FabSwingers.com forum: First Messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So what sort of first Messages instantly turn you off and reach for the delete button?

Wanting instant meets?

Straight to sex talk?

Being nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The will you fuck my boyfriend kind

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Can I breed you

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Wait - you mean I can receive messages as well?

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Lazy ones, text speak, illiterate ones, long-assed copy and paste erotic fiction and sleazy, arrogant "I'm what you need, I'll make you cum all night and gush" etc.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I am working in your area...today .. tomorrow....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wait - you mean I can receive messages as well?

I’ve heard of this phenomenon before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A whole catalogue of pictures of their cock...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lazy ones: hi how are you

The crazy ones: just block

The ones who pretend to have read my profile but clearly haven't: short and/or with a beard

The ones from people who don't have pictures

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By *oral-RayWoman
over a year ago

stafford

“Hey you free to meet now” or initial absolute disrespect for woman

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Are you dressed now like yes I get glammed up for cock

No just no

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

One sentence ones unless it's a very good one sentence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One sentence ones unless it's a very good one sentence. "

Now there's a challenge.

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By *elsh_naturist_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Newport

"One sentence ones unless it's a very good one sentence. "

That's very demanding expecting a whole sentence lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what sort of first Messages instantly turn you off and reach for the delete button?

Wanting instant meets?

Straight to sex talk?

Being nosey

Generally anything I send is an instant turn off and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one word or straight into I am w******g to your pics

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

The ones where they tell me I am absolutely stunning, despite no face pics or many other pics

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Assuming I'm some commodity, or that K doesn't exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got 10 minutes to spare in your area are you ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got 10 minutes to spare in your area are you ready "

You never messaged me back though

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Basically any message that makes it instantly obvious they’ve looked at the pictures but couldn’t read the words on the profile

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The "he's a man on fab so he'll jump when we say so" messages from the selectively blind.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

The usual stuff. Meet now, I'm going to do etc etc stuff. People who obviously cant or wont read a profile.

That or zero effort stuff like "hi".

Um yes? How can I help?

Just talk to us like people. Not to.much to.ask is it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can I ask you something?

just ask me it!!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Never had one that put me off as of yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got 10 minutes to spare in your area are you ready

You never messaged me back though

When wonko I always message forumites back no matter what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*NOTE* To all the whiney demanding morons who expect more than they get from this site and bitch about it on here; This is a damn good thread to make notes from!

Good work Sapph, not that it'll make a difference sadly!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Wuu2

Wuin2

U free now

Wanna try this (with enclosed dick pic)

Can I ask you a question

U do bareback

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"*NOTE* To all the whiney demanding morons who expect more than they get from this site and bitch about it on here; This is a damn good thread to make notes from!

Good work Sapph, not that it'll make a difference sadly!"

You saw my intentions!!

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By *ackDorianMan
over a year ago

ashford

I’ll be honest, this is where I fall short

I am regrettably one of those people who just doesn’t know how to send a first message on ANY site

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"I am working in your area...today .. tomorrow...."

Ugh... This

Wyd?

Wuu2?

Fancy some sniff and a fuck

Are you on the pill?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones that say 'Do you want to watch me suck my own cock?'

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I never block but I delete for a number reasons:

- Polite lines without substance to "make conversation", e.g. How's your day?

- A message with no personal link to my profile and what I'm looking for, especially one which could be copied and pasted to any other woman and probably has been

- If it makes me think they are the opposite of what I'm looking for, for example, if they are self-deprecating or need to ask me if they can ask me a question

- Exaggerated compliments because they come across as insincere and give me imposter syndrome

- A one line statement - I guess they just wanted to let me know?

- Anything trying to impress me with things women stereotypically are into: love oral, can go all night, will make you cum again and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even after all this time on Fab it still amazes me when we get a message from someone who has clearly not bothered to read a single word of our profile.

Occasionally I’ll reply just to try and understand why. I’ve yet to find out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I ask you something?

just ask me it!! "

You just did... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This

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