works and the context of your comments sometimes, especially when the comment was made during what was clearly a heated verbal altercation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You used to be my friend...you binned me

I sent you a bumhole pic and you returned with a pussy pic....that was nice

Youre hot and I'd like to pump ya sometime...never gonna happen.

Your posts are usually very funny....I tend to laugh.

I think you're pretty cool!

Ahh I’m still your friend in spirit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You used to be my friend...you binned me

I sent you a bumhole pic and you returned with a pussy pic....that was nice

Youre hot and I'd like to pump ya sometime...never gonna happen.

Your posts are usually very funny....I tend to laugh.

I think you're pretty cool!

Ahh I’m still your friend in spirit!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never blocked you.

Even when you were called fag and slippers.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

What was the name you had that was something to with a horse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What was the name you had that was something to with a horse?"

Mr Ed ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What was the name you had that was something to with a horse?"

LookAtMyHooves

It’s off Tom Greens Zebras in America

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Dark sense of humour is one thing but humour is the key word. I dont know you at all but id be ibclined to say you try to be funny but it misfires because you don't have a proper dark sense of humour but rather want to have one. This suggests insecurity of some kind.

Ive not seen many of your posts but am intrigued by what I've read here. Id also question what you say about language use in kickboxing and in south wales. Ive lived in wales previously and been involved in combat sports when inwas younger and as an adult. Again, your claim that this is just typical banter isnt quite right and again suggests you misread this type of banter and humour. Do you have an ASD or BPD diagnosis?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"What was the name you had that was something to with a horse?

LookAtMyHooves

It’s off Tom Greens Zebras in America

Knew it was something horsey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know you, but seen your pics on hot pics many a time.

Absolutely stunning lady, keep up what your doing I say.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

You think every woman is inferior to you and are desparate to be liked.

Purely based on the little hate list you put people on (may not do it now), and the look at me first page of hot pics stuff.

But you are blunt and funny too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dark sense of humour is one thing but humour is the key word. I dont know you at all but id be ibclined to say you try to be funny but it misfires because you don't have a proper dark sense of humour but rather want to have one. This suggests insecurity of some kind.

What’s a professional dark sense of humour then?

No to any kind of disorder and I am under a counsellor and have been for 5 months.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Blunt and like attention anything else would be too much conjecture.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You think every woman is inferior to you and are desparate to be liked.

Purely based on the little hate list you put people on (may not do it now), and the look at me first page of hot pics stuff.

But you are blunt and funny too. "

Aw c’mon I don’t think every woman is inferior to me and I don’t know about this hate list?

There’s something about projecting in what you’re saying. If you think I make women feel inferior then that could be your own emotions and not what I actually do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you don’t answer questions about foreskin dressing gowns which could be infuriating for anybody looking to get in to the phallus fashion world

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"You think every woman is inferior to you and are desparate to be liked.

Purely based on the little hate list you put people on (may not do it now), and the look at me first page of hot pics stuff.

But you are blunt and funny too.

Aw c’mon I don’t think every woman is inferior to me and I don’t know about this hate list?

There’s something about projecting in what you’re saying. If you think I make women feel inferior then that could be your own emotions and not what I actually do. "

The sand fanny crew?

Just reading your OP and the block list thing, I've been blocked by men on the forums I've never interacted with.

May I ask why it's important you don't get blocked?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"And you don’t answer questions about foreskin dressing gowns which could be infuriating for anybody looking to get in to the phallus fashion world"

There was a man on here who joked all the time about making lampshades out of peoples' skin, and he was never taken seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And you don’t answer questions about foreskin dressing gowns which could be infuriating for anybody looking to get in to the phallus fashion world

There was a man on here who joked all the time about making lampshades out of peoples' skin, and he was never taken seriously.

Until he did it? Lol

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By *smithyukMan
over a year ago

Staffs

Whose this local celebrity I seem to have never come across in 8 years of being here

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"And you don’t answer questions about foreskin dressing gowns which could be infuriating for anybody looking to get in to the phallus fashion world

There was a man on here who joked all the time about making lampshades out of peoples' skin, and he was never taken seriously.

Until he did it? Lol "

It was funny to read.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"And you don’t answer questions about foreskin dressing gowns which could be infuriating for anybody looking to get in to the phallus fashion world"

You could branch out to wallets, driving gloves....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And you don’t answer questions about foreskin dressing gowns which could be infuriating for anybody looking to get in to the phallus fashion world

You could branch out to wallets, driving gloves...."

Supply and demand I guess, and materials…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I apologies for not reading all that has been said by others and I may be repeating the points.

I like your posts as they’re honest and transparent.

I think the issue arises when others perceive them to be ‘drama’ and your views to be ‘judgmental’. It is their issue to contend with as they can’t see that you aren’t necessarily judging but simply putting your views out in the open sans any pretence or political correctness perhaps.

It is the manner in which you air your views. It lacks ‘grace’ sometimes perhaps and can be rather jarring.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You think every woman is inferior to you and are desparate to be liked.

Purely based on the little hate list you put people on (may not do it now), and the look at me first page of hot pics stuff.

But you are blunt and funny too.

Aw c’mon I don’t think every woman is inferior to me and I don’t know about this hate list?

There’s something about projecting in what you’re saying. If you think I make women feel inferior then that could be your own emotions and not what I actually do.

The sand fanny crew?

Just reading your OP and the block list thing, I've been blocked by men on the forums I've never interacted with.

May I ask why it's important you don't get blocked?

The fanny sand crew

they were a group of women who consistently found fault in everything I said I would say quite nasty things to me. Wouldn’t really call that a hate list, fanny sand or Sandy vagina was a popular online phrase when women would get bent out of shape over nothing.

It’s not so much not to be blocked but the reason for doing it, like if multiple people are seeing a behaviour that I’m not aware of I can tell my counsellor and see if she thinks it’s something I need to work on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know what?

I’m sick of you not talking about your cooking anymore.

If you don’t do a food porn thread in the near future then I might just block you for the hell of it.

Tell me about your roasties again, please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block you! Hell no. Carry on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know what?

I’m sick of you not talking about your cooking anymore.

If you don’t do a food porn thread in the near future then I might just block you for the hell of it.

Tell me about your roasties again, please."

Yeah, I want to hear about the omelette maker again.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"You think every woman is inferior to you and are desparate to be liked.

Purely based on the little hate list you put people on (may not do it now), and the look at me first page of hot pics stuff.

But you are blunt and funny too.

Aw c’mon I don’t think every woman is inferior to me and I don’t know about this hate list?

There’s something about projecting in what you’re saying. If you think I make women feel inferior then that could be your own emotions and not what I actually do.

The sand fanny crew?

Just reading your OP and the block list thing, I've been blocked by men on the forums I've never interacted with.

May I ask why it's important you don't get blocked?

The fanny sand crew

Hang on now, you started that thread after you asked people about deeply personal experiences without stating it was for you book. So people were upset at it. Yes I disagreed with you on that thread but I don't disagree with you on everything. In fact I agree with you often, and even said in a thread last week that I'm sure you'd help anyone who wanted help to loose weight. And I don't believe I've ever said anything mean to you despite your name calling, if I have upset you I appologise.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"You think every woman is inferior to you and are desparate to be liked.

Purely based on the little hate list you put people on (may not do it now), and the look at me first page of hot pics stuff.

But you are blunt and funny too.

Aw c’mon I don’t think every woman is inferior to me and I don’t know about this hate list?

There’s something about projecting in what you’re saying. If you think I make women feel inferior then that could be your own emotions and not what I actually do.

The sand fanny crew?

Just reading your OP and the block list thing, I've been blocked by men on the forums I've never interacted with.

May I ask why it's important you don't get blocked?

The fanny sand crew

They might just not fancy having their bum hole shaved

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You think every woman is inferior to you and are desparate to be liked.

Purely based on the little hate list you put people on (may not do it now), and the look at me first page of hot pics stuff.

But you are blunt and funny too.

Aw c’mon I don’t think every woman is inferior to me and I don’t know about this hate list?

There’s something about projecting in what you’re saying. If you think I make women feel inferior then that could be your own emotions and not what I actually do.

The sand fanny crew?

Just reading your OP and the block list thing, I've been blocked by men on the forums I've never interacted with.

May I ask why it's important you don't get blocked?

The fanny sand crew

Fanny sand crew came about in 2017. That thread was only last year. The abuse I’ve had has significantly reduced from what it used to be towards me.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"And you don’t answer questions about foreskin dressing gowns which could be infuriating for anybody looking to get in to the phallus fashion world

You could branch out to wallets, driving gloves....

Supply and demand I guess, and materials… "

Sourcing the raw materials may prove tricky...

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"You think every woman is inferior to you and are desparate to be liked.

Purely based on the little hate list you put people on (may not do it now), and the look at me first page of hot pics stuff.

But you are blunt and funny too.

Aw c’mon I don’t think every woman is inferior to me and I don’t know about this hate list?

There’s something about projecting in what you’re saying. If you think I make women feel inferior then that could be your own emotions and not what I actually do.

The sand fanny crew?

Just reading your OP and the block list thing, I've been blocked by men on the forums I've never interacted with.

May I ask why it's important you don't get blocked?

The fanny sand crew

Fanny sand crew came about in 2017. That thread was only last year. The abuse I’ve had has significantly reduced from what it used to be towards me. "

That was well before my time on here, and I'm sorry if you have had to suffer abusive behaviour from others, it's not on. Guess then I'm a bit perplexed then, why you'd reprive the saying just because people didn't agree with you last year. Is that itself not being mean and calling people names? You don't need to answer me, but it's that kind of thing that could potentially make someone block you maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And you don’t answer questions about foreskin dressing gowns which could be infuriating for anybody looking to get in to the phallus fashion world

You could branch out to wallets, driving gloves....

Supply and demand I guess, and materials…

Sourcing the raw materials may prove tricky..."

I’ll change my “looking for” to Jewish doctors, should resolve that pretty quickly

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I've been on here many years OP.

We haven't chatted, or really interacted and you certainly haven't upset me.

People block for all sorts of reasons, some are quicker to block than others.

I think the biggest issue for many people, is that you just say exactly what you're thinking. You also seem to lack filters and can blow very hot and cold.

My only suggestions would be, that it may be better not to wear your heart on your sleeve as much as you do, and think before you type. It's a lot easier for the written word to be misinterpreted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know you, but what i will say is the area your asking about, you don't need to imorove. Only work on the things you know your not happy with and only because you want to. If people block you fuck them. If people roll their eyes, let them. You can't please everyone all the time. If they are real friends then they will tell you the things you dont want to hear. They will call you out and pull you up, but from a place of love.

It's non of our business what others think of us.

And I certainly wouldn't be asking people in a forum, that's all ready creating a narrative you want to hear, a confirmation bias.

You don't need to be accepted by others, learning to accept yourself is a big enough task!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not so much not to be blocked but the reason for doing it, like if multiple people are seeing a behaviour that I’m not aware of I can tell my counsellor and see if she thinks it’s something I need to work on. "

I've been on and off for 6 years (you were Athena back then I think?) so I've obviously seen a lot of your posts. These are observations, not criticisms, so I hope you're not offended.

You're very blunt in a way that might be jarring to some people. Most of my family is on the autistic spectrum so I'm used to it, but lots of people aren't.

You don't have much sense of propriety or social lubrication when you post. For example, British society doesn't like people to acknowledge and celebrate their own positive attributes and will think badly of someone who openly says how attractive they think they are. I'm sure lots of people have those thoughts about themselves, but they won't say it for fear of looking crass or being accused of bragging. Personally I much prefer your authentic and honest conversation style as it's much easier for my autistic brain to deal with. Most neurotypical people will probably have trouble with it.

You come across as very self-involved as your posts are mostly about yourself and you rarely show an interest in other people and their lives. You like people to offer you feedback, but you rarely offer your opinion threads that aren't about you. Again, not a criticism, just an observation.

I hope that's the sort of thing you were looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang on...is there some history here?

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

"You think every woman is inferior to you and are desparate to be liked.

Purely based on the little hate list you put people on (may not do it now), and the look at me first page of hot pics stuff.

But you are blunt and funny too.

Aw c’mon I don’t think every woman is inferior to me and I don’t know about this hate list?

There’s something about projecting in what you’re saying. If you think I make women feel inferior then that could be your own emotions and not what I actually do. "

No love. You used to post things about hey look at my boobs they are awesome and assume every man was into you.

You imply that you think I'm projecting.

You clearly have problems.

I do not feel inferior to you or anyone. Even now, you are a woman hater.

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

You make my eyes roll because I've heard the same story off you from as long as I can remember. You ignore constructive advice and some of the stuff you have come away with have been nothing short of disgusting. You say things like people are just jealous so most won't comment in fear of appearing so. You are drawn to any attention and your insecurities are more than evident. You also add a little sob parts in your posts. I think you use that as a defense mechanism to get the sympathy vote. You put posts up that are crude to seem down to earth. You said before you don't have mates but all of a sudden you have a guy best pal. You put posts up that are so personal that over the years people are drawn in like a soap opera. I'd honestly not be surprised if none of these things actually happened and you've strung people along all this time. I also don't think you have a counsellor. I will say tho that either way you are one of the most interesting people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hang on...is there some history here?"

I’m getting the impression that she can be quite blasé and some people think she’s a bit of a self centred dick, and some people don’t, some people have blocked her and she’d like to know why, I presume they fall in the first category of people and that’s pretty much all I can gather so far

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You think every woman is inferior to you and are desparate to be liked.

Purely based on the little hate list you put people on (may not do it now), and the look at me first page of hot pics stuff.

But you are blunt and funny too.

Aw c’mon I don’t think every woman is inferior to me and I don’t know about this hate list?

There’s something about projecting in what you’re saying. If you think I make women feel inferior then that could be your own emotions and not what I actually do.

No love. You used to post things about hey look at my boobs they are awesome and assume every man was into you.

You imply that you think I'm projecting.

You clearly have problems.

I do not feel inferior to you or anyone. Even now, you are a woman hater.

But how does me saying things about myself, using your example here of me saying look how awesome my boobs are, how does that make me a woman hater?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You make my eyes roll because I've heard the same story off you from as long as I can remember. You ignore constructive advice and some of the stuff you have come away with have been nothing short of disgusting. You say things like people are just jealous so most won't comment in fear of appearing so. You are drawn to any attention and your insecurities are more than evident. You also add a little sob parts in your posts. I think you use that as a defense mechanism to get the sympathy vote. You put posts up that are crude to seem down to earth. You said before you don't have mates but all of a sudden you have a guy best pal. You put posts up that are so personal that over the years people are drawn in like a soap opera. I'd honestly not be surprised if none of these things actually happened and you've strung people along all this time. I also don't think you have a counsellor. I will say tho that either way you are one of the most interesting people on here

For the record I never say people are jealous of me, OTHER people say people are jealous of me, it’s something I’ve never actually said. My little ‘sob stories’ are things that have happened to me. If you’ve been here years then you’ll know whatever experience I’ve been talking about remains the same no matter how many times I discuss it.

I’ve never ever said I don’t have any friends, I regularly talk about my friends. I don’t have many close close friends but who does at this age, that’s a strange thing to claim I’ve said.

I wouldn’t lie about having counselling either. I’m always advising people to seek it and always saying I wish I had sought it years ago.

But I’ve taken what you’ve said on board. I dunno what I can take from that though to improve because you’re claiming things that simply aren’t true.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

"You think every woman is inferior to you and are desparate to be liked.

Purely based on the little hate list you put people on (may not do it now), and the look at me first page of hot pics stuff.

But you are blunt and funny too.

Aw c’mon I don’t think every woman is inferior to me and I don’t know about this hate list?

There’s something about projecting in what you’re saying. If you think I make women feel inferior then that could be your own emotions and not what I actually do.

No love. You used to post things about hey look at my boobs they are awesome and assume every man was into you.

You imply that you think I'm projecting.

You clearly have problems.

I do not feel inferior to you or anyone. Even now, you are a woman hater.

But how does me saying things about myself, using your example here of me saying look how awesome my boobs are, how does that make me a woman hater? "

Your attitude to other women, your list, etc.

Speaks volumes.

The site isnt just for you and your unusual requirements.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You think every woman is inferior to you and are desparate to be liked.

Purely based on the little hate list you put people on (may not do it now), and the look at me first page of hot pics stuff.

But you are blunt and funny too.

Aw c’mon I don’t think every woman is inferior to me and I don’t know about this hate list?

There’s something about projecting in what you’re saying. If you think I make women feel inferior then that could be your own emotions and not what I actually do.

No love. You used to post things about hey look at my boobs they are awesome and assume every man was into you.

You imply that you think I'm projecting.

You clearly have problems.

I do not feel inferior to you or anyone. Even now, you are a woman hater.

But how does me saying things about myself, using your example here of me saying look how awesome my boobs are, how does that make me a woman hater?

Your attitude to other women, your list, etc.

Speaks volumes.

The site isnt just for you and your unusual requirements. "

What list are you on about? I’ve already said why I called some women the fanny sand crew and that’s quite mild in comparison to the personal digs I get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say you’re too quick to judge without necessarily knowing all the facts. But at the same time I’ve chatted to you in the past and you seemed lovely xx

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I've been on here many years OP.

We haven't chatted, or really interacted and you certainly haven't upset me.

People block for all sorts of reasons, some are quicker to block than others.

I think the biggest issue for many people, is that you just say exactly what you're thinking. You also seem to lack filters and can blow very hot and cold.

My only suggestions would be, that it may be better not to wear your heart on your sleeve as much as you do, and think before you type. It's a lot easier for the written word to be misinterpreted."

I agree with this too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d say you’re too quick to judge without necessarily knowing all the facts. But at the same time I’ve chatted to you in the past and you seemed lovely xx"

Yeah think everyone is guilty of making snap judgements at some point, but if I’m wrong I’d always be the first person to hold my hands up and say I’m wrong.

Thanks, I can be lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d say you’re too quick to judge without necessarily knowing all the facts. But at the same time I’ve chatted to you in the past and you seemed lovely xx

Yeah think everyone is guilty of making snap judgements at some point, but if I’m wrong I’d always be the first person to hold my hands up and say I’m wrong.

Thanks, I can be lovely

You’re welcome xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half of your thread can be about foreskin dressing gowns and nobody bats an eyelid. You add a bit of chaos into a sometimes dull room

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Half of your thread can be about foreskin dressing gowns and nobody bats an eyelid. You add a bit of chaos into a sometimes dull room

I’m too frightened to tell people I have a pair of dick skin crocs. I’ll be crucified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Half of your thread can be about foreskin dressing gowns and nobody bats an eyelid. You add a bit of chaos into a sometimes dull room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Half of your thread can be about foreskin dressing gowns and nobody bats an eyelid. You add a bit of chaos into a sometimes dull room

I’m too frightened to tell people I have a pair of dick skin crocs. I’ll be crucified

Are they bejazzled?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hang on...is there some history here?

More drama than in the youtube comments!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now now lets leave asd and bpd, which is now eupd and is actually attachment and trauma, out of this. Keep it clean.

Challenge the issue

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hang on...is there some history here?

More drama than in the youtube comments!"

I don’t see anything dramatic here. Majority is positive or good constructive criticism, littered with some bollocks but that’s to be expected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better not.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope you genuinely want honest feedback. Here goes ….