FabSwingers.com forum: First things first

By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

As things are, have been and will be opening up, most of us are looking to tentatively step back into the world of socials, swinging and clubs.

With that I mind, what is your first foray going to be or if you’ve already made your move, what was it?

Are you/were you excited and how did it go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a meet from someone on here after talking to them for a food couple of months. It was as we both expected, if not better.

I was still bricking it. Always do.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Had a meet from someone on here after talking to them for a food couple of months. It was as we both expected, if not better.

I was still bricking it. Always do.

Nerves are always to be expected!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

A meet with a well established fwb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the realest

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Next 1:1 meet is middle of next month for a long over due catch up.

Then taking them to their first BDSM event at the end of July (assuming we open up).

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I’m the realest "

I’m sorry, that doesn’t make any sense?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I let Lexi in for a brew… that was more than enough for now.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I have a long awaited social soon, the last attempt was thwarted by a rogue cow

I'm very excited because there has been talk of cake and I have pretty new dresses to wear...and of course I’m excited to be seeing someone so lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met up with a friend last week and spent the night in a hotel with her. It was lovely to reconnect.

NBVN x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I let Lexi in for a brew… that was more than enough for now. "

. That’s more than enough for anyone!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I might be seeing a friend this week!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m the realest

I’m sorry, that doesn’t make any sense? "

Haha Iggy Azalea lyrics, very cultured

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Social just over a week ago. It was lovely.

Broke my drought on Saturday. Different person. I feel like me again. It was wonderful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few social meets with people from fab, and I met someone I've previously played with at a club at their place for something more.

So far, so good.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Nothing for now, maybe mid to late summer, we shall see

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I let Lexi in for a brew… that was more than enough for now. "

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Supposed to be seeing someone new this evening but he hasn't been online for 2 days.

I might look for someone to have a cuppa tea in London with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had some socials and planning more

small steps.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

I’ve given up trying to arrange meets on here as most messages go unread anyways

I’ll be looking for potential social/club meets and party invites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surgery date soon for me, not so fun.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Port talbot

I have a meet arranged for next month with a friend

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Surgery date soon for me, not so fun. "

Fingers crossed that it comes through for you soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could do with ladies weekend or something but will have to wait until later in the year

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

I went to a group social yesterday for the first time and it was a nice, laid-back experience with no expectations which I really enjoyed

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"I let Lexi in for a brew… that was more than enough for now. "

You have my sympathies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could maybe, possibly be tempted to visit a club.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We met a friend for coffee a few weeks ago. We had a social planned at a club but didn't attend.

We're definitely in no rush to jump in to bed with anyone. Yet...

Socials are the way forward for now.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went to a group social yesterday for the first time and it was a nice, laid-back experience with no expectations which I really enjoyed

Oooh I want to go to one of these soon

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"I went to a group social yesterday for the first time and it was a nice, laid-back experience with no expectations which I really enjoyed

Oooh I want to go to one of these soon "

Thoroughly recommend it, especially as it was my first time at any kind of swinging related club so it could've been more daunting than it was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very excited.

We talk daily. She is lovely and can't wait to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surgery date soon for me, not so fun.

Fingers crossed that it comes through for you soon! "

July apparently!

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Surgery date soon for me, not so fun.

Fingers crossed that it comes through for you soon!

July apparently!"

That’s good news! I’m so pleased for you

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I’m back to licking random people in the streets of Leeds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surgery date soon for me, not so fun.

Fingers crossed that it comes through for you soon!

July apparently!

That’s good news! I’m so pleased for you"

Thank you

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

A couple of club trips hopefully in the next couple of months, plus a big social in August, a meet with my first ever fab meet is happening soon , and more time with my favourite gal too

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Not making any sort of plans yet. I'll very slowly reach out to friends, or maybe they'll reach out to me. Starting to feel a bit past it for all the aggravation of sex. I guess it would be quite nice though if it did happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had my first private meet since last year the weekend and it went great! Not venturing out to the clubs until we are completely back to normal though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a couple of socials with some dear friend's. Maybe a club in a couple of months but we'll see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve absolutely no idea, but whatever it ends up being it will be my first (social, club visit or 1:1) via here.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I've popped to a few club socials and it's really done me the world of good to see people from the lifestyle again.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

My first foray has been a couple of socials with wonderful friends. I'm looking forward to seeing a princess of endearing qualities very soon for long overdue cake and maybe even alcohol.

As far as meeting for anything more? I'm not sure. I've not got anything planned and I don't know if I will be any time soon right now. That might change with the wind obviously but I'm cautious for various reasons.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Nothing for now, maybe mid to late summer, we shall see "

Yeah, this is me too, really missed meeting people and having fun but I've waited this long so another month or so won't hurt.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I've had a social with a couple and a meet that everyone knows about

Looking forward to trying to sort more socials and meets and hopefully club visits.

One social gathering in August and one in December

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By *ofdiamondsMan
over a year ago

Between wisbech & Kings lynn

My first social will be whatever comes up on a day I'm available and interested in what the event is.

Probably end up being a Friday evening

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"I let Lexi in for a brew… that was more than enough for now.

. That’s more than enough for anyone!"

Cheeky bugger!

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"I let Lexi in for a brew… that was more than enough for now.

You have my sympathies "

You can’t keep away!

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"I've had a social with a couple and a meet that everyone knows about

Looking forward to trying to sort more socials and meets and hopefully club visits.

One social gathering in August and one in December "

Not everybody!!! I don’t!!! Spill the beans!!!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Nothing for now, maybe mid to late summer, we shall see

Yeah, this is me too, really missed meeting people and having fun but I've waited this long so another month or so won't hurt."

I’ve had a social lunch catch up with a friend, which was great. Anything else has to take a back seat as family and other priorities come first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m back to licking random people in the streets of Leeds

Please do share the reactions

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Nothing for now, maybe mid to late summer, we shall see

Yeah, this is me too, really missed meeting people and having fun but I've waited this long so another month or so won't hurt.

I’ve had a social lunch catch up with a friend, which was great. Anything else has to take a back seat as family and other priorities come first. "

I might consider a social outside but I volunteer as a steward a COVID vaccination sites and as a Good Sam volunteer for other tasks as well so I don't want to be taking any chances - keep myself healthy and not put others at risk.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Lots of socials and one proper meet so far.

Just the bloody vaccine put a spanner in the works!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Gig...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely zero plans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials at Crowland was my first step.

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

Reunions are all the sweeter when enforced separation has lasted so long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fingers crossed for a meet next week

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Reunions are all the sweeter when enforced separation has lasted so long. "

So true

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By *elightfulharmonyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Surgery date soon for me, not so fun. "

I hear your pain go in for knee op myself Thursday so currently in isolation so that’s me out til Oct :’( wish you speedy recovery on what awaits you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few 1on1 with a few fabbers here, met a couple amazing guys actually. And did also a MFM which was super naughty

I kinda would like to know/try out/attend an event at some point, like a sex party sounds interesting as never done it before

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