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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

somebody who introduced you to the hedonist lifestyle of swingers and Fabs...

What were you like? Sweet and innocent? Shy and retiring? Butter would not melt kind of person?

What in the scene made you become who you are today?

Any regrets at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I corrupted myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wish I had of discovered it sooner xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely corrupted myself... I only found this place when over hearing someone else talk about it haha

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Nope. I corrupted myself "

Presumably you will be telling yourself off for things you have done then?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I just wish I had of discovered it sooner xx"

That is one of my biggest regrets, too!

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I definitely corrupted myself... I only found this place when over hearing someone else talk about it haha "

Love those conversation one overhears... then casually goes out to do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was never good!

Rotten apple of sorts.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I think deep down i've always been as I am but those aspects were suppressed by routine and a dedicated family life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've always had the desire inside me but now it's been released! No regrets, never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got corrupted by dating a married woman who was cheating. Proper dirty Welsh mare and I adored her although it was my cock doing the thinking.

Pretty much considered myself a perfect incorruptible modern decent chap before that, and a filthy slut after (but still a serially monogamous one).

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Iv never been good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filth.

My wife and I have always been kinky.

This has just replaced meeting people on nights out for us as we’ve gotten older and responsibility has replaced random nights out every weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. I corrupted myself

Presumably you will be telling yourself off for things you have done then? "

All the time. I can't talk about, on forum, age when I started to be curious.

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

I was always a dirty bugger way before i joined Fabs

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Oh, I just wish I'd discovered this this side of me years ago. I was such a goody-two-shoes until my mid 40's.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm still rather sweet and butter wouldn't melt in my mouthesque.

I'd say I was a lot more innocent, trusting and less sexually aware of myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was Mr.Vanilla

Fab was suggested to me by a woman I'd met elsewhere, so glad she did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still rather sweet and butter wouldn't melt in my mouthesque.

I'd say I was a lot more innocent, trusting and less sexually aware of myself. "

That's what reading about eldritch horrors does to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweet and innocent defo until hubby introduced me . Prob still but less so at times lol

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I split up with my husband the year I turned 40 and was already ticking off a to-do list of all the scenarios I had been planning to fulfil, I joined another site first so by the time I came here I was already involved in quite a unique friendship with like minded people.

As for regrets, yeah a few things didn’t work out as planned but that’s life

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I had a post-separation sexual re-awakening in my late 30s, before O knew Fab existed. So I'd corrupted myself well before Fab was even a twinkle in my eye.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We were both filthy but only to each other and fab has allowed us to be filthy and open with other people.

We are also able to meet more people thru fab and try new things.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Always been a filthy perv.

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Corrupted long before I knew of this place, fab just adds to the journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m still all the above on the outside….. on the inside is a different matter

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm still rather sweet and butter wouldn't melt in my mouthesque.

I'd say I was a lot more innocent, trusting and less sexually aware of myself.

That's what reading about eldritch horrors does to you "

That's not a nice way to describe forum users. Disappointed in you.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I've always been the way I am now, that's why I got told by a family member I'd love it here and they weren't wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I’ve always been a bit fucked up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm still rather sweet and butter wouldn't melt in my mouthesque.

I'd say I was a lot more innocent, trusting and less sexually aware of myself.

That's what reading about eldritch horrors does to you

That's not a nice way to describe forum users. Disappointed in you."

And I was going to show you my tentacles. Shan't now.

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By *untocum1000TV/TS
over a year ago

newmarket

dirty ex girlfriend pushed me over the edge !

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I was the wallflower with a naughty streak, the ex just released the rest of my true self in the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were talking about this last night. I said he corrupted me (he did ), he said it was more like, he showed me the door, and I kicked it down and ran through screaming! I still maintain he corrupted me.

I was, and still am a bit innocent, but also I’m a lot naughtier than I was

Hippy

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

Pure as the driven slush. Honest.

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

Self corrupted here aswell, I don't think I was ever sweet and innocent after I hit puberty lol, I take great delight in corrupting others now

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice


"Nope. I’ve always been a bit fucked up. "
. Ain’t that the truth Rache

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I used to be permanently invisible. Then I discovered I had the ability to be both visible and invisible when I needed to be.

Then I discovered fab and with it the realisation that I'm not invisible at all and I was just wearing the emperor's New clothes and I'm good with that.

Corruption no. Eyes opened yes.

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By *ung fun walesMan
over a year ago

up the road

I used to work in a sauna and occasional shifts in a swingers club, a couple on a swingers night introduced me to the world of FAB.

So was it a case of me corrupting them corrupting me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a very moralistic, judgy, prudish person in my 20's. It all seems to have slipped away as I got older. Young me would be horrified!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. I’ve always been a bit fucked up. . Ain’t that the truth Rache "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always been the way I am now, that's why I got told by a family member I'd love it here and they weren't wrong "

Cool as fuck family!! gotta love the Welsh

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I've always been the way I am now, that's why I got told by a family member I'd love it here and they weren't wrong

Cool as fuck family!! gotta love the Welsh "

I'm actually English

Lived in Wales for a few years though and my family is awesome

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By *entlemenpipMan
over a year ago

not far

I was as everyone called me a manwhore then one of the ladies I hooked up with asked me if I was here she signed me up and yeah here is am

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I was totally celibate for 14 years before this.

I was totally corruptible as my libido requires extreme measures to keep it in check.

I have a lot of regrets but I have also met some really lovely people, like you, and learned more about people than I would have without embracing this world. On balance, it has been a bit better than remaining celibate for another decade.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Old fashioned and no regrets at all everything happens for a reason and made me the person I am to day

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I was innocent with a shining halo. I can't believe how innocent I was - I don't even recognise myself now, although I'm thoroughly loving the change.

C

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I was bad long before I got here. And Fab isn’t the first sex based site I’ve been on

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Wow - what an interesting mix of responses.

Some always had it in them (Think I did) and others suddenly found a trigger woke them to this new adventure.

I think we probably have to have it in us to a degree, even unconsciously, and then the trigger brings it out maybe?

Really good to see that nobody has any regrets.

Thank you for your contributions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my first 3sum over 30 years ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to cam elsewhere and it was suggested as a place I’d find more beneficial.

Now I feel I belong here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was corrupted long before I reached these shores.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 21 frustrated in a love less marriage. Left him. Got a fwb who opened my eyes to clubs and the fetish scene

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I had lots of ideas what I wanted but a very vanilla and boring husband so they went unsatisfied.

Becoming single and finding fab was a sexual breakthrough for me.

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By *ogueAngelMan
over a year ago

Near Bath / Bristol

Fab IS the sweet and innocent side of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"somebody who introduced you to the hedonist lifestyle of swingers and Fabs...

What were you like? Sweet and innocent? Shy and retiring? Butter would not melt kind of person?

What in the scene made you become who you are today?

Any regrets at all? "

I've always had a naughty side. A threesome that just happened in my early twenties proved that.

The fact I'm on fab, indulging more in my non vanilla is because of one person I nicknamed the Cat. The catalyst. Its surprising what a series of conversations can do with someone who very much the same as yourself.

PW

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've always been like I am x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive become de-corrupted... its ashame really as i liked the corrupted me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's helped me become more body confident. Never liked taking pictures of myself but being on here definitely helped with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’ve always been corrupt but didn’t know it as witnessed by my lack of being shocked by much of what I’ve seen.

I haven’t partaken…..yet?

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Bodmin

See my profile- I was straight until I met a transvestite in her camper van in the woods one fine summer day!!!!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was always a tart

Fab just gave it focus

Zero regrets

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

We were very open long before Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I’ve always been corrupt but didn’t know it as witnessed by my lack of being shocked by much of what I’ve seen.

I haven’t partaken…..yet?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's helped me become more body confident. Never liked taking pictures of myself but being on here definitely helped with that "

Me too.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"We were very open long before Fab"

Same. Some of my more "kink-ish" adventures pre-date joing FAB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew about it from an ex of mine. She was into it to a point. Her mate was way more in to gang bangs and all. Never knew about the club's or websites at that time. That came along after. Still not been to a club! Prefer a private meet, but we shall see!!

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"I just wish I had of discovered it sooner xx"

Same. I started going to clubs alone with no knowledge of the scene or Fab.

It's been a real learning experience, unpleasant at times, but ultimately matured me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and a previous partner used to organise adult only trips to Captiva/Sanibel Florida.

She introduced me to the lifestyle and my now wife is more than happy to enjoy the fun .

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes i still think i am pretty innocent the amount i have to google.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not corrupt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, always dirty.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I was shy and retiring when joined and haven't changed that much tbh. I regret being so trusting of certain people, and I know not to be so stupid in the future.

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

Always been corrupt. Loved all kind of sex and wanted to try new things with people interested in experimenting or experienced in the same things as i am. But saying that I'm looking to try new ideas aswell.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Hey, is there ANYBODY out there who has regrets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, is there ANYBODY out there who has regrets? "

Maybe they've already left the site.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Hey, is there ANYBODY out there who has regrets?

Maybe they've already left the site."

Why did I not think of that actually.... yeah, you could be right.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I wasn't sweet and innocent long before starting swinging. Don't think I have ever been shy either.

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

No one introduced me, I just turned up. No one's corrupted me either.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I wasn't sweet and innocent long before starting swinging. Don't think I have ever been shy either.

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I don't have any regrets, it's been a fun few years

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes I was. By my first girlfriend after a very long marriage. It’s all her fault.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I corrupted myself years before I found Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were talking about this last night. I said he corrupted me (he did ), he said it was more like, he showed me the door, and I kicked it down and ran through screaming! I still maintain he corrupted me.

I was, and still am a bit innocent, but also I’m a lot naughtier than I was

Hippy "

I represent those comments

I am sweet and innocent, especially where corruption is involved. I merely pointed out a door marked debauchery and fun … the next I know the door is smashed off it’s hinges, with FallenAngel sized hole in it.

Even now I am fairly shy and retiring until the little devil on the shoulder wakes up and then … well

Mr HH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were talking about this last night. I said he corrupted me (he did ), he said it was more like, he showed me the door, and I kicked it down and ran through screaming! I still maintain he corrupted me.

I was, and still am a bit innocent, but also I’m a lot naughtier than I was

Hippy

I represent those comments

I am sweet and innocent, especially where corruption is involved. I merely pointed out a door marked debauchery and fun … the next I know the door is smashed off it’s hinges, with FallenAngel sized hole in it.

Even now I am fairly shy and retiring until the little devil on the shoulder wakes up and then … well

Mr HH"

Pfft,ok, my lord and master of debauchery and deviance, if you say so

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