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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I moved into an annex attached to my landlords house a few months back.

His a mature older gent. Single.

Anyway we had dinner a few times. He enjoys cooking and don’t like eating on his own.

Also saves me cooking

Anyway one night we had a few drinks and ended up in bed. It’s been a regular thing for a couple of months now.

We have dinner. Watch a film and end up in bed.

Even if no drink involved.

For an older guy his an amazing lover.

Anyway. Should I ask for a rent reduction. As I don’t sleep in my part of the house anymore ?/

Joking aside should I knock it on the head and how ?/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you want to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you want to? "

Yeah, why would you if you're both happy?

How old is he? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do you want to?

Yeah, why would you if you're both happy?

How old is he? Xx"

His 65.

Worried about people judging.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

You shouldn’t shit where you eat

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

If your happy then keep going, age is only a number as they say

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You shouldn’t shit where you eat "

I use my own loo for a poo.

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

"Why do you want to?

Yeah, why would you if you're both happy?

How old is he? Xx

His 65.

Worried about people judging.

Dont worry about other peoples judgements, their not paying your bills or putting a roof over your head you are. Do what makes you happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you want to?

Yeah, why would you if you're both happy?

How old is he? Xx

His 65.

Worried about people judging.

That thought had held me back so much wished I would have came out my shell sooner

But as I got older I found who cares what others think

If your happy and injoying the sex then who cares what others think

Would thought make a point to sit down and talk with him

Ie it’s just sex a bit off fun or do you want more best to set ground rules

So if say you bring another guy round at some point he dosent get jellos or anything or think it’s anything more than sex

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Why do you want to?

Yeah, why would you if you're both happy?

How old is he? Xx

His 65.

Worried about people judging.

Why worry about people judging? Says more about them than you if they do.

If you're both happy with the arrangement then I really don't see why you shouldn't just continue as you are.

If you're not happy however, time for an open and honest chat with him, but be aware it may get awkward, not that that should be a reason not to stop if you're not happy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would like it to be more than just sex.

He said that too but then he don’t show it.

If his family / children come over I’m back in my side of the house and he speaks to me like his tenant.

I’ve said about going out together socially and excuses are made.

I don’t think his ashamed just sees it as a sexual thing only.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Laughing at this! As a landlord I've been offered payment in kind on a couple of occasions. The answer I give is that I occasionally get fed up, but never hard up.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Why should other people dictate what you do or don't do with your sex life? It's not up to them. It's nobody's business but yours and his.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You shouldn’t shit where you eat "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would like it to be more than just sex.

He said that too but then he don’t show it.

If his family / children come over I’m back in my side of the house and he speaks to me like his tenant.

I’ve said about going out together socially and excuses are made.

I don’t think his ashamed just sees it as a sexual thing only. "

You just need to talk to him. The only way to find out is communication. It’s scary, but better to know.

If other judge, let them, that’s their issue not yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move in

Get the house

Move him into the annexe

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Forget people judging, that's shouldn't even be a consideration.

You're going to have to have the what are we doing here chat.

Tell him you want more and aren't happy with it just being a sex thing. So either he's up for that or you'll just stay in your annexe.

Then it's up to him.

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Truthfully, I'd judge more about the risky position you've potentially got into with your living situation if anything goes south.

Worry more than judge, if you were my friend

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By *ilver Fox 60Man
over a year ago

Southport

65 is not old.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

"Move in

Get the house

Move him into the annexe

Knock him on the head

Inherit everything

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

I think he should put your rent up now your eating all food too lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Laughing at this! As a landlord I've been offered payment in kind on a couple of occasions. The answer I give is that I occasionally get fed up, but never hard up."

I’ve never offered him

Payment in kind.

It was a tongue in cheek comment

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By *ookinforfun6972Couple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

"I moved into an annex attached to my landlords house a few months back.

His a mature older gent. Single.

Anyway we had dinner a few times. He enjoys cooking and don’t like eating on his own.

Also saves me cooking

Anyway one night we had a few drinks and ended up in bed. It’s been a regular thing for a couple of months now.

We have dinner. Watch a film and end up in bed.

Even if no drink involved.

For an older guy his an amazing lover.

Anyway. Should I ask for a rent reduction. As I don’t sleep in my part of the house anymore ?/

Joking aside should I knock it on the head and how ?/"

Aslong as your enjoying yourself why would you want too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think he should put your rent up now your eating all food too lol"

I do contribute towards the food. When we are eating together I will stop at the supermarket and buy items and have been known to make the dessert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Truthfully, I'd judge more about the risky position you've potentially got into with your living situation if anything goes south.

Worry more than judge, if you were my friend

This from me too.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If you want more and he isn't offering more (despite his words) pull back and keep it purely platonic.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"Why do you want to?

Yeah, why would you if you're both happy?

How old is he? Xx

His 65.

Worried about people judging.

Don't worry about what others think, do what you feel is best for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does he do anything kinky in bed

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Either you or he works fast. You've found a place to stay during covid where single guy is open to fucking their boarder.

It has moved from a landlord/tenant relationship and settling in a few months ago, to having dinners, shopping for meals, to fucking, thinking about what his family will think and finding out what each other wants out of it - now considering long term future relationships.

This is either fantasy or you need to put the pans away.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Either you or he works fast. You've found a place to stay during covid where single guy is open to fucking their boarder.

This is either fantasy or you need to put the pans away. "

Or you need to be less judgy

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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago

Between a cock and a soft place

"I would like it to be more than just sex.

He said that too but then he don’t show it.

If his family / children come over I’m back in my side of the house and he speaks to me like his tenant.

I’ve said about going out together socially and excuses are made.

I don’t think his ashamed just sees it as a sexual thing only. "

He may not be ashamed, just wary of being judged by others.

Just as you are.......

Time for a talk, away from "home" if possible.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Either you or he works fast. You've found a place to stay during covid where single guy is open to fucking their boarder.

This is either fantasy or you need to put the pans away.

Or you need to be less judgy"

At 65, I'd think vanilla blokes don't mix business and pleasure. either one would have to be pretty forward or very d*unk to start something that could get so messy in such a short period of time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Either you or he works fast. You've found a place to stay during covid where single guy is open to fucking their boarder.

This is either fantasy or you need to put the pans away. "

We are both single.

The day I moved I’m he cooked me a welcome meal.

Nothing happened for a few weeks. Just flirting before it was taken further.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does he do anything kinky in bed "

Very vanilla but very caring.

I’ve opened his eyes to try new things.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Either you or he works fast. You've found a place to stay during covid where single guy is open to fucking their boarder.

This is either fantasy or you need to put the pans away.

Or you need to be less judgy

At 65, I'd think vanilla blokes don't mix business and pleasure. either one would have to be pretty forward or very d*unk to start something that could get so messy in such a short period of time. "

Really?! You don't think some older men like to abuse their position in order to get sex?!

OK then

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Op I can't see the problem.

You have a place to stay.

You have a guy who is a good fuck and you like him but with no strings.

Seems your making it more complicated than it needs to be.

Just go with it and see how it develops, he's not that much older than you.

Tell him you want to keep it professional and don't go round his for drinks.

Move.

Pretty simple

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Either you or he works fast. You've found a place to stay during covid where single guy is open to fucking their boarder.

This is either fantasy or you need to put the pans away.

Or you need to be less judgy

At 65, I'd think vanilla blokes don't mix business and pleasure. either one would have to be pretty forward or very d*unk to start something that could get so messy in such a short period of time.

Really?! You don't think some older men like to abuse their position in order to get sex?!

OK then

Or women wanting a discount on rent, maybe wanting a sugar daddy? It's got nothing to do with abuse of power, they are apparently fucking each other as fb's. Sort of like swinging, only the swinger wants more.

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

This sounds like a bit of a nightmare to me.

Feels like he groomed you. Did he advertise for a male tenant?

The massive problem is that the relationship is unequal and on his terms and also that this is your home (and his)

Far too close for comfort.

He clearly doesn't want what you want. The fact that you are relegated to tenant when his family are around means you aren't his partner or his equal but it sounds as though you want to be.

Are you happy OP?

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

You shouldnt have mixed tennant with lover and you can lose big time.

if you stop now you could face eviction.

at moment hes getting his cake and eating it whilst your paying for it.

your no longer a tennant but a lover and shouldnt be paying rent anymore.

more so if your paying for food

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"This sounds like a bit of a nightmare to me.

Feels like he groomed you. Did he advertise for a male tenant?

The massive problem is that the relationship is unequal and on his terms and also that this is your home (and his)

Far too close for comfort.

He clearly doesn't want what you want. The fact that you are relegated to tenant when his family are around means you aren't his partner or his equal but it sounds as though you want to be.

Are you happy OP?

Groomed is a bit of an extreme thing to say.

Sounds like she is a very willing party.

Throwing accusations like groomed is a bit irresponsible.

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

Groomed is a bit of an extreme thing to say.

Sounds like she is a very willing party.

Throwing accusations like groomed is a bit irresponsible."

Fair enough.

It sounds as though he preyed on someone vulnerable and under his power.. made approaches under the guise of dinner.

It sounds sinister.

I stick by grooming.

I'm ok with being labeled irresponsible for my opinion.

It won't change it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I didn’t start a sexual relationship with him to reduce the rent or live rent free.

He loves cooking and wants to share. I do my bit by contributing towards the food.

I haven’t been groomed. Early on I was and still am attracted to him. There is a joint attraction to each other. I wouldn’t do anything I didn’t want to do.

I didn’t plan to have feelings for you him. It just happened.

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

Good luck OP.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

"Why do you want to?

Yeah, why would you if you're both happy?

How old is he? Xx

His 65.

Worried about people judging.

Who cares what others think? You’re the one knobbing him not them! So long as you are happy then carry on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grandad got a fuck for a "Cooked Meal"...was it beans on toast ??

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

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over a year ago

Cornwall

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Grandad got a fuck for a "Cooked Meal"...was it beans on toast ??

Oh wow !! How rude.

His not old enough to be my grandad and we have enjoyed some great meals.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Laughing at this! As a landlord I've been offered payment in kind on a couple of occasions. The answer I give is that I occasionally get fed up, but never hard up.

Face it you're a twat landlord, what an awful thing to say to a potential tenant ... yeah, you are hard up ffs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn’t start a sexual relationship with him to reduce the rent or live rent free.

He loves cooking and wants to share. I do my bit by contributing towards the food.

I haven’t been groomed. Early on I was and still am attracted to him. There is a joint attraction to each other. I wouldn’t do anything I didn’t want to do.

I didn’t plan to have feelings for you him. It just happened.

Man and woman meet and get on. Spend time together.

Doesnt sound such a terrible thing does it if you take all the unnecessary details out.

Just enjoy for as long as it is enjoyable. As soon as it isnt it is an easy enough situation to get out of.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Could it become a problem if you stopped having sex with him ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Could it become a problem if you stopped having sex with him ?"

We are both grown ups. Hopefully we can be sensible about it.

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By *unkymale65Man
over a year ago

Worksop

As long as your both happy with the situation then just go with the flow. Don't worry what others think it's your life

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Op perhaps the whole thing with his family might be down to a few factors but maybe he feels that they may be angry at him having a relationship regardless of who she is and her age, I am making the assumption that he's possibly divorced or a widower?

Maybe he's just taking his time.

Perhaps he's been hurt before and doesn't want anything too serious.

Just play it cool and a bit aloof.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I think as long as it works for you both continue. Your single and its sounds like just your classic regular Netflix n chill type scenario. For many this

Is a great arrangement when single and alone. The only problem is this type of arrangements tend to have a shelf life. Someone gets bored of it or pursues a change in direction etc. Obviously no big deal normally in such a casual arrangement. But he is your landlord and thus possibly has the ability to make life difficult. Now it's to late because your already in. So I say enjoy, hope for the best when it stops but also make sure you have a plan B and C to protect yourself should he become troublesome or your place there untenable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 7 years ago i had to move out.

Went on a rent a room site

Gone to check one out the woman was single about 20 years older than me.

£130 pw all bill in.

So we was talking and she was really nice about an hour in the convo she was telling me she split up with her husband because they had a lodger and she had enccounted with number of times.

She continued on saying that anytime I feel lonely and I need to unwind her bedroom door is always open.

For day she would message telling me what she wanted to do full on details.

Sometimes with pics.

I didnt rent the room as it would have made things very complicated.

And she continued messaging me for about a year. Lucky escape I think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op perhaps the whole thing with his family might be down to a few factors but maybe he feels that they may be angry at him having a relationship regardless of who she is and her age, I am making the assumption that he's possibly divorced or a widower?

Maybe he's just taking his time.

Perhaps he's been hurt before and doesn't want anything too serious.

Just play it cool and a bit aloof.

His divorced. Was married 30 years.

They split up 5 years ago

Two kids in 20s.

Not had a serious relationship since. A couple of girl friends that he met through work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"About 7 years ago i had to move out.

Went on a rent a room site

Gone to check one out the woman was single about 20 years older than me.

£130 pw all bill in.

So we was talking and she was really nice about an hour in the convo she was telling me she split up with her husband because they had a lodger and she had enccounted with number of times.

She continued on saying that anytime I feel lonely and I need to unwind her bedroom door is always open.

For day she would message telling me what she wanted to do full on details.

Sometimes with pics.

I didnt rent the room as it would have made things very complicated.

And she continued messaging me for about a year. Lucky escape I think."
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We had meals together and watched movies before it progressed

One night we had dinner. Had a few drinks and was watching a film and sitting together on the sofa. It started with a cuddle and then ended up being in bed together

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By *olly sub4olderCouple
over a year ago

chester

Keep fucking him x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Keep fucking him x"

It’s not just about the fucking.

His great company too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get married, move in together, rent out your old room and have a fabulous holiday with the rental income.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet he thinks he has hit the jackpot!

Effectively he is being paid for sleeping with you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A 17 year age gap is of no consequence. If you enjoy his company and you're enjoying your life, keep doing it. On my death bed, I would rather have regrets for doing something rather than doing nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Grandad got a fuck for a "Cooked Meal"...was it beans on toast ??

Oh wow !! How rude.

His not old enough to be my grandad and we have enjoyed some great meals. "

Yeah that's me ...I'd of told you to bring me a pot Noodle and be prepared for the best 2 mins ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bet he thinks he has hit the jackpot!

Effectively he is being paid for sleeping with you!"

Fancy calling her fanny "The Jackpot"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So. I will update

Decided to move out as didn’t want to have a relationship with a landlord.

We are now dating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So. I will update

Decided to move out as didn’t want to have a relationship with a landlord.

We are now dating. "

Congratulations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So. I will update

Decided to move out as didn’t want to have a relationship with a landlord.

We are now dating. "

Awww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So. I will update

Decided to move out as didn’t want to have a relationship with a landlord.

We are now dating. "

That’s lovely

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"So. I will update

Decided to move out as didn’t want to have a relationship with a landlord.

We are now dating. "
well done V ...it's nice to hear about a good relationship flourishing

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"So. I will update

Decided to move out as didn’t want to have a relationship with a landlord.

We are now dating. "

You're on here just to keep things spicy?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does he do anything kinky in bed "

Trust you to ask that. There is allways one ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So. I will update

Decided to move out as didn’t want to have a relationship with a landlord.

We are now dating.

You're on here just to keep things spicy? "

To chat to old friends and yes we have discussed inviting another person into the bed in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So. I will update

Decided to move out as didn’t want to have a relationship with a landlord.

We are now dating. well done V ...it's nice to hear about a good relationship flourishing "

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does he do anything kinky in bed

Trust you to ask that. There is allways one ffs. "

Not kinky.

But a very generous lover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Update on relationship.

He had now told his family about us and the relationship is going well.

We still spend times having lovely meals and just chilling together if neither of us are working.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"So. I will update

Decided to move out as didn’t want to have a relationship with a landlord.

We are now dating. "

Great news - love a happy ending

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Update on relationship.

He had now told his family about us and the relationship is going well.

We still spend times having lovely meals and just chilling together if neither of us are working.

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aww that's great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So today. I said those 3 little words.

No response. Wasn’t sure what response I would have got anyway.

He left for work without a good bye.

Fuck !

What to do. Play it cool and forget that I said it. ?

I’m going back to my own home before he gets home. So do I wait for him to contact me.

Sorry not had many serious relationships.

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

Maybe cook him his favourite meal when he returns, and use your womanly charms on him?

Blokes can be a little inept, baseing this on myself, and may either have misheard you. Or, needed time to mull over his response.

Sure things will work out for you though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So today. I said those 3 little words.

No response. Wasn’t sure what response I would have got anyway.

He left for work without a good bye.

Fuck !

What to do. Play it cool and forget that I said it. ?

I’m going back to my own home before he gets home. So do I wait for him to contact me.

Sorry not had many serious relationships.

Don’t play games. Open and honest communication.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"So today. I said those 3 little words.

No response. Wasn’t sure what response I would have got anyway.

He left for work without a good bye.

Fuck !

What to do. Play it cool and forget that I said it. ?

I’m going back to my own home before he gets home. So do I wait for him to contact me.

Sorry not had many serious relationships.

Saying I love you can be a bit of a shock to some and maybe he'd not even thought about it, so he's thinking about it now. Some people never say the words, but how they act is much more important.

I would assume that if you've told him that you love him then you actually mean it... well in my mind it shouldn't matter if he gives a response, love is unconditional.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know his been emotionally hurt in the past. His wife left after 30 years.

I meant the words. Wouldn’t say it otherwise.

Will just see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I swear I saw this story in dear Deirdre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I swear I saw this story in dear Deirdre"

Rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Update …… relationship is going great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Update …… relationship is going great.

Yay! That’s lovely news

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Update …… relationship is going great.

So happy for you. I’m glad you took the chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Update …… relationship is going great.

So happy for you. I’m glad you took the chance"

Me too.

Will enjoy each day and see what happens.

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

All the best. It was a nice read from start to finish with a happy ending.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

fantastic news

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Yay violet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So. After two year of dating. We are still together.

Going every well.

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By *red333Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Why do you want to?

Yeah, why would you if you're both happy?

How old is he? Xx

His 65.

Worried about people judging.

"
How old are you, wheres your profile gone, so many questions

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"So. After two year of dating. We are still together.

Going every well. "

Congratulations and wishing that you both still keeping together for many more years to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So. After two year of dating. We are still together.

Going every well. "

That's lovely

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

How's the rent situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So. After two year of dating. We are still together.

Going every well. "

Aww!!

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By *nandwet69Couple
over a year ago

cwmbran

Personally I think you should start paying more as it sounds like u got added value

An a lot more bang for ur buck …!!!

Plus it probably why ur rent ain gone up ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How's the rent situation?"

I moved out after we started dating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I think you should start paying more as it sounds like u got added value

An a lot more bang for ur buck …!!!

Plus it probably why ur rent ain gone up ?? "

I moved out as soon as we started dating

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