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"Fab isn't the be all and end all of life." Exactly this! ![]() | |||
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"Don't let someone else's preference dictate your self esteem ![]() I think that I needed to hear that at the start! | |||
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"The real question is what is the definition of fun, and who decides? We know the majority of posts are self serving, attention seeking. People use the forums to try and get attention they wouldn't normally get, or get peer approval/justification for behaving a certain way. Fun again is purely subjective, depends on where campus your sitting in. What is fun to some may not be fun to others. Fun like many other words thrown about in the forums is simply another forum cliché. " Cool. It’s a thread fella, just answer the question ![]() | |||
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"Don’t be concerned with who others have met, we all like different people for different reasons. A persons past meets don’t reflect on you" Very much agree ![]() | |||
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"Don’t be concerned with who others have met, we all like different people for different reasons. A persons past meets don’t reflect on you" Thank you for this one, I never thought of it like that ![]() | |||
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"Don’t be concerned with who others have met, we all like different people for different reasons. A persons past meets don’t reflect on you Thank you for this one, I never thought of it like that ![]() Nor me. | |||
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"Have confidence in your own self worth - I'm still working on that to be fair ![]() Haha join the club ![]() | |||
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"The real question is what is the definition of fun, and who decides? We know the majority of posts are self serving, attention seeking. People use the forums to try and get attention they wouldn't normally get, or get peer approval/justification for behaving a certain way. Fun again is purely subjective, depends on where campus your sitting in. What is fun to some may not be fun to others. Fun like many other words thrown about in the forums is simply another forum cliché. Cool. It’s a thread fella, just answer the question ![]() I would simply say be true to yourself and others. Don't try to be something your not. Be consistent and not change tack depending on which way you think the wind is blowing. Treat others how you would like to be treated yourself and ultimately with respect. Worked for me thankyou Sanctimony, hypocrisy, conceit and self pity are not good traits. | |||
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"Have confidence in your own self worth - I'm still working on that to be fair ![]() ![]() We'll get there eventually!! Could work on it together ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's cut-throat. First of all evaluate whether you can handle that. If not then at least have breaks. Secondly don't get cowed by the 'politics' in the forums. Try not to bite back. Unless you see a bully. But then you're already lost. So a bit of a paradox there admittedly. Thirdly don't assume someone sincerely likes you(as a person /physically) until you meet them. If they cut you off beforehand with no reasonble explanation then conclude that the issue is probably them.no. It is. Fourthly enjoy, and try to keep in mind that you should have no expectations. Always. Especially if you're a bloke. Lastly appreciate that there are genuinely normal, nice people on here. The bad/mad ones tend to make themselves known. You just have to sift. Then re-sift. " Is it weird I read that in the style of Baz Luhrman, sunscreen? ![]() | |||
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"The real question is what is the definition of fun, and who decides? We know the majority of posts are self serving, attention seeking. People use the forums to try and get attention they wouldn't normally get, or get peer approval/justification for behaving a certain way. Fun again is purely subjective, depends on where campus your sitting in. What is fun to some may not be fun to others. Fun like many other words thrown about in the forums is simply another forum cliché. Cool. It’s a thread fella, just answer the question ![]() Nicely said | |||
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"For men. Be picky in who you message and delete after sending. Don't expect to get sex. For younger women Lock your filters down tight and search for yourself For everyone. Grow a thick skin and don't take the site too seriously. " Perfect advice ![]() | |||
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"For men. Be picky in who you message and delete after sending. Don't expect to get sex. For younger women Lock your filters down tight and search for yourself For everyone. Grow a thick skin and don't take the site too seriously. " Is being catfished fun? Is having time wasted fun? Is having the goal posts changed on an arranged meet at the last moment fun? All of those things happened to us this week. Yeah, caught most of them early on but it's getting to much on here now. We dont expect much from the site any more but saying grow a thicker skin isnt helping anyone or saving the issues the site is having right now. This isnt the fab we where using 5 years ago is all we are saying. | |||
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"Don't let someone else's preference dictate your self esteem ![]() This is great advice ?? ?? | |||
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"The real question is what is the definition of fun, and who decides? We know the majority of posts are self serving, attention seeking. People use the forums to try and get attention they wouldn't normally get, or get peer approval/justification for behaving a certain way. Fun again is purely subjective, depends on where campus your sitting in. What is fun to some may not be fun to others. Fun like many other words thrown about in the forums is simply another forum cliché. " Fun is what 'You' decide fun is! When 'your' experience is no longer positive or brings you down then it is no longer fun. | |||
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