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What non sexual acts can be sexy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I remember having an eyelash in my eye and the guy in the gym who I used to fancy held my face and blew on my eye gently. I nearly creamed myself.

What other seemingly innocent things can be sexy?

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

A women eating a banana

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bumpy bus ride.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a look

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

A workman in boots, no top and a tool belt

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

When a lady idly tucks her hair behind her ear

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"A workman in boots, no top and a tool belt "

Builders bum too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any skin contact

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"A workman in boots, no top and a tool belt

Builders bum too? "

If it’s a sexy one yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a simple creature. A woman biting her bottom lip is one of the sexiest things for me.

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Your smile for one is sure so sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a woman who slowly licks her lips ..(and i mean face ) lol

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

A woman eating and ice cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a guy rolls his shirt sleeves up.

And..

Reverses a car with on arm round the passenger seat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being clumsy

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax


"a look"

Seconded.

And elaborate, speaking with hands/body expressiveness;the words don't matter, but the insight into personality and thee I sight I to the connect between that and body/spirit is a huge turn on to my brain at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a guy rolls his shirt sleeves up.

And..

Reverses a car with on arm round the passenger seat. "
lol

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Being clumsy"

you’d love me then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A dark haired beauty elegantly sipping a cappuccino then accidentally taking a large gulp and spilling some frothy, creamy milk on her immaculate lips before wiping it off with the back of the hand and slowly licking her fingers afterwards. Preferably in an independent coffee shop rather than an over commercialised chain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a woman farts then acts all embarrassed

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

The brief touching of hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having my hair washed at the hairdresser's

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

Looks over her glasses or bites her lip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman lying on her back and arching it as she stretches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman lying on her back and arching it as she stretches. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A confident walk,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When a guy rolls his shirt sleeves up.

And..

Reverses a car with on arm round the passenger seat. "

Yeah like why do they do that? I always reverse park, it’s the law of my works car park but I just reverse the car using my mirrors

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"When a guy rolls his shirt sleeves up.

And..

Reverses a car with on arm round the passenger seat. "

Oh god yes! Both of these

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks over her glasses or bites her lip"

This does it for me Big time

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By *onguesandpunsMan
over a year ago

East Midlands

Having my feet measured by one of those foot measuring machines in Clarkes shoe shop aged 10 by a shop assistant in her late teens was a bit of an 'awakening'!

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"When a guy rolls his shirt sleeves up.

And..

Reverses a car with on arm round the passenger seat.

Yeah like why do they do that? I always reverse park, it’s the law of my works car park but I just reverse the car using my mirrors "

Same law at my work place all must reverse park must be a health and safety rule

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"When a guy rolls his shirt sleeves up.

And..

Reverses a car with on arm round the passenger seat.

Oh god yes! Both of these "

I’m also a fan of both of these…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having my hair washed at the hairdresser's "

Yes. What about a normal head massage. I wanna do this. Would it be weird to ask someone if they wanted a head massage?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"A women eating a banana "

You've been watching too much Nigella Lawson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a guy rolls his shirt sleeves up.

And..

Reverses a car with on arm round the passenger seat.

Yeah like why do they do that? I always reverse park, it’s the law of my works car park but I just reverse the car using my mirrors "

I have no idea.... I'd try it but I'm a short arse so I would say mirrors are probably my best bet. It's not like I'll see much out the back otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having my hair washed at the hairdresser's

Yes. What about a normal head massage. I wanna do this. Would it be weird to ask someone if they wanted a head massage? "

Think alot of people would love a head massage

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By *ocothumpaMan
over a year ago

quite close to you

For me, women doing any of the following I find sexy:

Stood in contrapposto

Working out with weights - I’m not a gym creep

Look angry

Eat voraciously - especially with her hands

Putting their hair up

Walking with a confident stride

Biting bottom lip

Being smart without being a dick about it (as a rule I like all smart people but if you use your intelligence to make others feel small I’d rather just break you)

Dance without a reason to just because the feeling takes you

And just sometimes ‘that look’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discussing existentialist philosophy in a Parisian café.

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

Smiling when her eyes meet mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a guy rolls his shirt sleeves up.

And..

Reverses a car with on arm round the passenger seat. "

Second this! And you can see the manly arm… So hot x

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By *ogueAngelMan
over a year ago

Near Bath / Bristol

Rolling the sleeves up, and taking the belt off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you see a lady got her arse pinched by a stranger and she turns around and slaps him so hard you can hear the shockwave of the hand connecting to his cheekbone!

Basically women owning their shit and being a bad ass bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heels 5-6 inches short skirt or dress leggings or shorts something that enhances the bum

And then wiggle strut so your bum wiggles up and down as you walk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman laughing at something I said. I helped with that bit of happiness...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also when he makes me sit on his lap, not in a sexual way. I find it very sexy if he takes initiative to make me sit on him casually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone not talking about themselves at every opportunity

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Definitely making someone laugh, I love seeing eyes light up and the genuine joy that goes with it.

A person talking about something they're passionate about, the animated tone, the waving arms to emphasise particular points. Passion is sexy obviously.

I think that reading can be weirdly sexy as well - you know when someone's really lost in a book and they have these little subconscious facial expressions? It's a little insight into another and an attractive person reading is a sexy sight (depending on the material obviously).

Oh and cooking but I've got tired of waffling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely making someone laugh, I love seeing eyes light up and the genuine joy that goes with it.

A person talking about something they're passionate about, the animated tone, the waving arms to emphasise particular points. Passion is sexy obviously.

"

Oh god don't ever get me talking about photography then

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Seatbelt running between a big pair of boobs.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Definitely making someone laugh, I love seeing eyes light up and the genuine joy that goes with it.

A person talking about something they're passionate about, the animated tone, the waving arms to emphasise particular points. Passion is sexy obviously.

I think that reading can be weirdly sexy as well - you know when someone's really lost in a book and they have these little subconscious facial expressions? It's a little insight into another and an attractive person reading is a sexy sight (depending on the material obviously).

Oh and cooking but I've got tired of waffling."

Not Razzle then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember I cut my finger once and a friend who was a girl but not a girlfriend sucked it, and me being utterly stupid (we were of legal sexual age) just took it as a signal of empathy and care. Then we smoked some wacky baccy and listened to Chic and I still didn't kiss her.

I was really fucking stupid back then.

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live


"When a guy rolls his shirt sleeves up.

And..

Reverses a car with on arm round the passenger seat. "

Oohhh yes.. This

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Love a head massage and giving them .master R

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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Spooning and stroking my hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman putting her hair up, don't know why... but i can't help but watch!

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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A man doing diy and getting all sweaty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Washing a woman’s hair, makes me so sticky !!

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By *andRCouple
over a year ago

barry


"Having my hair washed at the hairdresser's

Yes. What about a normal head massage. I wanna do this. Would it be weird to ask someone if they wanted a head massage? "

I love a head massage nearly as much as I enjoy giving a foot massage.

Fair trade ?.

Xx G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to give a foot massage as well , especially in a public place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching a man cook, when they know how to use a knife properly.

Wash up after and my knickers will drop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone uses the coasters for their drink

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By *eductiveEyesKillerThighsWoman
over a year ago

Nowhere & Everywhere

Watching people eat really juicy fruit. The sound, the slurp, and the juice just dribbling down there chin... hopefully onto/into a heaving bussom Beautiful!

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By *issitCouple
over a year ago

Banbury


"Definitely making someone laugh, I love seeing eyes light up and the genuine joy that goes with it.

A person talking about something they're passionate about, the animated tone, the waving arms to emphasise particular points. Passion is sexy obviously.

I think that reading can be weirdly sexy as well - you know when someone's really lost in a book and they have these little subconscious facial expressions? It's a little insight into another and an attractive person reading is a sexy sight (depending on the material obviously).

Oh and cooking but I've got tired of waffling."

Agree on the passion one- when someone talks about something they know about and are confident about its interesting and sexy.

And seeing someone make someone laugh- my husband has the ability to make women smile and laugh when he dances with them and i absolutely love it - he’s just awesome in those moments. And many others of course!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I have heard that a man confidently reversing into a parking space with his right arm stretched out is quite sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have heard that a man confidently reversing into a parking space with his right arm stretched out is quite sexy. "

As somebody who routinely drives a van with limited rearward visibility, I feel my reversing confidence should be doubly sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have heard that a man confidently reversing into a parking space with his right arm stretched out is quite sexy.

As somebody who routinely drives a van with limited rearward visibility, I feel my reversing confidence should be doubly sexy "

And anybody who can parallel park a trailer has to be a total sex god.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A slight distant stare. The kind you get when you need a brief moment to re arrange your thoughts. Quite lovable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs. Are they still banned?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hugs. Are they still banned?"

Just change your name to Matt Hancock lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Farting..apparently its a fetish

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands


"When a guy rolls his shirt sleeves up.

And..

Reverses a car with on arm round the passenger seat.

Yeah like why do they do that? I always reverse park, it’s the law of my works car park but I just reverse the car using my mirrors "

It is a throwback to the swinging 60s when eligible young men driving their little sports cars with the hood down, arm over seat, turn head and backwards you go, been there done that and got the T shirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a guy rolls his shirt sleeves up.

And..

Reverses a car with on arm round the passenger seat.

Yeah like why do they do that? I always reverse park, it’s the law of my works car park but I just reverse the car using my mirrors

It is a throwback to the swinging 60s when eligible young men driving their little sports cars with the hood down, arm over seat, turn head and backwards you go, been there done that and got the T shirt "

If you think about it, it's the same move as the old stretch in the cinema, you're parking and now the arm is there you're in her space taaaa daaa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many years ago I was putting fuel in my car at a petrol station , & a very attractive dapper fella walked up to me & planted a kiss on my lips , nothing was said , just that happened & never seen again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting ready for a meet with someone new.

That moment when you walk into a bar or ring a doorbell. You are clean, dressed up, smell nice and your stomach is doing cartwheels.

The mind has been racing for hours on what may or may not happen...

What a feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A smile

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"A smile"

Definitely smiles

A woman:

Putting glasses on

Standing with one foot pointing inwards (weird and daft one, I know, but it does!)

Playing bass guitar and/or cello (I think the deep, sonorous notes those instruments produce are a factor)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Performing dental work

Being an awesome parent/good with kids

A great conversation filled with insight and passion

A lady tying long hair up

+1 for cello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This was going back around a year and a half ago, My next door neighbour's wife cut her finger while doing the veg for her lunch she dropped me a message saying could I help as was bleeding alot, I went around to her house she was in the kitchen in her tiny gym kit holding her finger over her sink tiny bit of blood dripping from it, I had a look and started to laugh about it being so small, while I was looking she moved her body closer and pressed her hips against my cock which was starting to get hard the contact of me holding her hand underneath the water and her hips brushing against my now throbbing cock I asked her if she had a plaster and she told me where they where so holding her hands in mine I moved with her over the other side of the kitchen and got her a plaster and applied it to her finger she then gave me a tighter then needed cuddle pushing her hips against my now rock hard throbbing cock should I have done more????

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me


"When a guy rolls his shirt sleeves up.

And..

Reverses a car with on arm round the passenger seat. "

Oh my god the latter, I hadn't even acknowledged that til you said it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a guy rolls his shirt sleeves up.

And..

Reverses a car with on arm round the passenger seat. "

Oh yes to both of these!

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By *wilightTeaseCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I fully agree with these


"

Stood in contrapposto

Putting their hair up

Walking with a confident stride

Biting bottom lip

Being smart without being a dick about it (as a rule I like all smart people but if you use your intelligence to make others feel small I’d rather just break you)

Dance without a reason to just because the feeling takes you

And just sometimes ‘that look’

"

As well as:

Working out at home

Eloquence

Singing

Stretching hands out through a convertible roof

Enjoying loud music

Clinging onto you in a scary part of a movie

Being a confident car driver

Running around naked at home 24/7 - just because you can

Selfies in the making - not because of the picture, but because it means she loves herself that extra bit more in that moment.

Confidence

Getting my name drawn out when being asked for help.

Just naming a few that I love about my partner. The list is so much longer, but I‘ve been told it’s time for breakfast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember having an eyelash in my eye and the guy in the gym who I used to fancy held my face and blew on my eye gently. I nearly creamed myself.

What other seemingly innocent things can be sexy?

"

Wow very nice indeed.

Is a sensual kiss allowed as non sex? Haha xx

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Eating a Cadburys cream egg....the technique used....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting banged.

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"I remember having an eyelash in my eye and the guy in the gym who I used to fancy held my face and blew on my eye gently. I nearly creamed myself.

What other seemingly innocent things can be sexy?

"

Haha

Nearly creamed

Made me laugh that .

I find it sexy when a lady applies lipstick or gloss then rubs her lips together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a smile,i got off a man yesterday after he saw me in my new shoes,testing them out to make sure they were comfy to walk in.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

A woman going cross eyed and sticking her tongue out!

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By *ung fun walesMan
over a year ago

up the road

When she lowers her glasses down her nose a little then gives you that look from over the top of them,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember having an eyelash in my eye and the guy in the gym who I used to fancy held my face and blew on my eye gently. I nearly creamed myself.

What other seemingly innocent things can be sexy?

"

Nearly creamed myself lol

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

A woman carrying her shopping did a 180 in front of me yesterday saying 'ooops', we then walked in near tandem to our cars parting street-goers, her staying a few feet ahead of me all the way.

If it wasn't for the eye contact before the 'ooops', I wouldn't have blinked an eye... I have changed my view on skinny jeans

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"

I think that reading can be weirdly sexy as well - you know when someone's really lost in a book and they have these little subconscious facial expressions? It's a little insight into another and an attractive person reading is a sexy sight (depending on the material obviously)....

Not Razzle then? "

I'll pretend I find it sexy as you read it if that works for you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This was going back around a year and a half ago, My next door neighbour's wife cut her finger while doing the veg for her lunch she dropped me a message saying could I help as was bleeding alot, I went around to her house she was in the kitchen in her tiny gym kit holding her finger over her sink tiny bit of blood dripping from it, I had a look and started to laugh about it being so small, while I was looking she moved her body closer and pressed her hips against my cock which was starting to get hard the contact of me holding her hand underneath the water and her hips brushing against my now throbbing cock I asked her if she had a plaster and she told me where they where so holding her hands in mine I moved with her over the other side of the kitchen and got her a plaster and applied it to her finger she then gave me a tighter then needed cuddle pushing her hips against my now rock hard throbbing cock should I have done more???? "

This isn’t one of those threads.

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By *he Knight is YoungMan
over a year ago

22 Acacia Ave, Preston-for now


"A workman in boots, no top and a tool belt "

Half the time,that's me on site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching a man focus intently on what they are doing is sexy and when they catch you looking, their smile lights up the room. Oooft

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