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First meets... would this insult you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Not at all, I'd think you know your own body. Lubes fun anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube is essential with a beautiful penis like mine.

You bring the lube and I’ll bring the beautiful penis.

It’s fine, whatever you want, I do think it should possibly be mentioned beforehand though so that he knows what to expect.

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By *eddyBear55Man
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"

Not at all and I would be well up for mutual use

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I always take toys and lube to a meet, it adds more fun to it. I’ve not had anyone complain about it. I always talk about my bag of tricks and men are usually rather eager to see. Plus I have toys for men in there too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all, you might like to do something with your toy or something that doesn't involve your pussy xx

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Nope. Bring them all!

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"

Hell no.

All the more fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No workman should be without their tools.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the toys!

If she brought two headed dildo, then where am I supposed to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"

Could take it as a complement that she feels she may need some lube to squeeze me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you made it sound like toys and lube are a necessity for menopausal women

NBVN x

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Absolutely not OP! Infact it would be a turned on knowing that you're a person that knows what they want and how to get it. Plus lube allows for all sorts kinky play that isn't always possible without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the toys!

If she brought two headed dildo, then where am I supposed to go "

Spread 'em

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’ve always had them in my bag, the guys are aware of them beforehand. They are there as an extra if we decide to use them not as an alternative or a sign of any perceived failure. It can be a lot of fun to show them how they work for a guy too

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Nope xx

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Wtf .. So you think lube is just for a dry vagina, howling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not, if anything it would excite me.

I think long gone are the days of guys being insecure about sex toys. I love using all sorts of toys to enhance the experience

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't see why anyone would be insulted or offended by that - as others have said it shows you know your body, are open minded and it really shouldn't impact on the other person other than enhancing the time spent together - win/win all round as far as I'm concerned

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"

Not at all... Lubes usually just add to the fun however wet anyone gets or doesn't get. If you rocked up with toys and lube it would just be a really positive thing. Have you don't that first time op? What was the reaction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't imagine there are many men who'd object and those that did are probably not for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"

I don’t think that was the case plus more lube is good x maybe they wanted to try anal? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all! There is nothing wrong with doing that. I think it’s good enhance the pleasure

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Lube is essential with a beautiful penis like mine.

You bring the lube and I’ll bring the beautiful penis.

It’s fine, whatever you want, I do think it should possibly be mentioned beforehand though so that he knows what to expect.

"

Surely once they get a glimpse of your beautiful penis it wouldn't be needed

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"Depends on the toys!

If she brought two headed dildo, then where am I supposed to go

Spread 'em"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn’t insult me but I’d be a tad surprised. I would’ve thought it was slight overkill for a lunch social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would you feel if the guy took viagra before your meet op? Would it make you feel like you couldn't get the guy hard?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP you made it sound like toys and lube are a necessity for menopausal women

NBVN x"

Ha ha I didn’t mean it like that

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"

With the lube I probably would think she is into anal. Toys, I very much enjoy using them on a woman. Nope, wouldn't be insulted at all

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I wouldn't see it as an issue, the more fun the merrier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here’s the most important thing for you to know: Your wetness is not a foolproof indicator of your arousal level. Wetness actually says very little about how turned on you are in the moment. As you’ve experienced many times, female-bodied folks can be completely turned on but still remain totally dry. They can also find themselves feeling wet without feeling mentally interested in sex.

For the record, it’s the same with male-bodied folks. Your boyfriend’s erection is not a foolproof indicator of his arousal level, either. Male-bodied people can struggle to get erections even when they want to have sex, and they can also get erections at the worst possible times, when sex is the last thing on their minds.

The idea of your genitals and your mind operating separately from each other is a concept called genital non-concordance."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not

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By *uvhandle20Man
over a year ago

SE London

No absolutely not.

I bring condoms (latex, and latex-free), different lubes and small bullet vibrators to a meeting.

As a gentleman I like to make sure that everything is ready and prepared for hours of fun. And it is also fun to use the toys on each other when we need a break

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm not trying to be bigheaded, but I've never had a problem getting somebody wet.

I've honestly never had to use lube (apart from anal).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always bring lube anyway so it wouldn't be an issue to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lube is essential with a beautiful penis like mine.

You bring the lube and I’ll bring the beautiful penis.

It’s fine, whatever you want, I do think it should possibly be mentioned beforehand though so that he knows what to expect.

"

The one I’m talking about in particular I did tell...

His response was ‘fuck off you aren’t bringing that, you won’t need it’

I’m not bothered at all that he said fuck off, I know he was just messing around... but even so I don’t think he would be impressed if I brought it to the meet

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


""Here’s the most important thing for you to know: Your wetness is not a foolproof indicator of your arousal level. Wetness actually says very little about how turned on you are in the moment. As you’ve experienced many times, female-bodied folks can be completely turned on but still remain totally dry. They can also find themselves feeling wet without feeling mentally interested in sex.

For the record, it’s the same with male-bodied folks. Your boyfriend’s erection is not a foolproof indicator of his arousal level, either. Male-bodied people can struggle to get erections even when they want to have sex, and they can also get erections at the worst possible times, when sex is the last thing on their minds.

The idea of your genitals and your mind operating separately from each other is a concept called genital non-concordance.""

What I came here to say! Where is this quoted from? It sounds familiar.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I adore lube as it takes sex to a different level and lasts much longer than natural vaginal secretions. It also helps make sex more comfortable, especially for a woman of my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the toys!

If she brought two headed dildo, then where am I supposed to go "

To the pub

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

With the lube I probably would think she is into anal. Toys, I very much enjoy using them on a woman. Nope, wouldn't be insulted at all "

I do like anal so there is that element

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Here’s the most important thing for you to know: Your wetness is not a foolproof indicator of your arousal level. Wetness actually says very little about how turned on you are in the moment. As you’ve experienced many times, female-bodied folks can be completely turned on but still remain totally dry. They can also find themselves feeling wet without feeling mentally interested in sex.

For the record, it’s the same with male-bodied folks. Your boyfriend’s erection is not a foolproof indicator of his arousal level, either. Male-bodied people can struggle to get erections even when they want to have sex, and they can also get erections at the worst possible times, when sex is the last thing on their minds.

The idea of your genitals and your mind operating separately from each other is a concept called genital non-concordance."

What I came here to say! Where is this quoted from? It sounds familiar.

Mrs TMN x"

From a sex therapist, hence the speech marks.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I always take lube and the more considerate gents we've met sometimes bring some along too. I'm 64 and post menopause, I need it. Men with experience and understanding know that some older women need it and it's no reflection on them

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"Depends on the toys!

If she brought two headed dildo, then where am I supposed to go

To the pub "

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


""Here’s the most important thing for you to know: Your wetness is not a foolproof indicator of your arousal level. Wetness actually says very little about how turned on you are in the moment. As you’ve experienced many times, female-bodied folks can be completely turned on but still remain totally dry. They can also find themselves feeling wet without feeling mentally interested in sex.

For the record, it’s the same with male-bodied folks. Your boyfriend’s erection is not a foolproof indicator of his arousal level, either. Male-bodied people can struggle to get erections even when they want to have sex, and they can also get erections at the worst possible times, when sex is the last thing on their minds.

The idea of your genitals and your mind operating separately from each other is a concept called genital non-concordance."

What I came here to say! Where is this quoted from? It sounds familiar.

Mrs TMN x

From a sex therapist, hence the speech marks."

I think there's something similar in"How to have feminist sex". Great book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Here’s the most important thing for you to know: Your wetness is not a foolproof indicator of your arousal level. Wetness actually says very little about how turned on you are in the moment. As you’ve experienced many times, female-bodied folks can be completely turned on but still remain totally dry. They can also find themselves feeling wet without feeling mentally interested in sex.

For the record, it’s the same with male-bodied folks. Your boyfriend’s erection is not a foolproof indicator of his arousal level, either. Male-bodied people can struggle to get erections even when they want to have sex, and they can also get erections at the worst possible times, when sex is the last thing on their minds.

The idea of your genitals and your mind operating separately from each other is a concept called genital non-concordance."

What I came here to say! Where is this quoted from? It sounds familiar.

Mrs TMN x

From a sex therapist, hence the speech marks.

I think there's something similar in"How to have feminist sex". Great book. "

Don't have that one but if it's recommended reading then I will. Ty

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Nope. I’d just assume you liked it up the pooper and celebrate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, you could bring what ever turns you on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be thinking suga pop might like it up the arsehole If I play my cards nice ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always take lube and the more considerate gents we've met sometimes bring some along too. I'm 64 and post menopause, I need it. Men with experience and understanding know that some older women need it and it's no reflection on them"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would only be offended if the lube and sex toy was intended for me!

Just kidding OP, I wouldn’t mind

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By *igtone2310Man
over a year ago

Beverley

Bring plenty of lube otherwise it might make my eyes water xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t mind at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don’t actually do anal on first meets either.

I take it as I normally like long sessions... there’s only so long it stays comfortable when you’re 4 hours in and been doing foreplay, having sex & chatting for that long.

Toys are just because I can guarantee a orgasm that way

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

It wouldn’t offend us - would just be an early indicator that we’re on the same wavelength.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you made it sound like toys and lube are a necessity for menopausal women

NBVN x

Ha ha I didn’t mean it like that "

Excuse my ignorance but what is NBVN ?

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By *agan gentlemenMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"

Nope if it was agreed sex was on the cards. I might have been shopping myself to for somthing leave you with :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t actually do anal on first meets either.

I take it as I normally like long sessions... there’s only so long it stays comfortable when you’re 4 hours in and been doing foreplay, having sex & chatting for that long.

Toys are just because I can guarantee a orgasm that way

"

First rule of the girl guide's is "Be prepared" lol

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I don’t actually do anal on first meets either.

I take it as I normally like long sessions... there’s only so long it stays comfortable when you’re 4 hours in and been doing foreplay, having sex & chatting for that long.

Toys are just because I can guarantee a orgasm that way

First rule of the girl guide's is "Be prepared" lol"

Dib, dib, dib.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd assume that you love long fun whitch I love too xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t actually do anal on first meets either.

I take it as I normally like long sessions... there’s only so long it stays comfortable when you’re 4 hours in and been doing foreplay, having sex & chatting for that long.

Toys are just because I can guarantee a orgasm that way

First rule of the girl guide's is "Be prepared" lol"

100% agree

+ with it being a first meet you never know what will happen so I try to take a bit of responsibility for my own orgasm

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I don’t actually do anal on first meets either.

I take it as I normally like long sessions... there’s only so long it stays comfortable when you’re 4 hours in and been doing foreplay, having sex & chatting for that long.

Toys are just because I can guarantee a orgasm that way

First rule of the girl guide's is "Be prepared" lol

100% agree

+ with it being a first meet you never know what will happen so I try to take a bit of responsibility for my own orgasm "

Do they know that OP or do you just wing it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t actually do anal on first meets either.

I take it as I normally like long sessions... there’s only so long it stays comfortable when you’re 4 hours in and been doing foreplay, having sex & chatting for that long.

Toys are just because I can guarantee a orgasm that way

First rule of the girl guide's is "Be prepared" lol

100% agree

+ with it being a first meet you never know what will happen so I try to take a bit of responsibility for my own orgasm

Do they know that OP or do you just wing it? "

What do you mean?

It’s a first meet where anything sexual would have happened so I’m unable to determine how good they are in bed or if we are compatible in the sack....

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By *mmaAndDavidHornyFuckersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

If it was a meet in a coffee shop I'd be worried. Otherwise it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it was a meet in a coffee shop I'd be worried. Otherwise it's all good. "

I mean first meet when sex is 100% going to happen.

No lube with my cups of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we supposed to get wet for a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"

Wouldn't offend me. I don't like sex toys but happy to use them on other people.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Are we supposed to get wet for a meet? "

Got my snorkel ready.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Not insulting at all. It says to me that you’ve come ready to play and we have a wider range of options.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I don’t actually do anal on first meets either.

I take it as I normally like long sessions... there’s only so long it stays comfortable when you’re 4 hours in and been doing foreplay, having sex & chatting for that long.

Toys are just because I can guarantee a orgasm that way

First rule of the girl guide's is "Be prepared" lol

100% agree

+ with it being a first meet you never know what will happen so I try to take a bit of responsibility for my own orgasm

Do they know that OP or do you just wing it?

What do you mean?

It’s a first meet where anything sexual would have happened so I’m unable to determine how good they are in bed or if we are compatible in the sack.... "

Sorry should have been clearer, do you tell the men that’s why you have the toys to guarantee an orgasm ? Of course no one knows how a first meet would go, but I think there are ways of saying what they are for

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"

It adds to the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not, I’d encourage it. I brought my own toys to my very first meet as did she

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would just add to the fun. I'd be more insulted if you didn't bring them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we supposed to get wet for a meet?

Got my snorkel ready. "

Bring a cheese grater

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Are we supposed to get wet for a meet?

Got my snorkel ready.

Bring a cheese grater "

You kinky fucker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not an insult at all. I’d enjoy your playful enthusiasm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t actually do anal on first meets either.

I take it as I normally like long sessions... there’s only so long it stays comfortable when you’re 4 hours in and been doing foreplay, having sex & chatting for that long.

Toys are just because I can guarantee a orgasm that way

First rule of the girl guide's is "Be prepared" lol

100% agree

+ with it being a first meet you never know what will happen so I try to take a bit of responsibility for my own orgasm

Do they know that OP or do you just wing it?

What do you mean?

It’s a first meet where anything sexual would have happened so I’m unable to determine how good they are in bed or if we are compatible in the sack....

Sorry should have been clearer, do you tell the men that’s why you have the toys to guarantee an orgasm ? Of course no one knows how a first meet would go, but I think there are ways of saying what they are for "

Oh no not at all! I’d just suggest using it if we weren't getting even close.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I don’t actually do anal on first meets either.

I take it as I normally like long sessions... there’s only so long it stays comfortable when you’re 4 hours in and been doing foreplay, having sex & chatting for that long.

Toys are just because I can guarantee a orgasm that way

First rule of the girl guide's is "Be prepared" lol

100% agree

+ with it being a first meet you never know what will happen so I try to take a bit of responsibility for my own orgasm

Do they know that OP or do you just wing it?

What do you mean?

It’s a first meet where anything sexual would have happened so I’m unable to determine how good they are in bed or if we are compatible in the sack....

Sorry should have been clearer, do you tell the men that’s why you have the toys to guarantee an orgasm ? Of course no one knows how a first meet would go, but I think there are ways of saying what they are for

Oh no not at all! I’d just suggest using it if we weren't getting even close. "

That’s what I thought

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I always get my bag of tricks out in the middle of Costa . I wondered why they all run away

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"

Not at all, I would think the opposite and think you were sexually confident, an attribute I like in women.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I always get my bag of tricks out in the middle of Costa . I wondered why they all run away "

That’s why most woman’s handbags are so big

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I always get my bag of tricks out in the middle of Costa . I wondered why they all run away

That’s why most woman’s handbags are so big "

Haha yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! Would mean more fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the slightest.. Bring them along

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

No. I'd actually be pleased.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

I’d consider you bold, assertive, balanced and organised!

#hellyeah

"

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By *issMeSlowlyMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I certainly wouldn't be upset about it

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Id only be worried if she put the bag down and it sounded like it was full of scaffolding.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Not a guy but most times I've brought lube they assume it's for my arse.

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"

Not at all… and even better if one of the toys is a strap-on

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I can only speak for myself, but it depends on where I am in my cycle as to how wet I am or can get. I can be really well lubricated just normally without even the thought of sex at some point in the month, but just after my period, not so much. So lube would be necessary no matter how much I was aroused.

I always take supplies with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you made it sound like toys and lube are a necessity for menopausal women

NBVN x

Ha ha I didn’t mean it like that

Excuse my ignorance but what is NBVN ?"

It's just an acronym of my username, it's a nickname given to me by forumites and I use it as a sign off.

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Tarka trail

It would not insult me. I would encourage a woman to bring along any toy she wanted. For me to use on her obviously. As I like to give oral, lots of oral to a woman. Before I make love to a woman. I make sure that she has had an orgasm before hand. With my girlfriend for example. I would use 3 vibrators on her at the same time. While I have her wrist restraints on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would it? Just adds to the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you made it sound like toys and lube are a necessity for menopausal women

NBVN x

Ha ha I didn’t mean it like that

Excuse my ignorance but what is NBVN ?

It's just an acronym of my username, it's a nickname given to me by forumites and I use it as a sign off. "

Of course, I see it now, somewhat slow of me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't care less really

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"

Not at all.

Toys make for a more fun time imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a first meet? I'd think all my Christmasses had arrived at once!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’d be very pleased if this happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bring lube to meets but do quite like it if they have some xx

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Depends on the toys!

If she brought two headed dildo, then where am I supposed to go "

In her mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"

No..I would think you was organised and kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lube is essential with a beautiful penis like mine.

You bring the lube and I’ll bring the beautiful penis.

It’s fine, whatever you want, I do think it should possibly be mentioned beforehand though so that he knows what to expect.

Surely once they get a glimpse of your beautiful penis it wouldn't be needed

"

True story… however ~

Best to be on the safe side, nobody wants phallus rub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lube is essential with a beautiful penis like mine.

You bring the lube and I’ll bring the beautiful penis.

It’s fine, whatever you want, I do think it should possibly be mentioned beforehand though so that he knows what to expect.

The one I’m talking about in particular I did tell...

His response was ‘fuck off you aren’t bringing that, you won’t need it’

I’m not bothered at all that he said fuck off, I know he was just messing around... but even so I don’t think he would be impressed if I brought it to the meet "

Do it anyway, he sounds like he’s gonna be good craic if you know he was just messing and I know myself how hot having a woman who knows exactly how she likes things and sharing that with me can be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wtf .. So you think lube is just for a dry vagina, howling "

Well clearly not. I’m talking about how men feel about it on a first meet due to reactions Iv had in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"

Hell no! I think you’d want Anal! ha!

Seriously though, I make no judgements on any meet. We are different people, with different needs and different interests. I’d just be pleased she had the confidence to know what she wanted.

Toys / lube / industrial plant machinery, it’s all welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely not, if anything it would excite me.

I think long gone are the days of guys being insecure about sex toys. I love using all sorts of toys to enhance the experience "

I don’t know if they are long gone. The last bloke I was seeing for a year wouldn’t use toys at all as he viewed it as what was the point in him being there if I had a toy to do the job

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

Hell no! I think you’d want Anal! ha!

Seriously though, I make no judgements on any meet. We are different people, with different needs and different interests. I’d just be pleased she had the confidence to know what she wanted.

Toys / lube / industrial plant machinery, it’s all welcome

"

Don’t think plant machinery will fit in my ‘sex bag’

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

If someone brought biscuits or cake to my house on an invite for coffee, i'd take it as a thoughtful act not that I couldn't bake.

When I used to make sure I had taxi money in case the decision was made to use it if it was needed It wasn't being too good to ride on the bus.

Taking lube is just being prepared in case it's needed and let's face it any prolonged session or out of the ordinary bodily part will more likely than not benefit from lube......

Take it. If he takes it personally that's not your intention.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on the toys!

If she brought two headed dildo, then where am I supposed to go "

Her mouth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be delighted she had bought some toys / items to increase our fun.

I would see it as thoughtful and also quite hot

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By *ohnnyGentMan
over a year ago

london

Honestly don’t know why any man would feel insulted. If anything it shows how much of a fun meet it could have potentially been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

Hell no! I think you’d want Anal! ha!

Seriously though, I make no judgements on any meet. We are different people, with different needs and different interests. I’d just be pleased she had the confidence to know what she wanted.

Toys / lube / industrial plant machinery, it’s all welcome

Don’t think plant machinery will fit in my ‘sex bag’ "

You need a bigger bag! Big fan of a vibarator attached to a petrol-driven generator me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No , far from it I would be the first to encourage you to use them, they enhance the sexual pleasure - plus I like toys to lol

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

Hell no! I think you’d want Anal! ha!

Seriously though, I make no judgements on any meet. We are different people, with different needs and different interests. I’d just be pleased she had the confidence to know what she wanted.

Toys / lube / industrial plant machinery, it’s all welcome

Don’t think plant machinery will fit in my ‘sex bag’

You need a bigger bag! Big fan of a vibarator attached to a petrol-driven generator me "

We're gonna need a bigger boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always take props to a meet but then I guess when it gets to the point of them getting in my knicks they know this about me anyway

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

I would welcome it..Shows confidence and experience...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah bring them along, shows you're looking to enjoy yourself!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I always take lube and the more considerate gents we've met sometimes bring some along too. I'm 64 and post menopause, I need it. Men with experience and understanding know that some older women need it and it's no reflection on them"

I'm not menopausal but do need lube fairly often. I have auto-immune issues that affect my bodily secretions (tears, saliva and vaginal lubrication). My wetness is completely independent of my arousal status, as explained by the earlier poster....

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

If it was a first play meet, as opposed to a social, I'd be bringing some lube anyway. It's basic kit, alongside condoms.

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By *indy777Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Not insulted at all. Feel free to bring them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How would you feel if the guy took viagra before your meet op? Would it make you feel like you couldn't get the guy hard? "

Iv actually had this happen where a man took viagra before I come over and I didn’t know.... It was one of the best sex sessions Iv ever had so anyone can take a blue pill if they want

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah bring them along, shows you're looking to enjoy yourself!"

I’m always looking to enjoy myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always take lube and condoms with me to a meet.

Be it a club meet or private meet.

You can never be 100% certain the guy is going to have any.

I also have a smallish playbag packed, like a grab and go bag with what I consider essentials for a sexy evening of fun.

It contains a few of my favourite toys, tissues, perfume, deodrant, wet wipes, lube, condoms of various sizes, massage oil,a bottle of water, hairbrush, hairties. And some pro-plus caffeine tablets!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always take props to a meet but then I guess when it gets to the point of them getting in my knicks they know this about me anyway "

I might just be easier then you

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Definitely not, if anything it would excite me.

I think long gone are the days of guys being insecure about sex toys. I love using all sorts of toys to enhance the experience

I don’t know if they are long gone. The last bloke I was seeing for a year wouldn’t use toys at all as he viewed it as what was the point in him being there if I had a toy to do the job "

I'm kind of with him on that though, but only because I don't enjoy toys used on me.

If I thought a man wasn't going to do it for me, no matter how much effort we both put in, I wouldn't bother shaving my legs and getting on the train.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would always take lube and condoms with me to a meet.

Be it a club meet or private meet.

You can never be 100% certain the guy is going to have any.

I also have a smallish playbag packed, like a grab and go bag with what I consider essentials for a sexy evening of fun.

It contains a few of my favourite toys, tissues, perfume, deodrant, wet wipes, lube, condoms of various sizes, massage oil,a bottle of water, hairbrush, hairties. And some pro-plus caffeine tablets!

"

I just checked my play bag I sometimes take to check what I leave in there ...

2 brand new sex toys unused in boxes (pulsing cock ring & mini massager)

A wand, morgasm bullet & a glass butt plug.

Liquid silk and 2 types of edible lube from Ann summers. Condoms

Perfume, deodorant, dry shampoo & various make up.

A miniature bottle of gin.

Chewing gum, toothbrush & toothpaste.

A pen

Hair ties & brush.

I’m unsure why I have a pen in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah bring them along, shows you're looking to enjoy yourself!

I’m always looking to enjoy myself "

Glad to hear it!

Personally wouldnt be insulted, trying new things, exploring different ways of finding pleasure which eachother is part of the fun of life, surely?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would always take lube and condoms with me to a meet.

Be it a club meet or private meet.

You can never be 100% certain the guy is going to have any.

I also have a smallish playbag packed, like a grab and go bag with what I consider essentials for a sexy evening of fun.

It contains a few of my favourite toys, tissues, perfume, deodrant, wet wipes, lube, condoms of various sizes, massage oil,a bottle of water, hairbrush, hairties. And some pro-plus caffeine tablets!

I just checked my play bag I sometimes take to check what I leave in there ...

2 brand new sex toys unused in boxes (pulsing cock ring & mini massager)

A wand, morgasm bullet & a glass butt plug.

Liquid silk and 2 types of edible lube from Ann summers. Condoms

Perfume, deodorant, dry shampoo & various make up.

A miniature bottle of gin.

Chewing gum, toothbrush & toothpaste.

A pen

Hair ties & brush.

I’m unsure why I have a pen in there "

you are prepared!! Impressive. I just bring myself haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recall someone getting bit funny about this actually. And some who insisted. I don't really need it but it thrown me a bit. Maybe the reasoning actually more than a request.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Always got lube and toys in my box of tricks.

I've never met anyone who'd be offended by that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve taken my toy box to meets before the men love it!

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Would I be insulted if a woman brought toys and lube, no, I’d be excited!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I recall someone getting bit funny about this actually. And some who insisted. I don't really need it but it thrown me a bit. Maybe the reasoning actually more than a request. "

I think some men see toys as a bit of a threat. Dents their ego as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be delighted i got a meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you?

(Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"
I'd think what a good idea .. try anything once lol

I've actually used lube with a woman before it's quite arousing to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I recall someone getting bit funny about this actually. And some who insisted. I don't really need it but it thrown me a bit. Maybe the reasoning actually more than a request.

I think some men see toys as a bit of a threat. Dents their ego as such. "

My thoughts too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just thought this was normal behaviour

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I recall someone getting bit funny about this actually. And some who insisted. I don't really need it but it thrown me a bit. Maybe the reasoning actually more than a request.

I think some men see toys as a bit of a threat. Dents their ego as such.

My thoughts too. "

Nope

Bring 'em on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"
nope. Lube is my friend and toys make everything better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recall someone getting bit funny about this actually. And some who insisted. I don't really need it but it thrown me a bit. Maybe the reasoning actually more than a request.

I think some men see toys as a bit of a threat. Dents their ego as such. "

Possibly ! That's how it read. Regardless of intention.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I just thought this was normal behaviour "

You’re back!

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"

I’d probably think, I’m definitely getting lucky

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By *ralwizardMan
over a year ago

Thornaby

I'd be more insulted maybe, if it was brought on the 2/3rd time if nothing had been mentioned about there involvement.... As guessing then it would be a sign.

Hard one in guess, I personally would find it more of a turn on xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all ... all adds to the fun

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By *yantico86Man
over a year ago

drumchapel

Nope I wouldn't be insulted x

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Definitely not insulted....I'd be impressed

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By *icola2202Couple
over a year ago

Chatham

Can’t be annoyed at someone who is prepared haha x Mrs

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By *reakbedsnotheartsMan
over a year ago

bedford

Love this no point beating round the bush

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"

Think anal on a first meet is a tad presuming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sounds like a laugh I don't take things too seriously anyway

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By *amesoflondonMan
over a year ago

London

Not at all, quite the opposite OP.

It'd be very horny making.

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By *ornyinConwyMan
over a year ago

Conwy

No, not at all o.p. I've had a first meet from here when the female pulled out boxes of toys! The meet was at her place so obviously her toys were there, but no way did i feel offended in any way. Made for more fun!

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By *ogueAngelMan
over a year ago

Near Bath / Bristol


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"

Not in the slightest. It's just being prepared and adds to the fun!

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"

hell no I wouldn't be insulted in the slightest, I also have lube it's hand to have

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

No. I can't see why anybody would take offence from that. It might make me nervous about what's about to happen though. Luke

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"Nope. I’d just assume you liked it up the pooper and celebrate "

Haaaa. Brilliant.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Not at all can't see why anyone would be.

XX

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Definitely not in fact I’d be a bit more turned on by it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. I can't see why anybody would take offence from that. It might make me nervous about what's about to happen though. Luke "

True. The bloke might think it’s for their ass

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Wife always has toys and lubes at our meets, she sometimes likes to put on a show for me and the guys with the toys

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

"

No it would excite me. Shows experience

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Insult? Heck, no!

Looks like you'd be with an experienced and fun loving person!

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"Question for the guys really..

Would a women bringing lube & sex toys to a first meet insult you? (Keeping in mind I’m 31 so not premenopausal)

If I brought lube to a meet would you feel like I’m insinuating that you will be unable to get me wet enough?

Hell no.

All the more fun! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be fine about it. Somebody who knows their own mind is always sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's cool with me but I've got plenty of toys and lube at mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be fascinated, and depending on what exactly is in your bag, slightly nervous...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Essentials

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By *oeBiggs321Man
over a year ago

Reading

This just adds to the evening does it not? Wouldn’t be insulted at all!

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