FabSwingers.com forum: How long did it take you to get your first meet on fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Answers below

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had a meet yet

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Hmm I'll let you know.. Maybe.. When I do have a fab meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not long, we went to a big social event not long after we joined fab. Great way to meet people. Organised a meet from someone we met at that.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Not long. Had a very decent social in the first couple of weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long time very long time like long long time

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Hi OP I was quite lucky to get mine the first the day I set up my profile and I thought he was too good to be true

I kinda was right as he is but still grateful to be in contact and have met twice so far. He's keen to continue just lacks consistency xx

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Took a few months for me

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By *exyredheadtattooCouple
over a year ago

Beaumont

Over a year for us

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Very soon after joining x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around six months, 7-8 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was on here as a couple a couple of months, just while we found our feet. Could have met someone the day we joined almost type of thing.

Once on my own as a single man? Quite a bit longer. Maybe 9 or 10 months as I'm sure 99% of other men will attest, some quicker but I bet more way longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that long. As others have said, I went along to a big group social and met some people from there.

This was about 10 years ago on an old account.

Mr HH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first time I was on fab I met someone the day I joined lol this time with Covid etc a lot longer xxxx

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

3 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my first profile about 2 months which also happened to be my first club visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll let ypu know.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Was just over a year

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

About 9 months, and that was nearly 14 years ago

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

On my first profile about a month but it was a disaster so I left as a result. On subsequent profiles it took a couple of months and on this one about 6 months by choice.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

When I first joined, I got a meet within 5 days

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Mine was in a matter of days of people I knew from other sites verifying me, and in the very early days, there wasn't as many single guys who could accommodate, and I was in the right age group for most people. Those were the days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a long long long long long long lonnnnnngggg time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 2 months

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

I been on fab since the early y days. It didnt take long. But now i seems to be like pulling teeth.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I arranged to meet someone 2weeks after I joined. He stood me up.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"I arranged to meet someone 2weeks after I joined. He stood me up.

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the man is insane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So for women and couples it takes a few hours and men approximately 10 years, based on my thorough and keen observation of this thread.

Funny though because who are the men who the women are meeting quickly? Or are they couples?

It took me a few years before I met a couple. They were really nice and great fun, just for the record!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"So for women and couples it takes a few hours and men approximately 10 years, based on my thorough and keen observation of this thread.

Funny though because who are the men who the women are meeting quickly? Or are they couples?

It took me a few years before I met a couple. They were really nice and great fun, just for the record! "

I don't meet very often by choice. Apart from a group social I've only had 4 meets in 2 years but that could have been double figures if I accepted every offer from women and couples who didn't read my profile or didn't suit my preferences. It's very easy to get a meet if you're not selective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than a week but less than 6 months.

Sorry I couldn’t be more precise.

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By *ustfun009Man
over a year ago

oxford

Over a year....i just dont appeal

....i am genuine and discreet unlike most on here

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

A few days I think

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

I started chatting to one of the first guys that messaged me and met within a couple of days I think. Still one of my best meets. I think attitudes have changed a lot on fab over the years and I miss the more mutual enjoyment. These days it’s a lot harder to find a guy that will give the kind of energy I like from a meet. Fab seems a lot more selfish these days. Maybe that’s just me though but it takes me longer to decide if I want to progress to meeting someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We could’ve met the day we joined but I took us 3 months to find the right single guys and 5 months for the right couple. Our advice? Don’t rush it xx

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Quite soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So for women and couples it takes a few hours and men approximately 10 years, based on my thorough and keen observation of this thread.

Funny though because who are the men who the women are meeting quickly? Or are they couples?

It took me a few years before I met a couple. They were really nice and great fun, just for the record! "

There must be some real studs pounding as many women as the can manage, while the rest of us wait it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We could’ve met the day we joined but I took us 3 months to find the right single guys and 5 months for the right couple. Our advice? Don’t rush it xx"

Same here and that’s good advice. I like to have an idea how legitimate someone is (are they who they say they are) so as well as good conversation I watch for a pattern of behaviour online, over a period of time. At the end of the day I’m potentially putting my personal safety and sexual health at risk, so I will take all the precautions I feel necessary and comfortable with. Luckily for me there are guys out there who are patient and fully understand this.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

Around 9 months!! It was lockdown to be fair

worth the wait and now we are off

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By *aggy40Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Still waiting!!!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Do you mean a meet I accepted ?

Cos the offers were there within seconds..... seriously for women joining it's seconds.

It's not the same experience for straight men , I'd imagine.

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By *aughty_tonyMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn

Joined as lockdown began, so no meets as yet

But just had my second jab last weekend lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took some time, I made a bad choice (she was nothing like her photo or profile and didn’t do the much-needed ‘verifications’ either).

But then (with only one other notable exception) it got a whole lot better, even though it can still be frustrating at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The offer or the actual meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We first joined 9 years ago , took 2days back then as the site wasn’t well known and comprised of mostly genuine swingers . Totally different story now though

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

When I first joined as a single it was probably about six months. It was difficult when I had no social verifications or the balls to go to a club by myself

What a first meet though

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We could’ve met the day we joined but I took us 3 months to find the right single guys and 5 months for the right couple. Our advice? Don’t rush it xx"

We had a very similar experience.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

About a week

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

about two weeks,possibly less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Answers below"

7 million years give or take. At least it felt like it. When I was part of a couple about 4 minutes ha

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Around 10 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far 16 months and counting

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By *elboy555Man
over a year ago

Tyldesley

About three weeks. But I attended a social at a club.

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By *lut and sirCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

About 3 hours when we joined.

But wad just a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm I think about a week or so, took a few days to get to know him and see if there was a connection!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 months

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Less than a week

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

A couple of weeks I think

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough / Kettering

When I joined many years ago it was much easier to get meets as there were more genuine people on here as opposed to the current crop of dreamers and "Instagram" attention seakers. I think my first meet was the same day as I joined, this was on my first profile not the current one

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Over a year because I seek someone quite specific for long term. I did get mails occasionally accusing me of being a fake because being a single female with lots of choice, yet not being verified. I did meet one man in that time for coffee, but neither of of us were verified and couldn't verify the meet.

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By *lueEyesEnigmaMan
over a year ago

Dublin

A few weeks for coffee only, a year before I was with someone. Different for everyone, I need chemistry a match is harder to find but worth it when you do.

Your body your choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met before fab, then joined.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We weren't on Fab but we're told about it when at a club so joined up as a way to keep in touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We weren't on Fab but we're told about it when at a club so joined up as a way to keep in touch."

That’s the same as myself. Joined the next day found the people I’d met and took it from there. A couple of weeks after was my first meet off here…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of offers but not found the right one yet. There's a couple I'll have a social with and see how it goes but I think I'm still a bit nervous. I've only been here a few weeks though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do I get verified

I’ve meet a few people on here but I can’t verify me meeting them,

can anyone help me out please

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

18 hours

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"How do I get verified

I’ve meet a few people on here but I can’t verify me meeting them,

can anyone help me out please

If they're meet verified they can verify you. If not, not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m still waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time, a few weeks.

This time, we're still waiting, we joined just before lockdown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took me a little while to pluck up the courage to actually meet someone. But my first social was pretty quick after I joined. I’m glad I didn’t rush into anything more than a social as I was then really lucky to meet someone who I’ve had lots of fab adventures with and still continue to see. I met them within 2 months of me joining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely don’t rush it and trust our spidey senses x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had one so the number is increasing daily.

Doubt it will ever stop

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

A few months, but that was purely because of waiting to come out of lockdown. Or we would have met sooner.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

A few weeks, maybe a over a month...I was unsure but they were persistent in their chasing and I eventually gave in

(and I'm glad I did)

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

2 Days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it was a couple of weeks

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Not long at all (as long as you ignore the time when we weren't allowed)

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Within the first month.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I can't remember but I think it was less than a week.

I still chat to him now and then on here.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Months ...and it turned out to be more of a counselling session...

Then went to a organised social...and met loads of nice people...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Within the first month."

I’m confident it’s gonna happen any day now !

But I’m saying that the past year !

Always the optimist

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Within the first month.

I’m confident it’s gonna happen any day now !

But I’m saying that the past year !

Always the optimist

Follow your heart, and it will happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Within a month or two. I was in no rush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Within the first month.

I’m confident it’s gonna happen any day now !

But I’m saying that the past year !

Always the optimist

Follow your heart, and it will happen

Appreciate that thank you !

But sometimes on here it’s less my heart doing the talking ! Na I’m kidding but thanks for your comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

T'was a few months, but like London busses, three came at once.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Within the first month.

I’m confident it’s gonna happen any day now !

But I’m saying that the past year !

Always the optimist

Follow your heart, and it will happen

Appreciate that thank you !

But sometimes on here it’s less my heart doing the talking ! Na I’m kidding but thanks for your comment "

Go to an organised social ...save years of messaging on here ...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Within the first month.

I’m confident it’s gonna happen any day now !

But I’m saying that the past year !

Always the optimist

Follow your heart, and it will happen

Appreciate that thank you !

But sometimes on here it’s less my heart doing the talking ! Na I’m kidding but thanks for your comment "

Hmmmm. Follow your penis doesn't have the same ring. Nor is there a suitable emoji....(penis)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Within the first month.

I’m confident it’s gonna happen any day now !

But I’m saying that the past year !

Always the optimist

Follow your heart, and it will happen

Appreciate that thank you !

But sometimes on here it’s less my heart doing the talking ! Na I’m kidding but thanks for your comment

Hmmmm. Follow your penis doesn't have the same ring. Nor is there a suitable emoji....(penis)"

Nope it was worded perfectly hence I didn’t use it ether

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Within the first month.

I’m confident it’s gonna happen any day now !

But I’m saying that the past year !

Always the optimist

Follow your heart, and it will happen

Appreciate that thank you !

But sometimes on here it’s less my heart doing the talking ! Na I’m kidding but thanks for your comment

Go to an organised social ...save years of messaging on here ..."

Wouldn’t have the balls mate !! Wouldn’t be for me I don’t reckon

Na I was kinda joking earlier I just love the laugh on the threads

I always meet cool people

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

About 3 hours

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Within the first month.

I’m confident it’s gonna happen any day now !

But I’m saying that the past year !

Always the optimist

Follow your heart, and it will happen

Appreciate that thank you !

But sometimes on here it’s less my heart doing the talking ! Na I’m kidding but thanks for your comment

Go to an organised social ...save years of messaging on here ...

Wouldn’t have the balls mate !! Wouldn’t be for me I don’t reckon

Na I was kinda joking earlier I just love the laugh on the threads

I always meet cool people "

Socials are just that, socials. No play. D'ya reckon you'd be okay with a kind of pub-like thing with lots of people just chatting, maybe dancing etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Within the first month.

I’m confident it’s gonna happen any day now !

But I’m saying that the past year !

Always the optimist

Follow your heart, and it will happen

Appreciate that thank you !

But sometimes on here it’s less my heart doing the talking ! Na I’m kidding but thanks for your comment

Go to an organised social ...save years of messaging on here ...

Wouldn’t have the balls mate !! Wouldn’t be for me I don’t reckon

Na I was kinda joking earlier I just love the laugh on the threads

I always meet cool people

Socials are just that, socials. No play. D'ya reckon you'd be okay with a kind of pub-like thing with lots of people just chatting, maybe dancing etc? "

For sure I ain’t shy I’d be a good laugh never stuck for conversation!

Never heard of them to be honest ! ?

So people on here organized them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Within the first month.

I’m confident it’s gonna happen any day now !

But I’m saying that the past year !

Always the optimist

Follow your heart, and it will happen

Appreciate that thank you !

But sometimes on here it’s less my heart doing the talking ! Na I’m kidding but thanks for your comment

Go to an organised social ...save years of messaging on here ...

Wouldn’t have the balls mate !! Wouldn’t be for me I don’t reckon

Na I was kinda joking earlier I just love the laugh on the threads

I always meet cool people

Socials are just that, socials. No play. D'ya reckon you'd be okay with a kind of pub-like thing with lots of people just chatting, maybe dancing etc?

For sure I ain’t shy I’d be a good laugh never stuck for conversation!

Never heard of them to be honest ! ?

So people on here organized them "

Yup. There's a big 'un in Manchester in December, though it's full at the mo. Under normal circumstances, there are fairly frequent organised socials around the UK.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

First time in was here it was a couple of weeks, this time with the restrictions, up till this weekend it was a social about 6 weeks or so ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Within a couple of months of setting it up the first time

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By *mbroMan
over a year ago

vancouver

Not long at all tbh but my god the guys don’t like to verify for fear of being found out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 3 hours

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Errr.

Depends.

I joined as a single guy but wasnt putting much effort in to it as I was doing ok with PoF at the time.

Few months later the wife decided she wanted in on the action as well so made a profile.for us both and got our first social within days.

So on one hand you could say months but I wasnt testing with fab. On the other, days when I was.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

6 months but the communication was great just both finding the opportunity and we'll worth the wait ended with a whole night of kink and naughtiness and she was 5"8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on this for just over a month haven't really had the time for it though been a bit active but truthfully I'm starting to get a picture of this like it's a waste of time you know 100 single guys to 1 female lol so thinking about just deleting it you have more fun on nights out anyway

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By *sd555Man
over a year ago

manchester

Not met yet but then I'm rubbish at selling myself so still a fan virgin!

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