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By *ryingitout19 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wales

Interested to get opinions. During lockdown I invested in a fleshlight toy (teaser pic on profile) to help with the frustration lol.

Opinion seems to be split. Some women that I spoke to found it extremely hot, while others found it odd.

Not that it matters as it’s for me anyway, but are make sex toys still considered a bit strange or are they more mainstream?

Purely for boredom and conversation, let’s not get to heavy into it!

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

A friend of mine was a police officer who regularly searched people's houses. He reckoned most houses had a vibrator in the bedside drawer.

On the basis that so many women have them, I think it's a bit odd for people to turn their nose up if a guy has a fleshlight.

Personally, I've always wondered how soft the sleeve is and I'm not prepared to spend so much money if it turns out I don't like it!

Gbat

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I tried a couple of cockrings, out of curiosity and to see if they gave me any kind of ‘extra’, but they were just a bit tight on me, and didn’t really do much for me. I’ve looked at fleshlights before, but was put off by the ‘washing out’ afterwards lol. I’m quite fancying getting a prostate massager though, think this should be the best toy a guy could buy, over a bottle of baby oil

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Interested to get opinions. During lockdown I invested in a fleshlight toy (teaser pic on profile) to help with the frustration lol.

Opinion seems to be split. Some women that I spoke to found it extremely hot, while others found it odd.

Not that it matters as it’s for me anyway, but are make sex toys still considered a bit strange or are they more mainstream?

Purely for boredom and conversation, let’s not get to heavy into it!"

Whatever floats your boat OP.

It's not really for anyone else to judge is it?

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By *ryingitout19 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wales

It’s a bit of a faff cleaning it after and do t use it all the time but they do feel very good when you get it right.

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By *ryingitout19 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wales


"Interested to get opinions. During lockdown I invested in a fleshlight toy (teaser pic on profile) to help with the frustration lol.

Opinion seems to be split. Some women that I spoke to found it extremely hot, while others found it odd.

Not that it matters as it’s for me anyway, but are make sex toys still considered a bit strange or are they more mainstream?

Purely for boredom and conversation, let’s not get to heavy into it!

Whatever floats your boat OP.

It's not really for anyone else to judge is it?"

Not all and not bothered either, just interested and making chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you like it, then that’s cool. Have to admit,

I’ve never seen one for real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use to be a multidrop delivery driver and I sometimes had a butt plug in as I did my days works knocking on doors delivering parcels etc

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By *ryingitout19 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wales


"I think if you like it, then that’s cool. Have to admit,

I’ve never seen one for real."

You’ll have to watch one sometime!

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

What does put me off is you see pictures on here of a bed like covered in toys

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By *ryingitout19 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wales


"What does put me off is you see pictures on here of a bed like covered in toys"

Just the one for me lol

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I neither find it hot or odd. I don’t think it would turn me on watching someone use one whereas watching someone I’m meeting or fancy wanking turns me on. Don’t know why, it just wouldn’t x

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By *bostCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We got something that wasn’t an actual fleshlight but a silicone cock sleeve from lovehoney. Mr has used it a few times but it isn’t an everyday thing and we’ve never involved it in fun between the two of us.

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By *2pblokeMan
over a year ago

Penrith, Cumbria

bought a Fleshlight and ball rings....amazing.

kept me occupied

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By *issysbee69Woman
over a year ago

Brandenburg

I have a wide variety of toys and they help out when I need a me moment and I think they help you in the way you need a bit of stress relief, and I rather have you use a toy for your fun and not an unwilling person..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if those lasses that found it odd have used a dildo / vibrator? Huge double standard if so!

My main issue with sex toys is they have a niche market so can charge premium prices, much like weddings and ladies clothes, they can get away with charging the earth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a fleshlight, although it bit the dust R.I.P franny

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Do those women think a sock is less weird?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interested to get opinions. During lockdown I invested in a fleshlight toy (teaser pic on profile) to help with the frustration lol.

Opinion seems to be split. Some women that I spoke to found it extremely hot, while others found it odd.

Not that it matters as it’s for me anyway, but are make sex toys still considered a bit strange or are they more mainstream?

Purely for boredom and conversation, let’s not get to heavy into it!"

Most of the guys I’m intimate with have a stroker toy. I think they’re hot! No reason why men can’t enjoy toys too, it does NOT make a man less “manly” or whatever people think ¯\__/¯

Toys are fun for all

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve had two that have bitten the dust. I’m on my third. Daft thing is I hardly ever use it. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bought my husband one last year. I have no desire to watch him use it though

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Dunno why it's ok for women to have them but not men.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’ve got one, although it’s a pain to clean.

It does what it’s meant to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it and don’t think it’s weird at all. When I couldn’t be there with J over lockdown, seeing him with a toy I’d sent was the next best thing. Having said that though, there are some things that I’m only interested in seeing J do / doing with him that have never appealed with others. But it still stands that toys are normal!

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