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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Are you the type to ghost someone or would you be honest with them?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I always give them a reason why I don't want to meet and say goodbye when I feel the messages are not going in the right direction for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest, treat people as I expect to be treated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am. Unfortunately or not. Sometimes there are just no words left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am. Unfortunately or not. Sometimes there are just no words left. "

Maybe its not ghosting. Just giving up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they've lost interest already, ceasing communication isn't ghosting, it's just sensible.

If they are still interested but you're not, sure they deserve to hear why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you the type to ghost someone or would you be honest with them? "

Depends, majority of occasions I’ll discuss, but if pissed off the individual is dead to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to be honest and expect same back if possible but sometimes easier just not saying

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

If I'm not interested I'll say, but quite often it's them who let let the texts/WhatsApp messages die off.

People get bored waiting for me, and I don't blame them.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Are you the type to ghost someone or would you be honest with them? "

Being ghosted is horrible, so I try and be upfront and honest with people if I lose interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd hope not, been ghosted several times and it's a bit......irritating and a little rude. To be expected around here though, all part of the game.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I'll be honest with them if I can if I'm just not feeling it x

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Been ghosted enough times so I know how it feels and don't want to do that to anyone x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm not interested I'll say, but quite often it's them who let let the texts/WhatsApp messages die off.

People get bored waiting for me, and I don't blame them."

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Having been ghosted and it made me feel shit I like to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was more than just a couple of random messages then no, I couldn't ghost someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always be honest - ive been ghosted before and it hits your confidence harder and longer than being told no. Better to rip the band aid off than peel it off slowly

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