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By *ear in the chair OP   Man
over a year ago

yeah there

I've noticed that some posters on the forums feel a need to always apologise or say 'don't shoot the messenger' before they post their main text. Are the forums such a group of people that anyone should feel the need so say this and people can't just discuss stuff without being offended or offensive?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll get a wedgie for bringing it up.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"You'll get a wedgie for bringing it up."

Me ?

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By *ear in the chair OP   Man
over a year ago

yeah there


"You'll get a wedgie for bringing it up."

Damn, need bigger pants

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"You'll get a wedgie for bringing it up."

Why are you shooting the messenger (OP)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, there’s lots of people on tender hooks waiting to be offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, don’t shoot the messenger, but to get into some lasses knickers you have to portray yourself in the best virtue signalling light so if you want to say anything that can be construed even in the slightest bit controversial then you have to caveat it as much as you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed that some posters on the forums feel a need to always apologise or say 'don't shoot the messenger' before they post their main text. Are the forums such a group of people that anyone should feel the need so say this and people can't just discuss stuff without being offended or offensive?"

Yes. Just because we're in a swinging site, people still have real emotions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clique clique BOOM!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

It’s usually said by folk stirring the pot. It’s up there with “I’ll grab a chair/popcorn/KFC big bucket meal”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s usually said by folk stirring the pot. It’s up there with “I’ll grab a chair/popcorn/KFC big bucket meal”.

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By *ear in the chair OP   Man
over a year ago

yeah there


"I've noticed that some posters on the forums feel a need to always apologise or say 'don't shoot the messenger' before they post their main text. Are the forums such a group of people that anyone should feel the need so say this and people can't just discuss stuff without being offended or offensive?

Yes. Just because we're in a swinging site, people still have real emotions. "

But surely its an open forum that anyone should be able to discuss anything. Without fear of personal attacks or reprisals. If people want a 'safe place' where they can never be offended because everyone thinks the same then an open forum isn't the place for them?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

How dare you Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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By *ear in the chair OP   Man
over a year ago

yeah there


"How dare you Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr "

Grrrrrrrrr right back atcha Granny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s usually said by folk stirring the pot. It’s up there with “I’ll grab a chair/popcorn/KFC big bucket meal”.

"

As a complete aside I could quite happily munch any or all of those

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I usually find people who start with no offence but……. will definitely be causing offence !

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Unfortunately it's the joys of Fab. You would think grown adults could conduct themselves in a civil manner but more often than not it ends up like a school playground.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

You are allowed to discuss anything you like as long as it is does not contravene forum hierarchy viewpoints and opinions.

Puls up a chair and reaches for popcorn

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"You are allowed to discuss anything you like as long as it is does not contravene forum hierarchy viewpoints and opinions.

Puls up a chair and reaches for popcorn "

Yeah ...... the hierarchy ... gssssshttttt twapt! ( spitting noise )

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"You are allowed to discuss anything you like as long as it is does not contravene forum hierarchy viewpoints and opinions.

Puls up a chair and reaches for popcorn "

Turns nose up at popcorn / talks about starving children that knit the popcorn for pennies

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Are you new here?!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Yes, there’s lots of people on tender hooks waiting to be offended. "

And people walking on eggshells for fear of offending...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"You are allowed to discuss anything you like as long as it is does not contravene forum hierarchy viewpoints and opinions.

Puls up a chair and reaches for popcorn

Turns nose up at popcorn / talks about starving children that knit the popcorn for pennies"

I'm about to have fajitas. I'm not sure if I should apologise or parcel it up for someone more needy...

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Yes, there’s lots of people on tender hooks waiting to be offended.

And people walking on eggshells for fear of offending..."

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Yes, there’s lots of people on tender hooks waiting to be offended.

And people walking on eggshells for fear of offending..."

But there's also those that don't give a fig too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed that some posters on the forums feel a need to always apologise or say 'don't shoot the messenger' before they post their main text. Are the forums such a group of people that anyone should feel the need so say this and people can't just discuss stuff without being offended or offensive?

Yes. Just because we're in a swinging site, people still have real emotions. "

Expressing emotions is one thing, and commendable.

Beating people down and belittling whilst forcing their opinion is an entirely different game, and shameful

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"You are allowed to discuss anything you like as long as it is does not contravene forum hierarchy viewpoints and opinions.

Puls up a chair and reaches for popcorn

Turns nose up at popcorn / talks about starving children that knit the popcorn for pennies"

Keeps them off the streets, put them to work, send them up the chimneys bah children.

Gru

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Yes, there’s lots of people on tender hooks waiting to be offended.

And people walking on eggshells for fear of offending...

But there's also those that don't give a fig too "

That's also true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s usually said by folk stirring the pot. It’s up there with “I’ll grab a chair/popcorn/KFC big bucket meal”.

"

Where's my popcorn?

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I've noticed that some posters on the forums feel a need to always apologise or say 'don't shoot the messenger' before they post their main text. Are the forums such a group of people that anyone should feel the need so say this and people can't just discuss stuff without being offended or offensive?

Yes. Just because we're in a swinging site, people still have real emotions.

But surely its an open forum that anyone should be able to discuss anything. Without fear of personal attacks or reprisals. If people want a 'safe place' where they can never be offended because everyone thinks the same then an open forum isn't the place for them?"

One might reasonably think so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, there’s lots of people on tender hooks waiting to be offended.

And people walking on eggshells for fear of offending...

But there's also those that don't give a fig too

That's also true "

People who don't share the figs offend me

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Yes, there’s lots of people on tender hooks waiting to be offended.

And people walking on eggshells for fear of offending...

But there's also those that don't give a fig too

That's also true

People who don't share the figs offend me "

Ewwwww figs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, there’s lots of people on tender hooks waiting to be offended.

And people walking on eggshells for fear of offending...

But there's also those that don't give a fig too

That's also true

People who don't share the figs offend me

Ewwwww figs "

OFFENSIVE TO FIGS!!!!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

People who don't share the figs offend me "

If they have put effort into growing and picking their own figs why should they share them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I don’t start threads cause I’m afraid of upsetting folk

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"This is why I don’t start threads cause I’m afraid of upsetting folk "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"You are allowed to discuss anything you like as long as it is does not contravene forum hierarchy viewpoints and opinions.

Puls up a chair and reaches for popcorn

Turns nose up at popcorn / talks about starving children that knit the popcorn for pennies

I'm about to have fajitas. I'm not sure if I should apologise or parcel it up for someone more needy... "

Just apologise as you eat them. Virtue signalling is good for the image....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"This is why I don’t start threads cause I’m afraid of upsetting folk "

^ He's all heart Why doesn't my f key work ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

People who don't share the figs offend me

If they have put effort into growing and picking their own figs why should they share them ?"

Because that's not kind hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed that some posters on the forums feel a need to always apologise or say 'don't shoot the messenger' before they post their main text. Are the forums such a group of people that anyone should feel the need so say this and people can't just discuss stuff without being offended or offensive?"

Offended on here ?

Can’t say I’ve seen that personally since I’ve been writing this comment

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Yes, there’s lots of people on tender hooks waiting to be offended.

And people walking on eggshells for fear of offending...

But there's also those that don't give a fig too

That's also true

People who don't share the figs offend me

Ewwwww figs

OFFENSIVE TO FIGS!!!!"

No messing. My mate told me that her mate told her than on Facetwats and Shitter saying things about figs was being made a hate crime !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I don’t start threads cause I’m afraid of upsetting folk

^ He's all heart Why doesn't my f key work ?"

I don’t F’ing know

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"This is why I don’t start threads cause I’m afraid of upsetting folk

^ He's all heart Why doesn't my f key work ?

I don’t F’ing know "

^ He's all fart. There it is .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I don’t start threads cause I’m afraid of upsetting folk

^ He's all heart Why doesn't my f key work ?

I don’t F’ing know

^ He's all fart. There it is ..... "

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Don’t shoot the messenger… but…. Followed by an absolutely awful opinion or view point.

Doesn’t make it ok

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"You are allowed to discuss anything you like as long as it is does not contravene forum hierarchy viewpoints and opinions.

Puls up a chair and reaches for popcorn

Turns nose up at popcorn / talks about starving children that knit the popcorn for pennies

I'm about to have fajitas. I'm not sure if I should apologise or parcel it up for someone more needy...

Just apologise as you eat them. Virtue signalling is good for the image.... "

Bollocks. I forgot to apologise. Self-flagellation incoming.....

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