FabSwingers.com forum: "Action shots" with first messages

By *issAphrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Am I a prude or does anyone else find it a massive turn off?

Fave or body picture - yes.

Dick pic - rather not bur I'm not going to shit the bed about it.

But balls deep in a woman's arse or forcing a woman's head down onto your cock? It's a massive no from me.

It's crude and smacks of a porn style "Look Ma, no hands!" Yeah I get it, you've had sex before, allow me to swoon in the presence of your virility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I a prude or does anyone else find it a massive turn off?

Fave or body picture - yes.

Dick pic - rather not bur I'm not going to shit the bed about it.

But balls deep in a woman's arse or forcing a woman's head down onto your cock? It's a massive no from me.

It's crude and smacks of a porn style "Look Ma, no hands!" Yeah I get it, you've had sex before, allow me to swoon in the presence of your virility."

I agree totally, I'd rather see the goods, and not how its being used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I a prude or does anyone else find it a massive turn off?

Fave or body picture - yes.

Dick pic - rather not bur I'm not going to shit the bed about it.

But balls deep in a woman's arse or forcing a woman's head down onto your cock? It's a massive no from me.

It's crude and smacks of a porn style "Look Ma, no hands!" Yeah I get it, you've had sex before, allow me to swoon in the presence of your virility."

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

It wouldn’t work for me as an intro. Only if I knew the person.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have action shots if you’d like to see them?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Not for me at all. I wouldn't say I get offended by it, but I do think "do ya mind?! If I wanted to see people engaging, I'd watch some porn or look at pictures I chose to look at"

Don't assume I wanna see it.

If it's a couple, okay cool whatever. When it ain't, why the fuck do I wanna see someone who has nothing to do with anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, I never want to see them. We've all had sex, why would I want to see past sexual partners? Sometimes, though not always, it makes me wonder if the other person has given their consent for the image to be shared on here.

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I prefer my butler to proffer a ladies card from a silver tray, then one can consult ones calendar and arrange a suitable luncheon date.

Should said lady allow me a glimpse of ankle, I know my luck is in.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

In the first message that’s a massive no no from me… However, I’ve seen a similar post of this nature with people berating single men for having action shots on their profile… how comes nobody gets into any hooha when single women have them on their profile?? Just asking out of curiousity….

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By *issAphrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

"To be honest, I never want to see them. We've all had sex, why would I want to see past sexual partners? Sometimes, though not always, it makes me wonder if the other person has given their consent for the image to be shared on here."

I do wonder with some accounts - clearly different partners in action shot selfies. I've certainly questioned the consent, or lack of.

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By *issAphrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Not for me at all. I wouldn't say I get offended by it, but I do think "do ya mind?! If I wanted to see people engaging, I'd watch some porn or look at pictures I chose to look at"

Don't assume I wanna see it.

If it's a couple, okay cool whatever. When it ain't, why the fuck do I wanna see someone who has nothing to do with anything?"

Pretty much exactly how I feel. Not really sure what the thinking is behind it, other than a supposed display of virility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’m not a fan, we get it ladies, you can take him balls deep, I’d rather you try to entice with your brain not your dick taking ability, send me a photo of your IQ score.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Not for me at all. I wouldn't say I get offended by it, but I do think "do ya mind?! If I wanted to see people engaging, I'd watch some porn or look at pictures I chose to look at"

Don't assume I wanna see it.

If it's a couple, okay cool whatever. When it ain't, why the fuck do I wanna see someone who has nothing to do with anything?

Pretty much exactly how I feel. Not really sure what the thinking is behind it, other than a supposed display of virility."

You know what though, if they were well taken, thought out pictures that showed sensuality or personality, or something that made me think "now that's a fine picture" I would probably feel differently as my head would perceive it as art as the focus is on the content as a finished article. But no.

That's FAR from the case.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Not for me at all. I wouldn't say I get offended by it, but I do think "do ya mind?! If I wanted to see people engaging, I'd watch some porn or look at pictures I chose to look at"

Don't assume I wanna see it.

If it's a couple, okay cool whatever. When it ain't, why the fuck do I wanna see someone who has nothing to do with anything?"

. Instant delete for me. Don’t understand why people do it.

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By *exyJames568Man
over a year ago

London

I'm always kind and respectful in my first message but don't get a response.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Nope no action shots for me either. So if you were considering sending me any ladies think twice

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By *issAphrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Not for me at all. I wouldn't say I get offended by it, but I do think "do ya mind?! If I wanted to see people engaging, I'd watch some porn or look at pictures I chose to look at"

Don't assume I wanna see it.

If it's a couple, okay cool whatever. When it ain't, why the fuck do I wanna see someone who has nothing to do with anything?

Pretty much exactly how I feel. Not really sure what the thinking is behind it, other than a supposed display of virility.

That's FAR from the case."

I've seen a couple that were nice. Missionary position and only upper body included, exciding heads. His arm and chest muscles were popping and I appreciated it as a visual but also as something I could imagine wanting to experience myself.

The ones I get sent are just crass.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Face pics only...

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Absolutely with you

Though admittedly there are a few action shots on our profile though not particularly crude

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m only really interested in a face and full dressed body shot really.

Seen one pair of tits and a fanny, seen them all.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Absolutely with you

Though admittedly there are a few action shots on our profile though not particularly crude

Jo x"

Yes, but you're a couple and your action shots show part of your partnership, not some random nobody will have any involvement with. And you don't send them in a first message.

I have some action shots on mine too. They're ones that I look at and think "I'd have that on my wall" not just smash pics.

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By *issAphrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Absolutely with you

Though admittedly there are a few action shots on our profile though not particularly crude

Jo x"

Profiles are different and you're a couple so I'd expect to see both of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolute no for me….I feel the men approach us with a mans frame of mind, make profiles that appeals to men and not women….can’t stand the action shots x

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By *issAphrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Absolute no for me….I feel the men approach us with a mans frame of mind, make profiles that appeals to men and not women….can’t stand the action shots x"

Maybe this is where I'm going wrong - writing my profile with a woman's frame of mind.

*makes note to edit to remove most text and add splayed vag and sucking cock photos*

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Absolute no for me….I feel the men approach us with a mans frame of mind, make profiles that appeals to men and not women….can’t stand the action shots x

Maybe this is where I'm going wrong - writing my profile with a woman's frame of mind.

*makes note to edit to remove most text and add splayed vag and sucking cock photos*"

Can't wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish some single guys would read some of these forums threads. They might learn a thing or two about what appeals to us ladies on here

I’m totally with you OP. I don’t quite understand the thinking and I query if all the women have given consent and if they know their bits are being sent to goodness knows how many others.

This tack might work with some but it’s a delete from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How naive must they be to think that women would swoon over that. I don't know what I'd find more disappointing; them thinking it would impress women, or that it has impressed women which is why they do it

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

I've said for years, explicit photos are a double edged sword, some people want proof, while others despise them. As an experiment, I took mine down, and put them in private gallery, then I replaced the public ones with edited face photos, and private parts covered. I can't say that I've had any more, or any less contact or enquiries. That leads me to believe that it's what you say in your profile, and the feedback you get form other sites users in the form of verifications that determines the response that you get, and not what pictures you have on display.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh instant turn off for me. I don't want to be in that album thankyooou!

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By *riti PearWoman
over a year ago

Paisley

Not for me either. Especially if you can tell it’s lots of different partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That reminds me I’m long overdue a pic upload.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Sadly our action shots aren’t allowed, so you have to make do with grown up colouring in

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

I have a ton of action pics… sadly the action is gardening, painting, drinking & I do agree sending pics balls deep in someone else isn’t going to make the object of your desire feel very special.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Absolutely with you

Though admittedly there are a few action shots on our profile though not particularly crude

Jo x"

Totally different Jo. Yours is a couples profile. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chance would be a fine thing to be able to get an action shot.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'll let you know if it ever happens to me.

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By *ark_KnightsMan
over a year ago

london

Never had 1 so don’t know although sounds like you ladies are getting plenty

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By *issAphrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

To reiterate? I'm not taking about profiles (although nor a fan of them there either...) I'm talking about that first message - "Hello, my name is xxxxxxxx, here's me up to my guts in a couple of random women".

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"To reiterate? I'm not taking about profiles (although nor a fan of them there either...) I'm talking about that first message - "Hello, my name is xxxxxxxx, here's me up to my guts in a couple of random women"."

And they say romance is dead.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Just pics that help me to gauge how people look, which are better without action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as I know it's them I'm not really bothered what I find is a massive turn off this carrying the conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most divisive action shot to send with a 1st message is of a cock jizzing into a jar of marmite. Some people love it, some people hate it.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Yes, it puts me off.

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