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"Do most women on here get the same attention as they would in everyday life? or is it the fact that sex is involved ? And does it some times get to some peoples head ? Is it humbling ? Or addictive ?" No I don’t get nowhere near the attention in life I do on here as not everyone in life is looking for sex so you couldn’t really compare to be honest ..... it doesn’t get to your head but sometimes it’s abit overwhelming if you try to answer all messages and you just can’t to be honest it’s nit being rude or ignorant but your time online should be to do what you want to do not answering loads of one line messages.... which is why I think it’s important for peeps to read profiles before they message but a lot don’t..... I hope I’ve answered you xxxx | |||
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"No one looks twice at me in the real world. However it could be something to do with the fact I'm not in a corset doing my shopping in Tesco... " Clean up in aisle three..  | |||
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"I think the level of attention is probably about the same for me." Thank you for your reply | |||
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"Do most women on here get the same attention as they would in everyday life? or is it the fact that sex is involved ? And does it some times get to some peoples head ? Is it humbling ? Or addictive ? No I don’t get nowhere near the attention in life I do on here as not everyone in life is looking for sex so you couldn’t really compare to be honest ..... it doesn’t get to your head but sometimes it’s abit overwhelming if you try to answer all messages and you just can’t to be honest it’s nit being rude or ignorant but your time online should be to do what you want to do not answering loads of one line messages.... which is why I think it’s important for peeps to read profiles before they message but a lot don’t..... I hope I’ve answered you xxxx" Interesting thank you | |||
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"No one looks twice at me in the real world. However it could be something to do with the fact I'm not in a corset doing my shopping in Tesco... " Lol thank you for replying x | |||
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"About the same for me Plus it’s not always about sex on here, some of the most interesting chats I’ve had have never had sex mentioned " It’s true I’ve had some interesting chats on here too thanks for replying | |||
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"I get more attention here as in real life I don't have 50/60 fellas come say hello every when I'm out. Come to think of it I don't think there's many days I even see that many fellas at all lol " Yeah I guess it safe to communicate behind your phone or computer Men confidence is high lol thanks for reply | |||
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"No one looks twice at me in the real world. However it could be something to do with the fact I'm not in a corset doing my shopping in Tesco... Clean up in aisle three.. "Lol | |||
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"Men look at me in real life but they don't approach me like they do on here. I'm not humbled by it or addicted." Ok thank you for your reply | |||
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"I get a fair amount of attention in real life but thankfully men don't knock on my front door as ask me to force them to take enemas like they have done on here "Haahahahahah lol thank you for replying | |||
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"There is no way the attention is the same in real life in comparison to online, not because it’s sex site or anything like that, but because people can hide behind a screen and say what they like…. I.e. no chance someone is just lobbing their dick out and asking if the person likes it.. " So true thanks for the reply | |||
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"As I don't go out to pick up men to have sex with I get more attention on here. It's what the website is for." I get your point thanks for reply | |||
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"I definitely get more attention here or in clubs than I do in daily life. But that's to be expected, given the nature of this lifestyle. " Very true thank you | |||
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"Turn it around OP, in real life would you speak to every single woman and couple who you felt a remote attraction to? I don’t get the same amount of attention as i’m not always scantly clad, i’m not always in situations loaded to bring attention to myself. Would i want the same amount of attention in real life? Heck no lol. Im not humbled nor does it boost my ego. If i fancy someone and they fancy me back i’d call that a fair exchange "Lol I hear you so true thank you | |||
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"Do most women on here get the same attention as they would in everyday life? or is it the fact that sex is involved ?...." I think you might find that sex also figures strongly in everyday life. It's not just swingers who do it! | |||
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"Do most women on here get the same attention as they would in everyday life? or is it the fact that sex is involved ?.... I think you might find that sex also figures strongly in everyday life. It's not just swingers who do it!" Yes indeed thank you. | |||
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"I think the level of attention is probably about the same for me." Fuck! I bet it's not safe to walk the streets being you! Like moths to a flame!  | |||
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"Do most women on here get the same attention as they would in everyday life? or is it the fact that sex is involved ? And does it some times get to some peoples head ? Is it humbling ? Or addictive ?" Why do you ask OP? Whats your take on it?  | |||
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"Nope, definitely not. But I photoshop my photos and my real name is Dave."  | |||
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"No one looks twice at me in the real world. However it could be something to do with the fact I'm not in a corset doing my shopping in Tesco... " Try it and see what happens. | |||
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"Nope, definitely not. But I photoshop my photos and my real name is Dave." Dave those are some moobs | |||
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" I also find more men with higher iqs here" Ur right there, innit. | |||
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"I think the level of attention is probably about the same for me. Fuck! I bet it's not safe to walk the streets being you! Like moths to a flame! " | |||
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"Of course not, if I walked around in my sexual outfits then probably but in real life I'm just a normal dressed down kinda gal. Anyone that does approach I swiftly say I'm married and that's the end of it. Some people you can clearly see it goes to their head a little and sense of entitlement is not attractive on here. " Totally agree with the second part of your comment thank you for the reply | |||
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"Do most women on here get the same attention as they would in everyday life? or is it the fact that sex is involved ? And does it some times get to some peoples head ? Is it humbling ? Or addictive ? Why do you ask OP? Whats your take on it? "Was just a general question wanted to see others opinion as I believe a lot of people on here let all the attention get to their head it’s nice that people can get attention and feel good and it’s great that it helps with people’s confidence. | |||
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"I get nowhere near as much attention in real life as i do on here but expected when i keep myself to myself day to day. Can be very overwhelming when you wake up to 20 + messages and i do try to reply to all even if its a no thankyou , then they turn nasty on you , its suppose to be fun x" Yes I’ve heard a lot about people turning nasty I guess it’s the flip side of the coin people hide behind the phone and be disgusting sorry you experience this maybe they will regulate this behaviour soon | |||
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"Pretty sure if I was shouting "cunt" whilst walking down the road people would stare, some would say something. Pretty sure if I was walking down the street with my tits out I'd get attention. Would it always be positive? Fuck no. Is it always positive on here? Fuckity fuck no. When I'm walking down the street do I get flagged down and my path blocked by people trying to sell me something? Course I do. We all do. That's coz they want something from me... from you. The people on here trying to get others attention, the ones messaging etc are no different from the salesman who stop us in the street, they ain't doing it just to be nice, they're doing it coz they want something, because they see us as an opportunity. *not in every case on here, some do just wanna be friends or genuinely give a shit about more than genitals and don't actually wanna bang. " | |||
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"Pretty sure if I was shouting "cunt" whilst walking down the road people would stare, some would say something. Pretty sure if I was walking down the street with my tits out I'd get attention. Would it always be positive? Fuck no. Is it always positive on here? Fuckity fuck no. When I'm walking down the street do I get flagged down and my path blocked by people trying to sell me something? Course I do. We all do. That's coz they want something from me... from you. The people on here trying to get others attention, the ones messaging etc are no different from the salesman who stop us in the street, they ain't doing it just to be nice, they're doing it coz they want something, because they see us as an opportunity. *not in every case on here, some do just wanna be friends or genuinely give a shit about more than genitals and don't actually wanna bang. " Lol that was great and I get your point thank you x | |||
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"90% of the time I’m avoided "Awwww thank you for replying | |||
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"It can be a bit addictive. When i first joined i definitely paid attention to whether my pictures had been fabbed and put up new ones regularly. So i stepped away for a few weeks to calm myself. Came back and stopped even looking at fabs, meet some lovely men and found the forums. I still enjoy the attention but i can put it in context now. I would guess that bigger women find more admirers here than in the real world. I also find more men with higher iqs here as i think there is a correlation between kink and iq. TLDR i love fab "Thank you I get it when I first joined I checked to see if I got my pics fabbed too which is strange as I get more attention in my everyday life great comment thank you for your view | |||
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"If i go to the pub then it can be similar to being on here. Conversation and jokes may be a little more tan. And some people make you think 'OMG'. "Lol | |||
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"No one looks at me in real life! On here I get a lot of messages it doesn't make me big headed as half of them will be crude one liners "wanna f*ck" or "sex" or "bareback" which I just delete, the ones that are obviously cut and paste blanket bombing messages get deleted. Men expect a reply but it would be a part time job replying to everyone and if you do reply with a polite no thanks you get abuse " Sorry you get abuse and it’s crazy that someone can just send a message saying bare back but that’s a whole other topic but I understand a lot more about the topic I originally posted thanks to all your lovely replies appreciate it | |||
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"Two completely different worlds to me. On here I am an exhibitionist who tries to be noticed but in the real world I live a very quiet life and would rather just blend into the background." Amazing thank you for your opinion appreciate it | |||
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"I think it’s about the same for me…..zero "Lol cheers | |||
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"I think if I got as much attention when out and about as I do here sometimes that I would probably choose to stay at home." Lol that made chuckle thanks for reply | |||
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"About the same for me too " I see thank you for your comment | |||
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"More attention here definitely. Mainly out with the kids in real life lol x" Lmao hahahah thank you for reply | |||
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"Noone looks twice at me in real life, here is completely different." I guess it’s nice to get lots of positive attention and energy sometimes x thank you | |||
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"Noone looks twice at me in real life, here is completely different." That’s not true. I’d have looked at you 5 or 6 times if I saw you in the street, we’d have never met (not that we ever have  ) cause I’d be too shy to approach you haha
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"I have every category blocked from messaging me so I get less attention than I get elsewhere. " Very interesting thank you | |||
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"Like many others I get way more attention on here than in real life but then it is totally different on here. You’re not seeing me as a boss, a parent or a person out doing the shopping but as someone who has a naughty streak and likes to show off" I totally understand thank you x | |||
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"I get no attention in real life, I just fade into the background and unassuming. " Crazy when you put it like that I guess we all fade in too the background unless we are wearing something or doing something a little more noticing thank you xxx | |||
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"No attention in real life at all. Except the one cat call the other week but he was a non starter." Crazy a lot of beautiful people in the comments saying they get no attention in day to day life interesting thank you for your reply | |||
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"No attention here or in real life " Wow how with such an amazing profile pic Thank you for the reply | |||
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"I get more attention on here but more importantly, the kind of attention is different. In real life it is about who I am, my interests and my work etc. On here... it is more about whether I can fulfil their fantasies." Amazing way to put I thank you so much | |||
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"I can get 300 messages a day on here with 1 cleavage pic and "up for a shag" profile text. It's addictive and shocking. If men wonder why they don't get replies, this is why. "I get you thank you for the reply | |||
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