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By *0 S O G OP   Man
over a year ago

portsmouth

been on for a while but no joy what is best way to get noticed?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Maybe get involved in the forum posts.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I hardly ever message locals on here.

I've made plenty of friends via the forums.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Yeah, what you're doing wrong is expecting to get noticed when the country is pretty much closed for business.

Even without the pandemic, as a single male expecting to get noticed would be what you're doing wrong.

3 months is fuck all on a huge scale.

If you really wanna meet people get yourself out and about when clubs reopen. It won't guarantee sex, but you may have a face to face conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of it as a bar.

You're never gonna pull if you don't engage in conversation.

Unless you pay for it.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Think of it as a bar.

You're never gonna pull if you don't engage in conversation.

Unless you pay for it."

And messaging hi does not count. Give me something that makes me want to engage with you.

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By *rPeachyMan
over a year ago

Bristol

You just have to to a 'nearby' search on your mobile to see just what the ratio of men to women is on here. It's a case of managing expectations and making a bigger effort.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Your in a male dominated space, the numbers don’t favour you. Unless you have a huge cock

Stop messaging people because it’s largely pointless. Engage in the forums and go to socials/clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think of it as a bar.

You're never gonna pull if you don't engage in conversation.

Unless you pay for it.

And messaging hi does not count. Give me something that makes me want to engage with you. "

Like " hi beautiful I noticed that you have been engaging in conversations in topics that are particularly enjoy reading.I see on your profile you are looking for an adventurous man with strong arms. Let me whisk you away like the unicorn that you are and bring you to pleasure town"

Lol sorry could not resist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been on for a while but no joy what is best way to get noticed? "

Start a thread asking people if you should leave or not, with the full attention of staying, that seems to be the latest trend with some men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate to break it to you but 3 months isn’t a while… Especially during the pandemic. The best way to get noticed would be to go to clubs and socials. Interact on the forum and just be patient, a lot of people use this as a tool to keep in touch with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wave your cock around like you just don't ca-reeeee

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Put on about 4 stone - you'll get noticed more then.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"Wave your cock around like you just don't ca-reeeee"

Send HWS cock pics for mass distribution to the forum hotties

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