FabSwingers.com forum: Femdom

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Husband thinking of coming back to fab

but until he does I'd like to turn him on having a more femdom dynamic, which I know would really turn him on.

I'm looking for ideas of things I can do from you Boss ladies and also from the men who like this

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Husband thinking of coming back to fab

but until he does I'd like to turn him on having a more femdom dynamic, which I know would really turn him on.

I'm looking for ideas of things I can do from you Boss ladies and also from the men who like this

Thanks

I think it all depends on your/his boundaries etc for example I do like a bit of femdom now and then, it’s not something I do full time but certainly something I enjoy from time to time, I’m not into pain or any extreme bdsm or full on mistresses, but pegging, restraints (comfortable ones, not chains or hogtied etc lol) blindfolds, depending on how open minded you both are then there’s ‘forced’ bi, making your man suck another man for your viewing pleasure etc etc, again depends on your tastes and kinks, there’s many different ways you could go

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Husband thinking of coming back to fab

but until he does I'd like to turn him on having a more femdom dynamic, which I know would really turn him on.

I'm looking for ideas of things I can do from you Boss ladies and also from the men who like this

Thanks

Really need more information to be honest.

What are you comfortable doing, what do you enjoy, what are your limits? Being in charge/control means you do what you want not what he wants.

What do you have access to toy wise, what is your experience level? No point suggesting things you cannot do or have no ability to do.

What are your play partners limits and interests? While it is about what you enjoy, you need to ensure that you are not harming your play partner in anyway.

You may find it easier to look into a tie and tease type experience where you restrain and then tease/please him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if you want to be in control chastity is always a good idea.. nothing like the power of holding your partners ability to orgasm in your hand..after that well the world is your oyster…feminisation, humiliation, discipline, housework, chores etc.. drawing up a contract can be fun

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Best advice I can give is to search out an on-line BDSM questionnaire, not one of the "how Dom/sub are you?" ones but one that lists various elements of BDSM and has you rank them 0-5 in terms of interest.

If you each independently complete one and then compare notes for matched interests it gives you a starting point

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

Chastity is a great sexy powerful tool.

Having Your sub doing the housework while in chastity while You have Your feet up relaxing and chatting with men on the phone is very hot.

Have a bell close for You to ring whenever You require something a drink etc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love femdom but feel bcos single I’m in control because I get what I want when it is time

Pink collar and dog chain

Chastity for a week

Butt plugs

Constant sexual attention because you don’t want it to go insane

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Foot worship.

Heel worship.

Face sitting.

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

Setting rules such as the sub is not allowed to use furniture

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You guys are amazing, some good ideas here. I think I'm gonna go along the chastity, deprivation, edging, denial, pegging and face sitting to start with.

Any ideas along those lines to would be helpful

toys and 'resource' ideas for this would be great to.

Thank you

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

Great way to start Goddess

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

Would cuckolding be part of Your dynamic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You guys are amazing, some good ideas here. I think I'm gonna go along the chastity, deprivation, edging, denial, pegging and face sitting to start with.

Any ideas along those lines to would be helpful

toys and 'resource' ideas for this would be great to.

Thank you

You absolutely have to try cleanup play, wether that be his own or another mans. The first time was gut wrenching. I also found buying items for meets throughout the day, especially clothing for another man to appreciate fun too.

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By *J35mcrMan
over a year ago

Leigh

Absolutely love femdom my ex gf used to like to humiliate me she would have guys over fucking in our bed they'd humiliate me and I'd have to kneel and watch then after he'd cum in her she'd make me lick her clean.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Out of the bedroom... Set him tasks, have a punishment/reward system.

Have him wear your knickers/stockings to work, get him to take a photo in the day to make sure they're still on.

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

"Out of the bedroom... Set him tasks, have a punishment/reward system.

Have him wear your knickers/stockings to work, get him to take a photo in the day to make sure they're still on.

I love Your way of thinking Mimi xx

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