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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I messaged my first person yesterday got a response she seemed interested she knew I was doing some DIY at the time I clicked on her message but didn't respond for a minute then she sent another one saying she's responded to all of my messages and then blocked me is that a normal thing on this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I messaged my first person yesterday got a response she seemed interested she knew I was doing some DIY at the time I clicked on her message but didn't respond for a minute then she sent another one saying she's responded to all of my messages and then blocked me is that a normal thing on this ? "

No.

I mean, I hate being left on read but we're talking hours/days, not a few minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Standard.....

That is all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Standard.....

That is all "

So that behaviour is standard on this group then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I messaged my first person yesterday got a response she seemed interested she knew I was doing some DIY at the time I clicked on her message but didn't respond for a minute then she sent another one saying she's responded to all of my messages and then blocked me is that a normal thing on this ?

No.

I mean, I hate being left on read but we're talking hours/days, not a few minutes.

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Yeah fair enough if it's been days or a few hours that's understandable put a few minutes when she knew I was doing DIY and covered in paint lol I just don't get it

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No wouldn't say it's normal x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No wouldn't say it's normal x"

That's good my only thought is she might have been having trouble with fakes and time wasters I've seen a lot of women mentioned that but she definitely jump the gun on this one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No she just sounds highly strung and demanding take it as a lucky escape

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

Yup probably a bullet dodged to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t say that was normal. So don’t be disheartened x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does happen.

Are you sure it was actually a woman though and not some sad bloke posing as one?

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Probably another one of the bi polars, there's a few of them on here. I wouldn't lose any sleep over it, every remembering something I discovered years ago, contact sites, and indeed dating sites, are a bit like waiting for a bus, it doesn't matter if you miss the first one, as there will be another one along in a minute. Also if you do happen to jump on a particular bus,and you don't like the direction it's going in, you simply jump off that bus and get on another one, which might actually be going in a more favourable direction, and end up at a better destination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably another one of the bi polars, there's a few of them on here."

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

There are plenty of people that would behave that way, unfortunately. I can’t give you a logical reason why though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not something I would do, like others have said a bit of a diva

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"So I messaged my first person yesterday got a response she seemed interested she knew I was doing some DIY at the time I clicked on her message but didn't respond for a minute then she sent another one saying she's responded to all of my messages and then blocked me is that a normal thing on this ? "

It's not a normal thing no. Some people just think they are entitled to all your time and attention, some men on here are like that too.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

I see that you only joined five weeks ago. Wait till you get the block brigade repeatedly blocking you, then unblockiing you to send you a derogatory message, then reblocking you so you can't respond. Oh the power of the block button. I wonder what they get off on, and is it a reflection of their mental intellect, and mundane life. To me it can simply indicate that they are acutely aware that they are punching above their wieght, out of their depths, and you are out of their league especially if they happen to be blocking from miles away with little chance of seeing each other in the flesh, so to speak.

A few new guys have messaged me having had similar experiences, I tell them to remember that it's all just a game!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's not normal no, regardless of the gender of the person at the other end - and I say that with the possibility in mind that it was actually a bloke pretending to be a woman who had got his rocks off and used it as a way to end the conversation.

Either way look at it as it wasn't meant to be and was not down to anything you said or did necessarily - it's pointless trying to make sense of things that don't make sense to you on here as it'll tie you in knots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not normal its demanding but it's happened to me too. Being blocked because I haven't responded in a timeframe acceptable to them. Lucky you found out sooner rather than later!

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Probably another one of the bi polars, there's a few of them on here. I wouldn't lose any sleep over it, every remembering something I discovered years ago, contact sites, and indeed dating sites, are a bit like waiting for a bus, it doesn't matter if you miss the first one, as there will be another one along in a minute. Also if you do happen to jump on a particular bus,and you don't like the direction it's going in, you simply jump off that bus and get on another one, which might actually be going in a more favourable direction, and end up at a better destination."

What a bloody comment, I'm honestly lost for words

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Anyone who does this is needy and entitled as fuck and not worthy of your consideration. Lucky escape there bro.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"I see that you only joined five weeks ago. Wait till you get the block brigade repeatedly blocking you, then unblockiing you to send you a derogatory message, then reblocking you so you can't respond. Oh the power of the block button. I wonder what they get off on, and is it a reflection of their mental intellect, and mundane life. To me it can simply indicate that they are acutely aware that they are punching above their wieght, out of their depths, and you are out of their league especially if they happen to be blocking from miles away with little chance of seeing each other in the flesh, so to speak.

A few new guys have messaged me having had similar experiences, I tell them to remember that it's all just a game!"

Anyone who blocks me gets an immediate block in return so they cant play these games. I recommend you use the same tactic.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold


"I see that you only joined five weeks ago. Wait till you get the block brigade repeatedly blocking you, then unblockiing you to send you a derogatory message, then reblocking you so you can't respond. Oh the power of the block button. I wonder what they get off on, and is it a reflection of their mental intellect, and mundane life. To me it can simply indicate that they are acutely aware that they are punching above their wieght, out of their depths, and you are out of their league especially if they happen to be blocking from miles away with little chance of seeing each other in the flesh, so to speak.

A few new guys have messaged me having had similar experiences, I tell them to remember that it's all just a game!"

You obviously have a very high opinion of the opposite sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably another one of the bi polars, there's a few of them on here. I wouldn't lose any sleep over it, every remembering something I discovered years ago, contact sites, and indeed dating sites, are a bit like waiting for a bus, it doesn't matter if you miss the first one, as there will be another one along in a minute. Also if you do happen to jump on a particular bus,and you don't like the direction it's going in, you simply jump off that bus and get on another one, which might actually be going in a more favourable direction, and end up at a better destination."

I don’t even know where to start with this comment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it’s not normal and no one is entitled to a instant reply even if you are online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No she just sounds highly strung and demanding take it as a lucky escape "

What the lady said.

The behaviour is irrational, clear thinkers would not act like that.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"So I messaged my first person yesterday got a response she seemed interested she knew I was doing some DIY at the time I clicked on her message but didn't respond for a minute then she sent another one saying she's responded to all of my messages and then blocked me is that a normal thing on this ? "

I you are going to be away doing stuff log out. Then they will know you are not there and not just ignoring them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see that you only joined five weeks ago. Wait till you get the block brigade repeatedly blocking you, then unblockiing you to send you a derogatory message, then reblocking you so you can't respond. "

If I find someone has blocked me for whatever reason, I immediately block them back to stop this from happening. As sadly it does happen.

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