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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When it comes to back in the day going out to the pub with the boys are going to the clubs with your girls what is the first thing that attracts you to the opposite sex is it the eyes is it the body is it the personality or something else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone’s face overall and how they are handling them self.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've always said if they've got a twinkle in their eye but then again I've always gone for someone who can have a laugh with personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height, eyes, face,body- all physical, until you get chatting! Then its personality, once you get chatting. Its very easy to put me off if you don't have something about you!

Last guy I dated in the traditional sense had all that but low sex drive and thats why I stopped things after a few months x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It used to be how they looked overall, face, eyes how they acted with their mates, and that initial eye contact. It hasn’t really changed for me, I’m still drawn to a woman’s eyes, smile and and their banter, warm personality above all else.

What about you OP?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I'm embarrassed to say nowadays I notice a guys facial hair first, if it's to my liking then I take a closer look.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've always said it's About Personality if it's someone that can make you laugh on that first instant it's so easy to go up to someone and say hi how are you you want someone to be a little bit more spontaneous than that if it's some cheesy chat-up line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be a number off things

Could be her fashion sense the way she’s dressed

Could be her face her body could even be the way she movies walks and carry’s her self

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Could be a number off things

Could be her fashion sense the way she’s dressed

Could be her face her body could even be the way she movies walks and carry’s her self "

I'm doomed then as I have no fashion sense and literally trip over my own feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be a number off things

Could be her fashion sense the way she’s dressed

Could be her face her body could even be the way she movies walks and carry’s her self

I'm doomed then as I have no fashion sense and literally trip over my own feet "

Awww I shour I would help you up x

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By *OCONO5Couple
over a year ago

Sensual Center

a ladies SEAT

Smile

Eyes

Ass

Thighs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think when you meet someone face to face there always has to be an initial attraction..... I like eyes then how someone looks, how they hold themselves, the body language they use..... I like to people watch.... ( have I just admitted I’m nosy?) and I like to see how people interact with others xxxx

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I always liked the guy who was dancing, carefree and grooving. A man who seemed happy and laughed a lot with his friends, rather than those men who stood about, moodily holding their drink and eyeing the room looking for action.

Then it would be their personality, their eyes and smile.

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough / Kettering

I like to see a smile or a "happy" face. Working in London I see many many good looking ladies every day but 90% of them have what I call "a London face" which to be honest looks damn miserable !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s definitely a smile. If I see someone with a gorgeous smile it attracts me straight away, potentially someone who tends to have a happy outlook & sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bent over woman showing their beautiful curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be a number off things

Could be her fashion sense the way she’s dressed

Could be her face her body could even be the way she movies walks and carry’s her self

I'm doomed then as I have no fashion sense and literally trip over my own feet "

Well at least you'd be easier to catch

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By *rOralMan
over a year ago

Dublin

first catcher for me can be a face with a beautiful smile and sometimes their body language does the trick for me too.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Smile !

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

First thing I check out in a man is his bum, then I let my eyes peruse all of him, if he can dance as well then I would make a move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way they move...

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Red hair and a small bum.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

All about the Ass.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face, height, body (in that order) then if I go and say hello it's all about the charisma and attitude from that point onwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When it comes to back in the day going out to the pub with the boys are going to the clubs with your girls what is the first thing that attracts you to the opposite sex is it the eyes is it the body is it the personality or something else"

Their mannerism and the way they present themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Face, height, body (in that order) then if I go and say hello it's all about the charisma and attitude from that point onwards"

But I’d probably go for this too as well if it’s mainly physical

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Usually their smile or eyes, but sometimes something else stands out and makes me think Oooft!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes, esp if they have a twinkle and a long lingering gaze... And then the mouth

But if there's no banter, its a dead duck

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

The hair and the eyes, I believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably eyes and body shape equally.

If in a club the way she dances would catch my eye aswell

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By *1c4yMan
over a year ago

stourbridge


"When it comes to back in the day going out to the pub with the boys are going to the clubs with your girls what is the first thing that attracts you to the opposite sex is it the eyes is it the body is it the personality or something else"

Natural beauty face / eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice looking faces and then personalities . If it’s good flirty personalities then that’s great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes and smile, a happy face, the way they are towards others. For me now personality comes before everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A smile. You can look like you've hit every branch of the ugly tree, but if your smile lights up your face, I'm there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face & hair, hair says ever so much about someone. You can get someone with a cracking face and body but then has a bad trim or blue dye in it for example and im put off.

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