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"The only one you can clarity from is the person you've been chatting to.. How about suggesting a social. Its her buisness to see who she wants, it doesn't mean youre a dumbass. Go for it. You're not a dumbass at all. Just be clear youd love to meet and see what comes back. Otherwise you'll make up stories but never know " Tried that, I get the excuse of being "vanilla busy" | |||
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"What's to say her intentions to meet you aren't real? Also did you ask her out right if she had only recently started talking to this guy, or assuming it from his Veri?" Oh he's made it clear in black and white in his veri that chatting and meeting happened same day | |||
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"If you’ve not asked her to meet up then I’d say yes you are." Over two years mate I've asked numerous times...not sure why everyone seems to think I haven't. OK perhaps I missed that off my original post. Apologies | |||
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"What's to say her intentions to meet you aren't real? Also did you ask her out right if she had only recently started talking to this guy, or assuming it from his Veri? Oh he's made it clear in black and white in his veri that chatting and meeting happened same day" So I'm guessing she's going to see this and maybe be a bit annoyed you brought it to forum instead of just asking her if she's intersted in meeting you ... you don't own her just because your chatting and she owes you nothing just because your chatting x | |||
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"The only one you can clarity from is the person you've been chatting to.. How about suggesting a social. Its her buisness to see who she wants, it doesn't mean youre a dumbass. Go for it. You're not a dumbass at all. Just be clear youd love to meet and see what comes back. Otherwise you'll make up stories but never know Tried that, I get the excuse of being "vanilla busy"" Doesn’t look like it’s going to happen then, unfortunately. | |||
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"Sorry but after 2 years I’d say she likes chatting to you but doesn’t want to meet! " They why not be honest about it instead of weaving excuses? Thank you | |||
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"What's to say her intentions to meet you aren't real? Also did you ask her out right if she had only recently started talking to this guy, or assuming it from his Veri? Oh he's made it clear in black and white in his veri that chatting and meeting happened same day" Well I think that makes it a little easier to swallow tbf. We've all had spur of the moment meets right?! I have a FWB who's 40 odd miles away, and unless one of us actually says 'Right, let's make this happen!' and books a hotel, or sets a day aside etc to actually meet we don't ever get anything sorted! I'd ask her one last time, say let's make it happen, and if she doesn't reciprocate then I'd accept it probably won't happen... Don't beat yourself up about it though! | |||
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"Have you asked her to meet? What do you gain from your friendship? If it's a meet you want, then yes you're a dumbass. If it's just an online friendship then no, you're not." Yes I asked numerous times and she wasn't exactly refusing just never committed to agreeing when Dumbass gets | |||
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"If you’ve not asked her to meet up then I’d say yes you are. Over two years mate I've asked numerous times...not sure why everyone seems to think I haven't. OK perhaps I missed that off my original post. Apologies" OP.. With this information I say Move on. For some reason she doesn't feel comfortable or able to say 'thanks but no thanks'. You may never know the reason. She even may never know the reason. It's Disappointing I'm sure.. Maybe even a little bit ouchy.. but it doesn't sound promising. Maybe take it into your own hands and send a message saying something along the lines of.. you've no confidence in her wanting to meet so you're letting it go. Byeeee. | |||
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"If you’ve not asked her to meet up then I’d say yes you are. Over two years mate I've asked numerous times...not sure why everyone seems to think I haven't. OK perhaps I missed that off my original post. Apologies OP.. With this information I say Move on. For some reason she doesn't feel comfortable or able to say 'thanks but no thanks'. You may never know the reason. She even may never know the reason. It's Disappointing I'm sure.. Maybe even a little bit ouchy.. but it doesn't sound promising. Maybe take it into your own hands and send a message saying something along the lines of.. you've no confidence in her wanting to meet so you're letting it go. Byeeee. " Already have | |||
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"Also did you ask her out right if she had only recently started talking to this guy, or assuming it from his Veri?" That’ll make her want to keep chatting | |||
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"Maybe your in the friend zone " Ohhh hate when that happens | |||
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"You also only joined 3 weeks ago " I've been a member on and off for 5 years!!! | |||
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"Very creepy controlling behaviour, spying on the females desires to have a nice time, which has nothing to do OP. Why men get so butthurt about someone not meeting up with them is beyond me. Maybe after 2 years this fella would get the hint that he is the definition of friendzone. Move on old chap, not worth even thinking about. " Already have | |||
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"Very creepy controlling behaviour, spying on the females desires to have a nice time, which has nothing to do OP. Why men get so butthurt about someone not meeting up with them is beyond me. Maybe after 2 years this fella would get the hint that he is the definition of friendzone. Move on old chap, not worth even thinking about. " I think creepy and controlling is a bit harsh. If you have had enough OP I would ask outright if she wants to meet if you can't get a date then time to move on maybe and look elsewhere Good luck | |||
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"If you’ve not asked her to meet up then I’d say yes you are. Over two years mate I've asked numerous times...not sure why everyone seems to think I haven't. OK perhaps I missed that off my original post. Apologies OP.. With this information I say Move on. For some reason she doesn't feel comfortable or able to say 'thanks but no thanks'. You may never know the reason. She even may never know the reason. It's Disappointing I'm sure.. Maybe even a little bit ouchy.. but it doesn't sound promising. Maybe take it into your own hands and send a message saying something along the lines of.. you've no confidence in her wanting to meet so you're letting it go. Byeeee. Already have " Brilliant. Case closed. Thread closed? | |||
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"If you’ve not asked her to meet up then I’d say yes you are. Over two years mate I've asked numerous times...not sure why everyone seems to think I haven't. OK perhaps I missed that off my original post. Apologies OP.. With this information I say Move on. For some reason she doesn't feel comfortable or able to say 'thanks but no thanks'. You may never know the reason. She even may never know the reason. It's Disappointing I'm sure.. Maybe even a little bit ouchy.. but it doesn't sound promising. Maybe take it into your own hands and send a message saying something along the lines of.. you've no confidence in her wanting to meet so you're letting it go. Byeeee. Already have Brilliant. Case closed. Thread closed? " Very much in both cases | |||
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"Very creepy controlling behaviour, spying on the females desires to have a nice time, which has nothing to do OP. Why men get so butthurt about someone not meeting up with them is beyond me. Maybe after 2 years this fella would get the hint that he is the definition of friendzone. Move on old chap, not worth even thinking about. Already have " What did she say? | |||
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"Very creepy controlling behaviour, spying on the females desires to have a nice time, which has nothing to do OP. Why men get so butthurt about someone not meeting up with them is beyond me. Maybe after 2 years this fella would get the hint that he is the definition of friendzone. Move on old chap, not worth even thinking about. Already have What did she say? " Nooooo, it was a to "move on" | |||
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"Very creepy controlling behaviour, spying on the females desires to have a nice time, which has nothing to do OP. Why men get so butthurt about someone not meeting up with them is beyond me. Maybe after 2 years this fella would get the hint that he is the definition of friendzone. Move on old chap, not worth even thinking about. " How’s it creepy and controlling? Veris come up on updates. | |||
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"Very creepy controlling behaviour, spying on the females desires to have a nice time, which has nothing to do OP. Why men get so butthurt about someone not meeting up with them is beyond me. Maybe after 2 years this fella would get the hint that he is the definition of friendzone. Move on old chap, not worth even thinking about. How’s it creepy and controlling? Veris come up on updates. " Leave it Nora, it's OK, we're all allowed an opinion with out recourse on anything I post. I'm not offended, so all good | |||
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"Very creepy controlling behaviour, spying on the females desires to have a nice time, which has nothing to do OP. Why men get so butthurt about someone not meeting up with them is beyond me. Maybe after 2 years this fella would get the hint that he is the definition of friendzone. Move on old chap, not worth even thinking about. Already have What did she say? Nooooo, it was a to "move on" " She could have told you that 2 years ago instead of keeping you hanging on. Chin up. | |||
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"Very creepy controlling behaviour, spying on the females desires to have a nice time, which has nothing to do OP. Why men get so butthurt about someone not meeting up with them is beyond me. Maybe after 2 years this fella would get the hint that he is the definition of friendzone. Move on old chap, not worth even thinking about. Already have What did she say? Nooooo, it was a to "move on" She could have told you that 2 years ago instead of keeping you hanging on. Chin up. " Chin wasn't ever down | |||
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"maybe she thinks she has to much of a friendship with you to want to meet you, some people prefere to meet strangers" I agree on this, you could be in the friend zone. She really enjoys chatting to you, and values you in that way. It's possible that she may think if you had a fab meet and things got sexual it could ruin that friendship. You will never know unless you ask her though. | |||
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