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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm one of those whose physical environment is chaotic so keep tight control what I can of my electronic one (at work and private).

So any moribund PMs here, exchanges of a couple of messages then no further, to the bin with you!

What do you do, hoard them like Smeagol, or just cast them aside like a used Kleenex?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keep both of them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Huh?"

Sorry. Less verbosely, do you keep messages when they're past their use by date or keep your inbox just for people who are actively engaging?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Huh?

Sorry. Less verbosely, do you keep messages when they're past their use by date or keep your inbox just for people who are actively engaging? "

Oh I delete them xx

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Every now and then I go through my messages and bin old ones that fizzled out.

I keep those from forum users so I know what we last spoke about

I currently have 9 unread messages I'm about to deal with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish my inbox had that problem lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wish my inbox had that problem lol"

Well yeah I wasn't humble bragging, mine's not in need of super-regular gardening, but I do like to put feelers out and sometimes people respond.

It's good to be able to tell the difference between a polite response and actual interest though.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I currently have 746 unread. May hide my profile for a while and go through them. Most will likely be deleted as they are outside my age range or haven't read my profile x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I currently have 746 unread. May hide my profile for a while and go through them. Most will likely be deleted as they are outside my age range or haven't read my profile x"

I think that's the order of magnitude of stuff to deal with that some of us impatient guys really don't imagine, consider or understand when we're fuming about why that ***** is ignoring me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll do weekly clear outs. Keep some that aren't ongoing conversations and always keep the people I chat to regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now this getting a msg thing you mention? What is that exactly? Sounds intriguing

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Would be nice to get a message

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Would be nice to get a message"

Would it need to be a potential meet or just a chat message ?

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Would be nice to get a message

Would it need to be a potential meet or just a chat message ?"
A chat message would be nice. Better if it led up to a meet after.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Messages are deleted once they have passed their use by date so to speak. If we want to keep a record of something that was said or done then we use the private note facility.

Only emails in our inbox are those which are currently active conversations.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Would be nice to get a message

Would it need to be a potential meet or just a chat message ? A chat message would be nice. Better if it led up to a meet after."

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I open all messages so the number unread doesnt pile up, but unless its someone I already speak too or know or about forum stuff Im afraid it probably just sits getting ignored till fab deals with it for me. I do ask not to get messages, so people are forewarned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time it was a problem was when I somehow messaged to message myself and I couldn’t delete it, it was sat there for months doing my fucking scone in, it’s gone now, so calm is restored, till I accidentally do it again like a massive plum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only time it was a problem was when I somehow messaged to message myself and I couldn’t delete it, it was sat there for months doing my fucking scone in, it’s gone now, so calm is restored, till I accidentally do it again like a massive plum."

* managed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep on top of it at the moment so never have more than 20. I skip through to make sure it’s not someone I know and then just mass delete

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