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"I hear you. Sex and intimacy are not mutually exclusive and it can be problematic when someone uses one to compensate for the other. " When I joined years ago that was definitely my starting point only it took me a while to realise that. I’ve done a lot of work on myself since but now just feels like I’m ready for more. | |||
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"*for me* intimacy is only achievable if you know someone really well. I can't offer you inspiration, I'm sorry but I'd say that as you've discovered, intimacy via sex doesn't endure" Spot on | |||
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"No advice but you're not alone I'd love to have a deep connection with someone, sexually and emotionally who I can link up with for exciting adventures and passionate sex. All without the pressures of a relationship.. might be more tricky to find but so worth it " It is more tricky to find but definitely possible. It’s the only way I do it. I can’t and won’t do random sex with multiple people. | |||
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"Intimacy comes with vulnerability. It won’t be there if you are closed off. Not saying you are…of course I don’t know you" What closes a lot of people off to intimacy is the bad experience of monogamous relationships. Poly people tend to be more laid back and intimacy isn’t all consuming, because it’s shared. | |||
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"No advice but you're not alone I'd love to have a deep connection with someone, sexually and emotionally who I can link up with for exciting adventures and passionate sex. All without the pressures of a relationship.. might be more tricky to find but so worth it It is more tricky to find but definitely possible. It’s the only way I do it. I can’t and won’t do random sex with multiple people. " Same here I think.. I have had sex with randoms a couple of times but it feels a bit cold and clinical. The best sex has mostly happened with people who were somehow friends first in my experience | |||
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"I miss it. Sex alone without sufficient connection has not been working for me for a while. Any inspiration please? " I need the mental connection too, sex for the sake of sex is not my thing....maybe strange to say in this joint but thats the way lm built. | |||
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"No advice but you're not alone I'd love to have a deep connection with someone, sexually and emotionally who I can link up with for exciting adventures and passionate sex. All without the pressures of a relationship.. might be more tricky to find but so worth it It is more tricky to find but definitely possible. It’s the only way I do it. I can’t and won’t do random sex with multiple people. " . Pick me pick me...lol | |||
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"No advice but you're not alone I'd love to have a deep connection with someone, sexually and emotionally who I can link up with for exciting adventures and passionate sex. All without the pressures of a relationship.. might be more tricky to find but so worth it It is more tricky to find but definitely possible. It’s the only way I do it. I can’t and won’t do random sex with multiple people. . Pick me pick me...lol " . Teeny bit too far away! x | |||
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