FabSwingers.com forum: How to grab the attention…

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A simple yet needed question I thought I’d ask…. What is it about a profile that draws ladies & couples in? I realise everyone is wanting different things but at least if theres something there they want then it’s a good starter right? So teach me the ways oh wise one :p

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

You sort of answered your own question there

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ripe, juicy melon

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Pink clothing.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

My smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A profile should be informative.

Mystery is all very well and goid, but with the sheer number of single men on fab, many women and couples aren't likely to message someone to find out information that others have taken the trounle to display on their profiles.

A goid profile will set out what it's owner is looking for and what they have to offer.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Ripe, juicy melon"

Which kind?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Something there they want? This is what I’m asking, what do you want to see

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ll have to pop to the Asda to pick 1 up…

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Something there they want? This is what I’m asking, what do you want to see

Us personally? Ahhhhh. Tightey Whiteys then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Something there they want? This is what I’m asking, what do you want to see

A personality. Not something I seemed to have read before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the key, grabbing the attention.. keeping it is a whole other story. You can have the best profile in the world, it doesn't gurantee connections with people.

If you feel your profile reflects who you are then no one can pick that apart. Just be you and do what you wanna do, everyone's a critic regardless

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And what a magnificent smile (as well as everything else)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My smile

Indeed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

makes sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I’ve ticked that box :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to up my game lost my mojo recently

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I best don my glasses and get typing my best words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you need help when your verifications don't seem to suggest you have any problems meeting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Best version of you…noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A profile should be informative.

A goid profile will set out what it's owner is looking for and what they have to offer."

My profile is very long, but it's clear about what I'm looking for, particularly when it comes to men but it doesn't seem to get me much interest from those who are for me! A lot will ignore it, others read, yet still choose to ignore it.

Apparently I'm up my own arse based on my profile, but I would rather that then those calling me that be up there!

I'm ( incorrectly) seen as a miserable c*** by a lot on here, whilst I ( correctly) think they're massive c***s for being judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Handful of meets…..but it’s always good to improve no?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And there’s the difficult bit.. write too long and people are interested (or is just blokes that do that) or not write enough and come across as lazy….

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

For me something unusual and clearly indicative of a decent iq. Nice pictures help but i look at them last. Nearby and can accomodate is also imperative

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

This is where the old "we all like different things" adage comes into play.

Personally, I'm not even going to look at a profile if I don't feel like I'm going to be attracted to the person that I can see in the profile picture.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It’s not about attracting everyone, that’s not possible and I think it’s where a lot go wrong. People get bogged down in profile text and pictures that don’t represent the real them, which is daft.

It’s about attracting the people that you want to meet and that will like you, which means making your profile about yourself and being as ‘you’ as it can be.

If people are put off by that, then they’re not your type, if they like it, then there’s a start.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So here’s a question…if someone can’t accom does that instantly put you off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So in that case what should be in a profile pic…and more importantly what shouldnt

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally like to see pictures of bum holes but no one ever listens to me.

I wouldn’t call myself miss average either if I wanted to appear awesome to people. But saying that I could call myself MissShitsHerself and I’d still be beating them off with a machete.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If you use the reply and quote button it makes it easier to see who you're replying to

The problem is OP you're trying to make sense of how other people think and find a one size fits all approach - when it would be better to apply your own way of seeing things and find people that match that.

There is no magic formula that is guaranteed to appeal to all - so all you can do is be yourself, reflect yourself and allow others to decide for themselves if they like it or not

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

Dont show desperation

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Everyone will have their own opinion on this. For me, it's probably more what turns me off than draws me in.

First off, crude usernames are a no-no, I just won't bother. Then profile photo, if it's a cock or "Facebook Dad" photo then I also won't bother.

General photos - not 1 million cock shots or hurried snaps - I like considered, well presented images that make me want to see me.

Text, no self pitying "guys have it hard on here" or passive aggressive nonsense. A bit about you, without being boastful, what you're looking for and be truthful without being overly earnest or sleazy. That's just me though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stand out from the crowd with your personality

Detectable photos help too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So a name change required to Captain Fantastic?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"So here’s a question…if someone can’t accom does that instantly put you off? "

As i won't either it poses a problem as i like regular and that makes hotels expensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried a few different styles of profile before settling on the one I've got now. I feel like it's got the right amount of information with my personality strewn through it as well. I've had a few compliments on it so it seems to be doing it's job.

But obviously, what works for me might not work for you. I'd say trial and error are your friends. Keep changing it until your find something you're comfortable with and represents you well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you use the reply and quote button it makes it easier to see who you're replying to

There is no magic formula that is guaranteed to appeal to all - so all you can do is be yourself, reflect yourself and allow others to decide for themselves if they like it or not

That seems to be the feeling of most

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Either a massive cock or really good looking + fit body. Tattoos probably too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everyone will have their own opinion on this. For me, it's probably more what turns me off than draws me in.

First off, crude usernames are a no-no, I just won't bother. Then profile photo, if it's a cock or "Facebook Dad" photo then I also won't bother.

General photos - not 1 million cock shots or hurried snaps - I like considered, well presented images that make me want to see me.

Noted taken

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Stand out from the crowd with your personality

Detectable photos help too "

Detectable ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A handsome face grabs my attention, the jawline can usually give clues as to whether the face is going to be handsome. I pay close attention to jawlines if I can’t see the full face.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Either a massive cock or really good looking + fit body. Tattoos probably too."

But that's just what you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Circular photo's

...wait, hang on, that doesn't work. Don't bother.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A handsome face grabs my attention, the jawline can usually give clues as to whether the face is going to be handsome. I pay close attention to jawlines if I can’t see the full face. "

Covered with a beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attention is overrated, I prefer confusion and mild offence. Then only the truly dedicated will message you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Attention is overrated, I prefer confusion and mild offence. Then only the truly dedicated will message you"

What’s your best form of confusion? (Digging for tips) haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stand out from the crowd with your personality

Detectable photos help too

Detectable ? "

Well spotted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your photos are delectable not detectable

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your photos are delectable not detectable

Thank you very much

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"A simple yet needed question I thought I’d ask…. What is it about a profile that draws ladies & couples in? I realise everyone is wanting different things but at least if theres something there they want then it’s a good starter right? So teach me the ways oh wise one :p"

Lots of dick pics. Including one with the sky remote and one with a lynx can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The great philosopher Francis Boyle once put it as finding surprising ways for sentences to end. I personally see the Internet as a vast sea of everyone taking everything too seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of dick pics. Including one with the sky remote and one with a lynx can.

Nothing makes a pussy wetter (but also free of perspiration) than a deodorant can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sydney uni thing on an otherwise decent profile always upsets me. Otherwise it just seems to be a case of right place right time and endless patience

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don’t have sky so I’ll have to pop the shop for a lynx can

Lots of dick pics. Including one with the sky remote and one with a lynx can.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lynx? Or sure? I’ll grab 1 of those travel miniature 1s

Lots of dick pics. Including one with the sky remote and one with a lynx can.

Nothing makes a pussy wetter (but also free of perspiration) than a deodorant can"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The sydney uni thing on an otherwise decent profile always upsets me. Otherwise it just seems to be a case of right place right time and endless patience

So ditch the Sydney thing?

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Chocolate biscuits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chocolate biscuits. "

Oh you know how to attract a man’s attention...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The sydney uni thing on an otherwise decent profile always upsets me. Otherwise it just seems to be a case of right place right time and endless patience

So ditch the Sydney thing? "

Absolutely yes. (If you want to

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Yes, the Sydney thing is always a turn off. Ditto other conspiracy theories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The sydney uni thing on an otherwise decent profile always upsets me. Otherwise it just seems to be a case of right place right time and endless patience

So ditch the Sydney thing? "

She is too polite but ill say it. Yes !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me personally, add a little bit of your humour to the profile, an insight into your personality if you will and some more pictures, artful, less is more sort of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The sydney uni thing on an otherwise decent profile always upsets me. Otherwise it just seems to be a case of right place right time and endless patience

So ditch the Sydney thing? "

There are many re-written Sydney University paragraphs along the lines of `what a load of bollocks' that are very funny.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Chocolate biscuits. "

Any type specific?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, the Sydney thing is always a turn off. Ditto other conspiracy theories."

Moon landing yes or no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it similar to how Trump grabs the pussy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The sydney uni thing on an otherwise decent profile always upsets me. Otherwise it just seems to be a case of right place right time and endless patience

So ditch the Sydney thing?

She is too polite but ill say it. Yes !

On it…..

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