FabSwingers.com forum: Advice for Yourself

By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

If you could give your younger self some helpful life advice, what would it be?

For it would be to never compare your life to others, never feel like you're "left behind" and never feel like you're a complete failure as you have family and friends who care about you and will always be there for you. Just be happy and enjoy the life you have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not let another person's problems become your problems.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Don’t start smoking

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

One day you're going to meet a guy who makes your knees week and your heart beat faster. He's going to take you places you've never been before, and introduce you to a raft of new experiences.

One hot summer night he's going to take you to Lunya where you'll share a range of small plates and get slightly tanked on rioja.

You're going to be served a dish that looks like beautiful creamy mashed potatoes. It's actually a parsnip mash that will make you heave, so give that a swerve.

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By *ustathingMan
over a year ago

Reading

Buy lots of 80s hot hatches and 90s jap crap for £500, and keep em stashed away in a massive unit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust your instinct...its there to protect you.

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By *iss judgedWoman
over a year ago

North Bucks is where I hang around..

Never settle, you’ll find better!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Just belive in yourself! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay away from people who constantly complain or make poor life choices.

Or you will become one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do not let another person's problems become your problems.

Definitely this. But to learn to relax and enjoy life rather than try to live up to others' expectations x

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By *arol321Woman
over a year ago

Poole

Two more years at school to get your A levels won’t kill you. Then you may be able to realise your dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pack up and fuck off while you can, don't wait for someone else to come along.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

You’re a size 12-14, you’re not fat so don’t listen to them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman in a leopard print bra is always interesting

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Don't get married. She's a maniac who will try to bankrupt you. Hold on. Your time will come. Luke

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Be less quiet and more outgoing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Son.

If your girlfriend is on Instagram or other social media and she's not selling a product or a business she is advertising herself to other men. Do not date these types

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Son.

If your girlfriend is on Instagram or other social media and she's not selling a product or a business she is advertising herself to other men. Do not date these types "

That's a fucked up view of the world

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

"Son.

If your girlfriend is on Instagram or other social media and she's not selling a product or a business she is advertising herself to other men. Do not date these types "

Depends how she carries herself on it Patrick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Son.

If your girlfriend is on Instagram or other social media and she's not selling a product or a business she is advertising herself to other men. Do not date these types

Depends how she carries herself on it Patrick.

xx"

hey candy.

always lovely to see you.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Don't start swinging, it can be more addictive than any illegal substance.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Don't start smoking.

Do your homework.

Sex isn't that important.

Learn to drive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to what mam has to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t fall in love

is selfish lust

Play a game of pawns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't need to please anyone but yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t ever be ashamed of who you truly are.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

This is for myself just 4 weeks ago.

Get off social media and start your fucking assignment you dick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get married!

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"Son.

If your girlfriend is on Instagram or other social media and she's not selling a product or a business she is advertising herself to other men. Do not date these types "

I’m on Instagram and certainly not advertising myself to men

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Insist my ma got that “mouth ulcer” checked out earlier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look good,don't ever think any differently.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

The secret to happiness is to never expect anything from anyone, then you will never be disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably tell myself to be brave and to not be afraid of standing up to the people who are hurting me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the blue pill

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By *ung fun walesMan
over a year ago

up the road

Don't put off taking that flight back home to see your Dad because your wife wants to put the money towards an exotic holiday, because he wont be there by the time you get around to going again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We was all born to suffer, but the meaning of life is to be happy. Because once you decide to be happy you're shitting on everybody else. Be good and kind to every one else

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By *oveAndBangCouple
over a year ago

where the mood takes us

Buy bloody bitcoins

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Buy bloody bitcoins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably is indecisive

Phone a friend

And sort it out

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Keep within your budget

Don't smoke. It will take ages to quit and you'll never lose the craving

Don't use a sunbed

Pick a career and stick to it

Stop being so generous with your time

Microdermabrasion is worth every penny. Sacrifice other things to have that done

Get a dog

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"Buy lots of 80s hot hatches and 90s jap crap for £500, and keep em stashed away in a massive unit!"

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"Buy lots of 80s hot hatches and 90s jap crap for £500, and keep em stashed away in a massive unit!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't open your pokemon cards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My list is too long

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Don't sweat the small stuff.

It's ok to say no.

You can't please everyone, so just please yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just have some time on your own, it will be better in the long run.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Do not, whatever you do, leave the Navy after only 12 weeks or so - not only will you regret it, but it'll impact and shape the way your life pans out from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My list is too long

Maybe one is don't get that first tatto guy to do your tattoos save up money and get them done right the first time:p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't sweat the small stuff.

It's ok to say no.

You can't please everyone, so just please yourself."

Imagine if the guys took this advice

"You can't please everyone, so just please yourself"

Just cum and close the door behind you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My list is too long

Maybe one is don't get that first tatto guy to do your tattoos save up money and get them done right the first time:p"

Haha so true mate. It was a woman, recommended to me as she was Pagan and should have understood the concepts. She just did not have the skill for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is no effort without error

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Trust your instinct...its there to protect you.

I would agree to that. Sometimes your gut tells you a story different from what your heart wants to believe and it is hard to switch it off.

I wish I had learnt that earlier in my life.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Keep within your budget

Don't smoke. It will take ages to quit and you'll never lose the craving

Don't use a sunbed

Pick a career and stick to it

Stop being so generous with your time

Microdermabrasion is worth every penny. Sacrifice other things to have that done

Get a dog

What's microdermabrasion, please?

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Forgive and forget life's too short and precious to fill it with hatred.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Put down the chocolate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Put down the chocolate

Why? It did wonders for your arse

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Keep within your budget

Don't smoke. It will take ages to quit and you'll never lose the craving

Don't use a sunbed

Pick a career and stick to it

Stop being so generous with your time

Microdermabrasion is worth every penny. Sacrifice other things to have that done

Get a dog

What's microdermabrasion, please?"

It's an abrasive facial

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Lose the anxiety sooner and get out there and attack life.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Don't sweat the small stuff.

It's ok to say no.

You can't please everyone, so just please yourself.

Imagine if the guys took this advice

"You can't please everyone, so just please yourself"

Just cum and close the door behind you

They usually do

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Stop worrying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get married, and buy your first house at 18 instead 9f spending all your money getting d*unk and being a lads lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When women look at you, they are totally checking you out, not that you’ve got a bogey on your nose. Also invest in property.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you could give your younger self some helpful life advice, what would it be?

Kiss the girl, that one at the school disco when you were 13 and she wanted to be kissed and you were too fucking dumb.

Or the girl you knew at uni who was practically spreading her legs and just needed you to take the initiative.

Yeah, both these happened and only hindsight allows me to see how I should have done it. I chose for some reason to stay an emotional and physical virgin for far too long. But my life still turned out like it did and would have turned out different had I taken the initiative at an earlier age, so no complaints.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Buy bitcoin.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Don’t sell the house

Don’t waste all that time on a fibbing toe rag

Take more holidays

Slow the fuck down

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Listen to your gut, don't be afraid to say no and ignore the opinions of people you wouldn't take advice from.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Choose your managers wisely, follow the good ones when they leave.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

If you encounter a bully anywhere; at school, at home, at work, anywhere; deal with them as soon as possible.

Do not let the problem fester; if you cannot solve the problems, leave.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Go back in time and stop hitler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go back in time and stop hitler "

But then you might have got a competent Nazi in charge.

OK probably not, but imagine if the Third Reich had decided not to invade Russia and concentrate on Europe instead.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't bother giving my younger self advice. I don't listen to anybody now leave alone when I was younger.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Go back in time and stop hitler

But then you might have got a competent Nazi in charge.

OK probably not, but imagine if the Third Reich had decided not to invade Russia and concentrate on Europe instead. "

Go back in time and dismantle the 3rd Reich from the inside out, then return with the winning lottery tickets

People telling their past selves to “be strong” etc what are you doing? Don’t waste a good opportunity. Get some lottery numbers or a betting book while your at it

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Diaphragms area only 70% effective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worry less about what other people think about you, think about what makes you happy, persue it

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Go back in time and stop hitler

But then you might have got a competent Nazi in charge.

OK probably not, but imagine if the Third Reich had decided not to invade Russia and concentrate on Europe instead.

Go back in time and dismantle the 3rd Reich from the inside out, then return with the winning lottery tickets

People telling their past selves to “be strong” etc what are you doing? Don’t waste a good opportunity. Get some lottery numbers or a betting book while your at it "

Nah, I've seen the Back to the Future trilogy, that's not going to end well.

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