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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford

This is a genuine question? And I know it will differ? But younger men when u meet older women is it a fantasy thing? Or a notch thing? I ask because often get asked by younger men to meet! Have met 2 what I call young one 34 and one on weds 37! I dont consider 50ish young although its younger than me! Anyway whilst it's fun and enjoyed it I cant help thinking why so they want to meet someone my age? Also as i say whilst the sex is good i feel something lacking in the meeting of minds thingy! So i tend to purposely put them of for another meet! Your opinions and thoughts please? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder on this also, it’s why I won’t meet young men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the maturer woman to younger ones, in my younger days my 2nd sexual experience was with an older woman and I've never looked back

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I wonder on this also, it’s why I won’t meet young men."

Yes I even said whilst sat outside costa do u feel bit uncomfortable with someone my age? I make a joke and say something like spose it could b u with yr auntie or something! x

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I prefer the maturer woman to younger ones, in my younger days my 2nd sexual experience was with an older woman and I've never looked back "

Interesting what age was u and she? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres just always been a part of me that’s found women older than me attractive, my mums friends coming round when i was 13/14 and seeing them all sat drinking and fantasising what it’d be like even at such an early age, and all the experiences i’ve had with older women have just been unreal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17 & late fifties...

My ex was 10 years older than me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s the maturity and experience that does it for me. I also like the thought that me, with my energy can get someone a lot older and wiser off. Thats hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was obsessed with older women when I was younger, always fancied my friends' mums rotten and female friends of my parents. To the point it probably arrested my development and put a barrier in the way of the normal learning one's way with girls who were my peers. I just found them shallow and their bodies uninteresting. Older women with their heavier breasts and air of sexual experience interested me more.

These days those older women are my peers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it can be either, both or none you mentioned.

Could be a notch on the bed post, I think a fantasy for most, seems a very popular category on porn sites the whole milf or mature and younger guy scenario.

Personally neither for me, it will always come down to attraction physically and personality just as if it was someone closer to my age.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's a bit of a fantasy yeah. Not one that my attraction is built around, not one that has me searching for and only attracted to an older woman. It's not that I see them as any different to a younger woman. But there is a hint of a fantasy and something about that is appealing in a different way.

Not something that I can just explain in a basic way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like older women, again a child hood fantasy thing, but seem to only attract women quite a bit younger than me. Shouldn't complain really.

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By *omesticflightMan
over a year ago

Burton-on-Trent

I think there is an element of ego-conquest, but as well, older women know what they want, how to get it, and that's appealing to me, and perhaps even more so for lads in their 20s [still figuring out themselves, drives and desires]. Different interpersonal power dynamic too, compared to someone younger or same age.

Fwiw, most of my partners have been slightly older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was always a serious bookish teenager mind. I used to engage in mental flirtation at least with my English teacher Mrs Phillips, challenge her to find a word I couldn't spell.

Then go home from school and wank myself stupid dreaming of her. I thought she was sexy but it was the mental engagement and being taken seriously, maybe even respected by her that was the biggest turnon.

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Interesting answers! What I shd have added was the obvious at my age 64 in couple weeks! everything is not as fresh and young looking! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting answers! What I shd have added was the obvious at my age 64 in couple weeks! everything is not as fresh and young looking! x"

You look fantastic, happy birthday when it comes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting answers! What I shd have added was the obvious at my age 64 in couple weeks! everything is not as fresh and young looking! x"

Still absolutely gorgeous

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Interesting answers! What I shd have added was the obvious at my age 64 in couple weeks! everything is not as fresh and young looking! x

Still absolutely gorgeous "

Aww ty! I know I'm not bad for age but compared to a lovely young thing that men could meet there is no comparison! And the one from weds was a real cutie looking lovely cock/bod so still has me thinking why? Maybe shd just go with it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have our preferences, if he likes older and you like younger.

Then it's a no brainer, life is for enjoying

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"We all have our preferences, if he likes older and you like younger.

Then it's a no brainer, life is for enjoying "

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting answers! What I shd have added was the obvious at my age 64 in couple weeks! everything is not as fresh and young looking! x

Still absolutely gorgeous

Aww ty! I know I'm not bad for age but compared to a lovely young thing that men could meet there is no comparison! And the one from weds was a real cutie looking lovely cock/bod so still has me thinking why? Maybe shd just go with it x "

Definitely just go with it, sounds like a lucky man

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I think the answer is "all of the above". Everyone has their reasons and some cannot be be explained with logic.

Personally, young men target me quite a lot and it's mostly because of my age and their fetishism of it - too much MILF porn etc! But also many of them say that younger women are a little superficial and they prefer women with more mature minds who are comfortable in their own skin. Plus the classic "they know what they want".

But due to the lack of "meeting of the minds" that you mentioned, it has only happened with one guy 10 years my junior. I *generally* find younger men to be impatient and a little selfish plus lacking the understanding of living a life with responsibilities that mean spontaneity is a no no.

It worked well with the guy I was seeing, the dynamic can be hot and it's so much about the individuals rather than just their ages. But on here, they approach me like an object, act as though Inshpuld be grateful that an old hag is paying them attention and don't seem to have the attention span/skills to build the rapport and trust that I need to go down a less trodden path!

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By *EXY_PILOTMan
over a year ago

Manchester, North West, UK


"This is a genuine question? And I know it will differ? But younger men when u meet older women is it a fantasy thing? Or a notch thing? I ask because often get asked by younger men to meet! Have met 2 what I call young one 34 and one on weds 37! I dont consider 50ish young although its younger than me! Anyway whilst it's fun and enjoyed it I cant help thinking why so they want to meet someone my age? Also as i say whilst the sex is good i feel something lacking in the meeting of minds thingy! So i tend to purposely put them of for another meet! Your opinions and thoughts please? X "

As long as they are nice and tight and don't feel like you are doing a 'pillow' then I would definitely want an older lady, as they will have more than sex to offer x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've also been continually reminded by sexologists and Cosmo (and GQ etc) that while men allegedly peak at around 18, women do at around 38.

I still find that Bobby Goldsboro record intensely hard to listen to

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I think the answer is "all of the above". Everyone has their reasons and some cannot be be explained with logic.

Personally, young men target me quite a lot and it's mostly because of my age and their fetishism of it - too much MILF porn etc! But also many of them say that younger women are a little superficial and they prefer women with more mature minds who are comfortable in their own skin. Plus the classic "they know what they want".

But due to the lack of "meeting of the minds" that you mentioned, it has only happened with one guy 10 years my junior. I *generally* find younger men to be impatient and a little selfish plus lacking the understanding of living a life with responsibilities that mean spontaneity is a no no.

It worked well with the guy I was seeing, the dynamic can be hot and it's so much about the individuals rather than just their ages. But on here, they approach me like an object, act as though Inshpuld be grateful that an old hag is paying them attention and don't seem to have the attention span/skills to build the rapport and trust that I need to go down a less trodden path!"

Yes agreed! Think they ok for a one of! But as I'm looking for really just one fwb shall hold of for that would b sensible! I think I've put him of anyway! Seemed a bit taken aback with my list of what I wanted from a fwb tbh! Not in a demanding way of course! Just stated truth! And when i asked him what he envisaged he said he dont know! In fact I got I dont know to most questions ! X

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By *rooperRedMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

I always found older women to be more comfortable in their own skin and more confident sexually, and knowing what they want. I'm sort of at the age now where I'm catching up to them in age though, but I still think 50-60+ women can be incredibly hot.

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"This is a genuine question? And I know it will differ? But younger men when u meet older women is it a fantasy thing? Or a notch thing? I ask because often get asked by younger men to meet! Have met 2 what I call young one 34 and one on weds 37! I dont consider 50ish young although its younger than me! Anyway whilst it's fun and enjoyed it I cant help thinking why so they want to meet someone my age? Also as i say whilst the sex is good i feel something lacking in the meeting of minds thingy! So i tend to purposely put them of for another meet! Your opinions and thoughts please? X

As long as they are nice and tight and don't feel like you are doing a 'pillow' then I would definitely want an older lady, as they will have more than sex to offer x"

Pmsl! Love that! Have been told I'm "tight" I went without for 13 years ! I googled it and it's a thing substance makes things tight ! I'm a born again virgin! x

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"We've also been continually reminded by sexologists and Cosmo (and GQ etc) that while men allegedly peak at around 18, women do at around 38.

I still find that Bobby Goldsboro record intensely hard to listen to "

Was 60 for me! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be a few things:

- a notch / bucket list thing as you say

- genuine attraction to older ladies

- older ladies have more experience and tend to know what they want

- some sort of Mummy fetish

- any holes a goal and they message everyone

Etc etc .. I’m sure there are many more.

As long as you like it and can get it, lap it up and enjoy it

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Could be a few things:

- a notch / bucket list thing as you say

- genuine attraction to older ladies

- older ladies have more experience and tend to know what they want

- some sort of Mummy fetish

- any holes a goal and they message everyone

Etc etc .. I’m sure there are many more.

As long as you like it and can get it, lap it up and enjoy it "

Ohh I did! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s the maturity and experience that does it for me. I also like the thought that me, with my energy can get someone a lot older and wiser off. Thats hot."

You assume a lack of energy, 1st mistake, also more experienced, could be a mistake in a lot of cases. Age doesn't equate with experience, I could have been in a very very bland relationship for a number of years prior to arriving on here.

What gets me is the 'oh I bet you can teach me a thing or two'

I'm not here to teach, I like my man fully trained and operational

If you fancy someone, you just do. Don't put it through a post mortem as to why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The idea of being with an older woman turns me on... probably on the more fetish side for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s the maturity and experience that does it for me. I also like the thought that me, with my energy can get someone a lot older and wiser off. Thats hot.

You assume a lack of energy, 1st mistake, also more experienced, could be a mistake in a lot of cases. Age doesn't equate with experience, I could have been in a very very bland relationship for a number of years prior to arriving on here.

What gets me is the 'oh I bet you can teach me a thing or two'

I'm not here to teach, I like my man fully trained and operational

If you fancy someone, you just do. Don't put it through a post mortem as to why. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Was 60 for me! X"

Best keep at it then! All downhill from here

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"

Was 60 for me! X

Best keep at it then! All downhill from here "

Hopefully not! I've never felt so good sexually and in life generally as I do now! Long may it continue! x

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke

To me it is not a fantasy or a thing to do in my list. I am attracted to women of more mature years since I was a teenager. And some years ago I had a wonderful long relationship with a wonderful woman in her late 50s to early 60s. Even though we are no longer together I still fancy her. Sex with her was frequent (2-3 times a day) and even though not as varied as I would like, it felt great.

I had relationships with women my age or younnger but even now I am still more attracted to older women. Partly It is because of their appearance. Like some people prefer ethnic over caucasian, tall over average height, dad body over athletic body, small boobs over big boobs, I have this preference, older over younger or my age. I like women with boobs that head south, have wrinkles or have hands with some veins shown. I find them some of them sexier than ones of my age or younger. Just my preference. Another thing is that I feel that they are at an age that are more easy going, want to enjoy life, kids are grown up etc.

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"To me it is not a fantasy or a thing to do in my list. I am attracted to women of more mature years since I was a teenager. And some years ago I had a wonderful long relationship with a wonderful woman in her late 50s to early 60s. Even though we are no longer together I still fancy her. Sex with her was frequent (2-3 times a day) and even though not as varied as I would like, it felt great.

I had relationships with women my age or younnger but even now I am still more attracted to older women. Partly It is because of their appearance. Like some people prefer ethnic over caucasian, tall over average height, dad body over athletic body, small boobs over big boobs, I have this preference, older over younger or my age. I like women with boobs that head south, have wrinkles or have hands with some veins shown. I find them some of them sexier than ones of my age or younger. Just my preference. Another thing is that I feel that they are at an age that are more easy going, want to enjoy life, kids are grown up etc.

"

Ty interesting input it's the wrinkly veiny thing that u like it I find cool x

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I do like older women, again a child hood fantasy thing, but seem to only attract women quite a bit younger than me. Shouldn't complain really."

Nice profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do like older women, again a child hood fantasy thing, but seem to only attract women quite a bit younger than me. Shouldn't complain really.

Nice profile "

Wow!! so is yours i have to add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s the maturity and experience that does it for me. I also like the thought that me, with my energy can get someone a lot older and wiser off. Thats hot.

You assume a lack of energy, 1st mistake, also more experienced, could be a mistake in a lot of cases. Age doesn't equate with experience, I could have been in a very very bland relationship for a number of years prior to arriving on here.

What gets me is the 'oh I bet you can teach me a thing or two'

I'm not here to teach, I like my man fully trained and operational

If you fancy someone, you just do. Don't put it through a post mortem as to why.

"

Oi.... Mind where you put that thumb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the 'more experienced' part I don't understand. I maybe 56 but I haven't shagged half the men in Birmingham.

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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Watching!

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over a year ago

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"I do like older women, again a child hood fantasy thing, but seem to only attract women quite a bit younger than me. Shouldn't complain really.

Nice profile

Wow!! so is yours i have to add "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s the maturity and experience that does it for me. I also like the thought that me, with my energy can get someone a lot older and wiser off. Thats hot.

You assume a lack of energy, 1st mistake, also more experienced, could be a mistake in a lot of cases. Age doesn't equate with experience, I could have been in a very very bland relationship for a number of years prior to arriving on here.

What gets me is the 'oh I bet you can teach me a thing or two'

I'm not here to teach, I like my man fully trained and operational

If you fancy someone, you just do. Don't put it through a post mortem as to why.

Oi.... Mind where you put that thumb "

Which thumb would that be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s the maturity and experience that does it for me. I also like the thought that me, with my energy can get someone a lot older and wiser off. Thats hot.

You assume a lack of energy, 1st mistake, also more experienced, could be a mistake in a lot of cases. Age doesn't equate with experience, I could have been in a very very bland relationship for a number of years prior to arriving on here.

What gets me is the 'oh I bet you can teach me a thing or two'

I'm not here to teach, I like my man fully trained and operational

If you fancy someone, you just do. Don't put it through a post mortem as to why.

Oi.... Mind where you put that thumb

Which thumb would that be "

Saucepot lol x

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke


"To me it is not a fantasy or a thing to do in my list. I am attracted to women of more mature years since I was a teenager. And some years ago I had a wonderful long relationship with a wonderful woman in her late 50s to early 60s. Even though we are no longer together I still fancy her. Sex with her was frequent (2-3 times a day) and even though not as varied as I would like, it felt great.

I had relationships with women my age or younnger but even now I am still more attracted to older women. Partly It is because of their appearance. Like some people prefer ethnic over caucasian, tall over average height, dad body over athletic body, small boobs over big boobs, I have this preference, older over younger or my age. I like women with boobs that head south, have wrinkles or have hands with some veins shown. I find them some of them sexier than ones of my age or younger. Just my preference. Another thing is that I feel that they are at an age that are more easy going, want to enjoy life, kids are grown up etc.

Ty interesting input it's the wrinkly veiny thing that u like it I find cool x"

Thank you x. I forgot to mention that I also find a turn on if I see a few silver/white pubic hairs.

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"To me it is not a fantasy or a thing to do in my list. I am attracted to women of more mature years since I was a teenager. And some years ago I had a wonderful long relationship with a wonderful woman in her late 50s to early 60s. Even though we are no longer together I still fancy her. Sex with her was frequent (2-3 times a day) and even though not as varied as I would like, it felt great.

I had relationships with women my age or younnger but even now I am still more attracted to older women. Partly It is because of their appearance. Like some people prefer ethnic over caucasian, tall over average height, dad body over athletic body, small boobs over big boobs, I have this preference, older over younger or my age. I like women with boobs that head south, have wrinkles or have hands with some veins shown. I find them some of them sexier than ones of my age or younger. Just my preference. Another thing is that I feel that they are at an age that are more easy going, want to enjoy life, kids are grown up etc.

Ty interesting input it's the wrinkly veiny thing that u like it I find cool x

Thank you x. I forgot to mention that I also find a turn on if I see a few silver/white pubic hairs."

I have none! I shave! But my head hair is natural silver! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s the maturity and experience that does it for me. I also like the thought that me, with my energy can get someone a lot older and wiser off. Thats hot.

You assume a lack of energy, 1st mistake, also more experienced, could be a mistake in a lot of cases. Age doesn't equate with experience, I could have been in a very very bland relationship for a number of years prior to arriving on here.

What gets me is the 'oh I bet you can teach me a thing or two'

I'm not here to teach, I like my man fully trained and operational

If you fancy someone, you just do. Don't put it through a post mortem as to why.

Oi.... Mind where you put that thumb

Which thumb would that be

Saucepot lol x"

Why thank you, that's the nicest thing I've been called all day

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

At that age, 30s, of assume they just like older women and you sexy.

If they were younger, early 20s then it might be a notch, shagged a milf thing etc.

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"At that age, 30s, of assume they just like older women and you sexy.

If they were younger, early 20s then it might be a notch, shagged a milf thing etc. "

Cool! x

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke


"To me it is not a fantasy or a thing to do in my list. I am attracted to women of more mature years since I was a teenager. And some years ago I had a wonderful long relationship with a wonderful woman in her late 50s to early 60s. Even though we are no longer together I still fancy her. Sex with her was frequent (2-3 times a day) and even though not as varied as I would like, it felt great.

I had relationships with women my age or younnger but even now I am still more attracted to older women. Partly It is because of their appearance. Like some people prefer ethnic over caucasian, tall over average height, dad body over athletic body, small boobs over big boobs, I have this preference, older over younger or my age. I like women with boobs that head south, have wrinkles or have hands with some veins shown. I find them some of them sexier than ones of my age or younger. Just my preference. Another thing is that I feel that they are at an age that are more easy going, want to enjoy life, kids are grown up etc.

Ty interesting input it's the wrinkly veiny thing that u like it I find cool x

Thank you x. I forgot to mention that I also find a turn on if I see a few silver/white pubic hairs.

I have none! I shave! But my head hair is natural silver! X"

Natural silver shows confidence x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any "older" women I have been with hasn't been due to fantasy or a notch on bedpost. I think for me it comes down to attraction and chemistry and age doesn't factor in for me I guess.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’ve never really understood it either. No way I’d be interested in a man 20/30 years older than me! Even when I was younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s the maturity and experience that does it for me. I also like the thought that me, with my energy can get someone a lot older and wiser off. Thats hot.

You assume a lack of energy, 1st mistake, also more experienced, could be a mistake in a lot of cases. Age doesn't equate with experience, I could have been in a very very bland relationship for a number of years prior to arriving on here.

What gets me is the 'oh I bet you can teach me a thing or two'

I'm not here to teach, I like my man fully trained and operational

If you fancy someone, you just do. Don't put it through a post mortem as to why.

Oi.... Mind where you put that thumb

Which thumb would that be

Saucepot lol x

Why thank you, that's the nicest thing I've been called all day "

Stick with me boy lolol

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I think you can tell early messaging if you are a notch, hole or purely fetish with no substance. I'm looking for connection and found that to generally happen with younger, but I don't set out for younger it just happens and certainly don't class myself as a cougar

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I think you can tell early messaging if you are a notch, hole or purely fetish with no substance. I'm looking for connection and found that to generally happen with younger, but I don't set out for younger it just happens and certainly don't class myself as a cougar"

Me neither! I aim for 50is! I been talking to one I met weds well over a year! And we got on good so gave in to a meet! Which was good fun! But still something niggles me about the age gap maybe I'm being paranoid! Which is really not me usually tbh x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s the maturity and experience that does it for me. I also like the thought that me, with my energy can get someone a lot older and wiser off. Thats hot.

You assume a lack of energy, 1st mistake, also more experienced, could be a mistake in a lot of cases. Age doesn't equate with experience, I could have been in a very very bland relationship for a number of years prior to arriving on here.

What gets me is the 'oh I bet you can teach me a thing or two'

I'm not here to teach, I like my man fully trained and operational

If you fancy someone, you just do. Don't put it through a post mortem as to why.

Oi.... Mind where you put that thumb

Which thumb would that be

Saucepot lol x

Why thank you, that's the nicest thing I've been called all day

Stick with me boy lolol"

Oh I'd definitely stick with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At that age, 30s, of assume they just like older women and you sexy.

If they were younger, early 20s then it might be a notch, shagged a milf thing etc. "

I can see how people would look at me but for myself it is a genuine preference

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"This is a genuine question? And I know it will differ? But younger men when u meet older women is it a fantasy thing? Or a notch thing? I ask because often get asked by younger men to meet! Have met 2 what I call young one 34 and one on weds 37! I dont consider 50ish young although its younger than me! Anyway whilst it's fun and enjoyed it I cant help thinking why so they want to meet someone my age? Also as i say whilst the sex is good i feel something lacking in the meeting of minds thingy! So i tend to purposely put them of for another meet! Your opinions and thoughts please? X "

When I was in my 20’s, I spent a summer working on an assignment in New York, and ended up having a summer-long affair with a lady who lived in my building, and she was in her 70’s. She made the first move, created a situation where she needed my help to carry some stuff back to her apartment, then insisted on bringing me inside for a drink. Next thing I knew ...

Anyway, why did I stick around? Because if her confidence, skill levels and complete comfort in her own skin. Made a big difference to girls my own age who felt they were doing you a massive favour letting you have sex with them, and kinda felt they just had to turn up because they were “hot”.

I realised very quickly that nothing is hotter than a confident highly skilled lady. So that’s why mature ladies have always been exciting for me.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

It's a "not on the same page" for us, so we just block anyone 35 and below as they are of no interest and have a blurred view of sex due to the type of porn that they seem to watch.

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"This is a genuine question? And I know it will differ? But younger men when u meet older women is it a fantasy thing? Or a notch thing? I ask because often get asked by younger men to meet! Have met 2 what I call young one 34 and one on weds 37! I dont consider 50ish young although its younger than me! Anyway whilst it's fun and enjoyed it I cant help thinking why so they want to meet someone my age? Also as i say whilst the sex is good i feel something lacking in the meeting of minds thingy! So i tend to purposely put them of for another meet! Your opinions and thoughts please? X

When I was in my 20’s, I spent a summer working on an assignment in New York, and ended up having a summer-long affair with a lady who lived in my building, and she was in her 70’s. She made the first move, created a situation where she needed my help to carry some stuff back to her apartment, then insisted on bringing me inside for a drink. Next thing I knew ...

Anyway, why did I stick around? Because if her confidence, skill levels and complete comfort in her own skin. Made a big difference to girls my own age who felt they were doing you a massive favour letting you have sex with them, and kinda felt they just had to turn up because they were “hot”.

I realised very quickly that nothing is hotter than a confident highly skilled lady. So that’s why mature ladies have always been exciting for me. "

Wow! That's a lovely memory for u x

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

There are mature females on here that are sexier than the so called younger females. It's about what you want and like and expect from a meet. Age is just a number really. I got a knock back because I don't wear glasses.whats that about. Married women meeting guys is ok but if your a married man you're like a tennis ball...knock back after knock back after knock back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had luck meeting older ladies but at moment looking for someone my own age thought I did but didn't work out sadly due distance I seem have more women on here at least willing to chat in like actually dating sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See age isnt the thing for me - I just find all kinds of women attractive in different ways, everyone is different and I think to know what I truely want you have to try it all. Plus I find you connect better with a more mature women, but I am dedinitely 30 going on 60 mentally anyway so that may be why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me age is secondary to attraction.

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