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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

When I look at some single people’s pics with other people in them. A lot of the time the pics look like they are taken from above quite far away. Makes me think is there a camera in there they don’t know about? Do they know they are on websites (often faces too)? So my question is if you meet for NSA/one offs would you go to someone’s house trusting they don’t have hidden cameras set up?

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Never thought about it.

Until now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me paranoid but when someone insists to meet at their place only, my mind immediately goes to hidden camera set up. That's why I'll always meet at a hotel on mutual ground.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Never thought about it.

Until now "

It had crossed my mind before but I saw a few like this this morning on updates (including faces) looked like it was taken from the corner of the room. Just made me think x

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Touch wood I've never had it happen that I know of, all pics etc have been done with consent, and most times I meet in hotels or my own place. But it does make you wonder

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Call me paranoid but when someone insists to meet at their place only, my mind immediately goes to hidden camera set up. That's why I'll always meet at a hotel on mutual ground."

Yes me too. It has crossed my mind before x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

If people are doing that it's terrible! The only picture I have featuring another person is a long term partner, uploaded with his consent and the picture is very clearly taken by him.

I can't say I've ever worried about hidden cameras but I'd probably be too much hard work for someone wanting to just film it then ditch me .

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"If people are doing that it's terrible! The only picture I have featuring another person is a long term partner, uploaded with his consent and the picture is very clearly taken by him.

I can't say I've ever worried about hidden cameras but I'd probably be too much hard work for someone wanting to just film it then ditch me . "

I probably overthink too much. I guess it is possible though x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I've never really thought about hidden cameras too much, rather naive? Possibly. Sometimes I'm not sure if photos are posted with consent - a slightly blurred face doesn't really hide who someone is.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I've never really thought about hidden cameras too much, rather naive? Possibly. Sometimes I'm not sure if photos are posted with consent - a slightly blurred face doesn't really hide who someone is. "

True. I wonder should other people be allowed in pics on single profiles?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Even in a hotel or AirBnB cameras can be hidden before you get to the room.

That phone over their propped up on the side or in a coat pocket - is it on?

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Even in a hotel or AirBnB cameras can be hidden before you get to the room.

That phone over their propped up on the side or in a coat pocket - is it on?

"

Oh yeah definitely. I’ve thought of that too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never do it but it's madness that this is something which has to be considered

For me, it would be more enjoyable to have the other person's consent and have them into it as well but of course not everyone thinks like that

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I'd never do it but it's madness that this is something which has to be considered

For me, it would be more enjoyable to have the other person's consent and have them into it as well but of course not everyone thinks like that "

Well yes of course. I’ve done pics and videos will people I really trust. That’s different x

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I've never really thought about hidden cameras too much, rather naive? Possibly. Sometimes I'm not sure if photos are posted with consent - a slightly blurred face doesn't really hide who someone is.

True. I wonder should other people be allowed in pics on single profiles?"

No, no they shouldn’t. Not unless you can confirm consent, which doesn’t happen

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I've never really thought about hidden cameras too much, rather naive? Possibly. Sometimes I'm not sure if photos are posted with consent - a slightly blurred face doesn't really hide who someone is.

True. I wonder should other people be allowed in pics on single profiles?

No, no they shouldn’t. Not unless you can confirm consent, which doesn’t happen"

I don’t like to see them anyway, it totally puts me off but yes I agree because of the consent issue x

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It could happen anywhere, in hotel rooms, wherever. Cameras are small enough now that if someone wanted to, they could set one up.

The key point is probably, don’t meet any one that you don’t trust or know well enough to not do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never thought about that before. My photos with others in, were taken with their knowledge and consent and they know that some will be on here.

Everyone in your photos/videos that is not you, should be blanked. If they aren't, they shouldn't get through the approval stage.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"It could happen anywhere, in hotel rooms, wherever. Cameras are small enough now that if someone wanted to, they could set one up.

The key point is probably, don’t meet any one that you don’t trust or know well enough to not do that. "

Yes exactly this. I don’t but I know a lot do on here. Scary stuff really!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I've never thought about that before. My photos with others in, were taken with their knowledge and consent and they know that some will be on here.

Everyone in your photos/videos that is not you, should be blanked. If they aren't, they shouldn't get through the approval stage. "

I agree. It’s no extra work really as all pics have to be approved anyway x

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Oh god I hope everyone isn’t cancelling their meets today . My intention wasn’t to kill fab!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

The only pics we’ve taken with others we have been given permission. We’ve even included their name on the pic so we’ve got nothing to hide…

I was lucky enough to be the cameraman…it was a tough job

K

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I've never thought about that before. My photos with others in, were taken with their knowledge and consent and they know that some will be on here.

Everyone in your photos/videos that is not you, should be blanked. If they aren't, they shouldn't get through the approval stage. "

Mine just features his thighs and cock. If someone can identify him from that they'll know him well enough to know he's with me and into swinging anyway .

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"The only pics we’ve taken with others we have been given permission. We’ve even included their name on the pic so we’ve got nothing to hide…

I was lucky enough to be the cameraman…it was a tough job

K"

Haha well yes that’s fun doing it that way!!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I've never thought about that before. My photos with others in, were taken with their knowledge and consent and they know that some will be on here.

Everyone in your photos/videos that is not you, should be blanked. If they aren't, they shouldn't get through the approval stage.

Mine just features his thighs and cock. If someone can identify him from that they'll know him well enough to know he's with me and into swinging anyway . "

. It’s the faces really. There’s a lot of them. May be consensual of course but I always wonder x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Oh god I hope everyone isn’t cancelling their meets today . My intention wasn’t to kill fab! "

I think if people worried too much about this sort of thing they would never have sex again. Someone you pull in a bar could do it. A partner could do it even.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I've never thought about that before. My photos with others in, were taken with their knowledge and consent and they know that some will be on here.

Everyone in your photos/videos that is not you, should be blanked. If they aren't, they shouldn't get through the approval stage.

Mine just features his thighs and cock. If someone can identify him from that they'll know him well enough to know he's with me and into swinging anyway .

. It’s the faces really. There’s a lot of them. May be consensual of course but I always wonder x"

Yeah I know what you mean. I reported some family portraits once where he just crossed out the kids faces .

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I've never thought about that before. My photos with others in, were taken with their knowledge and consent and they know that some will be on here.

Everyone in your photos/videos that is not you, should be blanked. If they aren't, they shouldn't get through the approval stage.

Mine just features his thighs and cock. If someone can identify him from that they'll know him well enough to know he's with me and into swinging anyway .

. It’s the faces really. There’s a lot of them. May be consensual of course but I always wonder x

Yeah I know what you mean. I reported some family portraits once where he just crossed out the kids faces . "

Oh god yeah I’ve seen some of those. Kids pic in the background!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Oh god I hope everyone isn’t cancelling their meets today . My intention wasn’t to kill fab!

I think if people worried too much about this sort of thing they would never have sex again. Someone you pull in a bar could do it. A partner could do it even. "

True. I once had a bit of fun in a field. As we were walking back down the track a man was walking towards us. He said “you do know that’s private property and we have CCTV in the office”. I didn’t sleep for a week! Thought I was gonna end up on line somewhere! Maybe I did I don’t know!

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By *onmckMan
over a year ago

kildare

Oh dear... Really don't get those people, lack of common sense, stupidity or both? Haha

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By *onmckMan
over a year ago

kildare

Haha... It happen a very similar thing to me but I was in the car. If this was 10 years ago I would be worried but nowadays, people really don't care anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only pics we’ve taken with others we have been given permission. We’ve even included their name on the pic so we’ve got nothing to hide…

I was lucky enough to be the cameraman…it was a tough job

K"

my heart bleeds!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

If I found out anyone has recorded me without my permission then I'd have them in court....simple.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Oh god I hope everyone isn’t cancelling their meets today . My intention wasn’t to kill fab!

I think if people worried too much about this sort of thing they would never have sex again. Someone you pull in a bar could do it. A partner could do it even.

True. I once had a bit of fun in a field. As we were walking back down the track a man was walking towards us. He said “you do know that’s private property and we have CCTV in the office”. I didn’t sleep for a week! Thought I was gonna end up on line somewhere! Maybe I did I don’t know! "

Oh Nora !

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

The thought never crossed my mind to be honest

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"If I found out anyone has recorded me without my permission then I'd have them in court....simple."

Well of course anyone would but it’s not that simple. My thinking was more do these people know? Some people don’t watch porn etc, they may not be on the sites where the pics are posted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never thought about that before. My photos with others in, were taken with their knowledge and consent and they know that some will be on here.

Everyone in your photos/videos that is not you, should be blanked. If they aren't, they shouldn't get through the approval stage.

Mine just features his thighs and cock. If someone can identify him from that they'll know him well enough to know he's with me and into swinging anyway .

. It’s the faces really. There’s a lot of them. May be consensual of course but I always wonder x

Yeah I know what you mean. I reported some family portraits once where he just crossed out the kids faces .

Oh god yeah I’ve seen some of those. Kids pic in the background! "

I remember one of my pics had been number 1 on page 1 had thousands of fabs then was rejected by admin for having a minor in the photo. It was a cherub angel on this big jewellery box I had on my dresser

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I've never thought about that before. My photos with others in, were taken with their knowledge and consent and they know that some will be on here.

Everyone in your photos/videos that is not you, should be blanked. If they aren't, they shouldn't get through the approval stage.

Mine just features his thighs and cock. If someone can identify him from that they'll know him well enough to know he's with me and into swinging anyway .

. It’s the faces really. There’s a lot of them. May be consensual of course but I always wonder x

Yeah I know what you mean. I reported some family portraits once where he just crossed out the kids faces .

Oh god yeah I’ve seen some of those. Kids pic in the background!

I remember one of my pics had been number 1 on page 1 had thousands of fabs then was rejected by admin for having a minor in the photo. It was a cherub angel on this big jewellery box I had on my dresser "

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"If I found out anyone has recorded me without my permission then I'd have them in court....simple.

Well of course anyone would but it’s not that simple. My thinking was more do these people know? Some people don’t watch porn etc, they may not be on the sites where the pics are posted. "

It shouldn't be but I guess it's just one of the risks you take by jumping into a strangers bed. Hence why neutral territory is always good especially for one offs.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

There was an issue with someone finding videos of them on a porn site. It does happen.

I’ve always felt that it could be a concern and I’ve been careful, only had pictures with people that I trust and don’t use pictures of others on my profile.

I’ve long felt that consent is a problem on here, which is why I don’t use any unless it’s of myself, even if consent would be clear

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"If I found out anyone has recorded me without my permission then I'd have them in court....simple.

Well of course anyone would but it’s not that simple. My thinking was more do these people know? Some people don’t watch porn etc, they may not be on the sites where the pics are posted.

It shouldn't be but I guess it's just one of the risks you take by jumping into a strangers bed. Hence why neutral territory is always good especially for one offs."

Definitely.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


" It’s the faces really. There’s a lot of them. May be consensual of course but I always wonder x"

If the faces of others (that aren't the profile owner(s)) are clearly visible and distinguishable then I report the pic as it's against site rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she has a look of ecstasy on her face, I would have no objections to having been secretly captured in a photo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will be my very first time going to someone else's house for a shag this week.

Unless he lives in a mansion there's no way he could get the camera far enough away to get my entire body in the shot so I'm probably ok.

Hotels always otherwise for this reason... amongst others....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she has a look of ecstasy on her face, I would have no objections to having been secretly captured in a photo. "

Come on then! I'm sat in my car eating an egg Mcmuffin. It'll be gone in a sec.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It will be my very first time going to someone else's house for a shag this week.

Unless he lives in a mansion there's no way he could get the camera far enough away to get my entire body in the shot so I'm probably ok.

Hotels always otherwise for this reason... amongst others...."

Is it the pigeon eating the kebab’s nest you’re going to?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

If they're desperate to film my fat arse then they need help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she has a look of ecstasy on her face, I would have no objections to having been secretly captured in a photo.

Come on then! I'm sat in my car eating an egg Mcmuffin. It'll be gone in a sec. "

On my way. Don’t tell the pigeon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she has a look of ecstasy on her face, I would have no objections to having been secretly captured in a photo.

Come on then! I'm sat in my car eating an egg Mcmuffin. It'll be gone in a sec.

On my way. Don’t tell the pigeon."

Too late.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she has a look of ecstasy on her face, I would have no objections to having been secretly captured in a photo.

Come on then! I'm sat in my car eating an egg Mcmuffin. It'll be gone in a sec.

On my way. Don’t tell the pigeon.

Too late. "

That’s why I’m being bombed with pigeon shit!!!

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

This happened to someone I know, slyly videoing it with out asking. I only do hotel meets unless I truly trusted them and played quite a few times first.

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By *iyoMan
over a year ago

kent

I think I’d just be annoyed that I don’t get to see them !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On our avatar, we put the tripod up on a cupboard and angled it down, so we could get the effect from above.

I do know what you mean though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of people with cameras in their houses now it's pretty inevitable unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I look at some single people’s pics with other people in them. A lot of the time the pics look like they are taken from above quite far away. Makes me think is there a camera in there they don’t know about? Do they know they are on websites (often faces too)? So my question is if you meet for NSA/one offs would you go to someone’s house trusting they don’t have hidden cameras set up?"

I know for a fact this happens, I went to a couples house once and was doing the deed when I noticed a fairly blatant camera propped up but hidden away and pointing in our position. After we was done I asked if the camera was on they said no and I personally was not very fussed I'm pretty sure it would have been on.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


" It’s the faces really. There’s a lot of them. May be consensual of course but I always wonder x

If the faces of others (that aren't the profile owner(s)) are clearly visible and distinguishable then I report the pic as it's against site rules "

Ah I didn’t realise that! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And to answer the question, no, I wouldn’t go to a house, I’d be worried about that more than a hotel I think anyway.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


" It’s the faces really. There’s a lot of them. May be consensual of course but I always wonder x

If the faces of others (that aren't the profile owner(s)) are clearly visible and distinguishable then I report the pic as it's against site rules

Ah I didn’t realise that! x"

They normally get rejected if other faces aren't removed/pixelated.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"When I look at some single people’s pics with other people in them. A lot of the time the pics look like they are taken from above quite far away. Makes me think is there a camera in there they don’t know about? Do they know they are on websites (often faces too)? So my question is if you meet for NSA/one offs would you go to someone’s house trusting they don’t have hidden cameras set up?

I know for a fact this happens, I went to a couples house once and was doing the deed when I noticed a fairly blatant camera propped up but hidden away and pointing in our position. After we was done I asked if the camera was on they said no and I personally was not very fussed I'm pretty sure it would have been on."

Yes someone messaged me. He didn’t want people to know his job etc so didn’t post here but he said the amount of cameras he gets asked to put up in peoples bedrooms etc is a lot! Obviously could be for totally legal purposes but I’m betting some aren’t x

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

It is something I think about but then I'm an overthinker so I am always thinking worse case scenarios before a meet

We do meet a people's homes on occasion and ultimately there is no way of being sure. I've always got to know them a bit and done a social first but you never know what people are capable of. If I worried too much about everything though I'd never do anything in life.

Kx

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Just another one of many thoughts that crosses my mind and impacting my mojo and desire to meet anyone.

It could easily be secret a kink that someone gets off on.

How many people like risk? Fucking loads, and risk comes in many forms.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Just another one of many thoughts that crosses my mind and impacting my mojo and desire to meet anyone.

It could easily be secret a kink that someone gets off on.

How many people like risk? Fucking loads, and risk comes in many forms."

It certainly does x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm always careful with images

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