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By *ocothumpa OP   Man
over a year ago

quite close to you

This is going to trigger some of you, if you’re offended then please think of it that I’m not talking about you, it’s the other people I’m talking about.

There are some people who can definitely be considered attractive in the vanilla world and then there are those who you’d consider attractive in ‘the lifestyle’. Is there much of a disparity? Because I know both male and female attitudes towards those who approach them either Online or in clubs is widely different.

I’m not a ridiculously good looking guy, but in the vanilla world I’m treated soo much differently than how I am in the Swinging scene. I’m not complaining as I do ok in both, but one scene I’m treated pretty cool on the other like a pariah (at times). Now it’s not entirely to do with (the dreaded ‘R’ word) as I have been to mostly white club events, mixed and exclusively all black events and seen the same behaviour from both sexes: basically acting like they’re the bees knees, “the shit”, “poodle’s pecker” etc and I want to say “LOOK AT YOURSELF YOU’RE A SASQUATCH LOOKING LUMP STOP BEHAVING LIKE THAT”

But I don’t because I’m not an arsehole, but I just was reminded by someone’s profile update thing and that made me think; some of us need to rain in the shitty ducking attitude you’re not that fucking hot; it’s a false environment.

Anyway my thought for the day…I’ll prepare for the onslaught “attacks” on my ego etc etc etc

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Sasquatch looking lump.

Thank you for bringing this into my life OP.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Good luck with the thread OP!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It’s not just the swinging world I think this OP

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By *ustathingMan
over a year ago

Reading

I'm the opposite... I'm half decent looking in person, and am always told I'm very confident and outgoing, but on here I'm slightly awkward, and mega un-photogenic!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This is going to trigger some of you, if you’re offended then please think of it that I’m not talking about you, it’s the other people I’m talking about.

There are some people who can definitely be considered attractive in the vanilla world and then there are those who you’d consider attractive in ‘the lifestyle’. Is there much of a disparity? Because I know both male and female attitudes towards those who approach them either Online or in clubs is widely different.

I’m not a ridiculously good looking guy, but in the vanilla world I’m treated soo much differently than how I am in the Swinging scene. I’m not complaining as I do ok in both, but one scene I’m treated pretty cool on the other like a pariah (at times). Now it’s not entirely to do with (the dreaded ‘R’ word) as I have been to mostly white club events, mixed and exclusively all black events and seen the same behaviour from both sexes: basically acting like they’re the bees knees, “the shit”, “poodle’s pecker” etc and I want to say “LOOK AT YOURSELF YOU’RE A SASQUATCH LOOKING LUMP STOP BEHAVING LIKE THAT”

But I don’t because I’m not an arsehole, but I just was reminded by someone’s profile update thing and that made me think; some of us need to rain in the shitty ducking attitude you’re not that fucking hot; it’s a false environment.

Anyway my thought for the day…I’ll prepare for the onslaught “attacks” on my ego etc etc etc"

Ok Mr Thumpa, I'm not triggered.

Are you saying that hot people can have a shitty attitude? Because in my world I don't care how good looking you are a shitty attitude is a shitty attitude. Being good looking isn't a pass to behave badly...well actually it is, I see it time and time again and the sychophants of this world encourage it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Also sasquatch looking lump kind of qualifies as a shitty attitude.

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Sasquatch looking lump.

Thank you for bringing this into my life OP."
I'm also pleased with this

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Sasquatch looking lump.

Thank you for bringing this into my life OP."

This!

But also, if you are not talking about "us" this that are reading this. Who are these others you speak of? Are they no longer others if they read this?

Does reading this make them no longer guilty?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Sexual hotness is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thay can transfer over being hot here gives me confidence in the real world that I am hot there that confidence can be seen a mile off and can give the impression that someone’s hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can agree with what I think you are saying here,that some people (mainly females) can have a shitty attitude in thinking just because they get alot of attention then they are better than others who dont.

Also, a female getting heaps of messages doesnt mean you are gods gift, it is just the way it is on here.

However, I AM gods gift to people so this cleary does not apply to me. I'm sexy and I know it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can agree with what I think you are saying here,that some people (mainly females) can have a shitty attitude in thinking just because they get alot of attention then they are better than others who dont.

Also, a female getting heaps of messages doesnt mean you are gods gift, it is just the way it is on here.

However, I AM gods gift to people so this cleary does not apply to me. I'm sexy and I know it "

Great reply and yes it is a very known fact that those on here with Vaginas get way more mail than those that dont have them

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