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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve seen many profiles with Can or Cannot accom or can or cannot travel but what’s the point of both travel and accom are a cannot?

I get some fabbers are discreet so can’t accom and some may not be able to travel but cumon meet a chap half way

Thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you believe everything you read on profiles...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve seen many profiles with Can or Cannot accom or can or cannot travel but what’s the point of both travel and accom are a cannot?

I get some fabbers are discreet so can’t accom and some may not be able to travel but cumon meet a chap half way

Thoughts "

That usually means they only meet in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought the thread title said Can vs Carrot. No I'm disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost you after the third can(not)

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Usually means they like to meet locally or they only meet in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you believe everything you read on profiles..........."

Not everything no haha but why put it, quite off putting to make initial contact

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thought the thread title said Can vs Carrot. No I'm disappointed."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I lost you after the third can(not) "

Thanks rose

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Clubs?

Locally?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lost you after the third can(not)

Thanks rose "

Come on. I tried.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Clubs?

Locally?

"

Understood but do said persons just get cabs, PT or walk?

I’m just inquisitive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I lost you after the third can(not)

Thanks rose

Come on. I tried."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local hotels.

Cannot travel - they may not drive so its taxi’s, they wont travel more than X hours away, they accommodate so dont need to travel

Cannot accommodate - clubs meets, hotels, shared accommodation, kids at home, spouse at home, safety reasons

Mix and match from any of those options or ask the person why they dont accomm or travel

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Mine says cannot accom as otherwise every horndog random thinks you run an open house.

Same with cannot travel. I'm not here to service the unwashed at 3am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say you can travel, people will assume you will travel as far as suits them.

Say you can accommodate, people will assume you will at their convenience.

Say you can do neither then people are forced to discuss with you what actually works for you rather than what works for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you believe everything you read on profiles...........

Not everything no haha but why put it, quite off putting to make initial contact "

If it says can accom, some people think that means any time of day or night and invite themselves over.

If it says can travel, some people think that means a Londoner will travel to Scotland.

I've travelled 7 hour round trips and also had people in my house.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get why or how one or the other may be cannot and respect that especially when it comes to accommodating but to have both as something that can’t be achieved is just puzzling to me

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle


"Clubs?

Locally?

Understood but do said persons just get cabs, PT or walk?

I’m just inquisitive "

Does it matter how they get there? When i attend clubs i put a meet up.. its up to that person to get to the club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say you can travel, people will assume you will travel as far as suits them.

Say you can accommodate, people will assume you will at their convenience.

Say you can do neither then people are forced to discuss with you what actually works for you rather than what works for them. "

Talking like people, not sex meat tick boxes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine says cannot accom as otherwise every horndog random thinks you run an open house.

Same with cannot travel. I'm not here to service the unwashed at 3am."

Makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get why or how one or the other may be cannot and respect that especially when it comes to accommodating but to have both as something that can’t be achieved is just puzzling to me "

If swingers clubs and hotels are on your doorstep why would you need to accommodate or travel?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get why or how one or the other may be cannot and respect that especially when it comes to accommodating but to have both as something that can’t be achieved is just puzzling to me

If swingers clubs and hotels are on your doorstep why would you need to accommodate or travel? "

What a perfik situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem is those questions only give you black and white options.

Travel,yes means you've got a car. No,means you're house bound. Accommodation,yes,means an open house. No,means piss off. There so many options in between. Talk about it. You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Problem is those questions only give you black and white options.

Travel,yes means you've got a car. No,means you're house bound. Accommodation,yes,means an open house. No,means piss off. There so many options in between. Talk about it. You're welcome "

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I get why or how one or the other may be cannot and respect that especially when it comes to accommodating but to have both as something that can’t be achieved is just puzzling to me "

It’s to keep the ‘let’s meet right now’ chancers away from your inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get why or how one or the other may be cannot and respect that especially when it comes to accommodating but to have both as something that can’t be achieved is just puzzling to me

It’s to keep the ‘let’s meet right now’ chancers away from your inbox "

If only it worked

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I get why or how one or the other may be cannot and respect that especially when it comes to accommodating but to have both as something that can’t be achieved is just puzzling to me

It’s to keep the ‘let’s meet right now’ chancers away from your inbox

If only it worked "

Just delete, or block if necessary, they soon get bored

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

For me it's looking for a local that can accom! As wouldn't travel miles as dont drive! It has worked for me! Have had a few long term fwb over last couple years! But as of next month I shd b able to accom again on occasion x

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