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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In a nutshell, I used to be pretty, semi-regularly active in the forums etc but life got in the way and I ended up having a break.

Just wondering if protocol dictates I post a forum topic shouting my return? Or do you just causally whistle a tune and crack on as though you never left?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Do whatever you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever works for you.

Welcome back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you have just announced your return. Now crack on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont know you so whatever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont know you so whatever "

That’s wasn’t the question.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whatever works for you.

Welcome back. "

Thanks Lorna! Hope you're well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was me I’d have to start a thread announcing my return to the forums again.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I think you kinda just have

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont know you so whatever "

I don't know you either but do you want to get to know each other and be friends? I'm in Manchester on the weekends. We can hold hands and skip round the Northern Quarter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it was me I’d have to start a thread announcing my return to the forums again. "

I'm feeling like this might be the way to go...

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Get in there enjoy x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Dont know you so whatever "

And you dont have to know him

#bekind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont know you so whatever

That’s wasn’t the question. "

And what's that got to do with you?....move on pal x

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I think you kinda just have "

This.

A very subtle ‘I’m back’ without saying ‘I’m back’.

I applaud your efforts OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get in there enjoy x"

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Get in there enjoy x

"

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you kinda just have

This.

A very subtle ‘I’m back’ without saying ‘I’m back’.

I applaud your efforts OP"

Thanks TM hope you're all good mate

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Welcome OP. I think in a way you’ve just announced you’re back!

But hello and welcome

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I think you kinda just have

This.

A very subtle ‘I’m back’ without saying ‘I’m back’.

I applaud your efforts OP

Thanks TM hope you're all good mate "

I am thanks, nice to see you back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome OP. I think in a way you’ve just announced you’re back!

But hello and welcome "

Aye, weird how it worked out with this post. Almost like it was planned...

Thanks for the warm welcome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont know you so whatever

That’s wasn’t the question.

And what's that got to do with you?....move on pal x"

I still don’t know who you are, as much as you may try to get my attention.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Dont know you so whatever

I don't know you either but do you want to get to know each other and be friends? I'm in Manchester on the weekends. We can hold hands and skip round the Northern Quarter "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont know you so whatever

I don't know you either but do you want to get to know each other and be friends? I'm in Manchester on the weekends. We can hold hands and skip round the Northern Quarter "

I work in the northern quarter and would love that...not sure I would look good skipping lol x

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"In a nutshell, I used to be pretty, semi-regularly active in the forums etc but life got in the way and I ended up having a break.

Just wondering if protocol dictates I post a forum topic shouting my return? Or do you just causally whistle a tune and crack on as though you never left? "

Which ever you prefer, but if the advice is good people will want to hear more from you.

Vic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont know you so whatever

I don't know you either but do you want to get to know each other and be friends? I'm in Manchester on the weekends. We can hold hands and skip round the Northern Quarter

I work in the northern quarter and would love that...not sure I would look good skipping lol x"

We'll go to Afflecks Palace. That's a very hip, accepting kind of place. You can skip without a care in the world x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In a nutshell, I used to be pretty, semi-regularly active in the forums etc but life got in the way and I ended up having a break.

Just wondering if protocol dictates I post a forum topic shouting my return? Or do you just causally whistle a tune and crack on as though you never left?

Which ever you prefer, but if the advice is good people will want to hear more from you.

Vic

"

Thanks Vic, appreciate your words. Hope you're all good, Sir

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont know you so whatever

I don't know you either but do you want to get to know each other and be friends? I'm in Manchester on the weekends. We can hold hands and skip round the Northern Quarter

I work in the northern quarter and would love that...not sure I would look good skipping lol x

We'll go to Afflecks Palace. That's a very hip, accepting kind of place. You can skip without a care in the world x"

Not been in there for years lol think I might be too old now ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dont know you so whatever

I don't know you either but do you want to get to know each other and be friends? I'm in Manchester on the weekends. We can hold hands and skip round the Northern Quarter

I work in the northern quarter and would love that...not sure I would look good skipping lol x

We'll go to Afflecks Palace. That's a very hip, accepting kind of place. You can skip without a care in the world x

Not been in there for years lol think I might be too old now ...."

That's a fair shout. I wouldn't want to make you feel uncomfortable. So....Canal St?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you kinda just have

This.

A very subtle ‘I’m back’ without saying ‘I’m back’.

I applaud your efforts OP"

Agreed; outstanding way of kicking the door open, standing silhouetted in the backlit doorway and catching everyone's attention, without the need to jump up and down shouting 'look at me, look at me'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont know you so whatever

I don't know you either but do you want to get to know each other and be friends? I'm in Manchester on the weekends. We can hold hands and skip round the Northern Quarter

I work in the northern quarter and would love that...not sure I would look good skipping lol x

We'll go to Afflecks Palace. That's a very hip, accepting kind of place. You can skip without a care in the world x

Not been in there for years lol think I might be too old now ....

That's a fair shout. I wouldn't want to make you feel uncomfortable. So....Canal St? "

Love it...I go to Simon gregsons bar??

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"In a nutshell, I used to be pretty, semi-regularly active in the forums etc but life got in the way and I ended up having a break.

Just wondering if protocol dictates I post a forum topic shouting my return? Or do you just causally whistle a tune and crack on as though you never left? "

I see what you did there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you kinda just have

This.

A very subtle ‘I’m back’ without saying ‘I’m back’.

I applaud your efforts OP

Agreed; outstanding way of kicking the door open, standing silhouetted in the backlit doorway and catching everyone's attention, without the need to jump up and down shouting 'look at me, look at me'! "

Thanks John, I thought it was a subtle way of ingratiating myself back into the fold

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In a nutshell, I used to be pretty, semi-regularly active in the forums etc but life got in the way and I ended up having a break.

Just wondering if protocol dictates I post a forum topic shouting my return? Or do you just causally whistle a tune and crack on as though you never left?

I see what you did there "

Grazie Madame! Love the hat

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Just post. No need for a fanfare

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Just turn up on the fuck or pass thread … never I mean never …start a thread announcing that you’re back.

P.S the skipping around Afflecks Palace sounds fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just turn up on the fuck or pass thread … never I mean never …start a thread announcing that you’re back.

P.S the skipping around Afflecks Palace sounds fun "

Ahh the ol' fuck or pass threads! That's a great shout, I'll start there...

I love Afflecks! Bierkeller after to start the night as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just sneaked back in. I never announce my leaving or return

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just sneaked back in. I never announce my leaving or return "

Ahh ninja vibes, I like your style I'm prone to having breaks now and again so I think I'll do that in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a nutshell, I used to be pretty, semi-regularly active in the forums etc but life got in the way and I ended up having a break.

Just wondering if protocol dictates I post a forum topic shouting my return? Or do you just causally whistle a tune and crack on as though you never left? "

I think the ones that knew you before are happy to see you back … and there’ll be lots that are happy to see you here now (especially the skipping in Aflecks) … and so your non-announcement works well Kate x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you atttract any cheeky pasties +pints yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In a nutshell, I used to be pretty, semi-regularly active in the forums etc but life got in the way and I ended up having a break.

Just wondering if protocol dictates I post a forum topic shouting my return? Or do you just causally whistle a tune and crack on as though you never left?

I think the ones that knew you before are happy to see you back … and there’ll be lots that are happy to see you here now (especially the skipping in Aflecks) … and so your non-announcement works well Kate x"

You're too kind

The offer of a skip in Afflecks is open to you two too. Frolicking has no boundaries so the more the merrier! Hope you're both well x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did you atttract any cheeky pasties +pints yet "

Not just yet. But the night is young and I've not reached Midnight yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you atttract any cheeky pasties +pints yet

Not just yet. But the night is young and I've not reached Midnight yet "

The clock is ticking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did you atttract any cheeky pasties +pints yet

Not just yet. But the night is young and I've not reached Midnight yet

The clock is ticking "

I'm sure I can think of a few things to make it feel like time's stood still

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"In a nutshell, I used to be pretty, semi-regularly active in the forums etc but life got in the way and I ended up having a break.

Just wondering if protocol dictates I post a forum topic shouting my return? Or do you just causally whistle a tune and crack on as though you never left? "

It is ALWAYS important to announce your return.

People need things spelling out.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

You need to make a grand reentrance to Without Me by Eminem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In a nutshell, I used to be pretty, semi-regularly active in the forums etc but life got in the way and I ended up having a break.

Just wondering if protocol dictates I post a forum topic shouting my return? Or do you just causally whistle a tune and crack on as though you never left?

It is ALWAYS important to announce your return.

People need things spelling out.

"

Eye Ah-Muh Buh-A-CurlyCuh-KickingKuh

Thanks GC, nailed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a new bank holiday is in order for this day!!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I think a new wank holiday is in order for this day!! "

Bit forward.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Welcome back op xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a new wank holiday is in order for this day!!

Bit forward. "

Hahahah, so much better! Wank holiday for everyone!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need to make a grand reentrance to Without Me by Eminem. "

Only if it felt so empty w....hen I wasn't here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think a new wank holiday is in order for this day!!

Bit forward.

Hahahah, so much better! Wank holiday for everyone! "

Awhhh you guys!! I'm honoured, thank you so much, I shall think of you when I wank

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome back op xx "

Thanks Candy! Hope you're well my dear xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a nutshell, I used to be pretty, semi-regularly active in the forums etc but life got in the way and I ended up having a break.

Just wondering if protocol dictates I post a forum topic shouting my return? Or do you just causally whistle a tune and crack on as though you never left? "

Seems to me that this thread has announced your return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a new wank holiday is in order for this day!!

Bit forward. "

Forward thinking if you ask me !

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By *obby777788Man
over a year ago

Dalton

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton


"In a nutshell, I used to be pretty, semi-regularly active in the forums etc but life got in the way and I ended up having a break.

Just wondering if protocol dictates I post a forum topic shouting my return? Or do you just causally whistle a tune and crack on as though you never left? "

I think announcing your return is tacky, and something is never do

But seeing as I’m different, I’d be shouting it from the rooftops!!!

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By *ogueAngelMan
over a year ago

Near Bath / Bristol

Post a surreptitious thread around whether you should announce your return or not via thread and see what people think. I reckon that could work.

Hello! Welcome back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need something lit up in neon just so we notice your return. Some trumpet blowing too.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Well. You did it anyway.

Welcome back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In a nutshell, I used to be pretty, semi-regularly active in the forums etc but life got in the way and I ended up having a break.

Just wondering if protocol dictates I post a forum topic shouting my return? Or do you just causally whistle a tune and crack on as though you never left?

Seems to me that this thread has announced your return "

I believe this is what they call in the industry as a two-fer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In a nutshell, I used to be pretty, semi-regularly active in the forums etc but life got in the way and I ended up having a break.

Just wondering if protocol dictates I post a forum topic shouting my return? Or do you just causally whistle a tune and crack on as though you never left?

I think announcing your return is tacky, and something is never do

But seeing as I’m different, I’d be shouting it from the rooftops!!!"

I like the way you think... I'm going to shout it from the rooftops so I can be unique like you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Post a surreptitious thread around whether you should announce your return or not via thread and see what people think. I reckon that could work.

Hello! Welcome back. "

You might be onto something here...I'll see if I can of a suitable post this evening

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need something lit up in neon just so we notice your return. Some trumpet blowing too. "

Neon's a nice touch but I've never been much of a trumpet lover What about a procession of applause as I take a lap of honour round the forums?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well. You did it anyway.

Welcome back. "

Thanks CG, feels like home lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need something lit up in neon just so we notice your return. Some trumpet blowing too.

Neon's a nice touch but I've never been much of a trumpet lover What about a procession of applause as I take a lap of honour round the forums?"

If you wave your shirt above your head as you go, I think that would be ok.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need something lit up in neon just so we notice your return. Some trumpet blowing too.

Neon's a nice touch but I've never been much of a trumpet lover What about a procession of applause as I take a lap of honour round the forums?

If you wave your shirt above your head as you go, I think that would be ok. "

*takes off my shirt* I'm ready, queue the adoring audience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome back

Not that I noticed or anything. I am a proud owner of hot pink pants now would you believe it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just toddle off quietly and come back when I'm ready. Welcome back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome back

Not that I noticed or anything. I am a proud owner of hot pink pants now would you believe it? "

Hello stranger!

I must admit, you did have a part to play in my return to the site

Hot pink pants you say?? Walk this way my dear...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just toddle off quietly and come back when I'm ready. Welcome back "

Thanks L I think I will ninja it next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome back

Not that I noticed or anything. I am a proud owner of hot pink pants now would you believe it?

Hello stranger!

I must admit, you did have a part to play in my return to the site

Hot pink pants you say?? Walk this way my dear... "

More like twirl!

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