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By *issAphrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Or is your profile more of a fixed criteria/shopping list?

I ask as I've deliberately not selected looking for MF couples (even though I am) as I have previously found that very few respected that I am straight or they were clearly profiles driven solely by the men. I also got fed up with seeing splayed open vagina on my local updates feed.

So do you purposely omit or block for damage limitation or other purposes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I don't look for MF couples on my profile but I'm happy to meet ladies from MF couples

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

No. I seek someone specific within my preferred age range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I state no single guys, that is set in stone..

I would meet a couple even though I haven't declared it

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

My profile says straight, and I'm not looking for women, but, under the right circumstances I'll happily get stuck into a pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I don’t have any interests on mine, but that’s only cause there isn’t once for dungarees and horizontal striped crop tops.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Also, if a man above my age range took my fancy I wouldn't hesitate.

My preferences aren't set in stone, but they reduce the amount of messages I receive.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Yes, I don’t have any interests on mine, but that’s only cause there isn’t once for dungarees and horizontal striped crop tops. "

Blimey. That's a throwback to my 80s wardrobe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I don’t have any interests on mine, but that’s only cause there isn’t once for dungarees and horizontal striped crop tops.

Blimey. That's a throwback to my 80s wardrobe. "

Keep talking.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Yes, I don’t have any interests on mine, but that’s only cause there isn’t once for dungarees and horizontal striped crop tops.

Blimey. That's a throwback to my 80s wardrobe. "

And hot pants

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By *issAphrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Also, if a man above my age range took my fancy I wouldn't hesitate.

My preferences aren't set in stone, but they reduce the amount of messages I receive. "

Likewise. I'm flexible about that, it's a ball park figure to reduce mail bulk.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My profile is a good reflection of my expectations and what I can offer. My age limits are set in stone especially my lower limit but my listed interests are just the prologue.

As my profile says I am very open to exploring mutual desires and fantasies regardless of what kink that may involve but only with people who understand the meaning of mutual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I don’t have any interests on mine, but that’s only cause there isn’t once for dungarees and horizontal striped crop tops.

Blimey. That's a throwback to my 80s wardrobe. "

Or my current one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got wont meet smokers but as long as they know not to smell like an ashtray ide consider it

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

My preferences aren't set in stone, if I connect with someone then I'm willing to flex x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also, if a man above my age range took my fancy I wouldn't hesitate.

My preferences aren't set in stone, but they reduce the amount of messages I receive. "

Agree. Im open to other things but saves timewasters and unwanted bitch strops by not stateing everything

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not really. I go with the flow. Can’t even remember what mine says at the moment.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'm strict on what I'm looking for and not looking for, definitely no interest in cock and that won't change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really. I go with the flow. Can’t even remember what mine says at the moment. "

Says you don’t like cock and are strictly here for the quim/ flange. Just read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really. I go with the flow. Can’t even remember what mine says at the moment. "

It says,

Profile not available.

This member has hidden their profile.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Not really. I go with the flow. Can’t even remember what mine says at the moment.

Says you don’t like cock and are strictly here for the quim/ flange. Just read it. "

Haha. I know it doesn’t say that. I love the cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could be open to single men if there was a decent supply of sensible ones who get that I'm only interested in their pretty cock, not their entire masculine self.

Still not taking messages from them though.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Not really. I go with the flow. Can’t even remember what mine says at the moment.

It says,

Profile not available.

This member has hidden their profile."

Oh! See I didn’t even know that . Forgot I’d hidden it the other day! Thought my messages hadn’t gone up much lately!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Interests are blank to stop unwarranted ‘I want to that with you’ or worst opening messages. If I’m talking to someone they find out what I like, as I do they.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Interests are blank to stop unwarranted ‘I want to that with you’ or worst opening messages. If I’m talking to someone they find out what I like, as I do they. "

Oh yeah I’ve never put interests. Didn’t even know what half of them meant when I first joined !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sexual cravings change daily and I would be open to a lot more in the right circumstance with the right person

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Interests are blank to stop unwarranted ‘I want to that with you’ or worst opening messages. If I’m talking to someone they find out what I like, as I do they.

Oh yeah I’ve never put interests. Didn’t even know what half of them meant when I first joined ! "

I’ll believe you little Miss Innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or is your profile more of a fixed criteria/shopping list?

I ask as I've deliberately not selected looking for MF couples (even though I am) as I have previously found that very few respected that I am straight or they were clearly profiles driven solely by the men. I also got fed up with seeing splayed open vagina on my local updates feed.

So do you purposely omit or block for damage limitation or other purposes? "

Well for me Im open to try new things unless it really isnt for me.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

There are a lot of things we are open to that we haven't put on our profile, bit thats because our interests are quite varied.

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By *ooty999Couple
over a year ago

Swindon

I think mine (in a couple) have expanded since joining as started out looking for a F to join our MF, I'm bi he is straight, but he said he's happy to do MMF as long as the other M is straight. I was apprehensive at first but after reading some more experienced fab members verifications and profiles and chatting to a lovely experienced guy on here it has been heightened somewhat

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Must update mine as looking for more than when I first joined! X

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By *mbroMan
over a year ago

vancouver

Ha trust me most of them are

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’m more flexible in a club or social than I am on here. So age ranges or different people, may look a lot better in the flesh. So I would make more exceptions there more than here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't list any interest, I'm listed as straight, and say I can't accommodate nor travel all work nicely to help control messages but might not necessarily be true

Age filters are flexible so not usually on but the longer I'm on here and the more people I talk to ... the more I realise that it's so unlikely to happen with anyone outside of my preferred ages and actually they should be narrowed

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m open to listening to what’s on offer. But whether I take that offer up is another matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is exactly as it says. I try to keep it as 'focussed' as I can so it hones in on what I am looking for as I just use Fab for a very specific niche thing.

But I have been on here as a couple too so we had a broader scope and I, also being a straight female, totally understand what you are saying you have to do with yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who's asking and what they are suggesting.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"I’m open to listening to what’s on offer. But whether I take that offer up is another matter."

As above

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I d say I am but it would attract the wrong kind of people - not that there is anything wrong with them per se but they would be looking for some things that I am not happy to go along with - and if this makes any sense to anybody it will be a miracle

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't meet couples on this account and that won't ever change.

I do have filters on for ages too as I'd never go too low and I can't see that changing anytime soon either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile asks for nothing, but of course I really want everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is spot on I have not interest in meeting anyone

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We are getting more open but not yet, going from soft to full so inbetween.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Mine says won’t meet smokers but my other half is a smoker but a considerate one at that

Sometimes you have to give a little to gain a lot

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Probably the only movable element of our profile is the age range which is pretty wide anyway.

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By *raditionalManMan
over a year ago

Manchester

My profile says im straight but im bi. I dont want to meet males 121 id find them if i did.

A whole other arguement could be had but i dont care what people think I also reserve the right to be choosy as a single male!

Done me good so far!

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

Mine would just be the age range, I put one so it'd reduce messages but if I was out or browsing on here and someone caught my eye their age wouldn't put me off.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

London & North Wessex Downs

Of course not - this is all about people and you respond differently to different people - as such given the right people in the right circumstances and you can try new things.

Also the age thing is odd - have you seen the latest photos of Liz Hurley ... and on here her age would excluse het from most profiles.....

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Our profile shows our relaxed attitude and what we are about and the type of people we seek.

In addition there are extra scenarios on our to-do list which we don’t list - we select people ourselves for these as some of them need specific types of people…

K

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

He have limits but if someone takes our eye always open to suggestions

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yes definitely. I like all sorts and and an attracted to different body types but my profile used to read like any hole is a goal, so I focused on my preference instead but don't discount or discriminate against anyone.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I am interested in more than just Safe Sex but most people seem to tick everything so it seemed important to me to have this one stand out.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Also, if a man above my age range took my fancy I wouldn't hesitate.

My preferences aren't set in stone, but they reduce the amount of messages I receive.

Likewise. I'm flexible about that, it's a ball park figure to reduce mail bulk."

I change mine now and then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or is your profile more of a fixed criteria/shopping list?

I ask as I've deliberately not selected looking for MF couples (even though I am) as I have previously found that very few respected that I am straight or they were clearly profiles driven solely by the men. I also got fed up with seeing splayed open vagina on my local updates feed.

So do you purposely omit or block for damage limitation or other purposes? "

I’m a little confused - why would you be interested in meeting couples if you are straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, we're definitely open to more than our profile suggests.

On our profile, We currently only have specific scenarios we would like to experience but we are open to many other scenarios.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes. I've deliberately kept my profile minimal because I'd rather look for what interests me and explore it without people trying to be what they think I want. I'm not even sure what I want but I know what I don't.

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"Or is your profile more of a fixed criteria/shopping list?

I ask as I've deliberately not selected looking for MF couples (even though I am) as I have previously found that very few respected that I am straight or they were clearly profiles driven solely by the men. I also got fed up with seeing splayed open vagina on my local updates feed.

So do you purposely omit or block for damage limitation or other purposes?

I’m a little confused - why would you be interested in meeting couples if you are straight? "

Men from couples can meet too not all seek bi females only.

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By *ocktoplaywithMan
over a year ago

Derby

I’m open to any suggestions, then I’ll decide yes or no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile says straight, and I'm not looking for women, but, under the right circumstances I'll happily get stuck into a pussy.

"

This is me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I don’t have any interests on mine, but that’s only cause there isn’t once for dungarees and horizontal striped crop tops. "

Does a dungaree dress count if it’s paired with a horizontal striped crop top lol.

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By *issAphrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Or is your profile more of a fixed criteria/shopping list?

I ask as I've deliberately not selected looking for MF couples (even though I am) as I have previously found that very few respected that I am straight or they were clearly profiles driven solely by the men. I also got fed up with seeing splayed open vagina on my local updates feed.

So do you purposely omit or block for damage limitation or other purposes?

I’m a little confused - why would you be interested in meeting couples if you are straight? "

Do you ask why straight males join MF couples? Why is it that when a woman joins a MF couple, there is some expectation for "girl on girl" play? There's zero expectation for men to get it on when joining an MF couple, unless both men are openly bi/curious. Why is it different for women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexually, my profile doesn't even begin to address what I seek

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

It really depends. There are things on our profile that are absoultely non negotiable and that we are not open to.

There are however other things we are open to or curious about that isnt even mentioned on our profile. Just depends really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never know how to word it or what to put. It’s a shit profile and in answer to the question I’m open to any and all suggestions I’m feeling I want to go with the flow see where I end up.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Mine are generally flexible, mainly because I know that if I meet a person at a social or club and we connected, then my preferences wouldn’t really matter.

It only seems to be on line that people adhere so slavishly to their likes, in person they matter far less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think mine is pretty explanatory

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm open to more in that I welcome suggestions or ideas of more. However that's not to say I'm open to just doing more. I don't think I'm fully shut off from pushing boundaries but that's not to say I won't decline it either.

I'm open to discussion about doing more than the profile suggest I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will basically try anything.

Not that people want to try with me

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

I'm always open to suggestions. Not everyone has the same likes/dislikes. As long as both feel happy, safe and willing then yes why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really get all the filters and such. It seems so trivial how someone can fancy you at 39 but the next day is your birthday and you've now failed someone's age filter. I'm open minded to anyone and anything. Surprise me.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Or is your profile more of a fixed criteria/shopping list?

I ask as I've deliberately not selected looking for MF couples (even though I am) as I have previously found that very few respected that I am straight or they were clearly profiles driven solely by the men. I also got fed up with seeing splayed open vagina on my local updates feed.

So do you purposely omit or block for damage limitation or other purposes? "

Our profile is exactly as what we are looking for except for possibly age limits.

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By *issAphrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

Norwich


"I don't really get all the filters and such. It seems so trivial how someone can fancy you at 39 but the next day is your birthday and you've now failed someone's age filter. I'm open minded to anyone and anything. Surprise me."

As a man, you're unlikely to receive anywhere near the amount of messages that women do. Most of the messages I receive are from men widely off the mark of what I'm looking for - which they would know if they'd bothered to read my profile. So for some of us, it's an attempt at "quality control" to make things more manageable.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Mine states exactly what I am looking for.

Apart from age range, nothing will be changing.

I only want to meet ladies on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing on my profile that's true is "Woman".

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I don’t think there’s anything hidden within my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im open to suggestions

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Happy for people to make suggestions as long as they're not ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the extremity of the request I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is a bit boring so suppose I’m open to much more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes we are

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Nothing is set in stone, I'm flexible to most things, and always willing to try other things not on my list of interest, with the right partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon I am. There are certain limits I definitely have but nothing wrong with being strung up by the thumbs, blindfolded, gagged, and spanked red raw... Once

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Most definitely

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Yes, but my profile doesn't say much.

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By *sd555Man
over a year ago

manchester

I'm easily led so take that as you will!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my age range is flexible...depending on the person & attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes my age range is flexible...depending on the person & attraction"

Totally agree it’s just a number. There’s many an older person that can excite and pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or is your profile more of a fixed criteria/shopping list?

I ask as I've deliberately not selected looking for MF couples (even though I am) as I have previously found that very few respected that I am straight or they were clearly profiles driven solely by the men. I also got fed up with seeing splayed open vagina on my local updates feed.

So do you purposely omit or block for damage limitation or other purposes? "

There's lots on my profile I negate to mention. Like my sub side for example because in my experience the sheer mention seems to be some sort of green light for the worst kind of Doms.

I would absolutely love to see splayed pussy over the million unimaginative dick and saggy balls pics on here. I'm open to MF couples so I've no idea where I'm going wrong.

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford


"Yes, I don’t have any interests on mine, but that’s only cause there isn’t once for dungarees and horizontal striped crop tops. "

First thing I thought of was girls in bananarama from the 80s lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happy for people to make suggestions as long as they're not ridiculous."

I think my profile gives a flavour of where I am and what I would like. I also like to think Im broadminded and would enjoy trying something new but there are limits

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