FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

friends lists.

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how do you manage your friends list.

do you only add friends once youve met them?.

do you add regardless? send out invites?.

or do you think people just want to be on your list to look at your private pics.

im starting to think that maybe you should only accept adding people once youve met because they dont really know you do they?.

your thoughts on this please.

thank you all.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are aprox 3 on ours who we have not actually met and that's cause we speak regularly on the forums xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just accept them from anyone who sends them to me. as you can see on my profile not many do

there's nothing in my private gallery thats not public on my profile. actually i dont know why ive got anything in there at all....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only accept friends requests from people we either have or plan to meet now ... made the mistake of adding willy nilly when we first joined, and realised it was just to peep at the pics

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We only accept friends requests from people we either have or plan to meet now ... made the mistake of adding willy nilly when we first joined, and realised it was just to peep at the pics "

im starting to think you are correct and this is the way to go.

but im interested in what others think.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We only have people we've met, people we've chatted to and intend to meet and a few who we chat to in the forums and consider to be friends, the owners of Youtopia cos they're lovely! We don't add willy nilly either these day either

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

I have hardly anyone at all on my friends list full stop.

If we message alot by mail then there really isnt any need to keep checking their profile as you quickly swap msn/email if you click anyway.

I hotlist people i wanna talk to, then can get to them that way rather than having to do a search, and you get their status updates too that way

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as above, my friends list consists of those I have met and those I intend meeting at some point. xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Same as above, my friends list consists of those I have met and those I intend meeting at some point. xxx"

i can see a pattern here.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only have people we've met, people we've chatted to and intend to meet and a few who we chat to in the forums and consider to be friends, the owners of Youtopia cos they're lovely! We don't add willy nilly either these day either"

Oh i added willy nilly yesterday he's a right perv

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

think my decision has been made.

thank you all your input has been very helpful

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huh....

he never told me he added you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oo look, a mucky man from cove

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

i'm billy no mates lol think i have about 4 friends on my list

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry touvy.

means ya got taste

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'm billy no mates lol think i have about 4 friends on my list "

Better 4 friends who fit the definition than 400 you wouldn't know if you bumped into one another in the street in our opinion

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea


"Dont worry touvy.

means ya got taste "

wish that was a true statement lol but right now it don't feel quite like that,

but hey ho it can only get better

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont worry touvy.

means ya got taste

wish that was a true statement lol but right now it don't feel quite like that,

but hey ho it can only get better "

exactly.

and you know what they say, no one likes a miserable git so get back on ya bike and have fun fun fun.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have one friend in my list, a very sexy couple mind, wait, does that make it two then?.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just wait till someone we have never met nor likely to who has been members for 'over a year' no verifications wants to add us cause they are bored and needs to knock one off while the wifes out...

I used to think it was the wife wanting to see more of me.. Talk about being naive eh,

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the only people on our friends list are people we have met either sexually or socially

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"oo look, a mucky man from cove "

to much that you can't handle missy from tamworth

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oo look, a mucky man from cove

to much that you can't handle missy from tamworth "

Hhahahahah brave words cuz you far away

Can handle anything me ya know

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"oo look, a mucky man from cove

to much that you can't handle missy from tamworth

Hhahahahah brave words cuz you far away

Can handle anything me ya know "

they dont call me the punisher for nothing.

id still be at you when the sun comes up

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yerrr right.

Famous last words.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yerrr right.

Famous last words. "

bring it on baby! if you dare

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooo never dare a peach

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oooo never dare a peach "

i suck on them till they dry.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hristalCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"i'm billy no mates lol think i have about 4 friends on my list "

I wonder who that is then

Cx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Huh....

he never told me he added you

"

Willy nilly is a silly william

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont worry touvy.

means ya got taste "

Hasnt he just

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icekatCouple
over a year ago

north east


"Same as above, my friends list consists of those I have met and those I intend meeting at some point. xxx"

Yep thats the same as us

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Same as above, my friends list consists of those I have met and those I intend meeting at some point. xxx

Yep thats the same as us"

good.this is what i have done.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I just accept all the invites I get.

Well, I say 'all' - 'both' would be equally accurate! I don't think I've sent any invites.

As someone else said, I tend to use the Hotlist more - the link is more accessible, and you don't need permission.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we never accept people who are not verified, people who just add us out of the blue, people without face pics and we dont add guys. lol, x

our friends list is quite small, we dont intend to have sex with everyone on our list, but we do like to chat to pretty much them all xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do always wonder why people add you and totally disregard you once added ?

It must make them feel pretty special to have a few mates me reckons

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get many invites so not a lot to manage

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I do always wonder why people add you and totally disregard you once added ?

It must make them feel pretty special to have a few mates me reckons "

They expect to be able to see loads of private photos

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I add them all. You should see them delete when they realise mine is visible (the so called strait men that is)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have lots of friends here dont really know alot of them ,, but hope too ,, lol xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only have a few but hope for more

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i only have a few but hope for more"

Love a bear type i will add you xxx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We add to friends list so we or they can see face pics after a few days if they havnt got back in touch we delete them, We dont realy actually keep anyone on for longer than 3 months even if we have met or chat with them still unless they ask to be re added....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we never accept people who are not verified, people who just add us out of the blue, people without face pics and we dont add guys. lol, x

our friends list is quite small, we dont intend to have sex with everyone on our list, but we do like to chat to pretty much them all xx"

Ditto..people on our list are people we are chatting too...intend too or have done...any friends rquests are ignored now unless they pm first...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I add anyone I damn well please, but I do routinely have a cull if I hear nothing after a few months.

More cocks on my list the better.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"I add anyone I damn well please, but I do routinely have a cull if I hear nothing after a few months.

More cocks on my list the better. "

1 THING I DO IS, IF I SEE A BAREBACK ONLY PROFILE, I GO DOWN THE LIST OF MEETS/FRIENDS AND BLOCK THEM.

DON'T WANT NONE OF THEM IN MY PANTIES XX

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only add those who I chat to, and i also ask first before sending a request, don't see the point in having hundreds of friends in your list, its not facebook

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"I only add those who I chat to, and i also ask first before sending a request, don't see the point in having hundreds of friends in your list, its not facebook "

I dont do facebook

I do fuckbook on here instead

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top